The Mail-Journal, Volume 21, Number 34, Milford, Kosciusko County, 5 September 1984 — Page 3

Hospital notes

KCH MONDAY. AUG. 27 Admissions Mary Sielesnew, Syracuse Darlene Burns, Leesburg Ben F. Baker Jr., Leesburg > Kane Souphanh, Milford Florence Lecount, North Webster Dismissals Ginger Price, Milford TUESDAY. AUG, 28 Admissions Elbert Stephens, Leesburg Tammy Clark, Leesburg Dismissals Juli Miller, North Webster WEDNESDAY. AUG. 29 Admissions Laurinda Davis, Leesburg Dismissals Mrs. James (Juli) Miller and infant daughter. North Webster Mrs. Alex (Mary) Sielesnew and infant daughter, Syracuse Mrs. Jeffrey (Darlene) Burns and infant daughter, Leesburg THURSDAY, AUG. 30 Dismissals Ben F. Baker Jr., Leesburg Kane Souphanh, Milford Goshen TUESDAY, AUG. 28 Admissions Teresa L. Enyart, r 4 box 83, Syracuse Elizabeth B. Maggart, 519 N. Huntington. Syracuse Arthur Sawyer, 718 Baltimore St., Syracuse Lisa K. Teeple, P.O. Box 135, Leesburg Dismissals Carrie A. Moilette, r 1 box 45, Milford Amber E. Esenwein. r 1 box 592-25, Leesburg Mrs Byron K. Oswald and infant son. Brandon Lee, r 3 box 432, Syracuse

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WEDNESDAY. AUG. 29 Admissions Mosciline Deaton, r 2 box 547, Syracuse David Dowty, r 4 box 1351£; Syracuse George Moffett, 72833 CR 29, Syracuse Myrtle Mullins, r 5 box 370, Syracuse Dismissals Lisa K. Teeple, P.O. Box 135, Leesburg Edna M. James, P.O. Box 62, North Webster > THURSDAY, AUG. 30 Admissions Carolyn Bohnstedt, P.O. Box 327, Milford Dismissals Ida L Bender, 72883 CR 19 r 1, Milford Mrs. John Mason and infant son, lan Arthur Roy, 200 N. Harrison St., Syracuse Cindi A. Moore, r 2 box 413, Syracuse Fredrick D. Plummer. P.O. Box 232, Syracuse FRIDAY. AUG. 31 Admissions Harry R. Juday, r 3 box 598, Syracuse Dismissals Arthur Sawyer, 718 Baltimore St.. Syracuse SATURDAY, SEPT. 1 Dismissals Oleta Miller. P.O. Box 352, Milford Mrs. Keith Enyeart and infant son, Nathaniel 1., r 4 box 83. Syracuse i SUNDAY, SEPT. 2 Admissions Daryl L. Gans. 112 North Mill St.. Syracuse < Andrew K. Endicott, r 5 box 240, Syracuse Dismissals Lynn A Kerber, r 1 Echo Springs, Leesburg David S. Dowty, r 4 box 135 K, Syracuse

MONDAY, SEPT. 3 Admissions Sharon J. Joyce, r 5 box 355, Syracuse Rebecca L. Hepler, r 5 box 479 D, Syracuse Jean Yoder, r 4 box 64-8, Syracuse Elizabeth A Yoder, 14104 CR 48, Syracuse ’ Dismissals Minnie D. Shock, r 3 box 359, Syracuse Elizabeth A. Yoder, 14104 CR 48, Syracuse Births SIELESNEW, Amber Lane Mr. and Mrs. Alex Hilary) Sielesnew, r 4 box 89, Syracuse, are the parents of a daughter. Amber Lane, born Monday. Aug. 27, at 7:52 a.m., in the Kosciusko Hospital. She weighed six pounds, eight ounces and measured 18 inches long. Maternal grandparents are Alice Metzger, Warsaw, and Harry Cordell, Connecticut and paternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Semen Sielesnew, Syracuse. Maternal greatgrandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Harry Cordell. Ohio. Maternal great-great-grandmother is Viola Cordell, Ohio. BURNS daughter Mr. and Mrs. Jeffrey (Darlene) Burns, Leesburg, are the parents of a daughter, bom Monday, Aug. 27, in the Kosciusko Hospital. ENYEART, Nathaniel Issac Mr. and Mrs. Keith (Teresa) Enyeart Jr., r 4 box 83, Syracuse, are the parents of a son, Nathaniel Issac, born Wednesday, Aug. 29, at 12:57 am., in Goshen Hospital. Maternal grandparents are Harold and Dorothy Kern, Valparaiso and paternal grandparents are Keith and Mary Enyeart. North Webster Paternal great-grandmothers are Virginia Snyder and Eleanor

Enyeart, both of North Webster. Paternal great-great-grandmother is Bertha Enyeart, Liberty Mills. DAVIS daughter Mr. and Mrs. Gary (Laurinda) Davis, r 1, Leesburg, are the parents of a daughter, bom Wednesday, Aug. 29, in the Kosciusko Hospital. HOWARD Katherine Elizabeth and Kimberly Melissa Mr. and Mrs. Allan (Jennifer Simpson) Howard, r 1 Kuhn Lake Apts., Leesburg, are the parents of twin daughters, Katherine Elizabeth and Kimberly Melissa, born Friday, Aug. 24, at 9:50 a.m. in Parkview Memorial Hospital, Fort Wayne. Katherine weighed four pounds, two ounces and measured 18*6 inches long. Kimberly weighed four pounds, 15 ounces and measured 18 3/4 inches long. Maternal grandparents are John and Civilla Simpson, Leesburg and paternal grandparents are Norfrian and Lou Belle Howard, Calhoun, Ky. The twins have two sisters at home, Teresa and Amy. HOUGEY, Debra Ann Mr. and Mrs. Douglas (Kathy) Hougey, r 2 box 36, North Webster, are the parents of a daughter, Debra Ann, bom Sunday, Sept. 2, at 4:05 p.m., in the Goshen Hospital. She weighed seven pounds, 13 ounces and measured 21 inches long. Maternal grandparent in Sandra Adams, Syracuse and paternal grandparents are John and Joyce Ditmore, North Webster. Paternal great-grandparent is Edith Drew, North Webster. RtSH daughter Mr. and Mrs. Leland (Karen) Rush, r 3 box 284, Syracuse, are the parents of a daughter, bom Monday, Sept. 3, in the Goshen Hospital. DAVIS daughter Mr. and Mrs. Gary Davis, r 1 Leesburg, are the parents of a daughter born Wednesday, Aug. 29, in Kosciusko Community Hospital. Cards of Thanks CARD OF THANKS Thanks to the Syracuse EMS, Dr. Magyar, Goshen Hospital attendants and beautiful floral arrangements, kindness by neighbors and friends and everyone who helped. Also nurses at the Wabash Home of Services. The Blanch Ludlow Family

Thank you sincerely for all of the kind expressions of sympathy during the death of our mother Hazel Dausman The Wonderful Hospice Team, flowers, cards, memorials, prayers, the fodd from friends and Calvary United Methodist Church ladies, Rev. Maish, and Dr. Meyers. Walter And Opal Miller Bernice Klink Robert And Janet Dausman

Syracuse EMS Ray Skelton, 18, 424 Parkway Dr.. Syracuse, was transported to Goshen Hospital Wednesday, Aug. 29, after suffering an injury while playing football. The Syracuse Emergency Medical Service was called to the high school at 8:41 p.m.

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Abel Garza, 18, 800 S. Calvin, Ligonier, was transported to Goshen Hospital with injuries he suffered during a one-vehicle mishap at 6:35 a.m. Thursday, Aug. 30, on US 6 one mile east of SR 13. Syracuse EMS transported him. Dave Hughes, 32, r 3 box 265 Syracuse, was taken to Goshen Hospital by Syracuse EMS after falling in the parking lot in Cocinero’s Friday morning, Aug. 31. The EMS was called at 3:51 a.m. Kay Pinney, 48, 37 Country Florist Dr., Fort Wayne, was brought to the fire station at 7:34

Obituaries

Carl Seitz Dewart Lake Resident Carl T. Seitz, 31, r 5 Dewart Lake, Syracuse, died at approximately 10:30 p.m. Monday, Aug. 27. His death was the result of a “diabetic keto-acidosis”, according to Kosciusko County Coroner Gary Eastlund. Seitz, a member of the Faith Assembly, stopped taking insulin injections six days prior to his death. Seitz, do to his religious beleifs, had stopped taking the medication. The Faith Assembly shuns all forms of medical treatment and relies exclusively on faith for healing. His survivors include his wife, Patricia, three children; his parents, Mr. and Mrs. Carl Seitz of Ottawa, Ohio; and brothers and sisters. Kathryn Knudsen Former Hotel Owner Mrs. Kathryn Knudsen, 76, North Webster, died in Kosciusko Community Hospital at 1 p.m. Wednesday, Aug. 29. Bom Aug. 10,1908, in Madison, Wis., she married Harold Knudsen. He died in 1974. Mrs. Knudsen and her late husband owned and operated the Yellow Banks Hotel on Webster Lake for 25 years, having moved into the area from Chicago, 111., in 1951. , . Surviving are: a daughter, Lemmon, North Webster; 'two grandchildren; a sister, Mrs. Violet Munchow, Madison, Wis.; and brother, William Lalor, Janesville, Wis. Services were held Aug. 31, in the Harris Funeral Home, Syracuse. Burial was in the North Webster Cemetery. Alonzo Haney Truck Driver Alonza L. (“Joe”) Haney, 66, of 352 West Van Buren St., Nappanee, died in St. Vincent’s Hospital, Indianapolis, at 4:30 a m. Wednesday, Aug. 29. The son of Welcome and Ruth (Tusing) Haney, he was bom Sept. 24, 1917, and had been a lifetime resident of the Nappanee area. He married Phyllis Hare in Louisville, Ky., June 22,1941. She survives. A truck driver for Coppes, Inc., Nappanee, he had retired in 1957. He was a veteran of World War 11, and held memberships in the American Legion Post No. 154, Nappanee, Goshen Elks Lodge No. 798, Nappanee Conservation Club, Whiskerville Truckers CB Club, Tri-County Auto Club, Pioneer Auto Club of South Bend, Masonic Lodge No. 566, Nappanee, Scottish Rite of South Bend, Mizpah Temple and Mizpah Samsar Club, both of Fort Wayne. Surviving are: one daughter, Mrs. Bruce (Connie) Neely, Elkhart; two stepsons, Norman Thompson, Chapman Lake, and Terry Thompson, Syracuse; two brothers, Charles Haney, Leesburg, and Eldon Haney, Ann Arbor, Mich.; three grandchildren; six stepgrandchildren;

p.m. Saturday, Sept. 1, after she became ill. The EMS transported her to Goshen Hospital. Larrin Ganz, 21, 112 Mill St., Syracuse, was transported to Goshen Hospital after suffering injuries in a motorcycle accident on Sunday morning, Sept. 2, at 3:34 a.m. The ambulance was dispatched to Pickwick Road by Wawasee Boat Company. David Bratton, 58, 411 Hawthorne, Carmi, 111., passed out while attending church at Grace Lutheran Church, Syracuse, and the EMS was called at 10:19 a m. Sunday. He was advised to see his doctor if be has

and one stepgreat-grandchild. Services were held Friday, Aug. 31, in the Thompson & Yoder Funeral Home, Nappanee, with interment in the Violett Cemetery. Memorials may be directed to the Plymouth United Church of Christ. Dorothy Sopher Restaurant Cook Mrs. Robert (Dorothy V.) Sopher, 68, r 1 North Webster, died in Kosciusko Community Hospital at 8:15 p.m. Friday, Aug. 31. P Born Oct. 18, 1915, in Kokomo, she was married to Robert Sopher on Nov. 18, 1933. He survives. She was employed as a restaurant cook in Wabash and North Webster. She had belonged to the Syracuse American Legion and the VFW Auxiliaries. Additional survivors include: two daughters, Mrs. Elender McGinnis, Syracuse, and Mrs. Betty Croy, North Webster; nine grandchildren; nine greatgrandchildren; six sisters, Mrs. Alice Tullis, Akron, Mrs. Milfred Brown, Louisiana, Mrs. Bondeline Traver, Mentone, Mrs. Ethel Bishop, LaGrange, Mrs.

Humanly speaking — v . ’ • Childhood fears, part of growing up

By DAVID L. ROGERS Coordinator of Consultation Education — Bowen Center Children can be frightened of a number of different things — dark stairways, cats or dogs, snakes, ghosts, loud noises, strangers, death. Most fears are a normal part of growing up — anxiety about the unknown and fear of his/her own vulnerability or of being alone, separated from the security of mother or father is not unusual. A child feels safe testing his/her excitement, trying new things when knowing parents are there to protect him/her. The child may feel O.K. being held by a sti anger as long as parents are close by, but feels fearful if parents are not in sight. Part of the problem is not trusting self to know how to respond to the unfamiliar person. Fears that persist or continue deep and strong may come from worry, anger or heavy insecurity. Persistent fear of dying, of strangers, of playing rough games, of illness, or of being left alone should be studied seriously. Nervous mannerisms like nail biting may result. Later deep fears may cause shyness, withdrawal or sudden aggressive acts. What Causes Fear Fear is caused by experiences one can’t understand and which appear to threaten. Unfamiliar circumstances, illness involving pain, accidents or a loss of some kind cause Overanxious or protective parents give models that encourage fearful attitudes. Focusing on dangers and threats communicates the parents’ lack of confidence in the child’s ability to cope and encourages feelings of inadequacy The failure of an indifferent parent or teacher to provide significant guidance for a child's development hurt his/her confidence in self. The child may be told he/she is too young to paint a chair or to bake biscuits or to pick out clothes to wear. Withdrawal may result. To avoid making a mistake the child may do as little as possible - sitting alone or staring at T.V. Sometimes fear may be demonstrated in the opposite way by hitting other children, by Good news Almost a million college graduates are now entering the job market, and for many of them the future is probably not what they once thought it would be, but it won’t necessarily be bad. On the spot It isn’t what you know that founts, it’s what you think of in time. Constitution, Atlanta

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any more problems. Leleah Dettwiler, 71, r 3 box 583 Syracuse, was transported to Goshen Hospital on Sunday after she fell. The ambulance was called at 10:29 a.m. Milford EMS was called to transport Jean Banta, 56, 3210 Condit, Highland, to the hospital after she came to the Syracuse Fire station at 10:50 a.m. Sunday. Rick Svodoba, 30,254 E. South, Frankford, refused treatment Sunday after he was involved in a parasail mishap and went into some trees. The EMS was called at 1:12 p.m. Andrew Endicott, five months

Mary Penn, North Webster, and Mrs. Deloris Lawson, Wabash; and four brothers, William Murphy, Clinton, James and Lee Murphy, Akron, and John Murphy, Laketon. Services were held Monday, Sept. 3, in the Harris Funeral Home at Syracuse with burial in the North'Webster Cemetery. Lindsey Long Infant Infant Lindsey Leigh Long daughter of Barry and Sandra (Laßue) Long, was stillborn in Kosciusko Community Hospital at 7:45 a m. Sunday, Sept. 2. Additional survivors are: one sister, Jennifer, at home; maternal grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Laßue, Warsaw; paternal grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Robert Long, Leesburg; greatgrandmothers, Mrs. Mabel 4 Krause, Leesburg, Mrs. Mapels Laßue, Ashland, Ohio, and Mrs. Leola Long, Leesburg. Private family services were held in the Leesburg Cemetery. George Snyder Kosciusko County Native George (“Bing”) Snyder, 62, r

breaking things or by being cruel to animals. A powerful cause of fear and anxiety is family tension. Some family conflict is expected, but if bickering and arguing occur often even a young child senses trouble and is frightened by what’s happening between people who mean the most to him/her. A new fear for children and youth is nuclear war. “Psychology Today” (April 1984) reports on a study by child psychiatrists John Mack and William Beardslee in which they reported children as young as 5 or 6 believe that nuclear war is like-

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old, r 5 box 240 Syracuse, was transported to Goshen Hospital on Sunday after he became ill. The EMS was called at 5:16 p.m. Becky Hepler, 50, r 5 box 479 D Syracuse, was taken to Goshen Hospital after she fell in Hepler’s Bakery on Monday, Sept. 3. The ambulance was called at 11:52 a.m. Velma Parker, 71, Ogden Island, Lake Wawasee, was taken to Goshen Hospital Tuesday morning, Sept. 4, after becoming ill. The EMS was called at 6:43 a.m. to Mason Venue Isle.

2 Crystal Lake Road, Warsaw, died at his residence unexpectedly Sunday morning, Sept. 2. Born Oct. 23,1921, in Kosciusko County, he was the son of Vern ' and Cora Ellen (George) Snyder and had been a lifetime resident of the country. He married Dorothy Creighton Aug. 10, 1947. She survives. A member of the Otterbein United Methodist Church, at one time he had been the owner and operator of Snyder and Snyder Oil Co. In later years he had worked as a real estate salesman. * He was a veteran of World War 11, having served in the US Army. He held a membership in the Warsaw American Legion. Additional survivors include: two daughters, Mrs. Alan (Linda), Grimm, Warsaw, and Mrs. Jeff (Christine) Farrell, Leesburg; one son, Randall Snyder, Warsaw; six grandchildren; one sister, Mrs. Enid Anglin, Warsaw; two brothers, Don Snyder, Port Charlotte, Fla. and Arthur Snyder, Graham, N.C. Services were held today (Wednesday) in the Otterbein United Methodist Church, Atwood, with interment in the Stony Point Cemetery.

ly and fifth graders spoke of nightmares about everyone except them being blown up c by bombs leaving them alone and helpless. What else can help a chijd to develop self-confidence and Overcome fears? Give the child a structure and genuine support that he/she can - count on. A child qeeds to try new things, to learn about many things, and to learn by doing. Let the child know his/her parent is trustworthy and is trusting. Help the child to know he/she can succeed and that the parent or teacher will follow through with him/her.

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