The Mail-Journal, Volume 22, Number 19, Milford, Kosciusko County, 8 May 1985 — Page 3

Obituaries

Herman Roeder, Sr. Retired Farmer Herman R. Roeder, Sr., 80, 22153 CR 142 Goshen, father of Robert E. Roeder, Milford, died Monday morning, May 6, in his home. Death was an apparent heart attack. Roeder was born on May 3, 1905, in Bremen and on September 15, 1926, he married Chloa A. Strahly in Saint Joseph County. She preceded him in death on October 23, 1981. He was a retired farmer and a lifetime member of Saint Paul’s Lutheran Church, Woodland. Surviving in addition to his son are two daughters, Minnie Roeder, Goshen, and Shirley Replogle, Bremen; two other sons, Laurence (Larry), Nappanee, and Donald, Goshen; seven grandchildren; and one great-grandchild. A son, Herman, Jr., and a brother, Clayton, preceded him in d&ath. Funeral services will be held at 10 a.m. tomorrow (Thursday) at Saint Paul’s Lutheran Church, Woodland, with Rev. Daniel Guard officiating. Burial will be in Saint Paul’s Cemetery. Friends may call frbm 2-9 p.m. today (Wednesday) at Mishler Funeral Home, Bremen, and on Thursday at the church one hour

Low salt, cholesterol class offered

Information on low salt and low cholesterol diets will be provided through a Cardiac Cooking Seminar which will be offered by Goshen Hospital on Thursday, May 16, from 9:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. in the hospital’s education department. f The seminar. is for the individual who must follow the diet and the person who prepares these meals. The fee for the seminar includes lunch. Preregistration is required by Monday, May 13. Barbara Fierce, Goshen Hospital Dietician, will lead the discussion and prepare a meal using low salt and low cholesterol

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prior to the service. Memorials may be directed to Saint Paul’s Church or the heart fund. Ralph G. Priser Father Os Area Residents Ralph G. Priser, 80, r 2 box 164 Claypool, father of Larry L. Priser, Leesburg, and Mrs. Jack (Mary Lou) Mason, Syracuse, passed away at 2.25 p.m. Sunday, May 5. Death was unexpected. Priser was born on April 23, 1905, in Clay Township. His parents were James F. and Frances (Snoke) Priser. On August 13,1932, he married Mary Fairbanks in Warsaw. She survives. He was a lifetime resident of Clay Township, a member of the Packerton United Methodist Church, a retired employee of the Warsaw Foundry and a retired farmer. A 1925 graduate of Claypool High School, he had attended the alumni banquet which was held on Saturday. » Additional survivors include two other sons, James A. and William A. Priser, both of Claypool; one brother, Clarence Priser, Sidney area; five grandchildren; and one greatgrandson. Funeral services were held at

recipes. She will be assisted by Dottie Kauffmann, RN, Cardiac Rehabilitation Coordinator. The purposes of the cooking seminar are for the participants to understand and improve their low cholesterol and/or low salt diets; to adopt a plan for losing weight or for achieving weight maintenance on a cardiac diet; to acquire information concerning cooking creatively with the cardiac diet; and to learn how to make appropriate food selections when grocery shopping or eating out. For further information or to enroll in the seminar, contact the education department, 533-2141, ext. 1104, Goshen Hospital.

11 a.m. today (Wednesday) in the Chamness-Tucker Funeral Home, Claypool, with Rev. Keith Burch officiating. Burial followed in Graceland Cemetery. James E. Rock Father Os North Webster Woman James E. Rock, 61, 705 East Walnut St., Nappanee, father of Mrs. Larry (Bev) Spry, North Webster, died unexpectedly at his home at 11:51 p.m. Saturday, May 4. He was born on August 22,1923, in McHenry, Ky., the son of Shelby S. and Mae Rock. On November 10, 1942, he married

Hospital Notes

Goshen TUESDAY, APRIL 30 Admissions Connie S. Busz, box 384 Leesburg Dismissals Mrs. K. Jay Keene and infant daughter, Angeline Appenzeller, r 1 box 69A, Syracuse Betty Yates, 12414 CR 148 Syracuse 1 THURSDAY, MAY 2 Dismissals Mrs. Erwin Busz and infant son, box 384 Leesburg Mrs. Mitchell Grevenstuk and infant son, Donald Charles, r 5 box 78 Syracuse FRIDAY, MAY 3 Admissions Reinold C. Tytler, r 4 box 354 Syracuse Orvin A. Koher, r 3 box 383 Syracuse Fay A. Thompson, r 1 box 164 C, Milford Dismissals Mrs. Rick E. Timmons and infant son, Jay Luther, P.O. Box 284 Leesburg SATURDAY, MAY 4 Dismissals Oleta Miller, P.O. Box 352 Milford Frances Cullers, P.O. Box 119 Milford Fred Personette, 612 Third, Syracuse Reinold Tytler, r 4 box 354 Syracuse SUNDAY, MAY 5 Admissions Sixta A. Hoover, 200 W. North

KCH plans activities for National Hospital Week

The “Lifeworkers” at Kosciusko Community Hospital are planning a number of activities and events to celebrate National Hospital Week, May 12-18, to illustrate how hospital staffers not only work to provide the best health care possible to the citizens of this community, but to show their interests beyond the confines of KCH walls. The national theme of this year’s celebration is “Lifework,” to show how everyone who works for and with a hospital, whether

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Ann Embry in Washington. She survives. In 1961, Rock moved from North Webster to Nappanee. He worked at the Minellis Restaurant in Elkhart and formerly at the B&B Restaurant in Nappanee. He was a World War II Army veteran, a member of Veterans of Foreign Wars, No. 6638, the American Legion Post No. 154, both of Nappanee, and the Disabled American Veterans, Goshen. Surviving in addition to his wife and daughter are three additional daughters, Mrs. John (Linda) Keighley, Brookfield, Ohio, Mrs. Ken (Millie) Kobb and Mrs. Brian (Anna) Huff, both of Nap-

St., Syracuse MONDAY, MAY 6 Admissions Juanita DeLaFuente, r 1 box 246 Milford Dismissals James S. Hostetler, r 1 Milford Julia S. May, 211 East Emeline St., Milford KCH TUESDAY, APRIL 30 Dismissals Deborah J. McMillan, Leesburg Angela M. Martindale, North Webster THURSDAY, MAY 2 Dismissals Devon G. Phelps, North Webster FRIDAY, MAY 3 Dismissals Raymond A. Hawkins, I Hubert L. Wolfe, North Webster SATURDAY, MAY 4 Admissions Michael L. Habegger, Syracuse SUNDAY, MAY 5 Admissions Walter R. Deatsman, Leesburg Sandy J. Fosnaugh, Leesburg Births TIMMONS, Jay Luther Mr. and Mrs. Rick (Judy) Timmons, P.O. Box 284 Syracuse, are the parents of a son, Jay Luther, born Wednesday, May 1, at 11:06 am. in Goshen Hospital. He weighed nine pounds, five ounces and measured 21 inches long.

they be surgical nurses or housekeepers, is involved in Lifework. Each day during the week, Monday through Friday, departments will be exhibiting and displaying photos and equipment to illustrate their roles in providing health care. The displays will be in the KCH lobby and personnel will be on hand each day to answer questions from the public. The schedule for displays includes:

panee; two sons, Jim L. Rock, Springfield, Mo., and Jerry W. Rock, Cape Girardeau, Mo.; 15 grandchildren; two greatgrandchildren; one brother, Bill Rock, Gas City; and four sisters, Mrs. Robert (Florence) Morris, Wisconsin, Mrs. Carl (Sue) Adams, Gas City, Mrs. Larry (Ann) Carl, Van Buren, and Mrs. Keith (Brenda) Murphy, Waco, Texas. Two brothers and one grandson preceded him in death. Funeral services were held at 10:30 a.m. today (Wednesday) in the Thompson & Yoder Funeral Home, Nappanee, with Rev. Dave Widftioyer officiating. Burial was in the Union Center Cemetery.

Maternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Don Ferverda, r 2 North Webster, and paternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Herbert Timmons of Leesburg. Maternal great-grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Hiram Ferverda, r 2 North Webster, and Mr. and Mrs. William Hudson, r 2 Pierceton. Paternal greatgrandmother is Pauline Marvel, Warsaw. ROHRBAUGH daughter Mr. and Mrs. James (Roxanne) Rohrbaugh, r 1 box 283-M, Syracuse, are the parents of a daughter born Monday, May 6, in Goshen Hospital. GREVENSTUK son Mr. and Mrs. Mitchell (Deborah Jean) Grevenstuk, r 5 box 78 Syracuse, are the parents of a son born Tuesday, April 30, in Goshen Hospital. BUSZ son Mr. and Mrs. Erwin (Connie) Busz, box 384 Leesburg, are the parents of a son born on Tuesday, April 30, in Goshen Hospital. EMS Syracuse Emergency Medical Service was called to 401 E. Boston St., Syracuse, at 6:31 p.m. Friday, May 3, when Courtney Blue Knisley, 2‘4>, was struck by a vehicle as the child crossed the road. Courtney was taken to Goshen Hospital with pain to the back. Darrell Rater, 20, Syracuse, was transported to his home on Saturday, May 4. The EMS was called to Dolan Drive, and Car-

Monday — Personnel, Laboratory and Physical Therapy Departments Tuesday— Dietary, Maintenance and Purchasing, and Housekeeping Departments Wednesday — Radiology, Central Supply and Pharmacy Departments Thursday — Cardiopulmonary, Business Office and Medical Records Departments Friday — Nursing Department Displays will be on view from 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. each day, with the departments’ displays on view during the morning, midday and afternoons listed. On Tuesday and Wednesday evenings, a CPR class for the public will be held. That class is full, but reservations will be taken for future classes. On Friday, May 17, a number of events for the public and hospital staff are planned. During the day, the nursing department will conduct blood pressure screening for all KCH employees. At 3 p.m., the Activity Club will hold a Nelson Golden Gio chicken barbecue for the public and staff members outside the outpatient entrance on the west side of KCH. Also on Friday evening, hospital staffers, physicians and other KCH persons will participate in a nine-hole golf tournament at Stonehenge. On Saturday, the third annual KCH 5-K “Run For The Health Os It” will get underway at 4 p.m. Entry forms are now being accepted at the hospital or from many sporting goods stores in the area.

Trophies, plaques and ribbons will be awarded to top finishers in several categories, and special tshirts will be given to all finishers.

The annual “One Mile Walk For Fitness” will begin at approximately 4 p.m. and will take place entirely on hospital grounds. During National Hospital Week, entrants and winners of a hospital-wide photography contest, with the theme “Lifeworkers,” will be displayed at the hospital. The public is encouraged to attend the events scheduled during National Hospital Week.

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roll Street at 4:17 p.m. when he became ill. Anna Maria Sims, 13, 54088 Northwood Dr., Elkhart, was transported to Goshen Hospital with an abrasion to her left knee and a small cut after off the merry-go-round at lakeside Park, Sunday, May 5. The EMS was called at 1:37 p.m. Rodney Hann, 26, r 2 box 50 Syracuse, was transported to Goshen Hospital Sunday evening after he became ill. The EMS was called at 9:49. Wayne Pollard, 18, 707 E. Pittsburgh St., Syracuse, was transported to Kosciusko Community Hospital Tuesday, May 7, after he became ill. The EMS was called at 5:28 p.m. Card of Thanks

CARD OF THANKS \Ne wish to express our thanks and appreciation to all our friends, the United Methodist Church, the American Legion and the Mishler Funeral Home. Thanks to all of you for your help and expressions of sympathy during our hours of sorrow at the loss of our loved one, James P. McCracken. The McCracken And Moe Families t Serving Pour country

MARIE L. KITSON Navy Seaman Marie L. Kitson, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Gene Kitson of 418 Parkway Drive, Syracuse, was graduated from personnelman school at the Naval Technical Training Center, Meridian, Miss. During the nine-week course, Kitson received instruction on the procedures for preparation and updating of records. She also studied general Navy office administration methods and the techniques employed for personnel interviewing. A 1982 graduate of Indiana State University, Terre Haute, with a bachelor of science degree, she joined the Navy in October 1984.

'“Charm can be deceptive and beauty doesn't last, but a woman who fears and reverences God shall [ be greatly praised. Praise her for the fine things she does. These good deeds of hers shall bring : her honor and recognition from even the leaders of the nation." \ « — Proverbs 31:30-31 n- | " vfteY «w Mo,lMrT « w<nM * <MWMITM ~I I This Sunday — Mother's Dey I | I JMMM 9:00 A.M. Sunday School Hour V VMT * iHMI S Sfi - —Special program for Mothers ■ kHHiI IP presented by the Jr. Dept. 10:00 A.M. Morning Worship Hour M •'■ , — All mothers to be honored and T> I ■ special recognitions to be made. ’ w 7:00 P.M. Evening Service —an informal ■ fl worship time* I I 1985 GRADUATES TO BE HONORED NEXT I SUNDAY, MAY 19TH AT 10 A.M. fljßflE fl Bus and church vans providing transportation on r ich nrar Fred Walls Sunday mornings and Wednesday evenings in Milford. Carl H Associate Minister Dewart Lake, Syracuse and Nappanee areas. Call Minister 658-9151 or 658-9241 for information. ENROLLMENT BEING TAKEN NOW FOR THE 1965 86 SCHOOL YEAR . . . Milford Christian School lor PraKindargartan 3*4. Klndargortan. ,/S'J and Grodat 1-S. , CHRISTIAN CHURCH OF MILFORD BFourth And Henry Streets6sß-9151

Wed., May 8,1985 — THE MAIL-JOURNAL

Mothers are...

I remember my mother’s admonition: “If the shoe fits, wear it!” Who should decide whether “shoes” or jobs or images fit? That saying about “shoes fitting” was rather common. Teachers, neighbors, uncles, as well as moms, used that line. “There’s no fun in play until the work is done,” my neighbor lady said often as she saw me reading a book. And then she’d kind of sniff as she’d say. “If the show fits, wear it!” There were also sayings about what happened to people who were “Uppity,” or children who spent all heir pennies on one grand candy bar, or the inevitable trouble the wrong friends caused. These generalizations were always pointed right at something I had done, and “if the shoe fit,” I had better change my ways. I was normal — I resented being told by others that what I liked to do wasn’t okay, and I’d better change. It’s still hard to know what to do with the “oughts” of others. Should I take time to talk with a friend and be late for work? Should I spend an evening at home — resting — or go to the church business meeting? Should I take this job offer which will mean some traveling? Should I quit my job to be available to help care for my aging parents? I’m not interested in adding another set of “oughts” to any of our lives. Most of us live with plenty of them. I think it’s important that each individual decides whether the “shoe fits.” No one else really knows. In our times, I think both men and women experience uneasiness over what fits and what one should try. There are so many new opportunities and new expectations. Self-esteem seems to be the secret which helps anyone — male or female — copy with change and take advantage of opportunities. Self-esteem is feeling good about ourselves, feeling strong and able to find solutions, feeling that I am in the “right place.”l Recently, movies and TV shows have picked up on the theme of class reunions. Twenty years later, what has happened to Irmgard and Debbie and Nancy?

$ HARRIS | fcp ’if' J FUNERALS HOME :jch 144 Or 834-282 iM ir H Charlie Harris SR 13 & CR 1000 N, Syracuse It is no use to grumble and complain; It's just as cheap and easy to rejoice, When God sorts out the weather and sends rain — Why rain's my choice. // — James Whitcomb Riley

Charlie Harris

Who’s surprising her classmates with unexpected success or equally unexpected failures? Who’s happy and who’s miserable? I think of Julie from our class. When she was in high school, she dreamed of being a teacher — an educator. She imagined ways of teaching which would make learning fun, which would turn every child into a learner. She could be counted on to help any friend having problems. But Julie’s father was a lawyer, and he dreamed that Julie would join him in the practice of law. “We’ll have a father-daughter partnership,” he beam. By the time we graduated from high school and said goodbye to Julie, she was heading toward college and a pre-law degree. At our 20-year reunion, Julie showed up with a law degree -• and a big smile. She was back in school, working on a doctorate in education. I’ll bet that you know people like Julie too. If face, some of your friends probably followed the dreams of their parents, and later returned to their own dreams. The energizing point of reflecting on how life “fits” is the possibility for change. In my occupation, in my-,parenting, in lifestyle, in fun and hobbies, even in values and priorities, I can take a step in a new direction. Saying that “this” fits me and “that” doesn’t fit me is a first step which makes room for growth. Julie discovered,. like Jesus said, that we do not live by bread alone. -We need satisfaction in working and earning. We also need to nurture loving God and loving our neighbors. For a series of free leaflets on ‘•SelfEsteem." write to: Margaret Foth, Box 22, Harrisonburg. VA 22801. 1 Stephanie Mansfield. "No Kids. No Job: Women at Home, Just for Themselves,” The Washington Post, Tuesday, February 26. 1985, p C 9 Crime down Crime in the United States ’ declined by 4.6 percent overall in 1984, but some violent crimes, especially rape, continued to increase, a preliminary report released recently by the Department of Justice’s Bureau of Justice Statistics shows.

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