The Mail-Journal, Volume 23, Number 2, Milford, Kosciusko County, 8 January 1986 — Page 6

THE MAIL-JOURNAL — Wed., January 8,1986

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Community Corner

LOUISA'S LETTER (< £ 1 --44* 1 ™ |

Dear Louisa, ) I was shocked several when my young daughter asked me a simple question. She said, “Mother, is there anyone you really like?'* I asked her why she said such a thing and she replied that everyone I mentioned was criticized and therefore she couldn’t see how I could like them if I thought they were so bad, or so silly. It made me think and I sat down and got a good look at myself. It was true that I had the habit of pointing out the unattractive habits of my friends as well Mobile Meals drivers Volunteer drivers for Syracuse Mobile Meals have been scheduled for the week of January 13-17. They are as follows: January 13-17 (1 MONDAY — Jan Baumgartner TUESDAY Pauline Firestone WEDNESDAY - Win Sroufe THURSDAY — F. A. Rhoads FRIDAY — Driver will be provided Lakeland local Mr. and Mrs. Jessie Hughes, Syracuse, have returned from a month in Florida. They spent time with Mrs. Hughes’ son, Richard Warner and family of Middleburg, and Mr. and Mrs. Harold Fisel of Okeechokee, where Mr. Hughes went fishing and made a couple of nice catches. The Hughes’ then visited Mr. and Mrs. Charles Wiggins of Lehigh Acres, Mr. and Mrs. Paul Tague, Sarasota, and Mr. and Mrs. Bill Thompson, Lakeland. •

Christmas Was Truly A Time Os Giving / The Wawasee Kiwanians were flooded with offers of money and goods during their collection time for the club’s Needy ’ Family Project. The contributions receiv- llff ed helped to provide a very special Christmas celebration for those families who would have had either very little or nothing. Syracuse area residents and 1 | j businesses truly opened their hearts to H « those less fortunate and brought in cash, f } toys, clothing, and food items! THANK YOU! The Wawasee Kiwanis would like to u j I * offer special thanks to the following donors of SIOO or more, cash or WJBC

merchandise: Ace Hardware Helen & Harry Alf rey American Industries American Legion Post 223 Anchor Man Augsburger’s Baker’s Farm Market Bales’ Butcher Shop Delbert Burkholder Custom Services Dana Corporation Virginia DeWitt Frost Antenna Hlbschman Motors Inc.

as those for whom I cared less. If someone said Mary had a pretty figure I would point out how fat she had become. If someone said Susie was friendly I’d remark that she was too friendly. If John was said to be good company I thought he was rather silly for one of his age. Why had I been doing this? Everyone I had criticized was a very nice person with many admirable traits and few shortcomings. WHy couldn’t I have found something good to say about them. Was it because I was envious or jealous of these people? I really had nothing to be jealous about. Am such an egbtist that I think I can build myself up by tearing other people down? Do I think I am smarter and more perfect than other people? What do you think is wrong with me? W.R.-N.J. Answer: The people who look for the faults in others instead of praising their good traits do so as a usual thing because of an inferiority complex. They will be the last ones Io admit this is so but they are actually trying to point out how much smarter they are than others and demanding homage from their associates. Unfortunately these people defeat the very thing they are trying to accomplish. They become very unpopula r as many of their criticisms get‘back too those who were talked atiout. They get the} name of being conceited and dangerous as well as unpleasant to have around. You should make a New Years Resolution for 1986 to accept people as they are. Every person is an individual and some who are agreeable and delightful associates are neither intellectuals nor of the highest social strata. Try to see the good things in people and keep silent about faults. Louisa Address: Louisa, Box 532, Orangeburg, S.C. 29115

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PLANNING JUNE WEDDING — Mr. and Mrs. David J. (Treva) Miller, 17331 CR 34, Goshen, have announced the engagement of their daughter, Emiliine Miller, 636A Walter Way, Warsaw, and Jeffrey Brent Secaur, 677A Walter Way, Warsaw. Parents of the prospective bridegroom ai*e Mr. and Mrs. Willard (Irene) Secaur, 23171 Greenleaf Blvd., Elkhart. Miss Miller is a graduate of Clinton Christian High School and received a bachelor of science degree in art from Grace College in 1984. She is presently employed with Ken J Anderson Films, Warsaw. Her fiance is a graduate of Brethren Christian High School and received a bachelor of science degree in speech communications from Grace College in 1981. He is employed with The Image Group in Syracuse. The couple plans a June 14 wedding at the Winona Lake Grace Brethren Church, Winona Lake. Visitor from Africa Debra (Smoker) Ali is here from Sudan, Africa, visiting her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Charles Smoker. Mr. and Mrs. Smoker entertained their family at a Christmas day dinner with 26 present. The afternoon was enjoyed and a gift exchange was held. •

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Cynthia Myrick becomes bride, of Dov Rosenberg on Dec. 21

Cynthia Myrick became the bride of Dov Rosenberg in a double-ring ceremony Saturday, Dec. 21, at 7:30 p.m. The wedding ceremony was conducted in the Goshen Holiday Inn with 140 guests present. Kosciusko County Judge James Jarrett officiated. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Carl Myrick, 418 South Harrison Street, Syracuse, and the bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Romer, Washington, DC., and David Rosenberg, Kalamazoo, Mich. The wedding room was decorated with an archway of doves woven through it. Green ferns were placed on either side of the archway. Candelabrums with royal blue bows were also located in the room. Annette Beer, pianist and Mary Hildinger, violinist, provided special musical selections. Sonya Shock, Syracuse, was the guest book attendant. The bride, who was given in marriage by her father, wore a long white gown with off the shoulder puff sleeves. The fitted bodice contained lace and seed / pearls. The gown also featured a cathedral-length train. Her headdress was a white derby hat with seed pearls and a veil. The bride carried white roses and baby’s breath bouquet. Mrs. Ryan Matherly, Elkhart, sister of the bride, was- the matron of honor. She wore a royal blue taffeta tea-length gown with a jacket. Her headdress was a royal blue cap edged in seed pearls with blue netting. She carried silk flowers in the colors of royal blue, white and pink. Sarah Coy, Seneca, S.C., sister of the bride; Honna Rosenberg, and Janet Rosenberg, both of Lafayette and sisters of the bridegroom, were the bridesmaids. Their tea-length gowns were of royal blue taffeta with a jacket, their headdresses were royal blue caps edged in seed pearls with blue netting. They also carried silk flowers in

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MR. AND MRS. DOV ROSENBERG

the colors of royal blue, white and pink. Kelly Matherly, Elkhart, niece of the bride was the flower girl and Benjamin Matherly, Elkhart, nephew of the bride, was the ringbearer. Al Grewe, Memphis, Tenn., was the best man. Grant Grigorian, Ann Arbor, Mich.; Craig Romer, Dallas, Texas; and Rob Langely, Titusville, Fla., bridegroomsmen and ushers. The bride’s mother wore a pink crepe de chine street-length dress. The bridegroom’s mother wore a gray velvet street-length dress. A wedding reception was given immediately following the ceremony in Camelot Hall, North Webster. Royal blue candles with white flowers on the tables and blue bows and white bells hung

Meals for Older Americans

Meals for Older Americans are served each day at the following locations: The Scout Cabin, Syracuse; the Pierceton Community Building ; Mentone Community Room in the fire station; the Retired Tigers Center, 320 W. Main, Warsaw; and Packerton Community Building. Meals for Older Americans is for persons 60 years or older and is a chance to meet new friends and enjoy hot, nutritional meals. The sites are opened several hours each day including noon for programs. Meals for Older Americans is not associated with welfare but is for the promotion for .better health for the older

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around the room decorated the hall. Portia Price, Syracuse, and Chris Humphrey, Kokomo, served the cake to guests. The buffet was of hot and cold hors d’oeuvres. Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Bitner, Syracuse, assisted in the serving. Music for listening and dancing was provided by David Knispel, Syracuse. Following a wedding trip to Disney World, Fla., the couple will reside in Middletown, N. Y. The bride is a graduate of Wawasee High School and will graduate this spring from Purdue University where she is majoring in retail management. She is a member of Zeta Tau Alpha Sorority. v Her husband is a graduate of Hobart High School and Purdue University. He is a member of Alpha Epsilon Pi Fraternity.

population. Donations are accepted for the meals. The site directors request all persons planning on attending the meals to make reservations by 1 p.m. the day prior to attending. Phone 457-2631 for Syracuse transportation and reservations. January 9-Januaryls THURSDAY — Orange juice, chicken and noodles, green beans with bacon bits, whole wheat bread, bing cherry gelatin, milk, tea, and coffee FRIDAY — Pineapple juice, sliced turkey roll with gravy, sweet potatoes, broccoli,, dinner roll, pumpkin pie, milk, tea, and coffee \ MONDAY — Assorted juice, chicken nuggets and sauce, potato salad, green beans w/mushrooms, whole wheat bread, margarine, sliced peaches, milk, tea, and coffee TUESDAY- Orangegrapefruit juice, Italian veal patty w/cheese, florentine rice, Italian vegetables, Italian bread, margarine, milk, tea, and coffee WEDNESDAY — Apple juice, smoked sausage, sauerkraut, mashed potatoes, rye bread, margarine, frozen fruit salad, milk, tea, and coffee

CALENDAR Week Os January 8 To January 15 - ‘ 1 WEDNESDAY Syracuse-Wawasee Chamber of Commerce r 7:45 a.m., in the Syracuse Town Hall Al-Anon » 9 a.m., in North Webster Church of God AA 12 noon, in Syracuse Church of God Syracuse PTO Monthly Board Meeting 12 noon jn Syracuse Elementary LRC Goodwill Club 1:30 p.m., in the House of Friendship North Webster Town Board 7 p.m., in the town hall Syracuse Fire Department, Fire Drill 7 p.m., at the fire station Eagles Auxiliary Meeting Aerie 3760 7 p.m., in Lakeland Eagles, 404 Sycamore St., Syracuse Alcoholics Anonymous 7:30 p.m., in Wawasee Episcopal Center, All Saints Episcopal Church, south shore of Lake Wawasee, one-half mile east of South Shore Golf Club on Vernon Road THURSDAY Lakeland Woman’s Club 10 a.m., in North Webster United Methodist Church Wawasee Community Toughlove 7 p.m., in Lakeland Youth Center, Syracuse. Parent support group for parents troubled by their teenager’s behavior North Webster Lions Club 7 p.m., fire station, North Webster Shady Ladies Bunco Club - 7:30 p.m. Turkey Creek Conservation Club 7:30 p.m., in The Clubhouse Kappa Omicron Chapter, Beta Sigma Phi Sorority 7:30p.m. „ . Adult-Children of Alcoholics 1 7:30 p.m., in North Webster United Methodist Uhurch Syracuse Lakeside VFW 1342 Bp.m., FRIDAY Milford Kiwanis 6:45 a.m., Milford Community Building Syracuse Retail Merchants 8 a.m., in State Bank of Syracuse Alcoholics Anonymous, 7:30 p.m., in Wawasee Episcopal Center, All Saints Episcopal Church, south shore of Lake Wawasee, one-half mile east of South Shore Golf Club on Vernon Road ( Alcoholics Anonymous 8 p.m., in Saint Andrew’s United Methodist Church, Syracuse Heart of the Lakes Squares 8-10:30 p.m., in Syracuse Elementary SATURDAY Wawasee Kiwanis 7 a.m., Gropp’s, Syracuse Milford Area Development Council, Inc. 9 a.m., in Milford Community Building Milford Emergency Medical Service 11 a.m., in Milford Community Building Syracuse VFW Ladies Auxiliary 1 p.m. SUNDAY Alcoholics Anonymous 10 a.m., North Webster Fire Station Milford Senior Citizens Carry-in Dinner Ip.m., Milford Community Building ’ , AA, Al-Anon, Aloteen 8 p.m., in North Webster United Methodist Church 1 # ■ MONDAY Lakeland Kiwanis 6:45 a.m., in Church of God meeting room, North Webster Milford Town Board 6:30 p.m., in the town hall F.O.E. Men’s Meeting Aerie 3760 7 p.m., in Lakeland Eagles 404 Sycamore St., Syracuse, Al-Anon \ 7:30 p.m., in United Methodist Church, Milford Columbian Reading * 7:30p.m. - Federated Women’s Club Ladies of the Round Table 7:30 p.m. ■' Milford American Legion 8 p.m. TUESDAY Syracuse-Wawasee Rotary 12 noon, Beacon Restaurant Home Arts Club 1:30 p.m. Syracuse Business and Professional Women’s Club 6:30 p.m. Wawasee School Board 7 p.m., in the administration building Syracuse Park Board 7:15 p.m., in Syracuse Town Hall, open to the public Sugar N’ Spice ’Bl Club 7:30p.m. Lakeland Art Association s 7:30 p.m., in Cardinal Center, Warsaw Milford Masons 7:30 p.m., in the Masonic Lodge Warsaw Chapter of the Compassionate Friends 7:30 p.m., in the Justice Building Community Room, Warsaw. A support group for bereaved parents. Anyone who has experienced the death of a child is encouraged to attend. Syracuse Coin Club 7:30 p.m., in Lakeland Youth Center - WEDNESDAY Al-Anon 9 a.m., in North Webster Church of God AA * 12 noon, in Syracuse Church of God Syracuse Lions Club 6:30 p.m., in the Beacon ■ Twilighters Bunco Club 7:30p.m. Lutheran Church Women 7:30 p.m., in Syracuse Grace Lutheran Church Alcoholics Anonymous 7:30 p.m., in Wawasee Episcopal Center, All Saints Episcopal Church, south shore of Lake Wawasee, one-half mile east of South Shore Golf Club on Vernon Road Al-Anon 7:30 p.m., in Sacred Heart Church, Warsaw Al-Anon 7:30 p.m., in St. Andrew’s United Methodist Church, 4 Syracuse Syracuse Jaycees 7:30 p.m., in Lakeland Eagles Psi lota Xi 7:30p.m.