Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 21 March 1952 — Page 11

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attention, The tent. was one of man's back yard to take advantage Foor ear’ help too. White ‘earliest shelters from the sun. of outdoor living in the sum- paint on thé outside walls will Canvas keeps “out the sun mer. The author has been home deflect heat. Cool colors inside and. lets in. the air, It still living counselor for several will make vou feel more cOmi- makes colorful, light weight well known magazines, {6rtable . awnings over windows and on By JOHN PETER 4 % 8 your favorite lawn shail. A . w wy A GOOD FAN WILL cir garden. umbrella is really a ORE and note Ame rs culate the air inside the rooms movable awning. that makes icans this year take a and give local comfort, Some shade where ever you want it. y i ‘ Te have rubber blades for safety, New materials such as rattan yagahon I others set on the floor like a and aluminum venetian blinds right at home. hassock. There's even a new can make shade in your yard It will be a vacation from the lowcost fai you can assemble that is both flexible and low xtra work of routine living yourself, cost, : A Vacation after all, is a Complete home air condition- Remember there are days change of environment and a ing is a dreamy of thé future for when it is®hotter in" New York new state of mind. At _the most of us, but many people ar New Orleans or 8t. Louis camp by the sea or the cabin are already buying the compact than in the Congo or. Sumatra, among the mountains, we for units that fit into a window and Be sure to move outdoors get the routine of our winter ean} 8 snpie ropm viel re. this summer, but keep cool in living. narkahie eflicieficy. A sma vour outdoors shade and in a C 88 abo e looks evap&ation pool in the garden . 4 or Bre JeBS Mout Un Jonies - SHADE COOLED YARD Gross cuts down ons Aluminum venetian blinds work Will help “air condition” the your indoors FOOMIS: about the feel of things. We heat and glare. in window or on sandbox viard on a hot summer dav, TOMORROW: Outdoor Store relax in privacy and: comfort. hut rely on the fact that warm walls are unprotected from the The best place to beat the ARe Space, We worry less about the fur- ajr rises. You will get circu- blazing summer sun. Vine cov- Deiat is outdodrs. The secret of : Mitre: eas casual clothes, eat Jation if -you provide a high ered trellises on the walls will a canter summer is plerity of Naw: Sandwich Idea’ informal meals. exit” for warm’ ro OW ee ooler. shade, | You can change your entrance Yarra air 2. 4 ow keep #1 & ler a Tall trees not only help keep Surprise your family or » mimes photo by Jolin R. Spicklemire environment by moving out-. rooms. : IF YOUR. WINDOWS let in the.house cool but the backyard friends with this new sandwich FILMS FOR PATIENTS—Proceeds of the Indiana Photo Play Indorsers card party Monday in doors in your own back yard Shuttered vegisters in’ the. the: heat. drawing. the. blinds” well, You can buy trellises Idea. Partially separate the ay: I the Food Craft Shop will be used to purchase additional films for patient entertainment at the 1f you will change your mind : - ¢ Jen!, drawing linds for the space outside your win- ers of buiterflake or fan-tan about how you ought to live. It Outside walls near the floors will not help much. The heat dows with louvers that can be rolls. Spread each layer with

> . there is plenty you can do about the excessive screening or heats the house. shade, Grass areas help keep a Peel and core winter pears and ; it. : louvers on the attic openings The morning sun through yard cool because they absorb, put the halves together again a me or a S rong | S Let's look inside the house or perhaps you need an attic the east windows doesn’t affect do not reflect, heat, with cream cheese mixed with a ' first. No house is simply hot, fan.” You can lay reflective the room temperature much. You can build shade onto bit of orange juice and crisp By MURIEL LAWRENCE the primitive language of play and art, the H is hot for definite reasons. foil insulation on the attic The high noon sun through the your house, by extending the California walnuts, Stand upHEN we fear that we are bad par- clinical worker began te translate what he said If the air inside your house floor or tack it shiny side up to south windows is not so bad, roof overhang, adding a porch right ‘on a salad plate and sur- { Lie : to his mother. Always what he said in dif- is hotter than the air outdoors the underside of the roof. because the sun's rays hit the or putting latticed “eye brows” round with orange slices and ents, it is very hard to take respon- . ..¢ ways was this: “I love mother stu- it is probably due to poor venti- If the walls of your house are windows at a sharp angle, don't just over the west windows. cheese-stuffed prunes, Garnish

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Flower Mission Hospital. The party will be at 1:30 p. m. Setting up the machine for a showing are Mesdames Ralph Hahn, Andrew F. Ross and G. L. Girard (left to right). Mrs. Ross is organization president and Mrs. Girard heads Cervus Club which also purchases movies once a month for the

hospital.

ner. A high transom above the Awnings, porches and trellises Lon 8 slightly. Place rolls in muffin a“ un a NC Sirsite foord = a as i’ on the outside will shade the IN THE SUMMER, when the pans and toast in a moderate : . MARK TWAIN ONCE said grilled vent low in the door wi window and trap the heat. sun is strong, the vines are full ovén for five minutes. The Mature Parent— “Everybody talks about the also do the trick. There. is a new window screen and green, In the winter when mi ’ . . . weather but nobody does any If vour ceilings are hot, this on the market that not only the sun is weak the leaves are thing "about it.” There is {s the time to improve the keeps out insects but deflects gone and light enters the win- Pretty Salad Helps a 'n. gains a INg | a e certainly more talking than ventilation in your attic. You heat as well. Remember, it's dows. Shrubs along the walks A pretty salad adds a bright “doing” about summer heat. But may do it by simply removing the afternoon sun that really .or walls of the house cast low ;

sibility—which is why, in child guidance clinics, mothers so seldom say, “I dislike my child intensely.” We seem to prefer to make the child take the responsibility for what is wrong between us, and say, “My child dislikes me intensely.” Walter's mother was such ¢ a parent. To the worker in the child guidance clinic, she said, “You must find out what makes him hate me so. I can't get him to tell me anything. Last weel, when I found what he'd done to my new chair, I said, ‘What were you so mad about that you cut a hole in this cushion with the scissors?’ -— but he

pendously. But since I am afraid that she does not want this love, I want to hurt her hurts me.” Rede ab MESSAGES LIKE THIS began to affect Walter’'s mother in most curious ways. When he rushed off and hid himself at hearing that his supper was ready, she found that she wasn't angry at all. Instead of his action appearing as a devilish device to drive her crazy, it appeared inexpressibly moving, the device to wrest an admission that a little son was dear enough to seek when he seemed to be lost, And so, with this perception coloring her voice, Walter's mother would call down the cellar stairs.” “Come on up here and see what dessert 1 have made for ,Someone 1 love ..."” As we can see, this switch in attitude was largely due to the discovery by Walter's mother

as she ’

NOTE: Op is the fourth of a series of six articles suggest-’ ing changes in your home and

vou adopt easy living “vacation ways,” you and your family can have a holiday at home all summer long.

Don’t count on the wind

lation.

+ Your Next Move: Outdoors—

. Adopt Vacation Ways’ And Have Holiday At Home

'Vine-covered trellis is full in summer

open.jn winter

and ceilings can be well worth the bother now, for the comfort "they will bring this sum-

warm,

it is because the outside

Shade trees keep house os well as yard cool

Awnings keep wut sun, let in light

has already entered the room

by the time it strikes the shade.

penetrate far into the room. It

is the west fide of the house Y the afternoon, thats needs®most

adjusted to the sun, but trellises with vines are self-regulafing and never go out of order.

You can build shade in your

vard with an arbor, ‘a shelter or a fence,

soft butter and your favorite sandwich filling. Lightly press layers of the roll back together, allowing the fillings to show

note to a spring luncheon -menu,

with crisp greens.

that she was loved, not hated. Mrs. Lawrence SN WHEN CHILDREN BEHAVE most badly, they love us best and want us most. Since we a are not clinicians to interpret the language of action, this is a very important thing to remember when they seem intent on doing things to hurt us.

just pulled and kicked as though he couldn't stand me to touch him. If you can just get him to talk...” So the clinic went to work to get Walter to talk. Oh, not with words—those combinations of letters with which the most expert of us try vainly to utter the heart’s tumults. No, the clinic didn't bother Walter with words. It just gave

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him a box of broken crayons: and later, four There is nothing mysterious in the fact that little dolls, a man, a lady, and two children, children behave most unattractively when they oN want love terribly. Grownups do, too, When we AS WALTER PLAYED WITH THEM, he feel that our love is unwanted, very few of us talked to tne cHnical worker in wordless, but walk up to the person who seems bored by our ¢ clear and unmistakable language. He said, “See love and say, “Look, I hurt you just now bhe-

cause I'm afraid you don’t love me.” Very few | of us, indeed. | Though we don't rush-into cellars to hide, we find other kinds of places. We are morose | and bad-tempered. Like Walter, we see slight | everywhere, so that unless we are very unusual | people, we have no right to patronize him. f When grownups are angry with other grown-

i. how I am twisting the leg of this little girl doll? That is how I would like to hurt my sister whom my mother loves more than me. Notice how this mother bear I am drawing turns ner back on her.baby bear? That's how my mother’s back is always turned to me. So I guess I will scratch this mother bear’s picture out. I will hurt her for hurting the baby bear . ...” As Walter gradually unburdened the tumuits of his five-year-old heart, not in words but in

ups for not loving them, they wreck far more important things than upholstery.

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