The Mail-Journal, Volume 15, Number 1, Milford, Kosciusko County, 25 January 1978 — Page 12

THE MAIL-JOURNAL — Wed., January 25,1978

Pastor-counselors using TA techniques "The pastor has always been a counselor," said Rev. Phillip Frew, pastor of Saint Andrew's United Methodist Church, Syracuse. Rev. Frew said it is no surprise the pastor is the first person people turn to, believing he can help, or refer them to someone who can. The Syracuse pastor serves as the Area Director of Pastoral Care and Counsel for the Indiana United Methodist Church. In this capacity he counsels pastors and their families and trains pastors •In counseling. Transactional analysis is one technique used in counseling, the pastor said. "I think the big surprise with TA (transactional analysis) is that it's one type of counseling that's very Christian and very acceptable to churches," he added. Transactional analysis is a breakthrough in psychiatry explained in "I'm Okay, You're Okay," by Thomas A. Harris, M. D. "It has given a new answer to people who want to change rather than to adjust, to people who want transformation rather than conformation. It is realistic in that it confronts the patient with the fact that he is responsible for what happens in the future no matter what has happened in the past. Moreover, it is enabling persons to change, to establish self-control and self-direction and to discover the realtiy of a freedom of choice," Dr. Harris says. "The nice thing about TA is that it makes you your own psychiatrist," Rev. Frew said. He said it teaches people to claim their birthright as worthy persons, because, "God doesn't make junk." TA also helps people handle problems. TA explains a person's personality as P-A-C, or parent, adult and child states. Each state is within a person, emerges to dominate the behavior for periods of time, and is used to explain the behavior states of an individual. The parent is everything recorded by the individual of what his parents do and say. The child is a record of internal events, the feelings and thoughts of an individual. And the adult is data resulting from the individual attempting to find what is different about life from what his parent and child have accumulated. The analysis of the states and a person's behavior are used in counseling along with the P-A-C being used to analyze situations and communication between individuals. Transactional analysis was accepted into the

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pastoral community in 1967, Frew said. He is a member of the Indiana Transactional Analysis Association and the International TA Association. He has earned credentials in TA through courses and events of the association and has trained in Indianapolis. Rev. Frew is presently enrolled in Saint Francis College, Fort Wayne, continuing his education. Periodic courses in TA are offered at Saint Andrew's United Methodist Church. The need for counseling continues to rise, the pastor said, as reflected in the increasing divorce rate, crime rate, abortions and unemployment. No family is spared from encountering some of these problems or their fall out, he added. Counseling is for individuals and families. "And counseling is for all ages of people," Pastor Frew said. Some of the types are premarital, marital, divorce, personal and life crisis. Along with the types of counseling there are differing degrees of emotional problems. Not all pastors are trained in counseling, Rev. Frew said, yet others are equipped to deal with severe problems not requiring hospitalization. "The church cares about all persons, members and non-members alike," the pastor said. "And any pastor is willing to help. At Saint Andrew's, no one is refused help for monetary or any other reason. "At times, we all need somebody. And counseling techniques, no matter how good, don't heal people," Rev. Frew said. "People heal people."

SAINT PATRICK'S CATHOLIC CHURCH LIGONIER Father Frank Kronawitter Masses: Sat. 6 p.m. and Sun. 10:30 a.m. NORTH WEBSTER CHRISTIAN CHURCH Charles E. Myers, Pastor Tom Hoftert, S. S. Supt. Sunday School 9:30 Worship 10:30 Wednesday Services 7 TRINITY LUTHERAN CHURCH MISSOURI SYNOD LIGONIER Church Service 9:15 Sunday School 10:15 Larry Miller, pastor OUR LADY OF GUADALUPE CATHOLIC CHURCH ’ 14th and Main Streets) MILFORD English mass 9 a.m. Spanish mass 10:30 a.m. Confession before masses GRACE BIBLE CHURCH SYRACUSE Dr. David R. Haifley, Pastor Robert F. Graff, Asso. Pastor Sunday School 9:45 Morning Worship 11 Evening Service 7 Wectiesday Evening Service 7 JEHOVAH'S WITNESS KINGDOM HALL (East Papakeechie Lake Drive) Sunday: Public Lecture 9:30 Watchtown Study 10:30 Tuesday, Study of Prophecy 7:30 Thursday, Ministry School 7 SALEM COMMUNITY CHURCH (Mile Southeast Os Wilmot) Pastor Elmer Miller Sunday School 9:30 Morning Worship 10:30 Sunday Evening Service 7 Prayer Bible Study Wednesday 7 GRACE LUTHERAN CHURCH SYRACUSE (NOE.Main St.) Steven Archer, Pastor Worship 9:30 Sunday School 10:30 GOSHEN FIRST CHURCH OF CHRIST SCIENTIST Service 11 Sunday School 11 Wednesday Service 7:45

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CLUNETTE UNITED METHODIST CHURCH Carl R. Lott, Pastor Worship Service 9 a.m. Sunday School 10:15 a.m. BURR OAK UNITED METHODIST CHURCH Lawrence Byrnes, Pastor Sunday School 9:30 Worship 10:30 LAKELAND COMMUNITY CHURCH Rev. Robert L. Chidister, Pastor Sunday School 9:30 Worship Service 10:30 Baptist Fellowship Hour 5:30 UNITED METHODIST CHURCH LEESBURG Ken Fast, Pastor Mrs. Chris Kammerer, Supt. Morning Worship 9:30 Church School 10:30 UNITED METHODIST CHURCH MILFORD Everett Owens, Pastor Mrs. Robert Brown, Supt. Church School 9:30 Worship 10:30 UMYF Sunday 6:30 CHURCH OF THE BRETHREN NORTH WEBSTER Paul F. Shrider, Pastor Morning Worship 9:30 Sunday School 10:30 FIRST BRETHREN CHURCH MILFORD Mike Mathews, Supt. Church School 9:30 Morning Worship 10:30 Morning Prayer Service Tuesday 9 BETHEL CHURCH OF THE BRETHREN MILFORD Raymond Hoover, Gen. Bd. Chrm Dr. Homer Burke, Deacon Chrm. Sunday School 9:30 Worship 10:30 BETHANY CHURCH OF THE BRETHREN (U.S. 6) Doug Archer, Pastor Eugene Lange, S. S. Supt. Morning Worship 9:30 Sunday School 10:30 MILFORD CHAPEL 7 (South Main) / Ben Shirk, Gen. Supt. / Jerome Zehr, S. S. Supt. / Sunday School 10 ' Worship Service 11 \

ALL SAINTS'CHAPEL (Episcopal) LAKE WAWASEE Vicar: Rev. David L. Hyndman Holy Eucharist 9 SAINT ANDREW'S UNITED METHODIST CHURCH SYRACUSE Rev. Philip Frew, Pastor Church School 9:15 Worship Hour 10:30 J.l.F.'s 2 p.m. UMYF 7 p.m. CHURCH OF GOD NORTH WEBSTER Brice Casey, Pastor Men's Prayer Breakfast 7:30 a.m. Worship 9:30 a.m. Sunday School 10:30 a.m. Evening Service 7 p.m. Family night, Wednesday 7 CHURCH OF GOD SYRACUSE Joe Hibschman, S. S. Supt. Sunday School 9:30 Morning Worship 10:30 Sunday Evening Service 7:30 CALVARY BAPTIST CHURCH (Armstrong Road) OSWEGO Gary T. Meadors, Pastor Sunday School 9:30 Morning Worship 10:30 Sunday Evening Worship 7 Thursday Prayer Meeting 7 p.m. WAWASEE LAKESIDE CHAPEL Harlan Steffen, Pastor Steve Bornman, S. S. Supt. Worship Service 10 Sunday School 11 TURKEY CREEK CHURCH OFTHE BRETHREN Clarence B. Fike. Pastor Church School 9:30 Worship 10:30 HASTINGS UNITED METHODIST CHURCH David Widmoyer - Pastor Mike Zimmerman, Jr., Supt. Kendall Biller, Supt. Sunday School 9:30 Worship 10:30 Prayer Meeting Thursday 7:30 Young Adults Wednesday 7:30 APOSTOLIC CHRISTIAN MILFORD Theo Beer; Henry Beer; Jesse Beer; Elmer Hartter and Walter Steffen, Ministers Morning Worship 10 Sunday School 10 Afternoon Worship 12:30

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CHRISTIAN CHURCH MILFORD Robert Greenwood, Minister Rick Brouillette, Associate Minister Wayne Bucher, Supt. Bible School 9:30 Worship 10:30 and 7 p.m. Wednesday Bible Study 7 CONCORD UNITED METHODIST CHURCH (County Roads3ooand Rookstool) Everett Owens, Pastor. Roberta Laughlin, S. S. Supt. Sunday School 10:15 Worship Service 9:15 CALVARY LUTHERAN CHURCH CROMWELL (ill W. Orange St.) Steve Archer, Pastor Worship Service 11 a.m. Sunday School 10 a.m. NEW SALEM CHURCH OF THE BRETHREN (YOON A 200E) Irvin Miller, Pastor Sunday School 9:30 » Worship 10:30 Evening Worship 7 BRETHREN CHURCH LEESBURG Ralph Burns, Pastor Sunday School 9:30-10:30 Morning Worship 10:30-11:30 Evening Worship 6-7 Prayer Service, Thurs. 7-8 UNITED METHODIST CHURCH NORTH WEBSTER Paul Steele, Pastor A. C. Underwood, Assistant Worship 8:30 and 10:45 Church School 9:30 Junior Senior UMY 6-8 BARBEE COMMUNITY CHURCH (Kuhn Drive, Little Barbee Lake) Bryce Foster, Pastor Sunday School 9 Worship Service 10 Prayer Meeting, Wednesday 7 SYRACUSE UNITED PENTECOSTAL CHURCH (Comer Harrison A Pearl Sts.) Terry Fleetwood, Pastor Sunday School 10 Praise and Worship, Sunday 7:30 Youth Service, Tuesday 7 Bible Study, Thursday 7:30 PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH (407 S. Cavin St.) LIGONIER Sunday School 9:30 Worship Service 10:40

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Carl Calloway read scripture, Acts 1:1-14, and led in morning prayer. Paster Miller delivered the morning message “God’s Promises to the Church.” Sunday evening message was “The Dispensation of Grace” as it pertains to the “Seven Churches” in Revelation 2-3. Mr. and Mrs. Lee Smith of Jefferson, Ohio, were recent guests of Mr. and Mrs. Dan Smith and daughter. Mr. and Mrs. Wayne Teeple and Jack, Mr. and Mrs. Jeff Carroll and Miss Melinda Tom

Faith explains the meaning of knowledge and wisdom

tsiie. n the surface, many words in our language seem to convey the same meaning, and yet there is often a subtle distinction between their exact definitions. A good example of this is the difference between knowledge and wisdom. Knowledge is mainly the accumulation of facts, figures or whatever; whereas a major function of wisdom is to provide a restraining influence upon our rash impulses, by

“Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom ” —Proverbs 4:7 Where is the wisdom we have lost in knowledge? —Thomas Steams Eliot

MORRIS CHAPEL UNITED METHODIST (County Roads 150 N and 37SE) Charles Taylor, Pastor Gordon Tuttle, Supt. Sunday School 9:30 Worship 10:30 WAWASEE HEIGHTS BAPTIST CHURCH (Across From High School) James Freerksen, Pastor Bryce Medlock, S. S. Supt. Sunday School 9:30 Worship 10:30 and 7 Mid-Week Wed. 7 Youth Study Wed. 7 AWANA Clubs Thurs. 6:30 CHURCH OF THE NAZARENE SYRACUSE Norman Lincoln, Pastor Sunday School 9:30 Morning Worship 10:30 Sunday Evening Worship 7 p.m. Mid-week Prayer Meeting 7 p.m. Wed. CALVARY UNITED METHODIST CHURCH (SR 13 South) SYRACUSE Ross D. Cook, Pastor Donald Sheline, Assoc. Church School 9:30 Morning Worship 10:30 Jr. A Sr. YF 6:30 Sunday SAINT MARTIN DE PORRES CATHOLIC CHURCH SYRACUSE Father Kenneth Sarrazine Sunday Mass 7:15 and 10:45 a.m. Saturday Mass 6:15 a.m. Confession before Masses Holy Days 7 a.m. and 7:30 p.m. SOLOMON'S CREEK UNITED METHODIST CHURCH Robert D. Wilburn, Pastor Summer Schedule Worship 9:30 Sunday School 10:00 Bible Study and prayer 7 p.m. Wed nesday ZION CHAPEL U. B. CHURCH (Corner Svra.-Web. Rd. and 1000 N) Rev. Frank D Winterhalter Eldon J. Watkins, S. S. Supt. Worship 9 Sunday School 10 Evening Worship 7 CHURCH OF THE BRETHREN SYRACUSE George Phillips, Pastor Stanley Barnhart, S. S. Supt. Sunday School 9:30 Morning worship 10:30 Sunday Bible Study 7 p.m.

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recently spent several days vacationing in Florida. Mr. and Mrs. Max Shively returned last week after spending three weeks in Texas visiting with their son, Doug, at Longview, Texas. They also visited with Rev. and Mrs. Chad Woodburn and Heather at Houston, Texas. Rev. Woodbum is a former pastor at New Salem. The Shivelys had some difficulties traveling through the Tennessee and Kentucky snow storms last week. • « Miss Doris Tom and Mr. and

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Mrs. Jim Tom and family of- - Bend spent Sunday with Mrs. Edna Tom and Mrs. Emma . Cripe at North Manchester. Mrs. Lydia Morehodse was a- - dinner guest of Mr. and ■ Mrs. Edwin Meek and daughters. ? Miss Donna Moser and Ed ; Smith were Sunday dinner guests * of Mr. and Mrs. Albert Mathews. _ Darrell Rater has been a ; patient at the Parkview Hospital ■ in Fort Wayne for the past week. • He is in room 350.

pointing out the disadvantages of which we would not otherwise have been aware. Throughout the Bible are many statements that clarify this subtle difference, and the wisdom gained at the Church of your choice will show you when it is safe to proceed, and when to apply the brakes to your impulsive actions; thereby preventing disastrous resets that without the benefit of wisdom would have been inevitable.

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