South Bend News-Times, Volume 31, Number 69, South Bend, St. Joseph County, 3 March 1914 — Page 9

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Helen'?, or were she to assert herself more often their married life ! would have been more unhappy than

!" Whit rlicht lias a husband to ,Ie-! TWO FAST GAMES PLAYED

sert hi.- wife on the street simply ; because sho wished to look into a

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' think or you; hahy. It seems to me by what I have read of Married Life Helen pays very little attention to Winifred. I would imagine she would he more interested in her baby than in trying to please Warren' relations. Of

course l wouiu treat ins people witn

-. millinery window after he had feastgoose)! Whv can't Helen and all -0(1 nIs on Ilien' apparel and articles women of her stamp be happy in the : wl interested him. fart that her husband provides well i Thrn ull n for once she did show gives her good clothes, food and i a little spunk and refused to be takshelter? Whv can't nhe bo satisfied I en ho,me ,iko a naughty child he left with these big thlns instead of dc-her Xo 0X1 ?treet' , . f f I believe arren loves his wife,

iiimiutuh i-Auviiiis -u jut. the very things he von't give;

Xonciw h Quint Down, Kindergarten, nopkis Lo-e to Laieky Iiluebirils, is-1.

but surely

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courtes. and return their compli-'1"' luu'6"- s JI1U iwuuu.-,r, 1 I t.ll - I, .. !..

mentis but I would not neglect my baby for them. I'm suro Warren would be much bettor pleaded if Helen had little

i needs curving instead of Helen's.

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htorieti to tell about .Vinifred than always asking him questions which would do her no good to know. If all men would provide for their families as Warren does there would be eo kick coming. I think Warren Is tired when he gets home from hks office work and he does not feel like hugging and kissing when he gets home. I think he would be more interested in baby Winifred. Of course Helen was acquainted with his people before she married Warren and to entertain them for a day and a dinner once a year will not hurt her. If she would only interest herself more about her baby girl she would not have so much time to think about Warren. For babv rules the Clown. EXPERIENCE.

In two well played games on the Y.

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lis is the character which j v- S!UJNU"' cwu" onaay

j night. lh Nonesuch quintet topped the l Kindergartens lv a score of 22 to IS.

the civil answer, the word of appre- ' j and Flol,skis buwed t0 thc Luck In,:e. C'iation. j in.i i.v i fii in-Ttvr ! l.irds. IS to 4

the'Wr Void o'fnX1 thafCs" ' thin, that both are to b,e fori , . -ro fa and except , j

! their domestic troubles. Warren : " ,' , v" , """--- j

. . . , , , chine . .or the Kindergartens, casing

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strong .4a me for the Holy Names. Lineup: i Holy Names Voelker. M. cluthrie. guards; Hagerts', (?. Guthrie, forwards; Burke, center; Woife, sub. t IJrownson Miller. Henniok, guards: ' Warring. Flynn. forwards; Finegan. center. On" Wednesday night the Holy Names ,vill play the outh Fenl Independents at Magyar ball. The Independent team ha put over some toush battles this season, and it is expecte.i that fans null be treated to ' a real Tame.

WANTS FIGURES FOR FIGHTING THAW CASE Assemblyman I Anxious to Know How Much New York lias Spent.

IT TAKi:.S TACT. The Curtis family are real people. The trouble lies in the fact not that they don't love each other, but in a misconception of things. And their bappiness depends on whether or not! Helen will adat herself to her surroundings. It takes tact and good common sense to have a congenial home life when a woman of Helen's disposition marries a man of Warren'fc. Their natures are different. While hers demand love and demonstration of love hU is undemonstrative and resists?, and consequently there is a mis-understanding, not only in love, but their daily compmionship. If she wants to do away with these petty differences, it's her to do the acting. She must 'earn to look at things with his eyes, as he never would see things in the light the does. A man of Warren's disposition thinks they are right and it a hard matter to make them see different. Sim should study him and by using tact she will be able to overcome a great dea! of their trouble. She will have to get accustomed to his abruptness and coolness, because it is hi way as well as it is hers to bo otherwise. And while Helen nhy crave demonstration of love she will fcoon not expect it. They will have to go through the dear fiehool of experience, and as each day, each month and year goes by their live will be more congenial and to a certain extent happiness will be theirs. With tact and' "Go to'Church Sunday" they will oon become broader minded, and while getting their minds off of self they will be able to see things in the true light. VKNTTA.

nothing and means more than gold to the woman who loves him? On the other hand, why can't a woman take her husband's love 'for granted" when he works hard, provides her with all the material necessities of life, and who doe.? not "run after other women"! Why does she insist on him being demonstrative when by nature he is undemonstrative, and such insistence only repels and exasperates him? Which is to blame, Warren or Helen? The answer is contained in a timile and a sigh. To them, and to all tho striving unhappy men and women in the work! there may be hope in the words of the California wizard:

en times and securing two

gets angry and cross she should let , fref. throws. The Kindergarten guards him alone and not bother him. He'll! were not fast enough for the None- . . . . .such forward.",, however, and perget over it and come to her. She ; mllud lht.m lo j,core aimost at wlll shouldn't babv him so much in try- Zella Weinberg scored two pretty fn- tn nir i,r- Lnf him wa't on j anots from thc centcr of the floor for ing to picaso mm. i-ct mm wa.i oa the wlnaer5 Pearl iupel antl Erma himself once in a while. She should Dale also played in good form at the

not show her love too strong for Warren; be moro distant with him and try to be as he is at home. You can soon bring him out of his roughness ani ugliness. Of course you find a little trouble in every one's married life, they she understand one another, be ood

"With concentrated effort it would ' to each otner, he neip ner ana ene be possible in time to develop a won-SheIl him- 1 think Helen wiH me derful. new, thornless, human spec- J.out of her loving habits as aries.eentle. offioient. altruistic." Uen out of his roughness. And the

Up to date Helen and Warren are

"evolving, but not evolved." Instead of criticising or blaming either one, let us pursue the gentle art of minding our own business, offering them both the hand of sympathy and good fellowship, and wishing tliern God-speed. ANN OBSERVER.

LOVi; IS LACKING. I have been reading about Helen and Warren from the beginning and find there is one thing lacking in the Curtis family. Tho one thing that spells success and happiness to any marriage and that one thing is love, which is lacking on the part of Warren. Their dispositions are somewhat different and Helen probably is a little childhdi in her ways, but I think If Warren cared for her as he should a great many trivial things that Helen does would be overlooked and things in the Curtis household would run along nicely. If Warren was filled with half the love and devotion Helen Is happiness would reign supreme. Signed If. C. M.

rest of their lives will be more comfortable. And spend happier than the first two years. Yurs truly, MRS. A. HOGUE.

TOO MUCH LOVE FOR WAKKKX. In answering the question "who is to blame for the 'Curtis family troubles," my opinion is, that both are

to blame.

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Hazel Plough was too tall for the Flopski guards and pot away with seven well tossed goals. he is an accurate shooter, and covers her end of the court well. Leora Krlssinger scored all the points for her five, and with a little assistance would have pur. her team in better standing. Lineups and summaries: Nonesuch Pearl Kupel, Erma Dale forwards; Hazel Berman, Maude Young, guards; Zella Weinberg, center. Kindergartens Gladys Gaskill, Doris Hoke, forwards; Edith Begtel, Madge .Hart, guards; Margaret Fitch, center. Goals Gaskill, 7; Hoke; Rupel, 3; Weinberg, 2; Dale. Z. Free throws Rupel, Dale, Gaskill, 2. Flopski- Elsie- Xincehelter, Nettle Wiggins, guards; Marjorie. Holmes. Leora Krissinger, forwards; Caroline Schreyer, center. Bluebirds Hazel Slough, Lulu Huntsberger, forwards; Emma Raif-

nov o-o rainlvtrim to Hf. i snider, Elsie Stellar, guards; Mildred

characters; but their natures Huntsberger. 2; its and customs are TO far from be- j Krissinger. Free throws Krissinger. ing alike. i 2. Referee for two games Mary Mc-

Helen Is continually trying to do i Cloy, physical director.

ALBANY, N". Y., March 3. Assemblyman John B. Goldman introduced two resolutions in the assembly Monday demanding facts and figures concerning the expenditure of state money for legal services and alienists in the fight to bring Harry K. Thaw back- from Canada. One resolution asks the cttorney general what the obligations of the ?tate are. The other calls on the state treasurer for a detailed account of the bills. Mr. Goldman said tonight: 'I have been showered with letters from all parts of the state protesting against the state continuing the waste of money on Thaw."

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Tin:v m:i:d sympathy. We can all set that if Helen were differentif he were more indifferent, a weo bit more independent, not unite fo sentitve. If she only had a tiense of humor, etc. then she might get along more happily with her handsome hard-working practical, though irritable husband. But such criticism seems to me thoughtless and unfair. Can we blame one for lacking a .ene of humor any more than we blame another for being color-blind? ('an we bl.une a hot-house rose for being more "sensit:, e ' than the field

daisy? Can we reasonably expect'

the clinging ivy to have all the qualities of the oak to which it clings. Kach has its own nature its own hortconiings, its own merits; its own charms. So do Warren and Helen. Each are the product of heredity and environment each radically different from the other. Harmony between two such opposing natures is never natural; friction is inevitable. Happiness can come only of that wisdom thaf is born of experience, coupled with the great desire ami effort of each to make the other happy. Whatever her faults may be, one thing can be said of Helen: She tries, i Yes, she tries so hard that she defeats her own purpose, and we call lur a little

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MAHKIAGK CHANGED WAKKKX. You ask who is to blame for the discord in the Curtis home. To be plain I think that both are somewhat guilty. There is a saying that is very true and especially in this case: "We want what we can't have and what we can have we don't want." Helen yearns for that kind of love and tenderness of a husband, but Warren gives her no consolation, and when he does it is not with the loving tenderness that all wives look forward to. Warren is indifferent and can have a woman's love and he will not accept it. No doubt Warren thinks her too loving, but if some one would appre

ciate her Inve she uvuild nnt hn cn I

ready to give it. It is nature that we all want to be loved and especially by our husbands. If we give our love to some one don't we naturally expect something in return and it is not the hurried love that we crave or the indifferent, but the true love that comes from the heart. Warren could not have been so indifferent and unkind during courting and why should he have changed so after marriage since Married Life is to be a life-time of courting and not a life full of disagreement and stinginess with our love. Hoping that the third year will b-ing about a better understanding, I am Yours truly, CECILE.

something for Warren in her delicate, loving way, while he will accept nothing from her In this spirit, bo he Is so indifferent and independent. Warren should try and banish this jealous ill feeling between Helen and his people, and a great deal of their trouble would be disposed of. Shoulpd Helen be of the same type and character as Mr. Curtis, they would have everything they ever had, would be leading the gayest of gay society lives and little Winifred would be the same as whole orphan instead of half. If Helen would pay no attention to these cold, cutting remarks and act toward him just as ho acts, he would soon change. I'm suro ho really loves Helen as he sometimes expresses it; but she

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way so ba that she loves him all the more d starts him off again. If Helen didn't express quite so much love, and Warren expressed more, they would both have better sailing. A WIFE AND READER.

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I think that Helen is an only child and has always been petted and loved ami made much of until she was married, and she thinks her husband should treat her the Faint way. She is to blame in a way, but not as much as Warren. If she would show her temper once in a while, instead of shedding tears, it would help some, and if she would trv io

think more of his people regardless.

of what they think of her. No doubt idle has a wrong opinion of them. I don't believe if a man reallv and

truly loves his wife as he should, be! Nould get disgusted at her caresses, i but would show that ho appreciates! her affection onco In a while at least, i She seems to be thankful for any lit- j tie act of kindlier or affection from ;

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(HA(ii:i) A I THi: MAIHilAfii:. - In regard to "Who's to Maine" in the Second Year of Married Life", I have been an interested reader, and cannot see how anyone can blame Helen. Helen may be somewhat sensitive. ! she ha also boon gifted with a kind j and lovintr disposition, and think it !

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He ha? changed, while she. has not. Of course it is impossible for him to play the part of the Iofr as he undoubtedly did before marriage, but be could at least be kind and considerate of her. And he could do it because he did during a period of their married life, and how much happier they both were, all owing to a little consideration on his part. Had Warren married a woman

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