The Mail-Journal, Volume 23, Number 19, Milford, Kosciusko County, 7 May 1986 — Page 14

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THE MAIL-JOURNAL — Wed., May 7/1986 ■

Leesburg man injured when van hits truck

Driver inattention contributed to three accidents Wednesday, April 30 through Monday, May 5, while slippery road conditions caused a fourth, Tuesday, May 6, resulting in injuries to a Leesburg man. Marjorie T. Meyer, 49, 7767 Spring Mill Road, Indianapolis, was traveling south on SR 13 Tuesday when she approached a 1977 Chevrolet truck, driven by Terry O. Green, 35, r 1, Leesburg, which was stopped for an automatic signal at the Pickwick Road intersection. Meyer applied the brakes of the 1984 Chevrolet van she was driving when she saw Green, but the van slid on wet pavement, causing her to collide with the rearend of the Green vehicle. Green complained of pain to the neck and was transported by a Syracuse EMS unit to the Goshen General Hospital. Up to $2,500 damage was caused to the Green vehicle, while the Meyer vehicle suffered up to SI,OOO damage. No arrests were made in the 9:40 a.m. incident, according to Syracuse Police. Ernest D. Waggoner, 32, 519 Muellen Dr., Syracuse, was

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National Nursing Home Week / ¥ National Nursing Home Week is May 11-17. We are - celebrating with something special each day. Everyone aptiwitv ucwc z is welcome to join us for any of our activities during the ACTIVITY Ntwb week. \AjjL NATIONAL NURSING HOME WEEK — 1986 S' — Maw 11 We had a cooking demonstration this montn, and with « * T ° Von m JhoL naw t oa the help of a bfender, made fruit shakes. Everyone thought »■--* Mol o . s -9 yTed WMT * were very tasty, and we hope to have them as a treat Monday — May 12 this summer. f ‘CMkV 2:30 Balloon Release w {J Tuesday— May 13 ** Our craft group is working on some animal cut-outs to ?*’jX'WW 2:00 Spelling Bee At Mason’s Health to be sold at "Old Timer’s Day\ They t are sanding them g.. Wednesday — May 14 and they will finish them with a coat of oil. gjfG 2:30 Name That Tune At Miller's Merry Manor We attended the play. The Prince and the Pauper, put Thursday — May 15 on by fifth and sixth grade students at Warsaw Christian ‘ 6 30 Sing-A-Long At Prairie View Rest Home School. They did an excellent job, and we thank them for Friday-May 16 inviting us. Bruce Mehlhop, M.A. Noon & Supper - Employee Appreciation Day ’ Congratulations to Dorene Kuhn Administrator Thank You Dinner For Employees Employee Os The Month For April Kay Noble R.N..C. Raffle For Swap Day W/Administrator Ly D nnR C eynolds UrS ' n9 f daugS~o KathvJenk?ns SU R P N rt C Se,V ' CeS RESIDENT OF THE MONTH 7 R ‘ y ™ WS Dirpetnr Os Rnciftont Carp Services Congratulations to Don Sends, this month s Resident of the Month. Don was born in Chicago on March 13,1922; and while i Q C tl°Jio R6S dent Ga e berv,ces growing up, his family moved several times in the Illinois and Michigan areas. In 1942, he enlisted in the army, and served our Julie bteele ■ , country overseas until 1945. While in the service, Don was a cook, and has many interesting tales to tell about army methods of Social Service Director cooking Deb Fitzsimmons Don has lived here in the area for the last 22 years. He loves refinishing furniture, putting together models, riding bikers, and at Activity Director one time competed with a friend in a twin engine dragster they owned. rarnivn Rarn iZ Here at Miller’s Merry Manor, Don enjoys helping the other residents, bowling, fishing, and of course, Bingo. - Foodservice Supervisor Kathy Rhodes, R.N., C. Director Os Staff Development Linda Carter F (V 1 Residents: Employees: 1 ./>•// * Laundry/Housekeepmg Supv. Jiff Rosa Smith 5-2-02 Katherine Hyden 5-3 £ Marty Courtney Assunta Thatcher 5-2-11 MaryMowrey 5-6 Bookkeeping Supervisor gA Frank Meinke 5-11-96 CindaSwihart 5-21 Merry Manor, Inc. Betty Parker, R.N..C. z/Wr/ J. J. Helfrich ■ 5-13-13 PatMcMillen 5-24 po Box 377 Administrative Assistant w Clifford Russell 5-14-28 Warsaw, in 46580 N^ mHeHers mo£TZS=SFa Etta Deßoy 5-15-91 . „ a Chaplain IWtSltflliW Kenneth Kinsey 5-1900 John Slone Joan Kilmer X iXfUuvl H 17J| Isl Ethel Frantz 5-20-97 / j Mon.-Fri. 8:30-5:00 Naomi Ross Curtis Bunn William McCreary 5 20-23 Sat 8:30-4:30 Delbert Keriin ‘ WiidaWeist ML. Arthur Heeter 5-31-10 VO? Olh,r r,mes By

charged with disregarding an automatic signal after colliding with a 1961 Ford, driven by Robert L. Owen, 47, 198 North Shore Dr., Syracuse, at the intersection of SR 13 and Pickwick Road at 7:01 a.m., Monday, May 5. Owen had made a left turn off West Access Road and was traveling east when he attempted to turn left onto SR 13 and collided with the Waggoner vehicle as it passed through a red light. Up to SI,OOO damage was caused to the Owen vehicle, while the 1978 Ford, driven by Waggoner, suffered up to $2,500 in damages. No injuries were reported. Up to SI,OOO damage was caused to a 1983 Toyota Tercel, owned by Arthur Smucker, 701 College Ave., Goshen, after Barbara D. Wells, 57, 113 S. Lake St., Syracuse, backed into the parked vehicle at 12:30 p.m. Friday, May 2. Wells was backing her 1985 t Chevrolet Cavalier from her garage when she collided with the Smucker vehicle, which was _ parked in front of 112 S. Lake St.,

100 feet south of Main Street. Up to S2OO damage was caused to the Wells vehicle. No injuries or arrests were reported. In a 6:25 p.m. incident Wednesday, April 30, up to SI,OOO damage was caused to a 1960 Dodge Colt, driven by Chris J. Mase, 18, r 1 box 89, Warsaw, and up to $2,500 to a 1980 Buick, driven by Kevin A. Grindle, 17, P. O. Box 251, Syracuse. Mase was traveling north on SR 13 when Grindle entered his path after turning from Bay Vista Road, causing Mase to collide with the side of his vehicle. No injuries or arrests were reported by Syracuse Police. On crew cabin CAPE CANAVERAL, FLA. - Challenger’s crew cabin structually survived the January 28 explosion and nine-mile plunge from the sky and then shattered when it hit the surface of the Atlantic Ocean, a federal safety expert reported recently. However, experts do not believe astronauts survived the fall to /lhe ocean.

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Mother's Day Thoughts

My friend, Kathy, just had a baby — her fourth male child. She juggles her little one on her hips while she converses on the phone, getting the information she will need for her client tomorrow — all the while preparing dinner. My friend is an attorney with a private practice, as well as mother, so the scene I’ve described is normal. She juggles priorities between practice, family, community, and friends, but my observation is that mothering comes first. Kathy represents for me “mother in 1986.” Today’s mother may also be an executive secretary, doctor, or assemblyline worker. She may be an electrician, real estate agent, or certified public accountant. She will also be chauffeur, amateur psychologist, teacher, and parttimechef. Why do so many mothers carry on this balancing act? We know there are as many answers as mothers: some must earn the family income, others supplement what is needed; some choose to maintain their professional career, others choose to become full-time mothers and homemakers. Here’s another story about Kathy, attorney and mother. One afternoon her two little boys were quarreling over their toys: it was a typical sibling battle and they were about ready to come to blows. Kathy called her older son, and they quickly worked out a little skit to illustrate a peaceful way of settling a dispute. Then mother and son acted out the scene for the two younger boys. When they were finished, they all came up with ideas on what would be fair for both. I wish I had thought of teaching like this when my children were small. But I didn’t know about mediation techniques and I hadn’t been trained in presenting alternative solutions. Kathy uses her professional training to enhance her mother-

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ing. She’d hasten to add that she can’t always be that creative. She takes shortcuts, too, and sometimes simply says, “Peter, you take this one, Nathaniel, you take that one.” Being mother is a full-time job, even while a woman works at other jobs. There is no relief from the responsibility, and while children are small there is little time alone. Today’s mothers have high expectations for themselves and their children. These expectations often make mothers feel inadequate and guilty. One mother said that by the time her two youngsters were five and seven, she had a whole list of things she wasn’t doing right. She didn’t play games with them often enough, didn’t even bake cookies for their lunch boxes. The real “heavies” were things like didn’t help them build self-esteem and got angry too often. Her feelings of guilt and depression became so severe that she sought counseling. Now she believes that the greatest asset a mother can possess is selfesteem, and a realistic sense of what she can do. One afternoon an attractive young woman came into the office of a pediatrician. She was excitedly anticipating the arrival of her first child and she interviewed this doctor. She reported that she had already quit her job and was now spending her time “preparing for parenthood.” She “wore her morning sickness like a badge,” the doctor observed. This doctor saw trouble ahead for mother and child: reality would never match the fantasy, and she was projecting all her energy toward her child. She was losing , sight of that important person — herself. Mothering in 1986 — how different is it from 1966? or 1936? Some things will never change: the loving touches which bond mother and child, the sleepless nights and frustrating hours when a child is ill, the sudden in-

sights as we glimpse pieces of ourselves in a child. But the changes are also great: changes in expectations of a family and lifestyle, new goals for a child, more sophistication in relationships. Today’s mother must cope with home computers and television and space shots as well as childhood illnesses. Anne Morrow Lindbergh once described what a mother will always need: time for reflection and for refiUing the springs of love and peace within. In her book, “Gift From The Sea”, Lindbergh says that church on Sunday morning has been a great centering force for women: “Through the ages women have had that quiet hour, free of interruption, to draw themselves together . . . Here were the advantages of the room of her own, the time alone, the quiet, the peace, all rolled into one and sanctioned by the approval of both family and community . . . The springs were refilled.” Having time alone is as important today as it was yesterday. It’s just that today’s mothers may find it more difficult to arrange. For a free leaflet on Mother’s Day write to: Margaret Foth. P.O. Box 22. Harrisonburg, VA 22801 Save billions? David Packard, the head of a presidential panel on Pentagon purchases estimated recently that the commission’s proposed “radical reform” could save tens of billions of dollars and get weapons to the troops twice as fast. $3,250 each Uncle Sam spent about $3,250 for every man, woman and child in America last year — with Alaskans topping the list overall, Hawaiians receiving the highest federal pay, Florida leading in individual aid and Connecticut the first choice for purchasing.

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GUEST SPEAKER — Program chairman Curt Jordan, of the Lakeland Kiwanis Club. North Webster, talks with Major James S. Sturtevant, commander of the 305th Services Squadron at Grissom Air Force Base, after the major spoke to the club at its 17th anniversary meeting April 28. A dinner at the Grassy Creek Restaurant preceded the program given by Major Sturtevant, a veteran pilot with over 9,000 hours experience, many of which have been in combat. Major Sturtevant explained the duties and responsibilities of the 305th in refueling the airplanes of the Strategic Air Command. He also showed several slides of airplanes to the Kiwanis members, wives, and visitors from other Kiwanis clubs.

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19 YEARS AGO, MAY 5,1976 A total of 1231 voters in Tippecanoe township’s four precincts voted in Tuesday’s primary election of the 2362 who were registered to vote, for 52 per cent. Os this 370 were Democrats and 861 were Republicans. Mr-, and Mrs. Allen Graber of r 1 North Webster are the parents of their first child, a five pound, 12 ounce son, William Jay, born on Sunday, Apr;il 25, at Whitley County hospital; Columbia City. Miss Sandy Koenigshof was hostess for an Easter sunrise service and breakfast for the youth of Fellowship Baptist church in the home of her parents, Mr.and Mrs. Howard Koenigshof of Barbee Lake. Members of Mariam circle of North Webster United Methodist church will meet May 10 with Diana Steel as hostess. Audra Shinn will be hostess for the May 12, meeting of Esther circle of North Webster United Methodist church. Lydia circle members of North Webster United Methodist church will meet at 1:30 p.m., May 11, with Bertha Kline, Miriam Bond and Alice Ott as hostesses 20 YEARS AGO, MAY 4,1966 Principal G. Wendell Bryant has announced Philip Metcalf has finished number one in the class of 1966 at North Webster high school and Miss Candace Laßue has placed second. Mrs. John Scott recently flew to Colton, Calif., where she plans to spend a couple months with her daughter and family, Mr. and Mrs. Jerry Engle and children. Mr. and Mrs. Orva Miller and Sally visited Mrs. Vada Shoemaker and Mrs. Cleo Snyder in South Bend Sunday; Mr. and Mrs. David Richards and family of Monticello, spent the week end with his parents, Mr. and Mrs. Donald Richards. Members of the North Webster Honor Society were initiated at a meeting last Wednesday April 27, at North Webster case. The meeting was a dinner meeting attended by members, parents, orincipal and Mrs. Wendell Bryant and superintendent and Mrs." Lewis Irpjnel Initiated were Tim Hine, Nancy Stump, Cynthia Haines, Candy Laßue and hole-over member Phil Metcalf, Barney Culver, Rick White, E. J. Whitacre and Mike Vanator. 30 YEARS AGO, MAY 3,1956 Mermaid Festival headquarters in North Webster has

announced the entry during the past week of 4 “Queen of Lakes” beauty contestants, 7 more mermaid Parade band contestants, 2 amateur show acts, one independent basketball team, and one cutie queen for the various festival events scheduled the week of June 25-30. ’ 50 YEARS AGO. MAY 7,1936 The North Webster Plumbing Company of North Webster, has been purchased by Earl Wine, formerly of Fort Wayne. The business will be managed by Mr. Wine, assisted by Russell Mauer of Indianapolis, Ind. The business was formerly owned and > operated by C. Werle. William Miller has moved from the Klick farm to the. Lester Gray farm. Sam Garber visited in the home of Earl Culver Sunday evening. Mr. and Mrs. Robert Strombeck and children ate dinner with Mr. and Mrs. Milo Strombeck last Sunday. Bud Likens and Claude Busley have assumed the duties of sexton at the North Webster cemetery. H. C. McDevitt has sold his farm on Route 13 near Barbee Lake, to Deer Construction Company. Plans call for'developing the tract and laying out a park. A horse show canal which will surround the property is planned and the project will considerably enhance the value of the property, it is believed.. Earl Gerard is painting his cement block store building. Charles and Paul Spry and Joseph Gerard are doing the work. Jonas Cripe and Mrs. Elizabeth Shock visited Mr. and Mrs. Alonzo Clingerman, in Indian Village, Sunday. Mr. and Mrs. Stanly Roberts, and Mr. and Mrs. Milford Gose, visited Mr. and Mrs. Simeon Lewallen. Mrs. Frederick Kuhn visited her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Elmo Shock, last week. Sale proposed PEKING — The proposed sale of $550 million in sophisticated U.S. avionicSMequipment to China will help Peking substantially strengthen its defenses against Soviet air power, American officials said recently. The sale will have to be okayed by Congress. Expert An expert is one who has previously made the same mistake. — Excelsior, Blakesburg.

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