Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 28 July 1952 — Page 4

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Times photo hy Dean Timmerman

BOBBY MAINFORT, 3, demonstrates his skill with his excavator and “making over” the back yard. His mechanical equipment gets a regular overhaul job, is greased, washed and gassed up at periodic intervals during the day. Mr. and Mrs. R. Carlisle Mainfort, 414 W. "Hampton Dr., are Bobby's parents.

The Mature Parent—

Be Slow to Atri

By MURIEL LAWRENCE NCE THERE was 4 little girl named Joyce whose mother was a pretty and muchHer mother

was also very impulsive and

careless, However, since it was to the mate- : rial profit of ’ 7 less prosperous friends

and relatives to call her impulsive carelessness| ‘“generosity,” she got to believing this herself. Gradually she learned to take great pride in her reputation for “generosity.” When Joyce was eight years old, her mother gave her a string of small carved jade beads. They were beautiful and Joyce, who grew up to be an artist, loved them dearly. One day when her mother was dressing to go out,’ she said suddenly to Joyce, “Where are your beads? 1 want to wear them today.”

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” n » A LOOK OF stubborn resistance appeared on Joyce's face. Her mother stared at her in horror and burst into tears. “Oh, to think that I should have such a selfish child.” she cried. “When I thing of how kind and generous I am to you, I wonder that you dare refuse me a loan of your beads.” This experience deeply impressed Joyce. When she was a grown woman, her unfortunate inability to say “No” to anyone who wanted to take something from her without giving anything in return was such a problem that she had to seek professional help with it.

» » ” IT WAS during this time that she first realized that her refusal to lend her beads had been based on a sound practical reason. She realized that she had not been “selfish” at all.

She had merely been afraid that her careless, impulsive mother would éither lose her beads or give them away to the first person who happened to admire them. Thus, this Joyce's motive

misjudgment of fn refusing to lend her beads had great influence upon her life, She spent many years of it trying to disprove a false charge of selfishness. Our child guidance books endlessly emphasize the Iimportance of learning why Jimmy chooses an undasirable friend,” why Mary is always borrowing her sister's clothes, why Sally boasts of dates she does not have. What they do

not tell us so often is that we ~

have little Fiope indeed of learning any of these “whys” unless we have had some experience in unearthing our own. s Without this information, the books’ advice only frustrates us and makes us anxious, » = »

HOW COULD we possibly

expect Joyce's mother to have

heen interested in her daughter's motive when she had built her own life on evasion of her own? To the end of her days. Joyee's mother firmly believed that her steadily diminishing fortunes were due to her excessive generosity to others, She would have violently resisted anyone_.who suggested that carelessness and an appetite for flattery were responsible. Like Joyce, many of us operate on misjudgments that we are still trying to disprove, though we think we are grownup and independent.

Because someone once called

us “lazy,” we take pride in overwork, Because we were once falsely accused of care-

lessness with truth, we rush to tell everything we know to anyone who asks us a question. Because ‘a blunt and honest

Tips on Care of Feet

HE- SUMMER season brings with it some doubious Joys: mosquitoes, traffic jams; visite from out-of-town

relatives and aching feet.

What with shoes that are too

tight, athlete's foot epidemics and other seasonal plights,

ranks of the foot weary swell to record numbers as the thermometer climbs. Many of the footsore manage

to make themselves and their feet more miserable than they need to by wearing the wrong kind of shoes and bv not changing footwear daily. Foot specialists have found that summer plays havoc with foot comfort because most peaple are less careful about their feet

than at any other time of the vear,

If you agree that the limping and hobbling doesn't look good on you, and if you're tired of that summer foot ache routine, you'll he interested in recent laboratory findings. which disclose that the insides of an all-leather shoe is at

: least 20 degrees cooler than the "hot pavements, The reason for this i« that the natural fibres .in

leather permit free circulation of air and evaporation of moisture,

To keep your feet comfortable during the summer, foot specialists recommend that vou observe the following rules Bathe your feet at least daily in tepid water, then dry them carefully and use talcum powder afterwards. Never wear the same shoed two days in succession, and change socks or stockings often. For coolness. and ventilation

wear all-leather shoes, both soler a uppers, Save sneakers a layshoes for heach wear soft surfaces only,

Feet’ swell in summer. So be

sure to wear the proper =zize and half inch longer than the tip of your

toes),

shoes stockings (a

Limber up your feet at in-

tervals-—they have muscles, too, remember., Wiggles your toes! Ringworm of the foot thrives only in hot, soggy environ ment. Wear leather soles to keep feet cool and dry. Don't he a bathroom surgeone If vour feet need attention, consult a podiatrist or chiropodist

Two Fashion. Shows Set

Two shows of céllege fashfons are being planned by Ayres" in conjunction with their hack-to-gchool fashion promaotions, The first show will take place Aug. 6 with performances, at 2:30 pm. and 5:45 p.m. in the

Auditorium,

Thiz show will be tied in with fashions photographed in "the August issue of Mademoiselle magazine and will be called “Mademoiselle Gets Our Votes."

The second show. will be themed to the Vogue magazine collection of fashions. It will be held Aug. 13 with performances at 2:30 pm. and 5:45 p.m. The name of the show will he “The 1952 Look for the Young In or Out of College.” :

bute Motives

comment was severely reproved as “impudence,” we find it almost impossible to speak our mind to our child. Misjudgment of motives in children is destructive and if we wish to spare them. we have no alternative to understanding how misjudgment of our own motives has influenced us.

cessories to tote to the Hoe Down Turniment to purty things up a bit. Mesdames Paul Summers, Walter Colbath and Robert Fry.

fear.

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QUESTION: I am afraid of

terribly When a storm comes up 1 drop all my

storms

work and just sit in. great fear. After it is over 1 am weak and sick. My breathing fg not nermal and I cannot concentrate enough to hold an intelligent conversation. My husband and friends

kid me about this and have tried making me sit out on the porch with them to watch

a storm go by, but this just makes things worse. I would do anything to overcome this

fear. 1s there any advice you can give me?

ANSWER: This appears to be a real fear or phobia. It is doubtful that you can conquer it yourself. A psychiatrist might be able to help but since storms. are not continuous, you may be able to learn to live with this one

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Committees Set For Museum Guild Fashion Gallery

HE CHILDREN'S Museum Guild announces comhittees who will be working on plans for their “Jo Copeland’s Fashion Gallery” show to be held in the Columbia

Club, at a luncheon at 12:30 p. m. Sept. 9 and 10. .

Mrs. Tim Blakley is general chairman. Mrs. Ben Bugbee is ticket chairman for the Sept. 9 show, Mrs, (lark for the Sept. 10 sholw, "Committee members 4ssisting : them are Mesdames Frank King, Chester Schuetz, Robert Butterworth, Dillon Huder, William Leppert and H. Earl! Capehart Jr. Mrs. Robert McConnell is chairman of club arrangements assisted by Mrs. Robert B. Stone, Assisting Mrs. E. Paul Tischer, chiarman of the hostess committee, are Mesdames Sherwood Blue, Thomas Capehart, Ralph Coble, Paul DeVault, Dudley Gallahue, Richard Hill, William Leppert, Earl Mericle, William Norman, Arthur Northrup, Vincent Kelly, Dale :Stenz and Victor Vollrath. : MRS FRANK HABIB JR. is chairman of the telephone committee. Assisting her will be Mesdames William- Brennan, Berkley Duck Jr., William Forsyth, Robert Gruen, William Finney, Frederick Hadley, Kenneth Kinnear, Frank King, John Spahr, J."R. Sutherlin and John Troyer, Assisting Mrs. William Wigging, publicity chairman, are Mrs. Vincent Adams, Edward Gallagher, John Heidt Jr., Robert Kirby, E. G. Mauck, Russell Ryan Jr. and Frank Sisson. Mrs. John Woolling, new president ‘of the club, has anpounced her standing committee chairmen to assist her with club activities during her tenure of office. They include Mrs. Richard Bearss, clerical committee;

take place Friday at the club.

Keep Them Clean Never use a dust cloth but once without washing it, Soiled rags tucked away in corners

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Mrs. Henry Peirce, exhibit, repair committee; Mrs. Thomas Capehart, telephone; Mrs. Wiggins, publicity; Mrs. Mericle, museum hospitality; Mrs. Donald Morris, white elephant sale; Mrs. King, year hoko; Mrs. William Keller and Mrs. Donald McGfiff, museum craft class; Mrs. Dale Stenz, hostes arrangements; Mrs. Tim Blakley and Mrs. Schuetz, ways and means.

Pre-Wedding Parties Set

Three parties will be held this week honoring Miss Flo Mary Foreman and her fiance, Thomas David Mantel. Miss Helen Rogers, 1217 Pickwick PIl., entertains tonight, A bridal dinner honoring the families of the couple and the wedding attendants will be held tomorrow night at Meridian Hills Country Club. The host will be Dr, Harry Lee Foreman, father of the bride to be. Later in the evening a dance will be given by Drs, and Mesdames Ralph Lechry, William E. Gabe, Harry R. Kerr and Edgar T. Haynes, in the Lochry home. 6150 Crows Nest Dr. The Mantel-Foreman wedding will take place at 2:30 p. m. Wednesday in the garden of Dr. and Mrs. Lochry. Mr. Mantel is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Samuel J. Mantel, 5650 N, Pennsylvania St. Miss Foreman and her father live in 3835 Washington Blvd.

Times photo by John R. Spicklenire,

GETTIN’ THE DECORATIN’ DONE—Meridian Hills members look over Daisy Mae's riding ac-

They are (left to right)

The Hoe Down golf tournament will

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We, the Women—

. MONDAY, JULY 28, 1952"

Rose and Betty Sue Ross.

Mother-in-Law Trouble? Just Try to Avoid Her

By RUTH MILLETT RITES a wife: “My mother-in-law has been ‘against’ me since the day I married her son. “I have tried in every way I know to win her respect

and liking and friendship. is one of concealed dislike. “I don't know how to cope with it, because she is really clever in the way she manages to throw monkey wrenches into my plans, to overlook whatever good qualities I have and em- 7 & phasize my oo failures, to Ce take me down y a notch whenever I am Ruth Millett pleased about anything I have done.

“If she would bring her dis-

like out into the open, our releast be honest.

“But if she did, my husband might side with me, 20" she is too clever for that. She just snipes at me. wouldn't enjoy sniping back, I am really frustrated. What can you do about a situation like that?”

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SEE AS LITTLE of her as you gracefully can. Say nothing to her that she can use against you. Learn to keep your business to yourself. After all, if she doesn’t know what you are planning until the plan is accomplished, she can’t very well throw any monkey wrenches.

And for your own happiness, try to realize that she must be a very unhappy person if she

And since I .

But her attitude toward me

finds pleasure and satisfaction in trying to tear you down.

If you can understand why

she acts as she does, you'll be better able to overlook things that otherwise might hurt you. You have a real problem, all right. But the best way to handle it, as you have. already figured out, isn’t to snipe back, but to keep your own counsel and cultivate a tranquil manner that will in time tell her the barbs aren't hitting home.

Bake Coffee Cake

Especially during the summer, you may wish to buy most of your yeast coffee cakes and rolls from your bakeshop. But if you are in a baking mood, this Orange, Glaze Coffee Whirl ia different, and has a tangy orange topping. When the dough has risen until doubled, punch down and let ‘rest 10 minutes. Roll dough under hands to long strand one inch in diameter. Coil dough into greased pan, 8 x 12 inches, following an “8” design. Let rise until doubled. When light, pour Orange Glaze gover dough and bake in moderate oven (375° F.) 25 to 30 minutes. Turn out of pan at once. To make Orange Glaze combine one cup confectioners’ sugar, one tablespoon orange rind and three tablespoons orange juice,

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Watch Care Hints Given

Don't put your watch in a pocketbook is the hint on watch care issued by the Omega Watch Co. of Bienne, Switzerland, whose equipment is being used this month to officially time the Olympic games in Helginki, Finland. Here are the 104-year old watchmaker's suggestions for keeping your watch in tip-top shape. Wind vour watch at the same time each ® morning. This will insure regular winding, and vour watch will be fully pyrepa red to meet the shocks of the day. If the strap breaks, keep the wateh in a safe place, not in vour handbag where powder or cosmetics may reach the delicate parts, or in your pockethook where loose change OF keys may injure it. And be sure to remove the watch before washing your hands. Immediately replace the erystal should it crack or break. Never open the back of the case yourself. This is a job for an expert watch repairman. For accurate performance, vour watch should be cleaned and oiled every year or two. To assure maximum efficiency, your watch, like Your car, should be serviced regularly by a qualified expert.

Bridge Results—

Results of play are announced by the Lincoln Bridge Club for its Friday night game: N&S

(possible Score 189)~—Mrs. Reba,

Buck, Mrs. George P, Ryan 1123 Mrs. BE. J. Ittenbach, Mrs. V, Ry Rupp 108; Charles E. Stimming, Perry Epstein 107; E&W (Possible 168)—8. A. Robinson, Mr. Rupp 108; Mrs. Randall Bass, ‘Mrs. Arch Falender 91.5; Norman Beatty, H. IL. White R05

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