The Mail-Journal, Volume 19, Number 52, Milford, Kosciusko County, 12 January 1983 — Page 7

Community Corner

Problem solving for children

By PATRICIA BL RATHBUN ErtfIBbBAfBLBBBrEf , Ttedbuag your children how to solve problems is something that you can start at an early age. With young children it might be something very basic, like tow to get their favorite toy out from unteznesth the couch. The important thing is to have them talk about what they see as the problem, and what the possible solutions are. Encourage children to think of different solutions, with no one way being “right.” That way they learn to be flexible, and when more complicated problems come along, they will be able to discover alternatives. Give children things to do that have built-in problems. All kinds

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Moryellen Opie becomes bride of Timothy C. Morgontholer

Maryellen J. Opie, 207 N. Huntington St., Syracuse, became the bride of Timothy C. Mnrganthaler 207 N. Huntington St., Syracuse, at 6 p.m. Saturday, Jan. 1, in the home of his parents, Mr. and Mrs. Joseph C. Morganthaler, Koko Dr., Syracuse. Rev. Harlan Steffen, pastor of Wawasee Lakeside Chapel, officiated at the double-ring ceremony in the presence of 50 guests. The home was decorated with a large candelabra adorned with fern and blue silk ribbons forming an altar. Candles were placed around the home for a candlelight effect. The theme from “Romeo and Juliet” was played at the ceremony. The bride, given in marriage by John Norman, wore a dress of ivory silesta chiffon with an empire bodice featured with schiffle embroidery and silk Venise lace appliques. A pleated skirt swept into a chapel-length

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of puzzles are problem-solving games. Biddles, jokes, mysteries, brain teasers and magic tricks all make children stop and think. Make problem solving fun. Children enjoy game* that challenge them to think of new possiouiues. Older children may want to solutions they can find tea puzzle or problem. For instance: tew many different ways can you use a shoe box? How could you get to a friend’s house if your car didn’t work? How many ways can you teip someone new at school? Help your kids learn that there is 11 more than one way to solve a problem — to be open to different alternatives Another way you can teach your children is to show them

train. A floral wreath of blue silk flowers and satin ribbons formed a headpiece and she carried a lantern adorned with silk flowers and satin streamers. Mrs. Jacob Kern 111, Syracuse, was the maid of honor and wore a blue glo-knit pleated empire styled gown that was complimented with a sheer chiffon capelet. Her flowers were similar to the bride’s. Patrick T. Morganthaler, Koko Dr., Syracuse, was the best man. The bridegroom’s mother wore a burgundy gown with a sheer chiffon capelet and wore a wristlet of roses and carnations. A reception was held following the ceremony in the Joseph Morganthaler home. The couple will reside at 207 N. Huntington St., Syracuse. The bride, from Houston, Texas, worked in public relations for McDonald's in Houston. Her husband is a 1977 graduate of Wawasee High School and is an automobile mechanic at Don’s Mechanics Unlimited, Syracuse.

tew you solve your grutormw Learning that adults have reasons for what they do teips cnuaren to tmmrrannn nniy ► Ito your thanking atari while you’ re fixing something, ff your youngster is ireunrf while you’re fixing that leaky fa ucet, take the time to explain taw you decide what to try. And when the human thing happens and you make a mistake, stew your children what good problem solvers do: they try a different way or seek more information about the probtan; they dm’t give up until ttey have fried many solutions; and they ask for teip when ttey need it It’s important for children to see that efforts that don’t work aren’t necessarily Home Study A home study course entitled, “The Preschooler and Food” wffl six lessons mailed at two week intervals. AH lessons deal with food habits of the preschooler and recipe ideas are also inchided. A small charge will cover postage and handling For more information, contact the Extension Office, 267-4444, ext. 219. Round Table Ladies elect new officers An election of officers was held at the January business meeting of the Ladies of the Round Table on January 10 at the home of Virginia Ditmer. Virginia Ditmer, chairman of the nominating committee, gave the committee’s report and elections were held. Officers were elected by unanimous vote, and are as follows: President — Jo Ann Robinson Vice President — Phyllis Cockram Secretary — Karel Hollingsworth Treasurer — Pear le Hazenfield After deovtions led by the out going president, Naomi McFarland, refreshments of- fruit cup and angel food cake were served. The refreshment committee was composed of the hostess, Mary Jane Bowton, Mabel Arnold and Edith Brice. The next meeting will be held February 14 at the home of Jo Aim Robinson. Louis Firestone returns to the nutrition site Louis Firestone will return to the nutrition site at the Syracuse Scout Cabin next Wednesday, Jan. 19, at 11a.m. Firestone will sing, play harmonica and guitar. Any senior citizen who wishes to attend should call January 18 Beck elected vice president Wilfred C. Beck has been elected vice president-claims for the U.S. Insurance Group, a Crum and Forster organization. Located in Morristown, N.J., he reports to Roger I, Hinman, senior vice president-claims. Born in Syracuse, Beck is a graduate of Indiana University, earned an MBA from Butler University in Indianapolis and attended Indiana University School of Law. He and his wife, Mary Jo, live in Bedminster, N.J. Ttey have two sons. Prior to his promotion Beck was claims manager at USIG Dallas branch office. He began his career with USIG in 1968 as claims manager Indianapolis branch and has held similar positions in other USIG regions Beck is a past president of the Indianapolis Claim Manager’s Council, the Indianapolis Surety Association and the Indiana Fire Adjusters

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CELEBRATE GRAND OPENING — Ttaratarg’s Super Drugs iu Nappa nee is celebrating the grata spewing ass the uewly rewirird stare in the Tuan and Conutry Special prices wUI be in effect untH Sunday, Jan. 16, an selected merchandise in all departments in Finding the expanded Rvdta Stark section.

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Bake coffee cake in a frying pan

The coffee cake is made from a* ordinary yellow cake mix with a special topping made from the recipe briow. Baking the coffee cake ma frypan mu about 60% leas energy than baking it man own - - - and it’s simple to do! Make the coffee cake from this easy recipe: Prepare yellow packaged cake mix, according to instructions, adding 1 tablespoon grated orange rind. Preheat well-oiled frypan to 280° and bake for 35 minutes, with cover vent open for last 5 minutes. 1/2 cup brown sugar, » 1/2 cup coarsely chopped packed nuts 4 tablespoons fine graham 2 tablespoons cracker crumbs melted butter 1 tablespoon grated or margarine orange rind 11/2 trarpnoue cinnamon Combine topping ingredient! in smal Mixmaster mixer bowl Beat on tow speed untfi blended. Nuts may be sprinkled on top. When baked, uncover, quickly sprinkle topping evenly over cake. Cover, turn dial to “off.” Let stand 10 minutes longer before cutting. This sets the topping. Uncover, cut into squares and serve right from frypan Cutting and revving with nonmetal utensdb is recommended. Makes about 16 servings

Thornburg personnel Tom Thornburg, stere manager: John Krob. vice president. Gary Kaufman, pharmacist: and Ralph Thornburg, president: want to personally extend an invitation to the community to visit their store for the special grand opening prices and the every day specials. (Photo by Gail Widmoyer)

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HOROSCOPE

CAPRICORN — Dec. 22 to to Jan. 19—Direct your attention to matters at home. Pleasant surprises could be in store. Use your imagination for creative activities. AQUARIUS - Jan. 20 to Feb. IS—Someone who has been slow in accepting you now does an ‘about face’. Your pleasant attitude wins friends for you. PISCES - Feb. 19 to March 20—Your winning streak continues. Be patient wtm ramny itncnivv i dc. certain your demands are not too great. ARIES - March 21 to April 20-Do your own thing, using as much originality in projects as possible. Curb feelings of jealousy. 4 TAURUS - April 21 to May 20-Avoid: persons who see only the pessimistic side of life. Develop a winning personality if you want to climb the ladder of success. GEMINI- May 21 to June 20-ls you warn: to make the world a better place you can begin tn your own corner. Help is needed nearby. CANCER - June 21 to July 22—Resolve to do a good deed each day even if it is only giving someone a sincere compliment. The action takes little effort on your part. LEO - July 23 to Aug. 22-Yon may be called upon to help someone dcse to you make a mayor decision. Your advice wffl be valuable. VIRGO-Aug. 23 to Sept. 22—Avoid unethical associates. You cm be happy uriy if you obey the moral

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axle. Do what you know is right. LIBRA - Sept. 23 to Oct. 22—If you are wrong, admit it! You are trying too hard to be perfect. Accept the fact that you are not infallible. SCORPIO - Oct. 23 to Nov. 22--Happiness is right in your present surroundings- Be realistic! The grass is not greener somewhere else. SAGITTARIUS- Nov. 23 to Dec. 21—Take a few minutes in your busy day to relax and meditate. Adopt a

| LOUISA’S LETTER

Dear Louisa. When we were first married we fell in with a group we considered very smart. We did all sorts of things that we were taught not to do as children. We thought our parents were old fashioned and didn’t know what was happening in the world. To make a long story short, we came to our senses m our forties and stopped drinking and going to wild parties. But it may be too lute. Our chickens seem to have come home to roost. Our two teenagers are completely out of hand ami they are ranting their fives and reputations by the way they are firing aad when we talk to them they remind ns of how we acted when they were saeaß.

sensible health program and stick with it. Free kindling Milk cartons make wonderful kindling for firfe. The same goes for candle stubs. Stink away! If you have a horrible odor in your refrigerator and tried everything to no avail, fry placing a coffee can full of charcoal on the refrigerator shelf and leaving it there for a few days. Repeat until the odor is gone.

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What can we do? Help-Pa. Answer. The best way in which to rear good citizens is by example. Os course there are some children who overcome neglect and parental guidance by hating what fiiey see and overcoming such a home life. The only advice I can give yon, is to continue trying to impress your children of the regret and disgust you have for your mistakes. Keep on living as you should and it may make some difference before too long. Louisa. Adtousm Louisa, Baa 532, Onwriwi, S. C. 29115

Adtoosm Louisa, Boa 532, *r «g ’ ~1 s. C. 29115

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