The Mail-Journal, Volume 22, Number 51, Milford, Kosciusko County, 18 December 1985 — Page 6

THE MAIL-JOURNAL — Wed., December 18,1985

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Community Corner

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LOUISA'S LETTER jffif

Dear Louisa, My husband is a minister and a very attractive man. Os course the women in his congregation make a great deal over him but I don’t object as I realize that is a part of his job. But what I do not like is the way he tries to manage me. He thinks he has the right to tell me the kind of clothes I should wear, the groceries I should buy and where I should go. It burns me up and causes a lot of dissention in our family as I consider myself an individual and not a puppet to jump when he pulls the strings. What can you do with a man like this? ? J.W.-Mo. Answer: There are always two sides to a question and I haven’t heard your husband’s side. From your account your husband seems to be too possessive and insecure — that is unless you are doing things and wearing clothes unbecoming to one in your position. As to clothes the majority of wives like to wear clothes that their husbands find attractive but that doesn’t mean that you have to make a spectacle of yourself if

Big Brother, Big Sister is explained

Jan Day, program director for the Big Brother-Big Sister program in Kosciusko County, spoke to the Milford Kiwanis Club about the areas’ program recently. In a 1980 census it was learned that about 2,500 children in Kosciusko County are from a oneparent family, according to Day. Thus far, there have been about 10 relationships in Kosciusko County and about 25 more children, between the ages of seven and 17 years-old, are waiting for someone to share two to five hours a week with them. “Just be a friend, someone who cares,” Day commented. “This is what the kids need.” ’

he has a phobia about short skirts

and wishes you to wear one down to your ankles. On the other hand a mini-skirt would certainly be out of place for a minister’s wife. As far as groceries are concerned, it might be well for you to shop together so that he will see how very expensive food is just now. If you like one thing and he another the idea is to compromise. But the man is too possessive defeats himself in the end. A person can stand just so much dictating to and will either blow up after a while or become a spiritless nonentity. You are an individual and should not be required to get permission for what you wish to do or where you wish to go. On the other hand, a minister’s wife — and any decent women for that matter — has responsibilities to consider and she should certainly do nothing or go to any place that would be a hindrance to her husband’s work or peace of mind. But the decision should be left to her. Louisa Address: Louisa, Box 532 Orangeburg, S.C. 29115

The process of matching a big brother or sister to a child takes a lot of work and visits to the homes of both parties’ families is part of the screening process. Police and reference checks are made on all persons interested in becoming a big brother or sister. Persons 18 years-old and above are eligible to apply. “You don’t have to spend a lot of money, just take the kid home with you; watch television, play games, or just sit and talk,” Day remarked. If you’re interested in becoming a big brother or sister, write to Big Brothers, Big Sisters of Kosciusko Co., P. O. Box 651, Warsaw, Ind. 46580.

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50TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY — Mr. and Mrs. LaMar Whitehead, r 5 box 238 Syracuse, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary with an open house on Saturday, Dec. 28, from 6 p.m.- 9 p.m., at the Wyatt Fire Station, located on SR 331 in Wyatt. The open house is being hosted by the couple’s children, Lewis Whitehead of Bremen; Jane Schafer of South Bend; and Hal Whitehead of Alburquerque, New Mexico, as well as by their eight grandchildren.

The Whiteheads were married on December 6, 1935 in Woodland by the Rev. Schliefki. Mr. Whitehead is a self employed carpenter and Mrs. Whitehead, a wallpaper hanger. The couple requests the presence of their family and friends instead of gifts.

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May the Child rWZyP King who came f gK to save us all bestow His special blessings on us this Christmas. T_ _ _ T '| Off All Permanent < I >_ /O f Country Home JETT * Floral Shoppe CLOSED WED. & THURS. ~ DEC-25 &26 J

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CALENDAR Week Os December 18 To December 25 WEDNESDAY Al-Anon 9a.m., in North Webster Church of God AA 12 noon, in Syracuse Church of God Syracuse Lions Club 6:30 p.m., in the Beacon Twilighters Bunco Club 7:30 p.m. Lutheran Church Women 7:30 p.m., in Syracuse Grace Lutheran Church Psi lota XI 7:30 p.m. Syracuse J ay cees 7:30 p.m., in Lakeland Eagles Al-Anon 7:30 p.m., in Saint Andrew’s United Methodist Church, Syracuse Alcoholics Anonymous 7:30 p.m., in Wawasee Episcopal Center, All Saints Episcopal Church, south shore of Lake Wawasee, one-half mile east of South Shore Golf Club on Vernon Road Al-Anon » 7:30 p.m. in Sacred Heart Church, Warsaw THURSDAY Ebeneier Ladies Aid 2 p.m. North Webster Lady Lions 7 p.m., in North Webster United Methodist Church v Milford Volunteer Firemen 7 p.m., in Milford Fire Station VWawasee Community Toughlove 7 p.m., in Lakeland Youth Center, Syracuse. Parent support group for parents troubled by their teenagers behavior. Adult, Children of Alcoholics 7:30p.m., in North Webster United Methodist Church North Webster American Legion Auxiliary 8 p.m., in Legion Hall FRIDAY Milford Kiwanis 6:45 a.m., in Milford Community Building Alcoholics Anonymous 7:30 p.m., in Wawasee Episcopal Center, All Saints Episcopal Church, south shore of Lake Wawasee, one-half mile east of South Shore Golf Club on Vernon Road Alcoholics Anonymous 8 p.m., in Saint Andrew’s United Methodist Church, Syracuse SATURDAY Wawasee Kiwanis 7 a.m., in Gropp’s, Syracuse » Turkey Creek Senior Citizens 12 noon, in Syracuse Scout Cabin SUNDAY Alcoholics Anonymous 10 a.m., in North Webster Fire Station AA, Al-Anon and Aloteen 8 p.m., in North Webster United Methodist Church MONDAY Lakeland Kiwanis 6:45 a.m., in North Webster Church of God meeting room FOE Men’s Meeting Aerie 3760 • 7 p.m., in Lakeland Eagles, 404 Sycamore St., Syracuse Al-Anon 7:30 p.m., in Milford United Methodist Church Columbian Reading 7:30p.m. TUESDAY T ” Christmas Eve WEDNESDAY MERRY CHRISTMAS Al-Anon 9 a.m., in North Webster Church of God AA 12 noon, in Syracuse Church of God Alcoholics Anonymous ’ 7:30 p.m., in Wawasee Episcopal Center, All Saints Episcopal Church, south shore of Lake Wawasee, one-half mile east of South Shore Golf Club on Vernon Road Al-Anon 7:30 p.m., in Saint Andrew’s United Methodist Church, Syracuse Al-Anon 7:30 p.m., in Sacred Heart Church, Warsaw NOW OPEN FOB * CHRISTMAS SHOPPING Monday Thru Saturday 9:00 A.M.-9:00 P.M. SUNDAY 11:00 A.M.-6:00 P.M. BEN * FRANKLIN State Rd. 13 & Pickwick Rd. r 457-4040 SYRACUSE