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Inside Judianapelis .; ‘By Ed Sovola '

EVER WONDER how much time a man ¥

‘wastes each ye ear shaving? How far his razor travels over his face in a year's tima#? Pull up your shaving mug and give a listen. + If you don’t ‘have a shaving mug, just pull the body up. The statistics on beard-whacking should be memorizasd by women, girls, little boys with pink and fuzzy cheecks and those ‘guys who get by with a shave a week. Women should know some wet facts so: they would be more tolerant of a man who wants to-skip a shave. Girls should know because they're going to.grow up to be women. Fuzz-faced boys should know #o they won't be 30 eager to begin the daily operation. Shaving is a nuisance and not necessarily a badge of manhood.

THE FIGURES that have been compiled apply to my puss, Let's say they are average. Some shavers use a straight razor and lather. Others use safety razors and brushless cream. 1 use a safety and whatever comes out of a tube —Unguentine, chigger salve, toothpaste. Some men swear by an electric razor. I did once, until the agitator stopped and a few whiskers were caught in the cutting head. Since then I've sworn off, Something tells me that I'm going to get a call from an exclusive user of a sacred hunting knife that was picked up in Tibet during World War IL It’s “better than any razor I've ever used.” It is gruesome enough to look into a mirror in the morning and gather figures of your own. If you want more data, do a bit of investigating yourself, The days when shaving was a fascination exceeded only by a Ford tri-motor airplane on the ground are over. Shaving is a curse.

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MY SAFETY RAZOR is one and nine-six-teenths of an inch wide. The length of a stroke is about one inch. After the figures were down on paper and I was bleeding profusely, the total number of strokes almost floored me. It takes me

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By Ear

NEW YORK, May 14—What America needs °

now is comedy—so, hurray, we're getting ready to elect a Vice President. Sure, we elect a Boss Man, too, but it'll be the Veepstakes that'll provide the laughs. The B.W. and I'll soon be going to the conventions in the Windy City (what an apt name this year). To get set for it I had a look at the very funny musical, “Of Thee I Sing.” Paul Hartman, the great comic dancer, says he doesn't want to be Vice President—on account of his mother. “What's she got to do with it?” demand the bosses. “Suppose she finds out,” he gulps, The Veepship also gets belted around in “Joey Adams’ Joke Book,” this way: “Your brother ran for Vice President, didn’t he? What's he doing now?” “Nothing. He was elected.” @ <> YOU HAVE to ‘admit that Brothers Truman and Barkley took the Veepship out of the comedy class, but it just happened recently. I recall, in 1945, leaving Toots Shor's one night and telling some autograph kids, “Vice President Truman Is inside.” “Ta heck with the Viee President.” blurted one kid. “We're waiting for Robert Walker.” In “Of Thee I Sing,” Vice President Alexander Throttlebottom;, played by Dancer Hartman, is sad and frustrated, living in a furnished room somewhere, “It’s at 1448 Z St.” he stammers. “It’s all the way down to the other s+ + « it's really in Balti-

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I GOT bellylaughs out of it—thanks to authors George S. Kaufman and Morris Ryskind. And show gal Jeanne Tyler is merely one of the prettiest girls in the world. “’S funny,” Hartman told me, “but I was with Truman the day he was sworn in as Vice President. “I sat in the Vice President's Room with Stuart Symington, who was then building radios, “and his banker, John Snyder. They weren't nationally known then. “Then Truman became President and, well . +. I'm the only one in the room that didn't get ‘a "big appointment.” Curiously, the Veep portrayed by Hartman {= such a bad dresser that Hartman’s stage suits were some long out-of-style numbers that couldn't ‘be sold any longer in Wilkes-Barre, Pa. “They were just out-of-style enough for a Vice President,” Hartman said.

"Americana

By Robert C. Ruark

NEW YORK, May 14—The ‘guy had lumpy shoulders and a roughneck’s biceps and he talked real profane. “We got just two things, | left in this country,” he said. “Honest newspapermen and a few honest cops. There ain't anything better than either.” Most people in the newspaper ‘business want to be columnists or magazine writers or book authors or some other esoteric outcrop of the profession. I got a’guy for you who man. And he has more pro- { body I ever met. Jack Donahue is the assistant city editor of the Houston Press. He doesn't write much ahy more, but somebody handed him the ‘distasteful task of writing a little piece about me the sther day and he gave it as much muscle as if he were roughnecking on an oil rig or working on an exclusive out of Winston Churchill. We talked about a lot of things >for a couple of hours, and this guy never asked a trite question. Even on such a dull subject as me he was probing deeper than a psychiatrist, oP» MR. DONAHUE has lived as tough as most people read about living tough, and it has given him a tender love for the foibles of human beings that is wonderful to see. He has long since quit judging people according to the book basis; he has a capacity for sympathy that is amazing. He can see as much humanity in the messy murder of a shady lady as in the coronation of a

queen, He has a pride of ownership in the paper he

' works for that should gladden the heart of the

guy who owns it. It isn't the boss’ paper. It's Jack Donahue’s paper; and God help anybody that steps on it. He has a heavy hand on every word that appears in it, and he will kill you

for a comma, hd ob

MR. DONAHUE has been a stickman in a gambling joint and a hobo and a lot of ‘other things that do not qualify you for the Chamber of Commerce, but he also has read more books than anybody around and he has a reverence

for the dally writing trade that I "thought had

_ disappeared. he only reason he stopped over in Houston

we that he could see it grow, and the process of growth enthralls him. He has been here a long time, and he has neyer ceased being thrilled every time he wakes ond looks at the rude, brawling town where the ni drivers can't find ‘the because they just built a new street

! i the local expert on everything that goes on between the Shamrock Hotel and the illicit - The murders and the brawls and

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382 strokes. Don't call me a liar until you've counted how many strokes you ue to shave. To clean the upper lip required 53 strokes. For the right cheek I used 132 and for the left 116. Why 16 more strokes were used for the right cheek is hard to figure except that since I'm right-handed, it's easier to minipulate around

_-on that side.

For the chin and neck, 69 gruesome slices were required. That brought the tetal to 132 sirokes. Some men go over the entire face, chopping down the rough spots after completing a shave. My technique is to police up each area as I go along. Once I leave the lip, it stays. oii a ap ON THE BASIS of one inch to a stroke, 382 inches were traveled. That's the average. Many of the strokes are three ‘inches. The cleanup, mop-up strokes range from a quarter inch to half. You can figure the razor sliced around for 32 feet during one shave. Over a period of a year that adds up to 11,315 feet or about 234 miles. In 25 years of shaving (13 years from now) I will have pushed a razor over my face for 5215 miles. For the past 12 years, I've averaged one shave a day, figuring a miss or two on a fishing trip and adding one on the days when a big date was on the docket. It averages out. So, 3380 shaves in 12 years means that 1,281, 160 strokes were taken. Fantastic. On my silver shaving anniversary, 3,447.550 strokes will be behind me. dd THE WASTE of time and energy is enough to make one shed tears in his shaving aug. When I hear women complain about fingernail! polish, fixing their hair and applying makeup, 1 scoff. They don’t know what real trouble is, % How can you compare dabbing a bit of col cream and powder and lipstick and whatever else women use to parboiling a man’s face, scrubbing it, brushing on lather and finally scraping the bejabbers out of .it? If women were fair, they wouldn't. No wonder the wise men, the ancient scholars, wore beards. They had more sense than most of us have. Who wants to join me in a movement to get beards back?

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RETURN TO MORALITY

By CHARLES

WEDNESDAY, MAY 14, 1952 :

W. TOBEY

United States Senator Fram New Hampshire HAT harm can it do to make a little bet on the races, on the pinballs, or the numbers? Why not gamble a bit with the slot machines, with poker, or bridge? Every-

body gambles.

Gambling games in simplest form are, of course, not harmful in themselves. This is something the individual must determine for himself according to his own personal code of ethice

But suppose everyone gam- - bled, just a little? The effects are apparent. Ask businessmen and factory superintendents in towns where gambling devices are available,

In one of Zenith Radio's plants, letters from workers’ wives led President McDonald to .discover that gamblers were collecting about $7000 monthly from his employees. He learned that time lost by employees in their gambling cost the company $10,000 a week. This is, of course, only one example of the losses incurred

by the workers and the busi-

nessmen. : The gambling syndicate never seems to lose, What harm? If we could gamble just a little once in a while, perhaps there would be _no harm, just as there would be

none if we should drink a little,

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“They were going to be shipped to Europe,” Hartman added, “probably to be sold there as ‘the latest American models.’ ” de. de ae . THE MIDNIGHT EARL ... Fred Allen's off for Hollywood to appear in “Ransom of the Red r Chief,” based on an O. Henry story. “I play, a door-opener and phone- answerer,” Fred says. “Anything to ward off oblivion.” Jane Froman asked her husband, Pilot John C. Burn, when he'd quit flying. “When yd ou quit singing,” he said. ... Miss Morrissey Pat Torres the MiamiPhilly blonde ball of fire now at La Vie en Rose, is up for a screen test already at Paramount. Did tobacco heir Dick Reynolds buy a $100,000 diamond bauble here for Muriel Greenough? . Sonja Henie and husband Winnie Gardiner are already planning next year’s ice tour . . . Reefer addicts now call the stuff “long-playing records.” A Marciano-Matthews fight’s in the making for July . . . One guess is that the Yankees’ gate is off 15 per cent. Joe DiMaggio takes off for the coast (and Mmmmmmmm Monroe) Sunday . A Canadian-headed syndicate offered $15 million for Howard Hughes’ share of RKO. Tommy Manville and Ruth Webb act like they'll marry almost any time. She says her son, Jackie, 9, comes into $300,000 when he's 21. oo “TODAY'S BEST LAUGH: “A boy with a slingshot looked at the all-glass Lever Building and gasped, ‘Paradise’ ”—Jesse Kaplan. Danny Arnstein's the top stockholder in the group that took over a 12-station Cuban radio network. . Arnie Rosen and Coleman Jacoby, comedy writers who mapped the original‘ Jackie Gleason TV show that made him a star, will write the Larry Storch show that succeeds Jackie when he moves to CBS.

< * &» EARL'S PEARLS . . . Arnie Rosen mentions a chum whose bride is so fat, he's already leading a double-wife, > %

WISH I'D SAID THAT: “By ‘love is blind’ they mean that when you get married, you're still in the dark”—Seaman Jacobs, “> dS DG “IS HE QUIET and dull?” says Jean Carroll it the Riviera. “His wife collected life insurance on him three times.” . .. That's Earl, brother.

Here's Newspaperman From the Old School

the political connivings and the heartbeat of the town are his baby, and he is as jealous of the doings a% ever a mah was jealous of a woman. ¢ > & JACK DONAHUE has more sense of the dignity of human beings than anybody since Ernie Pyle, and his sense is not so demure and coy as was Ernie’s. Mr, Donahue does not want things in his paper according to what they should be. He wants them as they are, as humans do them, and he wants them simple. He is obsessed, with an idea that news should be as it lives—that it should come to readers as it is, in“the most graphically simple form that the hand of man can produce. He does not wish to preach, or” no higher calling than roustabouting in what he feels is the most exciting trade in the world. eSB HE WILL dissect every feature of his paper for you and tell you what is good about it and what is bad about it and where the worth of it lies, He is as hard-boiled as a movie reporter and as sentimental as a child over what he loves. He drinks whisky and brags about his fine wife's fine fried chicken and his three tough little boys and his first true love, his newspaper. I didn’t know whether there were any like him left. But if I had a paper I would like to have him on it, for this man is proud and jealous and cherishful of news,

Dishing the Dirt By Marguerite Smith

Q—I am interested in African violets, can raise them but would like to know more about them. Where can I get a magazine or some reading matter where I could learn more of their care? Mrs. Ivoner Mellings, Brazil. A—If you possibly can, come to the African Vio-

let Show the Indianapolis African Violet Club .

is putting on in Ayres’ Auditorium tomorrow and Friday. There you can get acquainted with local violet fans. They will be able to tell

‘Read Marguerite Smith's Garden Column in The Sunday Times you all ‘about the national viblet society which

‘publishes a magazine devoted sniirely to African violets.

r—— Q—What is the Now-down on disbudding, especially ‘pegnies? H.B. A—Disbudding really does make larger flowers. It’s a bit late to disbud peonies now but will still do some good. Try it on a few of your peonies and you will see the difference. The pinching off of these side-buds on dahlias, mums, roses, peonies, and other flowers is specially important when you're growing for exhibition. Do it-as soon as the side buds appear for the best results. Lo

But in these ¢hings moderation seldom lasts long, particularly in relation to gambling. A wise old man once said to me: “The best break 1 ever had was the day I lost a sizable sum at Monte Carlo,” The loss cured him. Had he won, the ‘easy money” might have ensnared him. - . » CORRUPTION thrives on the gambling instinct. If this is carried to the point where it becomes a deeply entrenched habit or necessity, it becomes a reversion to the primitive. There is no place in our world today for the expression of uncontrolled emotions, Civilization is the process by which mankind has suceeded in controlling natural emotions. Progress and success, which

are based on the finer concepts and not mere moneymaking, never come by chahce. They are the natural result of hard work and clear thinking. But does not one gamble in

investments in stocks, or in business ventures, we are asked.

There is a difference between the risk taken in such ventures and the chance taken in gambling. The difference is between the intelligent, courageous ventures of man's initiative and the lazy irresponsiblity that seeks something for nothing. » x »

THERE IS ALSO a difference between the casual gambler who may, and often does risk his last dollar for the thrill of the gambling idea, and the vicious type of gambler whose operations are based on a sure. thing, cleverly designed beforehand by his own ingenuity. This vicious type of gambler drains the very lifeblood of a nation, imbues it with all the varieties of crime known to the world.

RE Er IT TH VRS por

to remember—without the casual gambler the master gambler could not operate. Gambling profits are the principal support of big-time racketeering and gangsterism, These profits provide the resources whereby ordinary criminals become big-time racketeers, political bosses, pseudo _businessmen, alleged philanthro-

" pists,

Thus the two-dollar horse bettor and the 5-cent numbers player are not only suckers because they are gambling

. against hopeless odds put they

also provide the moneys which enable underworld characters to undermine our country. * » » ANOTHER question very commonly heard these days is: Why not legalize gambling, as Nevada does, and do away with all these evils? Gambling

Darjeeling After Dark—

Toyland Trains Climb Himalayas

By WARD MOREHOUSE DARJEELING, India, May

14 — Yellow dust scuttered

across the narrow roadway. An undersized locomotive, pulling a toy-like train upon a narrowgauge track, whirled around the bend and : a swarm of children , like tiny frightened goats, leaped from the tracks to safety. I was in a car of the Everest Motor Co, on the way to Darjeeling and we were then near the town of Kurseong, high in the hills. It was one of those fraction-of-a-minute experiences in which things happen fast. There was the cloud of dust, then the shriek of the jaunty little train, then the rush of children. Coming headon, and directly in our path, loor ed a truck; it was moving fast. The railroad was on one side of the highway, a ravine on the other. I didn’t see any way out of that one. But my driver, a fellow of instantaneous reflexes, was accustomed to such emergencies, He gave the steeling wheel a - jerk; he somehow found the inch of space needed to prevent crashing into the truck or sideswiping it. He laughed as we

Mr. Morehouse

—or-define—And—he seeks. ~got through. Merely a routine

incident on the Bagdogra-to-Darjeeling highway, which has more sharp curves in 57 miles than you'll find in all of the Smoky Mountains. We stopped in the 4864-foot high Kurseong for gas and it seemed so hospitable, so immovable, so protectingly anchored. The village chemist sold me a small sack of hard candy and spoke good English; a big red sign, with white lettering explained a great deal about the neighborliness of the street cattle back in Calcutta, The legend read: “Cow slaughter is a national sin.” During the 10 minutes in Kurseong 1 wondered if a ride to Darjeeling via the impulsive railroad that parallels the highway for much of the way wouldn't be a little less terrifying than to continue the jdurney by car.

Up in the Clouds

That railroad. It has as many trains as there were once companies of “Peg o’ My Heart.” Some freights, others combining freight and passenger cars. Seems that it's a railway that zigzags for some 50 miles between the up-in-the-clouds Darjeeling and Siligur and in some unaccountable fashion the numerous trains that use the roadbed never tear into one another.

Each train is drawn by a

fastinating n 3 Siminutive ocomotivé an ey all bi . to mind the te 0 ne of the celebrated actor-drama-tist, William Gillette, with ~which he used to guests at his medieval retreat, Seventh, Shae; the fieldstptie

delight house

castle at Hadlyme, Conn, now open to prowling motorists, many of whom probably think Gillette was the fellow whe made the safety-razor blades.

Extraordinary Place

As for the northern - India town of Darjeeling, it's an exiaorsary place, 20 miles from the Nepal border, a town askew, slanting this way and that, and from which, on a good day, you can gazé upon a magnificent backdrop, the great Himalayan panorama, with Kanchenjunga, rising to a mere 28,166 feet.

The first-rate Mount Everest Hotel, as empty and as lonesome as Baldpate Inn at the time of my arrival, is run by the gracious Mrs. Kruschandl, who will see that the grate fire in your room is lighted, see that the chef gives you chicken livers along with your breakfast eggs and a double orange juice along with your mangoes, and who is such a master of histrionics you will get to believing that she will break into tears because the sun isn't out and Mount Everest isn’t visible. * The green-turbaned room bearer is now at the door. He says the car of the Everest Motor Co. has arrived to take me back Bagdogra. Then, if we make if, back to Calcutta, and on to Bangkok, via the Bay of Bengal.

‘ ing the public to the

devices could be heavily taxed, also, and so bring more revenue into the states’ treasuries, Remember all the evils which sprang up during the prohibi-. tion era? Perhaps if gambling were legalized, all the accompanying evils would disappear. The committee studied the aspect of the problem very carefully and came to these conclusions: This suggestion appears to be premised on the dual assumptions that once gambling is legalized the crooks and the cheats will retire

Greed and Taxes . . . No.

Fading. Witnesses Delay Probers |

By EDWARD J. MOWREY

AME! DOWLING, who

helped uncover the nationwide disclosures of corruption in the Bureau of Internal Revenue, believes that prime achievements of mittee investigation were alerttax scandals and sparking reorganization of the bureau on *‘nonpolitical” lines. “We watched 65 tax agency employees leave the scene,” he declared, “and witnessed the indictment and conviction ofcollectors. The resignations of Theron Lamar Caudle and Charles Oliphant hit the Jus’ tice Department and “Treasury Department. Then an epidemic of illnesses seemed to engulf our potential witnesses, Twelve key witnesses sought by the investigators, Mr. Dowling said, were caught in an epidemic of kidney stones, cardiac ailments, ulcers and high blood pressure.

» » » “AT LEAST we knew where these people were,” the newly resigned chief investigator drawled. “Four others disappeared and the aid of the FBI was enlisted to find a couple of them. “They are Louis Pokrass, _Teleking Corp. executive, whom we believe was on {friendly terms with James B. E. Olson and Joseph D, Nunan Jr, former commissioner; Matthew Bride, Brooklyn revenue agent and group chief whose assets may exceed $60,000; Harry Feit, Third New York district deputy

The Middle-Age Myth... No. Jo

Make Friends With Your Husband Now

By ADELE E. STREESEMAN HE woman who has not,

by, middle-age, made a.

friend of her husband in-

evitably finds that marital love isn't enough. The children are grown, they no longer provide a bond between husband and wife. And the middle-aged wife suddenly finds that she has much more at stake in her marriage than her husband,

We've already considered the possibility that a false ideal of marriage can land a woman in a divorce court in middle-age. If she has seen her movie idea of what marriage should be dissolve under her eyes, the aetual arrival of middle-age may precipitate an emotional crisis that knocks the last props from under her marriage. It is while you are still young that you must build a life for. you and your husband separate from your children. Work toward a common goal with

common interests, Take time .

out for. Telaxation, and_understanding. Don’t become so wrapped up in your children's activities that you become strangers to one another, For the time will come

only too quickly when you and

your’ husband will be left alone. A¥e you preparing for that day? If you are, you can count on the continued loye and devotion: of Jour sopiste family. bd * For the Snportapt emotional

the King Com-

‘Lansky. were

from the field and leave the operations of the h ks, policy wheels and the gaming rooms to honest and upstanding businessmen. It presumes that public officials who have previously been persuaded to ignore or afirmatively aid illegal gambling operations, will automatically prove incorruptible when entrusted with responsibility for controlling these same operations through a loens-

ing system. 3 scems to this tommit-

collector, and Arthur Brevaire who probably can shed some light on the mysterious ‘Mr. Watson'—the man with the gut-, tural voice who tried to fix the Abe $500,000, (Chicago) case

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The committee, Mr. Dowling said, has tried for three weeks to serve a subpena on Mr. Pokrass and has notified his attorney to produce him. a & = “WE WANTED to question him about Olson's failure to revoke the liquor license of the Gotham Liquor Co. which was largely owned by Mr. Pokrass: Olson's action was contrary to bureau regulations. (Mr. Olson was New York chief of the bureau’s alcohol tax unit. He quit under fire last August.) “Pokrass, whose background shows three arrests, was an in vestor in the Flamingto Hotel, Las Vegas, Nev. when Bugsy Seigel (later assassinated by mobsters) and other top gangsters were big stockholders, Pokrass' name also figured in Kefauver hearing testimony in connection with assertions that Frank Costello and Meyer investors with Pokrass in another company. » The committee's interest in Mr. Bride came about entirely by accident, Mr. Dowling explained. “Anonymous cards advising

- flourishes untrammeled.

toe that the simple state’ ment of these premises is sufficient to demonstrate how invalid they really are.

“It is the nature of the busines of gambling, and not its legality or {llegality, that makes it so attractive and lucrative for gangsters and hoodlums.

“If legalized gamhblin ¢ could be successfully divorced from the evils of crime and corruption, the State of Nevada would offer the most ideal climate for its operation,

“Nevada is a state with & small population, where gams bling operations car be pos pos liced easily and the comings | and goings of undersirables

oan be noted. Yet the State of |

“ Nevada has found il neces~ sary substantially to increase | police surveillance as a result of the legalization of gambling and the BeCompanys ¢ : ing Influx of hoodlums, rack. eteers, and the other inevi. table parasites who spring up. like weeds wherever gambling operations are carried on.”

We see by this report that the effect of “legal gambling” i= not exactly what was exe< pected by those who indorsed it,

—When gambling is legalized the

element . which con<

Stiminal trols it does not have to work

furtively in fleecing the public, but with a solid foundation of respectability they stand right inside the government. : They do not have to fight against watchful and alert officers, but are protected by them, And so the vice and cor ruption which travel everys where with the gambling overs lords are much harder to i with. To legalize a vice is to acoept defeat. Any society which ac< cepts defeat in its battle against) corruption puts ftaett on the downgrade, Once the principle of legal

“gambling is indorsed, there ix

no stopping place. Orice the roots of gambling are embedded: in a place, the tree of corruption.

i NEXT: Mail From the Groat roots, i i ;

home and we suspected 4 cond siderable fortung, Bef. d serve him y a subpe snare hum twas Mar, 5. The seareh oath] on. “FEIT, Who lives Lin nthe Brong. was issued & i questionnaire on

signed SliestianT in 2 locate him.

home is in West Palm was located fecently in Cuba b: the FBI Sines no is pending, he can’t be “dited.” Other names that proved of interest to the probers? F “Now we're getting into Kefauver ,” Mr. Do lin smiled. “Jo Adonis’ na came up in connection with Bolich investigation and Abnef (Longie) Zwillman's with refe ence ‘to an old revenue burea direclive for him to keep book on his income. He failed comply and we probed the ha dling of the case to see if | warranted prosecution.” And did Frank Costello po) up in connection with suspect tax irregularities or mishan ‘cases, too? “Yes, his name was linked: with Nunan's while the latfeg ' was top tax man. Nunan sal he met Costello ‘once or t in restaurant bars before 1 and also said he attended th famed Costello party in New

York for the benefit of the : vation Army. Nunan den

Bride to drop dead and urging * any business deals with Ca

him not to sign our net-worth questionnaire initiated our interest in this employee. We found he had a fine Long Island

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“The time will come only too quickly when the. children are grown and you and your husband will be left alone, ”

ties with children can be strong when the children are grown if you have fe weisne a relation-

ship that un s the Jarent - child tie and

stead, a Teally mature friend. ship. he

When children are

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close to them, of their own ‘free - will,

True, there are children who abandon their parents nut this can never happen if the ‘parents have made a thein

family, as in creating any

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children free while they are small. Don't try to hold to you; you won't be able to d¢ it anyway. First téach them to walk and then, teach them # walk away, They'll return cause they want to, not. beca they must. ; Only through a planned friendship can you be impot tant, not only now, but in middle years to your hus and your children. You don want your husband to tum someone else, your children see you a “must” basis only Now is the time to prep your relationships in order th they may be on a friendship basis in the future. In friends with you

lationships, it's best te bes ng ‘with advice and

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