The Mail-Journal, Volume 21, Number 39, Milford, Kosciusko County, 10 October 1984 — Page 18

THE MAIL-JOURNAL —Wed., October 19, 1984

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457-4495 NEW LISTING No. 1356 — Redecorated inside 4 out in the last 3 years — excellent family home on 2 lots in Woodland Acres. Many extras in’eluding contract terms. Priced at $72,900 FEATURING THIS WEEK No. 1346 — 3 or 4 bedroom Webster Lakefront home in excellent condition. Features include fireplace, saeened-in lakeside porch, garage 4 lots of off-street parkhg. $44,900 4 extra lot beside home may be purchased for $12,000 or both for $54,900. if. rJ N O . 1347 .j Another fine Webster Lakefront home — 3 bedrooms, vinyl siding, most furnishings, beautiful lakeview 4 more for $59,500. ■MBMA* -“t -JRw • A keKm?: ■> -w N 0.1339 — An affordable family home on two city lots in Syracuse. H Nicely remodeled home with lots of room 4 2 garages. $39,900, No. 1346 —Syracuse Lake channel home conveniently located in town. 3 bed-ooms. 2 baths, sunken living room. A very sharp looking home with on .assumable mortgage. Priced at $68,500. . , Bfl 10 I No. 1173 — Owners have reduced the price to $49,900 on this Tine Sawmill Lakefront home. This home is immaculate 4 is situated high on a hill with a nice viewof the lake. k£Ztv*w * [j -”Vnl J* "L jPj No. 1204 —.Oneof our most motivated sellers will sell this Barbee Chain home with ’6 lots on contract now! Priced at $29,900 but she wants an OFFER! ua 1311 - Another motivated seller offers a contract on this desirable family home in ar\ area of very fine homes. Features include formal living 1 dining rooms, family room 1 large lot on private lake. Oriy $59,900 1 owner wants ACTION!

From the Syracuse Police log —

Truck dumping waste at CR29

The following information was obtained from the log of the Syracuse Police Department: Octobers 7:57 a.m. — Subject for information on picking up clothes from apartment 8:41 a.m. — Subject requested information on public restrooms at park 9:05 a.m. — Subject advised truck rollover, property damage, at County Line Road 9:06 a.m. — Subject requested an officer at the police department for gun permit 11:31 a.m. — Subject requested to speak to an officer reference object found 1:36 p.m. — Subject advised of theft at a gas station 2:35 p.m. — Subject on station for information on stereo 7:38 p.m. — Three calls reference large fire on east side of lake 8:30 p.m. — Subject requested an officer to meet with him at his house, has information for them October 4 7:27 a.m. — Subject requested information on a business 11:19 a.m. — Subject requested information on voting 1:59 p.m. — Subject requested information on gun permit 2:51 p.m. — Subject with information on a certain person 10:31 p.m. — Subject from Milford requested an officer reference missing child Octobers 7:46 a.m. — Subject advised of an abandoned dog 8:23 a.m. — Subject on station reference to theft at a business 9:54 a.m. — Subject requested information on lawn mower 11:56 a.m. — Subject on station in reference to truck dumping waste at CR 29 7:55 p.m. — Subject advised of property damage behind Beer Realty October 6 8:27 a.m. — Subject advised of theft at Pickwick Place 6:02 p.m. — Subject requested an officer reference loud music outside 7:16 p.m. — Business requested an officer reference problem with customer

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9:22 p.m. — Subject requested officer check the area of North ngton reference suspicious •e !e October? 10:09 a.m. — Subject called reference keys in trunk 12:16 p.m. — Subject called reference stray dog on East Boston 1:34 p.m. — Subject called reference theft reported last Sunday 4:20 p.m. — Subject advised of property damage accident at SR 13 and Grandview Drive

Humanly speaking — Children of divorce

By BETSY STARKES. A.C.S.W. Clinical Social Worker Youth Services Since 1956, the number of children involved in divorce has more than tripled. It is estimated that nearly half of all children born today will spend some portion of their lives before the age of 18 in a single parent household. Most therapists, lawyers, and parents agree that ideally a child should be raised by two loving and compatible parents. They also agree that maintaining a combative marriage is in the best interests of neither parents nor children. Subsequent research has supported the idea that the emotional trauma children suffer in a longterm troubled family leads to more significant emotional problems than the short-term trauma children experience with divorce. There are nevertheless,

Break-in at supermarket

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Octobers 8:44 a.m. — Call reference copy of boating accident 11:56 a.m. — Trucker for location ofDunnico 1:48 p.m. — Subject advised found a male cat on North Shore Drive 3:37 p.m. — Subject reported vandalism to Wawasee High School trades building house in Stucky Addition 4:08 p.m. — Subject advised the “out of town” mailbox at the post office is full and mail coming out 6:45 p.m. — Business requested

special problems which affect the children. A common question separating parents have is, “How will this affect my child?” Children’s reactions to divorce (separation) will be heavily influenced by how the parents handle the separation. Other factors depend on a number of things. Age, quality of early life, amount7nt of predivorce stress, number and depth of relationships with others are all important to the child’s response to the actual parental separation. Children express inner pain and conflict in various ways. Preschool age children, roughly 2*£ to 6 years, are the most fearful of loss of parents. Preschoolers are very aware of their nurturance needs and are extremely fearful of separation from their parents. Divorce crisis is often expressed by the preschoolers through some form of aggression. Tantrums

pers organization: The burglary of a grocery store is our Crime of the Week. Sometime during the night of September 30,1984, unknown persons entered Lad’s Supermarket in Oswego by breaking out a glass in the front door. Once inside the premises, the intruders removed a quantity of money from the store, along with some meat. S 5 If you have information concerning this burglary, Crime Stoppers wants to hear from you. We will pay up to SI,OOO if your information leads to an arrest or indictment. Crime Stoppers also pays cash rewards on other felony crimes and the capture of fugitives. Call us toll free at 1-800-342-STOP. We only want your information, not your name.

a unit reference the theft of water softnersalt October* 2:21 a.m. — Party advised cow inroadway west of Crazy Corners 7:21 a.m. — Subject on station reference pieces of metal laying in roadway on North Huntington 9:14 a.m. — Where to register to vote? 11:35 a.m. — Subject reference chemical brought on station 3:59 p.m. — Subject advised of a broken windshield on vehicle 6:44 p.m. — Subject requested to speak to an officer in reference attempted break-in

about going to nursery school or being left with the babysitter are, during the divorce crisis, frequently related to a fear of abandonment. It helps to be tolerant of these fears. Once in a while parents can respond to the child’s fearfulness by allowing vacation from nursery school or by coming home early when the child is with a babysitter. Either being constantly exasperated with the preschooler’s fears or never being apart from him/her only increases the child’s fearfulness. Elementary school age children, from about 6 to 12, are at the height of magical thinking. They believe their thoughts and wishes are the causes of most events. Denial might be expressed by the child “forgetting” about the divorce, or by the child acting as if nothing is or will be changing. Another form of denial, is the “brave little soldier” front in which the child acknowledges the divorce but acts more grown-up and supportive than they really feel. The problem with children’s use of denial is that they do not grieve for their losses, though grieving is an appropriate and healing thing to do when children or adults suffer a loss. The most helpful thing a parent can do with elementary school aged children is a lot of realistic talking about the divorce, along with other forms of reassurance. Parents should assume that the elementary school age child has both many questions and distorted views about the divorce. Regardless of whether the child verbalises guilt about the divorce, the parent should talk with the child about how marital problems did not happen because of anything the child has said or done. Whether or not the child talks or demonstrates feelings of loss, the parents should discuss with them how parents can divorce spouses but not children. Parents cneed to allow teenagers some emotional space, but still be available to them at those times when the teenager needs adult parental help or support. Often divorcing adults are prone, because they are forming their own new identities, to forget the pains of adolescent identity struggles. Os all the developmental phases humans go through, the adolescent period tends to be the most stormy and traumatic in spite of the facade of it being a time of fun-filled freedom. Other behaviors that usually indicate a problem in children are withdrawal and silence, loss of interest in friends, delinquency, bedwitting, refusal toygo to school, loss of appetite, trouble in sleeping, and nightmares. If children exhibit these symptoms consistently parents should seek professional guidance on how to help them resume normal emotional development. If you would like further information, call The Bowen Center For Human Services, at 267-7169 or toll free 1-800-342-5653. A test run GRAND FORKS, N.D. - A V.S. B-52 bomber carrying four unarmed cruise missiles flew a 13-hour test run oyer Canada recently and returned to its base, despite legal efforts to halt the test.

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