Richmond Palladium (Daily), Volume 45, Number 41, 30 December 1919 — Page 5

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Heart and Beauty Problems Br lira. Clsnbstn Thompsoa

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'Dear Mrs. Thompson: v How should I , serve . lunchoon for s small company? Is it proper to servo the plates, in the kitchen and take them to the table? ... , . . j-.-i Please tell mo how 1 the different courses are served? . Is the salad brought on -with the vegetables or as a coarse by itself? v-,. ,. Is soup always served? YOUNG HOUSEKEEPER. You probably will find it helpful to get a book at the library' which will , tell you at length about arranging the table and ' serving. Many cook books contain this information. - If there is a butler or. maid it is all right to serve before taking the plates to the table. If, however, you serve your own dinner, you will find It less confusing to serve when the guests are seated at the table. The courses are as follows: ; 1st: Soup. 2nd. Fish. 2rd. Meat and Vegetables. . 4th. Salad. 5th. Dessert. 6th. Coffee. In order to save stops, the salad Is often brought on with the meat course. It is not imperative to have a soup course. Very often fruit cocktails are . substituted. Grapefruit, cut up and sugared ' makes a very tempting fruit cocktail. If desired, other fruits can be added. Dear Mrs. Thompson: An article about spiritualism appeared in your columns. The writer of the article said spiritualism had wrecked his life and that communication with the socalled dead was impossible. Let me say emphatically that ho never had the proper knowledge of the subject. ' Srirltuallsm, -when handled properly, never wrecked any human life. Any religion, I care not what It is, will get the. best of you, if you arc not intelligent and broad-minded enough, to comprehend the fact. How dreadful to feel that when you leave this body it is the end. I used to feel that way too, but I thank God, tho Great Universal Power of Love,

I havfo found a different way. Spirit-1

ualism is Na science, philosophy and religion of continuous life, based on demonstrated facts, by means of mediumship with those who live in the spirit world. Spiritualism is God's message to mortals,, declaring, that, there is no death that all who have passed on still live that there is hope in life beyond even for the most sinful. , MRS. W. H. S.

- Your . expression of your ' faith In spiritualism is most . interesting and clear. ' Doubtless many readers will regard it in a different light after reading what you have said. - - Dear Mrs. Thompson: I nave been married eight years and have no children and no homo. My husband treats me fairly, well, - gives, mo money if I ask for It if he has it. . He works some, but not steady. He wants to work awhile In one1 place until ho gets tired, and then go somewhere else in another , town. I have not had a home since I have been married. I have always taken care of myself and given him my money, too! I told him I wasn't going to follow him around any more and have asked him to sottle down and make a home. I got dissatisfied and weqt out nights to dances while my husband was absent. I met another man and we became great friends. I care for him as much as I do for my husband. I have seen him daily for two years, and have found him always tho same. He is now doing what my husband wouldn't do for his people. He has been married but was divorced five years ago. He always has money and has a machine.- He tells me to live with my husband and treat him right and give him a square deal, and if he does not make me a home I had better get a divorce. I don't believe in divorces, but can't see what to do. He has offered me a home, but tells me he can't see me while I am living with my husband. He says. I will have to give one or the other up. I don't see how I can give up this friend and not see him the way I would like to. Is it wrong for me to tm in ri-inr-ea with other women? My

friend thinks I should stay with my husband. . UNDECIDED. Your friend seems to be a very competent adviser. You and your husband should begin to live in a different way. Instead of drifting, he ought to secure permanent employment and provide a home for you. If you work, it is ridiculous that your husband should receive any of your money. Keep it to yourself and save what you can. m . ' If your husband is unreasonable, Vnt fulfill his oblilatlons as

a hnnhnnd it seems to me that you

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ing a divorce. Your friend is quite right in saying that he cannot 3ee you while you are a married woman. Give your husband another trial and you may find that ho is dearer to you than your friend.

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She Married An Average Man BY ZOB BECKLBY

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To a woman whose married life is one long struggle against poverty or sickness or kindred material calamities, probably my problems would seem insignificant. For I am comfortably housed and clothed, and there are no bilW I cannot meet. My husband is a "good man" as the phrase goes. Yet at this moment he is calmly , examining an engineering plant a hundred miles away, after we had been estranged for a fortnight and as I supposed were ready to iBweep misunderstanding away and start our happiness afresh. - What a laughable situation for a woman with youth, good looks and intellect! Why, I am not so well off as the brainless girl who lures her brainless man with rude coquetries! I am less successful than the workman's wife with her man's Saturday . night pay envelope. The woman who is harassed with ekeing out expenses, fighting croup and scarlet fever, contending with a frequently drunken husband and kindred horrors, feels herself a successful wife if she keeps her creditors off and her children alive. Her man may beat her occasionally for not being home when he arrives, hungry from his day's work. But at least he isn't indifferent! I can see now, as I never did before, the viewpoint of the battered wife who hauls her lord to the station house, yet with suddenly softened heart begs the judge to set him free. She feels, poor human creature, that at least he isn't indifferent! Better a beating and notice than a sound body unnoticed! Yes, for once I and my washerwoman view domestic happiness from precisely the same angle! We both want to be wanted. We both yearn for power to attract. We both realize that the wife who is merely a friend, a housekeeper, an ornament, is a failure. No matter what we say, we want our husbands to desire our company, to stay with us. to hold us personally valuable. And that is why I am sitting here, hurt and angry, chilled to the soul and utterly baffled. For I could outwit a

faithless man, reform a bad man and tame a wild man. But I cannot hold an indifferent, one "You forget," says Athena, suddenly coming in, her wise, sympathetic eyes trying to cheer me, "that Jim is now battling with problems of his own. We women who are nine parts emotion and one part impulse don't realize what it is to a man of Jim's plegmatic temperament to 'spill' any of his troubles. "He keeps them bottled up and fights them in his ' own way. I believe I understand Jim better than you do. I suppose it has never occurred to you. Carrots, that Jim feels a little er obscured by you? That it isn't altogether consideration for you that makes him mad at your work, but a species of jealousy? A sort of professional Jealousy, so to speak?" ' "No, I've never thought of it that way," I answered slowly. "I've called It pigheadedness, pride perhaps, but not - "And there's that Frlsbie woman," Interrupted Athena. "I honestly be

lieve he let her get her hooks in him

sort of to show you he could have his little affairs oh, I don't mean there was anything serious. His anxiety tp get away proves that. I think Jim is a. love bungler. He means all right, but he doesn't know how to manage love. And here's a tip of the two types, Jim and Eric Sands, who was an artist in love, Jim's the more worth while." I wonder! Anyhow, Athena made me feel better. (To be continued.)

Mr Solomon Says Being The Confessions of The Seven-Hundreth Wife. BY HELEN ROWLAND

(Copyright, 1919. by the Wheeler Syndicate, Inc.) The way to a man's heart is a "detour around his digestion. "I might have known you wouldn't be interested in them!" exclaimed the Widow in a disappointed tone, aa the Bachelor dragged her gently but

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forcibly., away .from the struggling crowd of women, at the "Tapestry Salo," . .. . . ..' ; . . "I am! he protested, still' tugging at her elbow,-and guiding her firmly out of the dusty auction rooms Into the sunlight .T adore them! But I

cant EAT: them: and I famishing I ;

, wo can . come ; back after lunch, - can't ,

we j The Widow ?ighed, and snapped her lorgnette together. a I : : ? . :: ; 1 ; "You're . Just . like . Clemonceau," she announced dramatically. ' - ' "Like which?" The Bachelor stopped in tho act of looking at his watch, to stare at her. "Like the French Premier!" repeat-, ed the Widow, "he wouldn't let the six hundred delegates sign the armistice until they had had their dejeuner. That's why it ; was signed at three o'clock in the afternoon, instead of at 'eleven In the morning and we never got the news until tho next day! What .was the nervous anxiety; of millions of people In HIS young life compared to the possible suffering of six -hundred ' masculine stomachs?" ! "Hear, hear!" cried the : Bachelor, admiringly. "Wise old bird! He knew what ho was doing. If ho had hailed them here on empty stomachs, ' quite i likely half of them would have come with a grouch and refused to sign at all!" - 1 "How well you know them," sighed theWidow, meekly permitting herself to be hurried . to "the nearest restaurant and sinking breathlessly down at the first available table. "No man ever did anything graciously or enthusiastically or effectively before luncheon from making peaco to making love!" "Humph," commented the Bachelor, without .taking his eyes from the alluring menu cord, "No sane man ever made love -before luncheon."

True," agreed the Widow; "that's where a widow has such a vast advantage over a young girl. She does not expect it. She would know intuitively that a proposal of marriage, coming from a man between breakfast waffles and luncheon truffles, was not sincere!'!

The Bachelor gave the order ana leaned back beaming with anticipation, as the waiter hurried off to fill it. "Yes," he asserted shamelessly, "Romance and sentiment are as hard to awaken before miday as a prima donna. But the average young girl expects to be fed thrills and flattery and devotion, all day long. If a chap doesn't play Romeo, on the golf links, before breakfast, she thinks his love is dead." "When it's merely his emotions that are in a state of coma," sympathized the Widow. "If he is silent and sinister, she fancies that he is suffering from soul starvation, when it is merely a famished appetite. That's why so many honeymoons go down with a crash. No woman understands a man until she has catered to a masculine digestion for at least a few years, and learned by bard experience, when to offer him kisses, when to offer him sandwiches, and when to offer him a dyspepsia tablet." "Exactly," acquiesced the Bachelor, beaming uponthe waiter as the latter uncovered the steaming brown guinea hen for his approvr.1. -"The

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way to man's hoart .ls through his stomach! Not all the advanced. tbeortes of the . modern grl can . Improve on that old axiom!" 1 , ' ? ) with her asparagus Indifferently. "The way to s man's heart is AROUND his stomach! If husbands and wives never saw each other until afternoon, they would bo sweethearts forever, and divorce would become as, obsolete as monarchy and as unpopular as the Kaiser. .It's . the rosy vision of the breakfast table tete-a-tcto that, lures most people into marriage, and the cold grey reality of the breakfast table grouch that drives most of them out of it And all the old saws to the contrary. It is not the wife who gets up and cooks his breakfact that holds her husband's love the -longest,' but the one that lies abed and avoids seeing him, before breakfast. The old myth that', marriage, to a 'woman,' is merely the deification of a man's stomach and a perpetual sacrifice1 on the altar of his digestion has tempted many a poor young thing to burn her fingers to the bone merely in order to feed her husband into a state of chronic dyspepsia! - Ever since Eve offered Adam the apple,, woman, has been held responsible for a man's digestion and is expected to spend her life in planning tempting things to feed him, and the other half in curing him from their effects " "Well," broke in the Bachelor, in high good humor, "It's a noble life worjc, isn't it? When you consider that the affairs of the whole world hinge on and revolve around it? If everything, from the stock market to marriage, and from revolutions to world-peace, depend upon the state of the human stomach, why shouldn't that sacred organ be deified? Feed a Bolshevist and he becomes a political plutocrat! Feed a cynic and he becomes an optimist, is merely a matter of dinner before and after tak-, ing. "Yes," admitted the Widow, with a sigh. "The destiny of the whole world has always hung on the state of the masculine digestion. ' I have always suspected that it was not Cleopatra's boauty, but tbe way her cook fried nightengale's tongues, that induced Anthony to change the history of Rome for her. And I'vo always felt

secretly, that It was German cooking that drove the 'Kaiser mad and Inspired him -to start the world war! ..And certainly Hymn of Hate' was written on top of a late luncheon -of wiener warst and pretsels. Jfs the Might French breakfasts that keeps - the Frenchman optimistic and light-hearted; and the heavy English breakfasts that..make the Englishman stolid and serious; and jthe hurriedly gulped down, American breakfasts that makes the . American a bundle . of ' nervous activity. - It's the cooks that make the world go round and - yet what . cook ever got credit ' for it? H What- cooic ever had. a statue or a monument erected to him or to her? What cook ever received anything, except the left-overs from the table and the complaints when anything went wrong!" "Oh wen," and the Bachelor stirred his coffee and puffed his cigarette. with a delicious sense of well-being which nothing could mar, "it ought to be sufficient for a woman to know she holds a man's destiny in her hands along with the frying pan if she loves him." ' ' ' v'--"It isif she loves him ENOUGH," admitted the Widow, ruefully. "Otherwise she would never exchange the pleaiuro of charming him after dinner for the privilege of enduring him before breakfast! . And there would be

no marrying nor giving in marriage." ."And the world would be just Uke Heaven!" finished - tho Bachelor.

with unruffled cheerfulness. " "

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