South Bend News-Times, Volume 37, Number 213, South Bend, St. Joseph County, 31 July 1920 — Page 9
THE SOUTH BEND NEWS-TIMES
SATURDAY MOUXINfi, JI LY T.l. 1020
DEVOTED TO THE INTERESTS OF WOMEN
Clubs
Circles
SOCIETY
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a:wrn..r; at the horn- of Mrs. K. I). K-ur:., 71 llforn:i av. Needlework (urint I the a f I'Tnoon's di'.erM'iii an 1 hirht refreshments were .-rve'l at i:Z '. the i inht members ti.1 two z je.-.- iriyii',. Ferr.s were MS1' as houy dfo rations. In two v-k.s the lub will held combined
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?h Harmony R-:ol-a r.t rt;i!iH (1 Thursat th1 home of Mrs. lit .". Van Ruren st. i.-:j'Ti.--'-i u ith the litupvir.g th entire.
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Mrs J. TV JnhTinn. T 4 " Harrison nv., r.u :air.rd M gue.- Thursday .iff moon in honor of her 64th birth:rtv anruvfr.s.irj'. House decorations f!'Ttr(i n color scheme of pink and white. Amon? th out f town guests present wprc: Mrs. C. II. Jacobson .ma daught r. R'-L-y of Dover. Jda-h-; Mrs. V. P. Armstrong and son. .lark f i f Montreal, Can. Dr. and Mr.. H. L Starkweather of Goshen; .Mrs Arthur Johnson .'nd daughttia. Hallet and Ruby of Klkhart. A joint picnic of th Pythian Sister? of this rlty and MHhawaka was hM Thursday afternoon at Pottav.aromi rark. More than 100 members of the two organizations enjoyed a delightful program of music .tr.d vaudeville features. The music was furnished by a mixed quartet composed of members of the two Icnlers and a 12 piece band. Outloor sports and contests wore held ard 1 1 J -r was served at 6 o'clock.
Announcements
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Thf noetimr of the Woman's P.ible a.-s of the I'irst Christian church is bet n postponed until further no-
Mmh n of the Norman Rddy Sowing fircl hav discontinued lapidar nwtini: until Stpt. 1. Tii- Kvrr Heady circle of thp Westminster Presbyterian huren will meet the fourth Friday in August. The Norman Kddy Helief corps will hold its r-pular business meeting at the K. of P. hall the Hrst Friiiay in Aut?ii5t. Members of the Henry Studebaker Mothers' club will entertain with a picnic at FtmU-baker park next Wednesday afternoon. No business will be transacted at that time. Members' will brinpr basket suppers.
Personals
Mrs. Harry II. Maus and daughter. Holniau and
14-2 Uneoln way turned after a fivePhiladelphia and N. J.
Mr. and Mrs. W. Washington day nfter a trip Mr. and Mrs.
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Denner,
W.. have reweeks' visit In Atlantic City.
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Revelations of a Wife My Heart and My Husband BY ADELE GARRISON
This charming creation.
rombin Ipct the
close-fittinc turban and
wide, picturesque brim of stiffly wired lace, is for earlv Fall wear. The turban is of black velvet, which', seen through the lace brim, adds to the attractiveness of the chic combination.
Winifred Black Writes About:
Keeping Children Unspoiled
R. av. In J,
P. Milton, returned
California. F. G riffln.
404 Fri-
of
Niles. Mich., announce the engagement of their daughter, Elsie Mar-
to Aldon M. Kinney, of The wedding will take August. . W. Watters. 312 S. William Kuet for the -week end at
of Mrs. L.. W . Croupe at
Kuerite, Chi apo. plac In Mm. J Ft.. is a
the cottage
Indian I-ake. Miss f;iadv3 Jaqtiith. 7 47 Eeland av., is spending the week end at (ireenfleld, 111., where she will be an Instructor In the hih school this 1.111. Himer R. Stoll und family of Pittsburg, Pa., are the uests of J. IV Stoll. 319 W. Wayne Mr. Stoll and family returned from Ike Maxinkuckee where they spent the months of June and July. Mr. Stoll was formerly associated with the Snath Ind Time. Miss ir.anrhe Wood. 222 S. Willinni st., returned Ttiursd.iy night front Chicago. Mr? Charles Weber. TIaney av.. and Mrs. lavid Marker Woodland. Ind.. left Friday for a 10 day's visit with relatives and friends at Wilmont, Ind. Mr? Eoo.is I. Ahlerincr and children. Mary, Ruth and Joeph. have left for a vLMt in t'hir.iiro and points r.lor.c Uake Michigan. Mrs. R. R. Finch and daughter. Harti'tt. 222 S. William St., are isitins In Chicago. .leim Kane of the -fT.ce of the fcieral board for vocational education in Cincinnati. O . is in the city for a few days in the interest of disabled soldi rs. Mr. Kane will be associated with the federal board offii-o which is to be established here August 1.
John I). Rockefeller, Jr., has asked the newspaper photographers not to take photographs of his four children. "I don't want them spoiled." he said. "There's no earthly reason why their pictures should be in the papers; hut if they see them there they'll begin to think that they amount to a good deal more than they really do. "My wife and t are trying very hard to keep our children from being spoiled, and It Isn't the easiest job in th world. I wish you newspaper people would help us out bv letting them severely alone." Sensible man. I hope the papers will lister, to what young Mr. Rockefeller says, and do all they can to help him keep h! children from being spoiled. Who's at Fault? A natural child is the loveliest thing in the world. I'd rather spend the day with a chubby little rascal of a mischievous boy and u delicate- little sprite of a girl, and tell them stories and make cookies for them and go out for a
walk and find n runaway .stream and fellow it home, and get rrry feet wet and my shoes muddy and get
back Just at dark with my arm full of pussy willows and the backache nnd a tear in my dress and a song in my heart ami youth for company, than to go to the smartest reception, or the fine?t play, or the most magnificent opera in the world. That is. if the children are natural unspoiled, unaffected, real children. Hnd not little peevish, fretful, vain, fussy Imitations of the grown folks they kr.vv. I'd rather spend an hour in the dntit' chair, stand up all day at the dressmaker's and be fitted to th mst unbecoming dress In the world, shop from t in the morning till Ö at nirtht to match a skein of wool for ohl Aunt Hannah. read Tennyson' poems to a deaf man. explain a problem in geometry to a dunce, cook a decent meal on a smoky oil stove, eat something I hate and pretend to like it. listen to a soprano singing a French rhanf.o off the key, or do anything eine r. earth that I hate from the bottom of my heart, than to spend one single hour in the company of a poor, little, spoiled child. Oh. yes. I'm -sorry for spoiled children, but that doesn't make me Ilk them. I don't like their parents, eithfr
and I'm not in the least sorry for them. It's all their own fault when their children aro spoiled unless It'3 grandma who's to blame. Grandmothers sro great spoilers haven't you noticed that bless their hearts, you can't really blame, them. They have all the fun and none of the bother, when it comes to spoiling children. I know a woman who has a beautiful little boy. rosy, blue eyes, chubby, a regular cherub. You can't see him without wanting to hug him. You can't look at him without being crazy to run out and buy him some candy or something. He's intelligent, too, and naturally good natured. But when you've teen in the room with him for about 20 minutes von can't hear a word hU
mother Is trying to say, you're so busy planning how on earth you're going to get rid of him and what you'd do with him if he was yours. (mh1 and Rad. This woman thinks she's a good mother. I think she's a very bad one. And some day. when her son i (dd enough to go to school and has to fight his way through every class, jus bt cause his mother has made him a wilful, conceited, egotistical, little prig, I'm afraid he'll think she's not a very good mother, either. What a shame it is to take the sweetest, loveliest, finest thing there
is on eartn tne nnrm ami neari anu soul and body of a li'.'le child ami turn it into something disagreeable and unpleasant, just because you are too indolent to care o- too stupid to know what you are doing. Here's to all good mothers who ha e sense enough to keep their children good. (Copyright. 1020.)
I felt as fluttered as a schoolgirl a.?. I went to my room to dress for Dicky's return, of which I felt assured, although I only had the arrival of the big box for Junior as my warrant But I would allow no shadow of doubt to cloud my anticipation, and I hummed a little tune as I hurried through my dressing. Sometimes I hesitate over th choice of a gown, fearing the one I have chosen first may not be quite suited to the occasion for which I am donning it. But today there was no hesitancy. The very, frilllest. tlutfiest, prettiest one I possessed was none too good for the homecoming of my husband. I took down from its padded hanger and its white wrappings a gauzy, floating, fragile gown of robin's egg blue and cream. When I had fastened lU last snap, and remembering one of the things Dicky liked had tucked a rose at
the side of my coiffure, I went down the stairs in search of my small son. For I mi ant my husband to find us in the garden, ihat wonderful group of rose buj.aes which we together had pruned and trained as much as such a neglected tangle could be trained. Now it was a fragrant wilderness of blossoms, and it called to me insistently. Somehow I felt that Dicky could not remain angry at me In such a
setting. My mother-in-law was pushing Junior up and down the screened side veranda when I came there in search of him. "Well!" she ejaculated, openmouthed, when she caught sight of my costume. I knew as well as if she had spoken her thoughts aloud that her first ., impulse was to give utterance to a caustic criticism of the unsuitableness of my gown. Rut her anxiety for a reconciliation between Dicky and me gave her comprehension. I think, of my motives in donning it, for after a moment's silence she said in kindly accents: "You look very nice indeed, Margaret. Do you want Richard Second now?" "Yes. if you please, mother." I returned. "1 am going out into the garden to gather some roses for the rose bowl in the. living room I tilled everything but that and as there is nothing to do here, I thought I would sit out there a little while with Jun Richard Second." An ironical smile flitted across my mother-in-law's face at my substitution of her name for the baby instead of our own. Rut that It pleased her I was sure ad I heard
assent to my
stay as
said heartily
I will
plan:
you
"When tell him
her cordial "Surely, like," she
Richard comes
where you are." With a sudden impulse I kissed her warmly as I took th3 perambulator from her hands. "Thank you, mother, for everything." I whispered. She patted my cheek, one of her rare caresses, and uttered one of her rarer exprepsions of approval as she fairly pushed me toward the door: "You are a good girl. Margaret, a good wife and a good d.'ighter. Now run along and gather your roses-." When I finally found myself upon a rustic seat in the rose gar
den with Junior beating the air in baby ecstasy. I 1ft It myself trembling with the fear that even if Dicky did come home he might not be ready to "make up" in the royal fashion which generally characterizes the erid of one of his tantrums. After all, I reasoned, it is for the baby's first birthday, not for me. that lie is coming home. Suppose, facing the alternative of remaining away from his little son's first anniversary, or taking back the ultimatum he had given ino, he has decided upon the middle course of coming home, treating me with outward courtesy, but still preserving the grievance against me which he thought he had. The sound of a train whistle brought me to my feet in sudden excitement. If Dicky came home he would in all probability b upon this train. Of a sudden I felt foolishly panic-stricken, ready to run and hide at the f.rst sound that should herald his approach. Because of the war which took them both away. Dicky and Alfred Durkee have never been able to carry out the elaborate plans they had made for the beautifying of the tangled bit of wilderness which
surrounds the small lake at the foot of the gardens. Rut with Jim's aid they have cleared away some of the underbrush, thrown a footbridge across the brook, and built a tiny rustic summer house under a big elm on the other side. Lifting Junior in my arms I hurried across the bridge and into the summer house, where the vines successfully screened me from observation. There was method in my seeming madness. It was a favorite retreat for Dicky and me. If he sought me there, instead of waiting until I came into the house and meeting me casually before others. I should know that he was again my royal lover.
GREAT CAREER IS THAT OF MOTHER, DUCHESS WRITES
But Despite War, Writer Say?, Craving and Artificiality Still Exist.
Mr
At Wheelock's At Wheelock's New Victor Records for August on Sale Today
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I larli Shining Hour -Roinu! (Home!) Mamma iwia
6453QLMrtct X. S in i: Hat .Minor Scherzo
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llc;irn is My Homo IntiiHluclion and Tarantella
F.milio do Mogona r.mniy IHtinn di Oki i Mother Has (lone Gera Uli n Tarrar
(Tschaikowsky) rionzaley Ouartct
Mabel Gurri-on (Saras.'.te) Violin
Jacha Helfet z Iist NMght Mino. Homer ami Mis Ixmlso Homer When Nlglit m-ceml .'ohn MeCormack-Fritz Kreisler lllnr Dauuhv Walts. Philadelphia Orchestra livlule in G Minor (Rachmaninoff) PUn Srrgvl llarhmauinoff
(Casio's Dream) TUta Kuno 1 :nicsüue Sehumann-TIelnk All Star Trio All Stur Tri John Steel Henry Ilurr Billy Murray
BIRTHS. and Mrs. Arthur A. Chause,
322 X. t. L.ouLs blvd.. daughter. July 2S. Bo.-n to Mr. and Mrs. J. X. Lentz, of Hannibal. Wis., a. sen, July 27. Mrs. Dentz was formerly Miss Pearl Kring of this city. Mr. and Mr.s Iwis Howard. 1626 Kfissnacht st.. daughter, July 27. Mr. and Mrs. Kmil Sudharth. 1304 Mishawaka av., son, July 2 9. Mr. and Mrs Joseph Kapalcynskl. Portage rd.. daughter. July 29. Mr. and Mrs. Joe Branlss. 813 W. Thomas st., son, July 30. Mr. and Mrs. Arthur A. Chause, r..1 2 X. St. Louis blvd.. daughter, July 2$. Mr. and Mrs. Harrison W. Talcott, Lincoln way K.. at Epworth hospital. July 23. Mr. and Mrs. Himer F. Goss. Epworth hospital, son, July 2 7.
MAUKiAm: lici:.sii William M. Smith to Flora II.
j Tupper, both of Clinton, Iowa.
Otello lira la not to $s.C2o Old Polks at Home is 07;. All Star One-Stop Ily'n Dri Fo Trot 17,-, The I.oe NoM P.luo I uinoiul.IS77 TiMle-Iev-Wlnk
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I I.oo the I-aiuI of OKI Rhu k Joe Hilly -Murray and IHvrlcs (Quartet lane Xet Medley Pox Trot Ji. P. Smith's Orohotru A Young Man'.s Pniiej I "01 Trot .los. C. Smith's Oreh. (iem from "Apple Monoms' Vittor Light Opera 0.
Grnis from lrt iu " Vietr Light Opora Co. Call and let us play these records for you. Remember, Victrola Records are still 85c. George H- Wheelock & Company
$50.00 in Gold A wedding present of $50.00 in gold will be givenxthe first couple to get married nt Roseland Park next Sunday. Phone us about it right away. C. N. Rodge & Co.. 2 20 Farmers Trust Rldg. Phone Lincoln 5733. Homeland Park is the g u of the south side. Terms $2 down, then only J 1.5 0 per week. No interest and no taxes for two years. These beauty homesites are selling like hot-cakes. Most lots are only $29 5. while other lots In the same section sell for 1500 to SI. 000. To inspect the property before the Sunday crowd, take south side car to ltobinsori street, then a short walk s-outh to the property.
Mabel Hawkins Producer of Distinctive Lingerie and Scientific Correcting. 05 J. M. S. Rid. Main 876
By nrciii'ss or vi:stminsti:r. Written for International News Sen lee. With present-day tremendous advances in all careers for women we tend to lose sight of the Tact that, no matter in what class sh is born. the woman's rightful place is her
home, and her first concern her
children. Women today are very near th
complete freedom in civic, commercial and public life whieh some
have striven so many years to at
tain. Rut while we applaud and
admire women lawyers', merchants, mayoresses .and doctors, let us remember that the greatest of all carters is that of the mother. Unapplauded. often unnoticed, sometimes pitied by her more brilliant sisters, she goes quietly on with her wonderful task. Out in France I used to rejoice in tho fact that the world would never be the same again. I felt that out of the agony and struggle, the suffering and the fine endurance, the defeats and the triumphs, a new order of things was being created. Many of us were Foothed by the hope that new men and new women would have a desire for a sweeter and tiner world, free from the hate and destruction of war; one in which the blue sky. the trees and the flowers and birds, and the etralghtness and cleanness of one's thoughts and lives would have more Influence than the artificiality and craving for excitement which existed before and during the war. Alas, that artificiality and craving exists still Our present state reminds me very much of the French saying an old governess of mine used to quote: "Each for himself and the good God for all." I am afraid only the first half of the phrase applies. A home, even a cottage, is a great Joy. It is the one thing to which we look back all our lives, remembering the carefree days of our childhood. Often we think of home as the one really sweet and beautiful thing in the world. It is not the wives of workingmen, but th,e men folk who are the restless spirits these days. The good old days of our country villages will, I am afraid, soon ra away If the men continue to move about as they now do in search of better rmnloyment. Surely, if they look ahead they can see that their little cottages and own gardens are better than anything the big towns
; of workshops and factories can give them. : In even the poorest of these cott tages the sweetness and joy of j home life is surely a blessing to a ; j child. And is it not the brave lit- ; tic mother who makes the home?:
the nation, and that it m to them th;it we should turn with laurels.
The women of the richer classes !
are generally just as much mothers
at heart as the n others of the noor.
though they are not called upon to
exert as much physical enercrv In
the care of their children. When the mother of the cook's son and the mother of the earl came to the hospital in France to hold their dear ones close as thoush to defy death itself, tho.e women were one in heart and spirit. One hopes that in time Britain will be a healthy, happy place for all mothers and children, whether rich or poor, where children will have gardens to play In, enough wholesome food, and. best of all, the care of their own mothers. Let us not forget the mothers.
REIT ARD OF SMILIKG ADMIRERS BORES HIM
KANSAS CITY. July 31. A country club car was about to start south from a station near Petticoat lane. A middle aged woman decided to board it and the race was close. "July, you dropped your money," a passing truck driver thouteri. p.issengers craned their necks and saw the bill in the street as the car started. "It's a ten," mumbled tne most recent rassenger. A boy crawled through a car window, landed feet first, ran back, got the bill and pursued the car. The car gained speed. o did the boy. Passengers shouted and the niotorman 'slowed down." The boy caught the car. He- returned the bill, blushed and sat down before the thankful woman could express her thanks. The reward? Men passengers smiled at him, older women beamed on him and younger women smiled and nodded approval. Two blocks passed. The adulation was boresome. "Aw shucks." tho 13-year-old hero said as he swung off the hack end of the car to the privacy of crowded stretus In the shopping center.
"Style Ells-vortir
Store Hour: 9 A. M. to 6 P. M. Saturdays to 9:30 P. M.
Store closed Wednesday at 12:30 noons during July and August.
Week-End Shirt Sale
The styles and qualities men are looking for at regular prices Featured at attractive savings. $3.50 fine tailored shirts of madras, made to meet every requirement of the man who is particular about the shirts he wears.
This lot inc udes the new "Le-Roy" and 'Twin-Fit" Shirts. $3.50 values today for
Wir,
Many dozens to choose from.
Philippine Gowns Hand made and hand embroidered Philippine gowns for women who like hand made underthings. Special for today, $4.95.
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REPORT TWO CASES OF SMALLPOX TO BOARD
iwo cases or smaupot were reported to the board of health Friday morning. The first case is that of a boy, Raymond Plak, SO?. W. Sample st., and the second Is Steve Maskinski. 819 Pulaski st.
mhs. scinioi i.Mi'Hovi:n. The condition or Mrs. Fred Schrop. 936 S. Sixth St., who was operated on at Epworth hospital Thursday morning, was reported to bo very much improved Friday.
The ICth annual "Moon" reunion will be held at Springbrootc park on Sunday, August Sth, 1320. All members invited. 7946 21
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