The Mail-Journal, Volume 23, Number 43, Milford, Kosciusko County, 22 October 1986 — Page 3
Obituaries
Eugene A. Snavely Eugene A. Snavely, 76, 1012 Princeton Place, Cleburne, Texas, former Syracuse resident, died Friday, Sept. 19, at Walls Regional Hospital. He was bom in Syracuse on March 16,1910, the son of Arthur and Kathryn Snavely. He and his brother, Alden, were members of the Syracuse basketball team. On February 7,1946, he married the former Margaret Ball in Cleburne. She survives. Snavely retired jin 1974 from Sears-Roebuck Co., Midwest Division. He and his wife resided most of their married life in Newtown County arid in 1975 moved to Cleburne. He was a member of First Baptist Church of Cleburne, a former member of the Lions Club and a Mason. He was also a World War II veteran. Surviving in addition to his wife, who resides in Cleburne, are one daughter, Carolyn Cutrona of Baxter, Calif.; one brother, Stephen Snavely of Toledo, Ohio; one sister, Mary Sakowicz, Fort Wayne; and five grandchildren. Services were held at CrosierPearson Funeral Home Chapel with Dr. Ron Horton officiating. Burial was in Greenacres Memorial Park.
Hospital Notes
Goshen TUESDAY, OCT. 14 Admissions C. Lavern Line, r 2 box 213. Syracuse Danelle Schwab, r 1 box 76 B. Milford Dismissals Mrs. Larry L. McCullough and infant son, Justin Eugene, r 5 box 178 B, Syracuse WEDNESDAY, OCT. 15 Admissions Jesse R. Haab. r 2 box 92, Milford Patricia M. Gammiere, r 2 box 26, Syracuse Brenda Weisler, r 1 box 203, North Webster Dismissals Shirley A. Hewitt, r 3 box 465. Syracuse THURSDAY. OCT. 16 Dismissals Christa R. May. r 1 box 264 D. Milford FRIDAY. OCT. 17 Admissions Andrew J. Fox, r 1 box 22. Milford Dismissals C. Lavern Line, r 2 box 213, Syracuse Danelle L. Schwab, r 1 box 76 B, Milford SATURDAY. OCT. 18 Dismissals Mrs. Anthony T. Gammiere, r 2 box 26, Syracuse Orville L. Rector, r 1 box 623 L, Leesburg SUNDAY. OCT. 19 Dismissals Mrs. Keith Miller and infant daughter, Allison Ranae, 17386 CR 48, Syracuse Mrs. Charles Weisler, r 1 box 203, North Webster MONDAY. OCT. 20 Admissions Delores J. Boggs, r 4 box 73 B, Syracuse , Elizabeth Lindzy, r 5 box 410, Syracuse Don Steven Davis, r 2 box 459, Syracuse
Humanly speaking —
1 By DAVID L. ROGERS, BD Director of Community Services-Bowen Center “What can one do or say when approached by someone close who wants help with problems in behavior or a decision-making need?” This question is asked at times by managers, a marriage partner, a child or a parent, a coworker or a friend. It’s a fair question because there are some things that one can do that help, but other things that can make a situation worse. Person; cannot avoid facing people problems. One feels the need for a professional counseling course but that is not necessary for giving support, understanding and some encouragement toward making a decision for change. Richard Walsh, PhD, of the American Appraisal Associates, provides some guidelines for a responsible support when a person wants help. These are: 1) Pay attention by being relaxed, showing concern and genuine
KimE. Huber Services for Kim Edwin Huber, 22, Mesa, Ariz., were held Thursday, Oct. 9, at Mesa Cemetery. Mr. Hubert died Tuesday, Oct. 7. He was bora in South Bend and moved to Arizona in 1980. He was a carpenter and cabinet maker. He attended Wawasee and North Wood schools and also attended Apache Junction High School in Arizona. Survivors include his wife, Gloria; one daughter, Mikaela; father, LaMar Huber of Mesa; his mother, Karen (Sue) Forrest of Nappanee; three sisters, Mrs. Jeff (Pebbles) Unsicker of Bremen, Angela Huber, and Mrs. Tom (Leah) Richmond of Nappanee; and grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Edwin Huber, Syracuse. Bessie M. Brooks Services for Bessie May Brooks, 57, r 1, Leesburg, were held Saturday, Oct. 18, at 10 a.m. in Parson Mortuary-Adams Chapel, 801 West Adams St., Muncie. She died Tuesday, Oct. 14, in Kosciusko Community Hospital from injuries sustained in an automobile accident. Mrs. Brooks was born on October 18, 1928, in Eaton, the daughter of Jesse and Clarkie Jane (Letts) Ricketts. She was
Kimberly Hollar, r 2 box 40, Milford Dismissals Andrew J. Fox, r 1 box 222. Milford KCH MONDAY, OCT. 13 Admissions Georgia L. Depoy, Warsaw Minnie M. Groninger, Warsaw Judith A. Jorczak, Leesburg Lori A. Kerns, Warsaw Kimberly A. Moore, Warsaw Loretta F. Patino, Warsaw Chase A. Prater, Leesburg Deborah G. Shelton, Warsaw Dismissals Roy E. Carlin. Warsaw Lois M. Hamnyn, Warsaw Edward W. Moeschinger, Warsaw Judy A. Prater. Claypool Betty Taylor and infant son, Warsaw TUESDAY, OCT. 14 Admissions Shirley A. Adams, Warsaw Kelly F. Becker, Leesburg Selma C. Brown, Winona Lake Gerald V. Carr, Leesburg Terri L. Carter, Pierceton Karen R. Green, Mentone Calvin Harman, Claypool Miciah A. Hively, Warsaw Colin Mulldune, Warsaw Dismissals Maria Lydia Garza, Warsaw Betty L. Grove, Warsaw Lois Van Cleve. Warsaw WEDNESDAY, OCT. 15 Admissions Eleanora L. Carroll, Etna Green Dale K. Dinneen, Warsaw Lenneeaa Gans, Pierceton Ashlie R. Goon, Leesburg Alma P. Herscher, Warsaw Michael C. Marcuccilli, Winona J JI If p Sally E. Miller, Silver Lake Myrtle E. Redmger, Warsaw Larry K. Swick, Winona Lake Betty J. Zolman, Pierceton Billy Figert, Warsaw Dismissals Clarence’ H. Arnones, Winona Lake
How are your people skills?
respect for the other person. He or she may be anxious but with good eye contact, one can give a clear sense of “being with” the person in need. 2) Listen actively to carefully pick up what the other person is saying, not only in words, but in attitude and expression. Active listening involves summing up what the other says and asking whether this is what he or she means. Clarity of the problem is a must. 3) Respond with support by perhaps nodding the head or by verbally encouraging the person to go on, such as “tell me more.” 4) Question properly so that information is acquired but also rapport is maintained. Openended questions are especially effective in giving the parson a chance to express his or her genuine thoughts or feelings. Open questions are “what do you think ..or “how do you feel.. The person can expand rather than just say “yes” or “no.” One must see things from the other person’s perspective. 5) Reflect on feelings so that
married to Clarence H. Brooks who was seriously injured in the accident. Since the early 19705. Mrs. Brooks has resided in Leesburg. She was employed for the last eight years at Serenade Foods and had also worked at Ball State University, Muncie, in the food service department and for Excello Lamp Co., Muncie. She was a member of the Daughters of the American Revolution and attended the Mounds Baptist Church, Anderson, when living in Muncie. Surviving are her husband; three sons, Clarence A. Brooks. Sr., t Muncie, Harold Brooks, Farmers Branch, Texas, and Francis Brooks, Middletown; one daughter, Betsy Boerff, Gaston; one brother, Lloyd Ricketts. Muncie; nine grandchildren; and one great-grandchild. Burial was in Elm Ridge Cemetery, Muncie. Janet S. Chupp Janet Sue (“Susie”) Chupp, 32. r 1 box 1508, Milford, died Thursday, Oct. 16, at 1 p.m. in Elkhart Hospital. She was born on June 1,1954. in Milford, the daughter of Howard and Joan (Clem) Haab. On November 8, 1975, she married Eldon Chupp in Milford. He survives.
Mary A. Fawley, Warsaw Loretta Harris, Warsaw Milissa L. Jarvis and infant son, Warsaw Lori A. Kerns and infant son. Warsaw Sally E. Miller. Silver Lake Margaret B. Putney and infant daughter. South Whitley Mary A. Shepherd, Silver Lake THURSDAY, OCT. 16 Admissions Jill A. Denney, Warsaw Ted D. Eherenman, Claypool Quentin M. Evans, Claypool Keith A. Everest, Warsaw Garry L. Hackworth, Pierceton Boby Hall, Claypool Okie L. Hall, Claypool Brian L. Merriman. North Webster Charles A. Powers. Warsaw ,Norma B. Wiard, Warsaw Dismissals Shirley A. Adams and infant daughter, Warsaw Terri L. Carter and infant daughter, Pierceton Ashlie R. Goon, Leesburg Anna Mae Harris, Warsaw Ronald L. Prescott. Pierceton Joe W. Reffitt, Claypool April L. Saint, Warsaw Deborah G. Shelton and infant daughter, Warsaw FRIDAY. OCT. 17 Dismissals Kelly F. Becker, Leesburg Carmin S. Danner, Leesburg Georgia L. Depoy, Warsaw Keith A. Everest, Warsaw Miciah A. Hively, Warsaw Judith A. Jorczak, Leesburg Michael C. Marcuccilli, Winona Lake Brian L. Merriman, North Webster Kimberly A. Moore and infant son, Warsaw Loretta F. Patino, Warsaw Larry K. Swick, Winona Lake Jane Whitaker, Silver Lake SATURDAY. OCT. 18 Admissions Leroy Pratt Catherine Rudo Jeannie A. Smith Dismissals Donna M. Antonides Jill A Denney and infant daughter
the person understands that his/her feelings are known. One can say “you feel angry about. . .” or “you feel worried about...” 6) Reflect on the content or the meaning of what the person is expressing. This is the intellectual side of his/her communication. Helping the person identify his or her problem enables that person to come up with ideas on the solution. 7) Periodically summarizing feelings and content are necessary. 8) Responding with interpretation is another way that a listener and support person can be of great help. Giving interpretation from another viewpoint may help to clarify decision-making. It may not be “the answer,” but it is an answer worth considering along with others. 9) Be vary careful about offering advice. It is much more important for the person to work out his or her own solutions rather than to be told what to do. 10) The support person can be of great help by encouraging a commitment to change. When a
A lifetime Milford resident, Mrs. Chupp was a part-time employee of H&R Block, Warsaw, a Milford EMT, and member of Milford United Methodist Church. She was a 1972 graduate of Wawasee High School and attended Grace College, Warsaw. Surviving along with her husband are one daughter, Andrea, at home; her father and stepmother, Mr. and Mrs. Howard Haab, Milford; two brothers, Dana and William, both of Milford; and her grandfather. Ross Clem, Anderson. She was preceded in death by her mother and one brother. Services were held in the United Methodist Church on Sunday, Oct. 19, at 2 p.m. with Rev. Robert Ellison officiating. Burial followed in Milford Cemetery. Mishler Funeral Home. Milford, was in charge of arrangements. Memorials may be made to the Milford EMS. Jamie L. Clevenger Services for Jamie Lynn Clevenger, 12, r 1 box 162 C. Pierceton, were held Saturday. Oct. 18, at 11 am. at Harris Funeral Home. Syracuse. He died at 4:30 a.m. Wednesday. Oct. 15. in Lutheran Hospital
Billy D. Figert Lenneeaa G. Gans Minnie M. Groniger Garry L. Hackworth • Boby Hall Alma P Herscher .Betty A. Hoppus Lorene E. Howard Judy K. Laflin Danny L. Lahrman Colin W. Mulldune Charles A. Powers Chase A. Prater Myrtle E. Redinger Sandra K. Rose Slone infant Betty R. Thompson SUNDAY. OCT. 19 Admissions Rhonda A. Busz. Warsaw Mozelle. Duncan. Warsaw Adgie Hughes. W'arsaw Amy N. Perkins. Warsaw Dismissals Gerald V Carr, Leesburg Karen R. Green. Mentone Okie L. Hall. Claypool Jeffrey N. Jones. Mentone Betty J. Zolman. Pierceton RECTOR MOVED TO ELKHART Orville L. Rector, r 1 box 623 L. Leesburg, was transferred from Goshen Hospital on Saturday. ■ Oct. 18. to Elkhart Hospital. Syracuse EMS The Syracuse Emergency Medical Service made the following ambulance runs this past week: The EMS was called to the home of William Story, 52, r 5 box 87, Syracuse, at a.m. Friday, Oct. 17. He was not transported to the hospital Mark Thorn, 28,972 Starry Eyed Lane, Cromwell, was taken to Kosciusko Community Hospital after the EMS was called to a location on CR 13A at 2:17 a.m. Sunday, Oct. 19. Randall Johnson, 44, 210 McKenly, Warsaw, was taken to Goshen Hospital Monday, Oct. 20, after the EMS was called to the Dairy Queen at 12:46 p.m.
reasonably good solution is accepted, ways of getting started and a time table for starting and examining progress are essential. These ‘guidelines are not the whole answer, but they can be very useful in working with persons that are important to a rela-
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Fort Wayne, from injuries sustained in an automobile accident. Jamie, a sixth grade student at North Webster Elementary School, was born on September 24, 1974, in Warsaw to Michael and Sherlene (Flannery) Clevenger and had resided in the Barbee Lakes area all of his life. Surviving in addition to the a one brother, Anthony who was injured in it, at home; grandwood and Edna Flanly, and Mrs. Mildred Warsaw; and several , —uncles. Rev. Rex O. Lindemood conducted the service. Burial followed in Oak Grove Cemetery near North Webster. Essie Cline Essie V. Cline. 90, r 2, Montpelier, mother of Mrs. John (Barbara) Naab, Syracuse, died Wednesday. Oct. 15, at 5:45 p.m., in Fountainview Place, Goshen. Mrs. Cline was bora on May 10, 1898, in Jackson Township, Wells County, to Commodore and Francis (Runkle) Alexander. On April 14. 1920, she married William Harold Cline, in Marion, he preceded her in death. She was a housewife and spent her entire life in the Wells and Blackford Counties. She was a member of Asbury Chapel Methodist Church.
Erin Griesell, 47, 119 East Boston St., Syracuse, was taken to Kosciusko Community Hospital Monday, Oct. 20. The EMS was called to a location at Chicago Street at 9:04 p.m. The EMS was called to a location on CR 13A at 8:38 p.m. Saturday, Oct. 18. Jim Zack, no age given, r 2 box 505, Syracuse, was not transported. Births MILLER. Allison Ranae Mr and .Mrs. Keith (C. Jean) Miller, 17386 CR 48. Syracuse, are the parents of a daughter, Allison Ranae, born on Thursday, Oct. 16. at Goshen Hospital. DAHLSTROM, Trenton Ross Mr and Mrs. Ross (Krista) Dahlstrom, 68 Colonial Drive. Williamsburg Manor, Valparaiso, are the parents of a son. Trenton Ross, born at 9:10 a m. on Thursday. Oct. 16, in Goshen Hospital. He weighed nine pounds. .11 ounces and measured 21 inches long. Trenton Ross has one sister. Mischon, two years. Maternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Dave Everts of North Webster and paternal' grandparents are Mrs. Anne Dahlstrom of Syracuse and Richard Dahlstrom of Tennessee. Card Os Thanks IN MEMORIAM In loving memory of our husband and father, Harold Kaiser, who passed away Oct. 25, 1985. All our love always. Sadly missed by his wife and family.
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Additional survivors include two sons, Theodore Cline and William A. Cline, both of Montpelier; nine grandchildren; and seven great-grandchildren. Funeral services were conducted on Saturday, Oct. 18, at 2 p.m., in the Walker Funeral Home, Montpelier. Rev. Phil Hershberger officiated and burial was in IOOF Cemetery, Hartford City. Peter Paul Karolyi Peter Paul Karolyi, 88, Payne, Ohio, died at 7:20 p.m. on Sunday. Oct. 19, in his residence, following an extended illness. He was the father of Mrs. Helen Staley Hoy of North Webster . He was bora on June 26,1898 in Budapest, Hungary, to Kenneth and Elizabeth (Schwartz) Karolyi. Karolyi was a veteran of World War I, had retired as a florist and nursery man, and was a member of the Saint John the Baptist Catholic Church. Additional survivors include
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three sons, Louis Karolyi of Payne, Ohio, Joseph Karolyi of Daytona Beach, Fla., and Arthur Karolyi of Fort Wayne; two additional daughters, Elizabeth Karolyi of Dallas, Texas, and Mrs. Clara Burgoon of Payne, Ohio; five grandchildren; and four great-grandchildren. Services will be held today, Wednesday, Oct. 22, at 10 a.m. in the Saint John the Baptist Catholic Church in Payne, Ohio. Rev. Eugene Lovias, pastor, will officiate with entombment following in the Catholic Cemetery mausoleum in Fort Wayne. Everett Vandermark Everett Vandermark, 75, r 4, Warsaw, died unexpectedly at 9:10 a.m., Tuesday, Oct. 21, at Prairie View Rest Home in Warsaw. He was bora on Nov. 6,1910, in Beaver Dam to Harry and Ollie (Moon) Vandermark. On Dec. 24.
1936, he married Ethel Tumbleson, who survives. A lifetime resident of Kosciusko County, Vandermark was a retired farmer- and member of the Otterbein United Methodist Churctr in Atwood. In addition, Vandermark was a World War I veteran, serving the Pacific Theatre. Additional survivors include the the following nieces and nephews, Lester (Bud) Vandermark and Richard Goshert, both of Warsaw, Mrs. Keith (Melba Jean) Siperss of South Bend, Mrs. Lawrence (Marjorie) Priser of Leesburg, Eileen Vandermark of Copenhagen, Denmark, and Doris McCoy of Columbus, Ohio. He was preceded in death by one sister and ope brother. Calling hours will be held today. Wednesday, from 2-5 p.m. and 7-9 p.m. at Titus Funeral Home in Warsaw. Services will be held there at 1:30 p.m. on Thursday, Oct. 23, with burial following in Oakwood Cemetery.
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