The Mail-Journal, Volume 21, Number 45, Milford, Kosciusko County, 21 November 1984 — Page 18

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THE MAIL-JOURNAL — Wed., November 21,1984

Humanly speaking

'Hey Stupid!' or why doesn't my child have any self-confidence?

By KENNETH ESKOW, PH.D. Your child’s’ self-concept is a very delicate and fragile aspect of his/her personality. It will help shape the rest of his/her life in terms of decisions to make, chances to take, interpersonal relationships, ambition and more. You are, as parents, who your child will look to in the of his/her selfcoricept. A big responsibility isn’t Too often we make success the condition to earn praise., Now, there is nothing wrong with success put what about the enjoyment received when doing something just for the sake of doing it? What about the child who fails? When a failure occurs we may consider it to be insignificant, but what does the child think? Is theft the feeling they've let you down? Does the child feel that you’ve lost confidence in

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him/her? This is quite likely, actually. When this happens the child often becomes afraid of failure. Very often children will avoid attempting something new because of this fear. These are some suggestions for avoiding this cycle: • Emphasize the fun obtained from participation. After a game, for example, the first question asked should be, “Did you have fun?” not “Did you win?” • Don’t put unfair expectations on your child. Realistically, what can you expect from your child’s ability? • Don’t be sarcastic. Encouragement and love work much better • Never imply that your love is dependent upon accomplishments. Your child shouldn’t have to earn your love. Show .this to your child in your actions, not just words.

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• Let your child express his/her discouragement. It’s imErtant to let those feelings out. len, point out skills he/she has; st accomplishments; and the fun involved. • Provide realistic challenges. Make some of them big and some small. When playing games together don’t “let” your child

Relatively speaking

By DORIS MCMANIS CAMDEN Guest Writer We are de-junking our home. We haven’t moved for 23 years and don’t plan to move, so we need to “dig out from under.” Most households have far too much stashed away. One day I was wondering what could happen to my “treasures.” I refer not to the real things that mean something to the family, but the old maps, broken souvenirs, out-of-date patterns and rotten nylon left from someone’s project. But mainly I was thinking of my genealogy materials and collections. To a non-genealogist, this could appear to be worthless junk. What a burden all of this could be to busy family members. My piling system must soon become a filing system — maybe not soon, but at least start work. I don't want someone else sorting my “treasures.” Large boxes in our basement now have labels on them. Some things will go to charities. Others will go to the historical society and its genealogy section. Husband, Bill, has gotten into it, and we are bidding farewell to old checks, driedup cans of paint and worn-out paint clothes. A short time each day or so is making a dent. I even found our ping-pong table! The hula skirt went to a daughter for Hallowe’en. Old sheets left over from years of tent camping, small remnants of materials and some old clothing are going to Alma Weimer, the 80-some-year-old lady who has made hundreds of guilts for our church to give to World Relief. Clean, worn-out nylons go to the DAR for their contribution to the Veterans Administration craft projects at Marion, Indiana. Square dance dresses, shoe boxes, black negatives must go. Now to get to the point of this Gifts for the gourmet cook If you have several gourmet . cooks on your holiday shopping list, there's no need to rack your brain for gift ideas. Nowadays, specialty shops and housewares departments of stores offer ail kinds of gadgets to delight culinary artists. Opening clams is a cinch with a steel clam opener that does the job easily for your favorite cook, comes apart for cleaning A cleaver set that includes boning and paring knives, cleaver and slicer will make the amateur chef feel like a real professional Your favorite cook can reap added compliments on his or her pasta, with a noodle maker for turning out homemade spaghetti or fettucim. Copper cookware with aluminum core offers the advantage of even heat distribution plus the beauty of gleaming copper to display.

win — that could make him/her feel that you don’t have any confidence in him/her at all. • Show your child that you are human and can fail also. • Set a good example. * An atmosphere of warmth and unconditioned love is a big element in establishing confidence. Together, you and your child can

story. Buried among YOUR things that need de-junking may be newspaper clippings, old Bibles with family records in them, snapshots and photographs, school pictures and yearbooks that would delight your family genealogist. Label the pictures, being careful not to make indentations from the back. Sort through everything, because little things have a tendency to get lodged between bigger things. Why not start today? You will feel better about it, and what you were always going to get done will at least be started. The first place we start in genealogy is looking in our own home, bn closet shelves, in boxes and in desk drawers. Please make a gift to someone who will truly appreciate it. To genealogists: Old refrigerators and freezers make good storage places for record books, pictures, charts and family Bibles. They are more or less fireproof, and they would at least shed water in case of a fireT Things that we collect are not replaceable. Just be sure The locks are removed before you put them into use so thata child cannot get trapped inside. 112. My mother was Ruth

NOTICE OF ADMINISTRATION No EB4 102 IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF KOSCIUSKOCOUNTY. INDIANA Notice is hereby given that Ernest C Yoder. Jr was on the 2nd day of November, 1984. appointed Administrator of the estate of Alma L Yoder, deceased All persons having claims against said estate, whether or not now due, must file the same in said court within five months from the date of the first publication of this notice or said claims will be forever barred Dated at Warsaw. Indiana, this 2nd day of November, 1984 N Jean Messmore Clerk of the Kosciusko Circuit Court KINOIG & SLOAT, Attorneys By Joseph W Kindig 105 West Lincoln St Nappanee. IN 46550 Phone (219) 773 7996 N .21 28 NOTICE OF ADMINISTRATION NO. EI4-101 IN THE CIRCUIT COURTOF KOSCIUSKOCOUNTY, INDIANA Notice is hereby given that Carol Grimm was on the 2nd day of November, 1984, ap pointed Executor of the will of Glenn B Disher, deceased All persons-having claims against said estate, whether or not now due, must file the same in said court within five months from the date of the first publication of this notice or said claims wil l be forever barred Dated at Warsaw, Indiana this 2nd day of November 1984 N Jean Messmore Clerk of the Kosciusko Circuit Court KINDIG & SLOAT, Attorneys By Brian L Hoffer 105 West Lincoln St • Nappanee IN 46550 Phone (219) 773 7996 N 21 28 NOTICE TO BIDDERS NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that the Board of School Trustees of Lakeland Com murtity School Corporation, of Kosciusko County, Indiana, will meet at the Ad ministrative Office ot Lakeland Community School Corporation at Syracuse. Indiana-, on Tuesday, December 11. 1984, at the hour of 700 P M (E ST ) and at said time and place will receive sealed bids on and let to the highest bidder or bidders therefor the following described warrants Temporary Loan Warrants In antfeipa tion of taxes levied and in course of col lection for the General Fund in the amount of $1,000,000 and the Transporta tion Fund in the amount of $150,000, dated as of the date of delivery thereof to the purchaser, said warrant or warrants to be in the denomination or denomina

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Beebe, died age 90, born ' Kosciusko Co., 1892. Her I brothers. Bob and Ralph, her i sister RUBY Irick. Cousin of I Fred Beebe of Pierceton. Home I farm on Pierceton Road, with red t barn across the road, near V& B I Country Club. Would like to con- > tact persons who can help me on Beebe, Mock, GARBER, Isen- • barger and Arnold lines in > Kosciusko County. Mrs. Martha Hafner Beck, 4428 Sheri Lane, Toledo, 0hi043614. i 113. Searching for obituary of Solomon Crooke, died 9 April, 1891. buried near Mentone near church, corner 800 West. I have i picture of tombstone. Son, i George, lived at Claypool. Solomon may have died in another county, but he lived in Kosciusko County over 30 years. I Wish to contact family. Marjorie Krintz, 605 Foster Street, MonI ticello, Indiana 47960. 114. Patrick Johnson, father of Elias, lived in Packerton until his death, Need information about his parents who came from Virginia. Patrick mentioned in i “History of Kosciusko County, 1879-1914,” Turkey Creek township. Page 42. K. W. Johnson, 7203 Westgate Boulevard, Austin, i Texas 78745.

LEGALS

tions requested by the purchaser, to mature on June 30, 1985, and to bear interest at a rate not exceeding 12% per annum (the exact rate to be determined by bidding), payable at the State Bank of Syracuse, in the Town of Syracuse. In diana. Bidders for these warrants will be re quired to name the rate of interest which the warrants.are to bear, not to exceed 12% per annum. Such interest rate must be in multiples of 1/Bth or 1/lOth of 1%. and not more than one interest rate shall be named by each bidder The warrants will be award ed to the highest responsible bidder or bid ders therefor who has submitted his bid In accordance herewith. The highest bidder will be the one who offers the lowest net in terest cost to the School Corporation to be determined by computing the total interest on all of the warrants to their maturity and deducting therefrom the premium bid. if any. The right is reserved to reject any and all bids Each bid shall be for all of the warrants or for a specified amount of said warrants as set forth in said bid and shall be accompanied by a certified or cashier's check in the amount of Five Per cent (5%) of the amount of the bid and payable to "Lakeland Community School Corporation" to guarantee the School Cor poration against default by such bidder in complying with the terms of this notice and his bid Said warrants are being issued under the provisions of IC 20 5 1 to evidence a tern porary loan tor the purpose of obtaining funds to be used to meet current expenses of the School Corporation included in the regular budget and appropriations adopted for the year 1985. which expenses must be met prior to the receipt of fixes in the year 1985, and there has, been appropriated and pledged a sufficient amount of current revenues of the School Corporation to be derived from the General Fund Tax Levy and the Transportation Fund Tax Levy made in the year 1984 and collectible in the year 1985 to pay the principal of and interest on said warrants at maturity. Typewritten and executed warrants and a transcript of the legal proceedings will be furnished to the successful bidder at the ex pense of the School Corporation No condi tional bids will be considered. The successful bidder or bidders shall accept delivery and make payment tor said warrants at such bank in the Town of Syracuse or City of In dianapolis as may be designated by'ffifc'sjzc cessful bidder for such warrantsXmmediatK ly upon being notified that the warrants are) ready for delivery / / Dated this 13th day of November. 1984 / Secretariat Board of Lakeland Community School Corp, of Kosciusko County. Indiana N. 21-28 Legal Notice Os Public Hearing The Alcoholic Beverage Board of Kosciusko County. Indiana, at 10:00 am., on

December 12, 1904. at the 2nd Floor Court House Commis in the City of Warsaw in said county, will investigate the propriety of holding an Alcoholic Beverage Permit by the following persons and locations listed herein, to wit: RC4300186 American Legion Post 223 1806 S Huntington Box 6 Syracuse. IN 465670000 Att Financial, Secy Syracuse, IN 465670000 D.B.A. American Legion Post 223 Liquor, Beer and Wine Club Permit Renewal, RR43044657 KU KO Inc 118 S Main St Milford, IN 465420000 Jimmie Kuhn. Pres Box 88 N. Webster, IN 465550000 Kerry Koontz, Secy Box 577 Leesburg, IN 465380000 D.B.A. Turf Bar Beer and Wine Retailer's Permit Renewal; RR4316657 Captain Charleys Windjammer Inc RR 3 ST Rd 13 Syracuse, IN 465670000 Mary C Stafford, Pres RR 3 Box 34 Syracuse, IN 465670000 C R Stafford. Secy RR 3 Box 34 Syracuse, IN 465670000 D.B.A. Windjammer Restaurant Liquor, Beer and Wine Retailer's Permit and Sunday Sales Renewal; RR4316714 Palace Os Sweets Inc 101 W Main St Syracuse. IN 465670000 P G Berghorn, Pres RR 3 Box 508 Syracuse. IN 465670000 Sheila Berghorn, Secy RR 3 Box 508 Syracuse, IN 465670000 D.B.A. Das Keller; Liquor. Beer and Wine Retailer's. Permit Renewal; RR4381409 Herschel V Wells St Rd 13 South Syracuse,, IN 465670000 D.B.A. Gropp's Famous Fish Os Stroh Beer Retailer's Per mit Renewal; RR9903744 Roger Van Curen & Karen Van Curen 231 First St Pierceton, IN 465620000 D.B.A. The Post Liquor. Beer and Wine Retailer's Permit Transfer Os Owner ship; RR9913924 Shaffner Restaurant Cor poration 321 S Buffalo PO Box 854 Warsaw, IN 465800000 Steven E Shaffner, Pres RR 8 Warsaw. IN 465800000 Bruce J Shaffner. Secy 260 Gillum Warsaw. IN 465800000 D B A. The Tumble Weed Liquor. Beer and Wine Retailer's Permit And Sunday Sales Transfer Os Ownership. Said investigation will be open to the public. Indiana Alcoholic Beverage Commission by William C. Coyle, Executive Secretary., Harry K Wick, Chair man BOND SALE NOTICE LAKELAND COMMUNITY SCHOOL CORPORATION Sealed proposals will be received by the Board of School Trustees of Lakeland Com munity School Corporation, at the usual meeting place of said Board in the Ad ministrative Office in the Lakeland Com munity School Corporation, at Syracuse. In diana, up to the hour of 1:00 PM. (Eastern Standard Time) on November 29, 1984, for the purchase of bonds of said Lakeland Com munity School Corporation described as follows: School Building Bonds of 1984, in the aggregate amount of $990,000; Original issue date of November 1, 1984. Fully registered; Denomina tion $5,000 or multiples thereof Bearing interest at a rate or rates not to exceed 10 'i% per annum (to

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be determined by bidding), which interest will be payable on July 1.1985, and semi-annually thereafter; Not redeemable prior to maturity; Prln cipal payable at the State Bank of Syracuse. In the Town of Syracuse, Indiana; Interest payable by check or draft mailed one business day prior to interest payment date to registered owners as of the fifteenth 1 day of the prior month; Maturing on January 1 in the years and amounts as fol lows: Years Amounts 1987 $ 60.000 1988 70.000 1989 80.000 1990 90,000 1991 . 100,000 1992 110.000 1993 120.000 1994 130,000 1995 140.000 1996 90,000 Bidders for said bonds will be required to name the rate or rates of interest which the bonds are to bear, not exceeding 10 1 ;% per annum. Such interest rate or rates must be in multiples of-% or of 1%. Blds specify ing two or more interest rates shall also specify the amount and maturities of the bonds bearing each rate, but all bonds maturing on the same date shall bear the same single interest rate The difference bet ween the highest and lowest interest rates named shall not exceed 2. A zero interest rate will not be permitted. The bonds will be awarded to the highest qualified bidder whose bid is submitted in accordance herewith. The highest bidder will be the one who offers the lowest net interest cost to the school corporation, to be determined by computing the total interest on all of the bonds to their maturities and deducting therefrom the premium bid, if any Any premium bid must be paid at closing as a part of the cash purchase price. Although not a term of sale, it is requested that each bid show the net dollar interest cost from the date of the bonds to final maturity and the net effective average interest rate No bid for less than the par value of said bonds will be considered, and the right is reserved to reject any and all bids If an acceptable bid is not received at the time fixed for sale, the sale will be continued for a period of not to exceed thirty days thereafter, but in the event of the continuation of such sale no bid ’will be accepted which is lower than the highest bid received at the time fixed for the sale of said bonds No conditional bids will be considered Bids shall be in sealed envelopes marked "Bid for School Building Bonds of 1984.'' and each bid shall be accompanied by a certified or cashier's check in the amount of $9,900. payable to Lakeland Community School Corporation." The check of the successful bidder will be retained until the bonds have been delivered and payment made therefor, and in the event such bidder shall fail or

refuse to comply with the terms of his bid and this notice, then such check and the proceeds thereof shall become the property of the school corporation and shall be taken and considered as its liquidated damages growing out of such failure. The checks of unsuccessful bidders will be returned immediately after the award of the bonds. The successful bidder shall accept delivery of the bonds and make, payment therefor in immediately available funds, within five days after being notified that the bonds are ready for delivery, at such bank in the City of Indianapolis, Indiana, as such bidder shall designate. It is anticipated that the bonds will be ready for delivery within thirty days after the date of sale, and if not deliverable within 45 days after sale, the successful bidder shall be entitled to rescind the sale and obtain the return of his good faith check. Said bonds are being issued for the purpose of procuring funds to be applied on the cost of remodeling of and improvements to the Syracuse Elementary and Junior High School Building, the North Webster Elementary and Junior High School Building, and the Wawasee High School Building in said school corporation, and will be the direct obligations of the school corporation, payable out of unlimited, ad valorem taxes to be collected on all of the taxable property within said school corporation Lakeland Community School Corporation is a school corporation organized pursuant to the provi sionsof I C 20 4 These bonds are offered subject to the un qualified approving opinion of Ice Miller Donadio & Ryan; bond counsel of Indianapolis. Indiana The school corporation will furnish at its expense the opinion, printed bond forms with the opinion printed thereon, transcript of proceedings, and clos ing papers in the usual form showing no litigation questioning the validity of the bonds at the time of delivery. Dated November 14, 1984 Marguerite B Hoerr Secretary. Board of School Trustees Lakeland Community School Corporation N. 14-21

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