Nappanee Advance-News, Volume 109, Number 3, Nappanee, Elkhart County, 12 June 1985 — Page 6

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i Nappanee Advance News Wednesdav, June 12,1985

Announce engagements

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Steve Eppley & Cynthia Yoder Stutzman-Yoder Mr. and Mrs. A. J. Stutzman, R 3, Paris, Texas, announce the engagement and approaching marriage of their daughter, Kaylene, to Jared Yoder, son of Edwin Yoder, Nappa nee. A July 6 wedding is planned, and will be held in Paris, Texas. The couple will make their home in Goshen «; xQ Rotary report... John Leavitt, president, had charge of last Wednesday's meeting of the Nappanee Rotary Club, held at Roeder’s Bakery. Tom Thornburg serves as sgt. at arms, and singing was led by Jim Moore. Russ Shaw introduced the Student of the Month, Marla Anglemeyer. She is interested in word processing,

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Yoder-Eppley Mr. and Mrs. Ernie Yoder, R 2, Milford, announce the engagement of their daughter, Cynthia Ann Yoder, to Steve Eppley, son of Mr. and Mrs. Dewey Eppley, 452 N. Main St., Nappanee. Both are graduates of North Wood High School. Miss Yoder, a radiologist technologist, is employed at Med Arts Orthopedic Surgeons, Goshen, and her fiance is selfemployed at Steve’s Marathon, Nappanee. A summer wedding is being planned.

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Jared Yoder & Ka vlene Stutzman and plans to attend IVY Tech. The subject for the program was “Bees”, and the program proved to be interesting. Coming programs include “Mainstreet USA”, presented this week, by Paul Dougherty. At a recent board meeting, it was decided to contribute $25 to the new Concord Rotary Club, and SIOO to the local Junior Achievement program.

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Happy 60th birthday, Camp Mack. Sunday we. joined hundreds of other former and present campers, leaders and staff members at Camp Alexander Mack. Milford, for a birthday party. If you haven’t driven over to Camp Mack for a while, you should make the trip-you’ll find a lot of changes taking place. Years ago, when I enjoyed camp as a Church of the Brethren in-

termediate, junior high and youth camper (10 years in all), there was just one camp, and. by the time the week was over, we knew most everyone on the grounds-especially the lifeguard! In the interest of economics, and because camping has grown so much in popularity, the camp grounds have been expanded, and two camps can now operate at the same time. Dining facilities have been Happy Birthday • 13 Warren Freed Esther George Roger Harman Margaret D. Evans Ralph Warren Mary Etta Kuhns 14 Bill Jones Kent Biller Doug Weaver Mark Ervin Lyle Faulkner 15 Dennis Weaver Mrs. Don Anglin Mrs. John Heisel Jill Hardesty Arlene Blosser Mrs. Samuel Etsinger 16 Mrs. Lawrence Harter Judy Dibble Nick Yoder Connie Smith Richard Clouse Claude Heckaman Thomas Phillips Eugina Hershberger 17 Phil Witt Lee Price Kenton D. Slabaugh 18 Mrs. Bill Jones Russell C. Hostetter Jerry Miller Virgil Fisher 19 Rosemary Lutes Paul Mast Mrs. Chancey Mast Mrs. Twila Burckhart Gregory Dirrim Debra Beehler Mrs. Leonard Ganger

enlarged, more cabins constructed, and lodges winterized to accomodate year-round retreat groups and special meetings. And yet the charm of Camp Mack hasn't changed. It was nice seeing friends, and I thought I recognized one of my former leaders, but I wasn't sure enough to ask. We walked the camp grounds, marveling at the stonework evident in many of the buildings; enjoyed seeing the famous murals on the walls of the auditorium (by the way, the seats there are still as hard as ever!); were impressed at the comfort of the new Wampler Retreat Center, and enjoyed refreshments in the shade of Jacob’s Well (which now houses a water cooler instead of the well-due to health regulations). We checked this year’s camping schedule, and found that 21 camps are scheduled for this season, including special times for beginners, juniors, junior high, wilderness campers, youth, adults and families. In addition, several weekend camps for women have been scheduled, and persons have been encouraged to check out Camp Mack’s “sister” camp. Living Waters Wilderness Site near Cicero. Since 1925, Camp Mack has been serving various groups and developing its facilities, with the desire to provide a setting where people, as individuals, and as a community, may worship, study and reflect in relation to themselves, other persons, God, and the natural order. Missing from Sunday's celebration were “Mom and Pop” Schultz, who are gone now, but remembered with love by hundreds of campers and leaders Sunday's trip to Milford was well worth the>. effort, and we have a renewed respect and interest for the camping ministry being provided by our church denomination.

Growing Up... You may have heard someone say, "Children today don’t do what their parents tell them!’’ But what can parents do when children don’t behave the way they want? There are basically three types of responses parents use in dealing with their children, according to Growing Up, the newsletter for parents of school age children. These responses are “helpless”, “hostile” and “effective”. The helpless parent immediately admits defeat, even before the child knows clearly what behavior is expected of him. The helpless parent frequently makes gigantic threatswhich the child knows will never be carried out. For example: Parent, “When will you ever get started on your homework?” Child, “I just want to watch some TV.” Parent, “I don’t know what to do with you. You never listen to what I say. I swear you won't get any present from me for your birthday.” The child is usually well aware V

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Recite vows June 1

Stephanie Ann Truex became the bride of David Allen Eisfelder in a June 1 wedding ceremony at the Church of the Brethren, Nappanee. Pastor Otto Beer, Jr. officiated. Parents of the bride are Mr. and Mrs. Don Truex , 21837 US 6 Rt. 1, New Paris. Mr. and Mrs. Carl Eisfelder, Rt. 1, Marengo, are parents of the groom. Honor attendant for the bride was Deb Ambruster. Angie Honeycutt, Theresa Eisfelder, and Michelle Morehouse served as bridesmaids. Amy Sloat was flower girl. Best man for the groom was Brian Eisfelder. Groomsmen were Jeff Eisfelder, Mark Eisfelder, and Mike Cook. Ushers were Scot Honeycutt and Mark Gessinger. Nathan King served as ring bearer. Music for the ceremony was provided by pianist Chris Kirkdorffer, vocalists Pam Kirkdorffer and Eric Murnaw, and organist Marie Tom. The bride wore a gown of white silesta satin chiffon. It featured a full-skirt, seed pearls, scoop neckline and a cathedral train. She wore a matching picture hat covered in lace. Bridesmaids and the maid of

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that the parent’s threat can’t or won’t be carried out, When the parent admits defeat like this, the child gains control. The hostile parent also operates - from a position of weakness. But the hostile parent tries to cover up feelings of inadequacy and insecurity by angry and sarcastic words which are sometimes accompanied by physical violence. Parent, “Get started on your homework or I’ll box your ears!” Child, “I just want to watch some TV.” Parent, “You are the worst kid I have ever known. You are a real dummy. I’ll bet you end up in jail someday!” The hostile parent frequently overreacts to a particular situationlike using an elephant gun to scare a mouse! A milder, more reasonable approach is more likely to gain the child’s respect and bring about cooperation. The effective parent tells a child exactly what is expected and what the consequences will be if the child doesn’t comply. Effective parents

Mr. and Mrs. David Allen Eisfelder

honor wore rainbow colored dresses, in seafoam green, yellow, blue and pink. The dresses featured a taffeta underskirt with a polyester organza overskirt. The embroidered schiffli lace detailing matched the bride’s dress. The bride carried a cascade of gaphet orchids, pink sweetheart roses, white status, ivy, and plumosa. A reception was held following the ceremony at the church. Janet McCuen, aunt of the bride, Connie Kirkdorffer, and Ellen Brown acted as servers. Host and hostess were Bob and Carol Gessinger, aunt and uncle of the bride. ■ The bride is a graduate of Fairfield High School and Wawasee Area Vocational School. Her husband is a graduate of Paoli High School. The bride is a hair designer at Hair Force in Syracuse. The groom is employed at Interior Woodworking in New Paris. After a two week honeymoon to the Smoky Mountains and Myrtle Beach, the couple will reside at 18857 US6Rt 1, New Paris.

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apply punishment immediately and consistently-no ifs, ands, or buts about it! Parent, “It’s time to do your homework.” Child, “I just want to watch some TV.’ Parent, “No, you may not, because we agreed last night that there would be no television tonight unless your room was tidied. If you get your room cleaned by 6p.m. tomorrow night-including putting all your shoes and socks away neatly-then you will be allowed to watch one hour of television tomorrow evening-after your homework is finished.” Knowing in advance what the rules are, knowing that the rules will be applied consistently, and knowing what the consequences will be for breaking the rules, gives a child a feeling of security. Growing Up newsletter follows a child’s development through the school years. For more information, write to Growing Up, P.O. Box 620 N, Lafayette, IN. 47902. Include the child’s school grade when writing.