Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 10 August 1952 — Page 28

'T'HERE was no wedding reception yesterday when Miss Margie Zuromski and Edward Fetta, Providence, R. I, got married in St. Philip of Neri Catholic Church. Jut it was purposely planned that way, "fhe newly-

left immediately for

wed Rhode lsland where the bridegroom’s parents will entertain

for them with a reception arid agance The will return here to make their home, Miss Zuromski was living with her grandmother on Illi-

nois St.

couple

» ” ¥ ORLEANS doesn’t Mardi Gras to attract tourists. Mr. and Mrs. Larry Spangler ,and Mr. and Mrs, John Freeman, 5143 E. Washington St., find this French city appealing all year 'round. The two couples will drive to Louisiana this week for a vacation.

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» ” ~ AFTER TOURING all the United States, Miss Alice MecMahon, ©5204 Pleasant Run Pkwy., N.’ Dr, has evidently decided the Middle West isn't bad either. Her vacation this week will take her to Crooked Lake, Mich. nw ” ” i THE HAWAIIAN war chant was the only thing missing from the Edward Griffins’ dinner -party. last night at their Meadowbrook apartment, 3ut the drinks and food made up for the lack of music supplying all the necessary atmosphere. A -pineapple cocktail in deep coconut shells, was cerved to guests before the island meal. And after dinner, Mr. Griffin showed colored films he and his wife had taken on their recent trip to Hawall. : » i » IF YOUR husband should come home laden with. roses, don’t question him. You may be as disappointed as Mrs. Elmer Haskett, Rushville, formerly of Indianapolis, was. Upon his arrival home yes-

: We, the Women—

terday, Mr. Haskett greeted his wife at the door with a dozen roses. Before she had a chance to express her appreciation for the flowers, Mr. Haskett had gone back to his car. The second trip to the door was a little more difficult, Up the walk came the husband with an armful of roses, Cornpletely amazed by now, Mrs. Haskett uttered, "How wonderful of vou to bring me all those flowers.” Undiplomatically, her husband answered, "I was driving home and saw a man peddling the flowers, 1 stopped to.buy a dozen since they were inexpensive and asked him what would happen to the other six dozen

he had left. When he said they'd probably just have to be thrown away, I brought the

poor things home." Never question a kind act: n n ”

A SURPRISE party was held

last. night for Mr. and Mrs, David Zinter, 37 W, 21st St, in their own home. But the hon-

or guests didn’t quite make ft, The Zinters, who were celebrating their seventh wedding anniversary, had made plans to go out alone for dinner, then return home to play cards with some neighbors. But the neighbors got into the apartment while the Zinters were gone, decorated it and set a candlelight ‘table for the event. When ‘the Zinters called and explained they would not make it home for the card game since it was their anniversary, the neighbors had no choice but to start the celebration. The honor guests made It three hours later at the tail end of the event.

Eagerness to Learn Counts

: By RUTH A

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N EMPLOYER made this comment about a young woman he had just hired: “There is a lot she doesn’t

“But she seems to be intelligent and she is eager to

learn. So I hired her, and I think she'll do all right.”

The real tip-off why that particular girl im- : pressed t he employer lies in those three words,” “eager to learn.” Any jobhunting young man or woman hoping to advance ought

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know everything. He can over- | look lack of experience if =a

young person seems interested, | intelligent, ambitious and above |

all, eager to learn.

So whether you are hunting |

for a job or hoping for a promotion, make full use of that asset anyone can have, wanting to learn. » » LJ THE PEOPLE who stay in the little jobs year after year and are never considered for anything better are the ones

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Time phato by William A, Oates Jr

THAT'S IT—Mesdames L. O. Dalton, Charles Bamberger and James Stultz (left to right), Indianapolis Alumnae Chapter, Alpha Phi Sorority mem bers, locate 7500 Marsh Rd., home of Mrs. Burton Beck, on a city map. Mrs. Beck will be hostess this afternoon for the sorority’s nautical rush party. Invitations were in the form of cruise maps.

Alpha Phis to Stage Nautical Party

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F YOU'RE planning attend the noon to 3 p. m. rush party today in the home of Mrs. Burton Beck, 7500 Marsh Rd., don your sailing togs.

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The party will be the second

summer rush event given by

the Indianapolis Alumnae

Chapter, Alpha Phi Sorority. Cruise maps were sent to guests who will be freshmen from Indiana, DePauw and Denison Universities. Invited travelers will walk up a gangplank from the parking

City Tri Kappas Announce Committees

NDIANAPOLIS Chapter, Kappa Kappa Kappa Sorority, will open its new year Sept. 8 with a skit by new pledges and installation of officers, Those to be installed will be Mre. Richard Englehart; ident; Mrs. Robert Schneider, vice president; Mrs. Donald McComb, corresponding secretary;

Miss Ruth Allison, secretary; Mrs. Art Christy, treasurer, and

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Katherine Cox, alumnae in charge of

Assitsing her will be Mrs. (Charles Bamberger, refreshments; Mrs. Richard Brown,

decorations; Miss Jane Helmus,

Miss Mary Ellen Mills, historian. The group recently met with Mrs. Englehart, 5730 Primrose Ave. *at which time committee heads were appointed. n n u INCLUDE Mrs. R, Mrs. W. G. 11 Mrs. ways and means; Mrs, G. E. Snyder, program; Mrs. Michael Habig, year book; Mrs. Richard Raab, scholarships; Mrs. William |

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entertainment, and Miss. Ada Mae Koontz, invitations. Active members who will attend are Misses Janet Callon, Carol Dady, Kay Mussetter, Judy Trittin, Joy Wilson, Paula Hawkins, Barbara Wildhack, Jane Peek and Mrs. Stutz, n n n MISS JUDY WADE, Terre Haute; Miss Susan Wittgen and Miss Jo Scism, Evansville; Miss Pat D'Sinter, Highland Park, I11.; Miss Barbara Castetter, Fishers; Miss Mahgl Schloot, Bedford; Miss Peggy Rippetoe, Connersville; Miss Susie Weathers; Auburn,” and Mrs. Jack Gartland, Marion,

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cheer; Miss Lois Herendeen, mailing; Mrs. Patrick Grady, public: relations, -~ and Mrs.

Charles Jackson, refreshments. Tentative plans were made for a Charity Ball to be this

fall. Pledging will take place Feb. 24, 1953, and initiation Mar. 24.

The Mature Parent—

Don’t Depend on ‘Kindness’

By MURIEL LAWRENCE KNOW a charming, intelligent young woman with a degree from a noted university who, although talented, has made _ poor progress in her work. Recently she applied for a job.

interview, she called me excitedly to tell me that her prospective employer had promised her $5000

a year, quick Increases and sure advancement. “Isn't it blissful?” she asked. me. “The woman I talked to was so kind and helpful. It's just the job I've been waiting for.” When the job didn’t materialize, she came to see me as depressed as she had been exhilarated. I said, “Beth, what led you to want to believe in the integrity of semeone who made you such big promises without knowing anything important about you?” She stared at me. filled with tears.

stroy my faith in people.”

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THIS IS A dependent child.

in “faith” in everyone's been bad training. It evasion and dependence.

Her university degree has not been able to counterbalance this evasive dependence. need to believe in the goodwill and kindness of everyone she has worked for is a self-protective She has to believe in them because she

device.

Speakers Set Program

Miss Mae McDaniel is in charge of the program for the meeting of Meridian Toastmistress Club at 6:10 p. m. tomorrow in the Central Branch YMCA. Participating in the program will be Mrs. Gertrude Birsfield, topicmistress; Miss Jean Wesseler, toastmistress; Mrs. Harriette Forsee, timer; Mrs. Bernice Whitley and Mary Tanselle, critics, and Miss Nora Jane Carey, general evaluator. Mrs. Katherine Beville will give the invocation and closing thought. Speeches will be given by Mrs. Dorothy Greig, Mrs.

Dixie Keithley and Miss Mary Cowger,

Club to Meet

Mrs. Tee Angerer, 1310 Wright St., will be hostess Thursday for the On-Ea-Ota Club. Bridge will be played after the luncheon and business session.

Then her lovely blue eyes “Oh, Mrs. Lawrence,” she reproached me, “if you talk like that, you'll de-

loving kindness has has been training in

_ SUNDAY, AUG. 10, 1952 8

does not know what to do with ill-will and unkindness. « To survive, she has had to pretend they do not exist. As they do exist, she has had a hard time surviving. Sood AS HUMAN beings are only loving and kind part of the time, children get into trouble when they don’t know how to handle what goes on © in human beings the rest of the time. Last month, our universities graduated thousands of young Americans into the world of ambition, malice and envy as well as the world of justice and kindness. I sincerely hope they are not going to entrust their professional futures to the loving kindness of their associates without sufficient reasons to do so.

HARRY’S SUCCESS as a businessman may depend not on his degree but on his fearless recognition of envy in himself and those around him. Mary's art degree will be of small use if she feels it is ignoble to see through the unwarranted criticism by her ambitious advertising director. It is our refusal to brief young people on the malice and envy of the workaday world that makes them their victims. We refuse this education because we secretly fear what malice and envy can do. We take refuge from the burden of this instruction in pious talk about “faith” and “trust” in people. Instead we should say, “Where there are justice and love, trust them. Where there are none, do not trust.” I was shocked by the attitude of my young friend. Her parents are adults who pride themselves on their religious devotion and moral worth. We have no moral or religious grounds at all for ascribing good motives to those who are struggling with bad ones. We are just afraid of what the bad ones can do to us.

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WHEN you are introduced to someone you do not catch the name. WRONG: Let it go, thinking it doesn’t matter. RIGHT: Ask to have the name repeated, so that you

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Tota Chapter, Alpha Delta Tau Sorority, will install new officers at a 7 p: m. dinner meeting Aug. 18 in the Fireside Inn, 522 E. Raymond St.

will be able to call the per- ays Joseph Roger will pe son by name when saying presigent, “Goodby,” and be able to in- i Other officers are Mrs. Latroduce the person if the verne Black; —viee president; need arises. Miss Isabelle Mink and Mrs.

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YOU DECIDE to leave a corresponding secretaries; Mrs, night club before the floor Marguerite VanHorn, trease show is over. urer; Mrs. Alvin French, serWRONG: Get up and leave geant at arms; ‘Mrs. Sidney during a number. Smock, attorney general, and

RIGHT: Wait until the Mrs. Edna Sparks, chaplain. number is finished and then leave quietly. n un ” YOU DREAD the thought of going to a funeral. WRONG: Let that be your excuse for not going to funerals when you know you really should. * RIGHT: Realize that standing by friends in time of sorrow is a duty.

War Widows to Meet World War 1° Widows will hold a picnic next Sunday in Brookside Park. Those attending are asked to bring their own covered dish and table service. They will meet at 5 p. m. in the shelter house. All World War I widows are invited. ®

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