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Organizations—

Mrs. Sherman Turner

Addresses

Orphan

Asylum Auxiliary

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The Mature Parent—

If Friendship Is Severed, *

ne FEB. 18, 1053

It Was Ersatz in Bo ring

By MURIEL LAWRENCE HE daughter is callous ‘toward the - mother. , Recently married and living

pouring it out to make rdom for more healthfil *

water, \

Of friendship, John A, P,

pyvschoanalyst Dr.

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0 , ived 1 My ’ : ; A fat ’ Miltet writes, “If you have a friendship, you ‘THERE MES. SHERMAN F.TU INES . JR. » Who lived m Europe Our Lovel Lad of Tomorrow in the same town, she Seems to want td be never really lose it. You may think or believe you wears with her husband, ( ‘apt. Furner, while he was with f y y A «gp left alone with her own affairs. “When her have one, and it may depart from you; but thers man who the Army of Occupation after the war, addressed mem- . ' mother phones,” the letter says, “she is always’ Was Sorgeching that was ersatz in that friendship Ana Ras hi ahs too busy to talk, though there seems plenty of al happens, bers of the Auxiliary to the Children’s Bureau of the wil Bion il by ea recently 1

Indianapolis Orphan Asylum at

a luncheon meeting today. Her

subject was “German Children and Customs.” Hostess for the luncheon was Mrs. John W. “Shirley, 4533 Broadway. Those assisting were Mesdames Lawrenee J. Shappert, August Hook and Carl Hulen,

Pilot Club

New officers of the Pilot Club International. of Indianapolis

have been announced:~Fhey are -

Miss Vera Grant, president; Miss Agnes Mahoney and Mrs. John Drury, first and second vice presidents; Miss Grace Misner and Mrs, Donald Chew, re-

Hestad and Laura G. Martin

and Dr, Nadine Fisher,

Lutheran Club .

Omar Bakeries will present a film, “Jungle Bread,” for Ladies’ night at the Lutheran Service Club-at 8 p. m, Wednesday in St. Paul's Lutheran School, 743 Weghorst St, Walter J. Pippert is in charge of the program, This film, a year in the mak4ng, 18 in color and shows how primitive people make hread in the jungle, Accompanying the film will be a collection of strange native handicraft.

. and ‘complaints, it's

Come Christmas,

she was Johnny-on-the-spot with her hand out, Is there anything wrong about a mother wanting a friendly little chat with her girl now and then?” Not if it's friendly, If it's a chat filled with reproaches not friendly. A friend who has a misunderstanding with another does not complain or reproach him. He says, “Hey, what goes on? This is what is in my mind about you. Now, what is in yours about me, so that we can belong to -eachr<other again.” a ’ If this mother can't get results from talking like that to her daughter, maybe this friendship is not so good as she believes it to be.

Mrs. Lawrence

FALSE friendships can be of many kinds. A common kind in parent-child friendships is the parents’ over-dependence upon the children's affection. As we do not like to think of ourselves as over-dependent upon a child, we call our state “devetion” to him or some other highsounding word. We say, “Janet is my life.” As this kind of feeling makes great suffering for us, as well as for Janet, it is most intelligent of us to call it by its right name so that it appears, not as a feeling we wish to retain, but as a cruel and miserable feeling to be rid of as soon as possible. So long as we insist on calling it hy its pretty name, it is going to inflict suf fering upon us. Usually we find that over-dependence.on Janet's affection is our neéd to he reassured that—we- are worthy of affection, have been a good mother. How did this need develop? Where have we got the impression that wé aré unworthy of affection?

the Cathol tion at a held in the Not only Inviting: pi and pick 1 even helped coats and

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3 nd correspondingysec- mt SO A en vat. Sororities A When we are Unable to. talk like that to a oo “. & son, treasurer, and directors S i Di friend who has hurt us, it may well be that we SOME REMARKABLE words have been HREE Mesdames Robert Dunham, e inher ourselves are afraid of. what is in our mind about written for parents who think of a child as Si Rose Cravets, Grace Wicklund, ' him. Perhaps, since we don’t wish to face our their “life.” They were .so highly regarded by annou . Isabella Rowligon and Bessie T. At La Rue S _ real feelings about him ourselves, we are quite four of Jesus’ outstanding students that each for recent Perks and Miss Irene Fultz unable to disclose them te him. reported them in almost ideptical words..Here follow

District 15 convention dele-

Eta Chapter of Jota Tau

re de

- they are in the words of John, his most sensi-

tive student: “Whosoever shall seek to save his

Lincoln (

gates will be Mrs, C. Harold Tau legal sorority will meet THERE'S NO use trying to be friendly to : i Trout, Miss Grant and Mrs. ‘for dinner at 6 p. m. Wednes- someone for whem we rib Eton, and bit- life aa lose he 87d Whosoever shall Jose Mig 3 LF ossible Gus Broo. Alternates will be day in [LaRue's Restaurant. ARE ; : re e, shall find it? ODS, ©. 3 I alls. are WT rans _terness, Like the grandmother's clothes assumed Though much has been written about the ef- Mr. and Mi Mesdames Hanna Geiger, Wall d ond Il discus by the wolf in Little ‘Red Riding Hood, our M < ; 8 The ‘‘Some Political Problems.” a : y ' fects of a parent's possessiveness upon the child, and Mrs. § Nees and F. H. Harrison. litical Problems. friendly words smell of wolf, not love. Our true ; w I i 1 the Mrs. Jacobs will be a spe- ret S : - oe : less has been written about what it does to the & ( eonvention will be held in . ! 1 a spe feelings burst through them and our friend senses Arthur Pr; 8 Cy. cial guest. Hostesses for the BS ~ g ait parent. It either loses us our son or daughter or Arthur Pr Soaper Hotel, Henderson, Ky. K e h thems. recofling from us a 174 Apr. 26 and 27. evening are Mrs. Berniece Pol- * je. th i it so maims them that we may have to spend ender . The way to displace these unhappy feelings years that should be peaceful in fret and humil- Maurice V

Tall girls will have the fashjon _spotlight tomorrow and Wednesday in the Coat and Suit

ing and Mrs, Martine Justak.

New Group for Business Women

fall semester.

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SROCIAL SORORITIES at

CHI OMEGABeery and Miss Mary Strawn; Deita “Delta Delta—Misses- Vir-

Ld » = TWO BRIDGEPORT coeds also pledged. were Miss Joyce Locke, Alpha Chi Omega and

Miss Yolande

Taylor, Ja

Soroptimists » n with hetter ones is to acknowledge that they are iation over their irresponsible conduct. As Dr, v . MISS M. AN F JER. there’ to be displaced. If IT do not BCKNOW|e dae Millet savs, “This approach makes a prisoner . coe Ssroptivaiel Cb of Ir. So EN Be BRA i ARIGER, that ‘the Water in my glass is contamin ed: of the other person and in no way promotes AN party at 8 p. m. Wednesday. in ess for a meeting of Alpha water, I will continue to drink it instead of your own development. | Mrs. H. H. the Food Craft Shop. Proceeds Chapter, Sigma Delta Tau vorsen 119 will be used for the service Sorority, at 8 p. m. Wednesday. Barrett 11 projects of the elub. Miss Esther Royce will assist In a Personal Vein— Anthony J Mrs. Helen Murray, chair- the hostess. : . ‘W (Possi man of the ways and means leabuts wil have a eves J Thi Wi iC I Maxwell, J committee, is in charge of ar- = elephant sale among iemselves H James H. rangements. Committee mem- at this meeting. ean ie ry INS Oo ege onor Vail 91; M - » “ ~ pidge on ge gy Ho LAMBDA CHAPTER, Delta ISS"J EAN THIERY Alpha Chi Omega—Miss Bar- _ Delta Phi Epsilon — Misses He Stickney, Floss Brook, Julia Sigma Kappa Sorority, will have daughter of Mr. and bara Carson and Miss Rose- Barbara Summers, Nancy Wednesday Alexander, Margaret Muller, a white elephant sale at 8 p. m. Mrs. Paul K. Thiery, 6666 mary. Mathews; Alpha Gamma Sweetman and Jane Tossell; burn, Clare Ellen A. Gould and Marguerite tomorrow in the home of Mrs : ; a! Delta—Miss Pat Roach; Alpha Kappa Kappa Gamma Miss and Mrs. J Wirth, Misses Mary Ani Lueb- Marjorie Barton, 3716 Fletcher Allisonville Road, is one of Omicron : Pi—-Miss Betty Janet Jane Ruat; Phi Mu -— Martin, W king, Ruth Emhardt, Helen Ave. 10 freshmen at Lindenwood Woods: Alpha Phi — Misses Misses Marilyn Loomis, Eleanor FE & W (I - Times phote by William A. Oates Jr. College, St. Charles, Mo., in- Paula Dee Hawkins, Shirely St. . Roach and Elizabeth Vogel. Hickman. ) : vited to become a member of Clair and Judy Tritten, © Pi Beta Phi — Misses Nina John Gued Show for "AREN KAISER, 3, gives her “Raggedy Ann" a-taste of breakfast before ‘pre- Alpha Lambda Delta, national Alpha Xi Dea Misses Bose. Ferguson, Lynne = Holiday, Mr. and M : : " ten? ioe . lain honor society fo s mary Eves, Caro een, Jane . ser; A paring her for the day. When she isn’t bathing her other ‘babies, she plays onal jety, for freshmen McCarty, Catherine Miller, Sigma Kappa — Miss Carolyn 895, Tall Girls records and rollerskates. She is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Francis Kaiser, 138 ‘In addition she is listed on Vivian Schilling and Beverly Hood and Miss Margaret Kirk; THE Ni loberts Rd. - the Dean's Honor Roll for Spradley., Zeta Tau Alpha--Miss Janel s master : scholastic achievement for the : x » Carr and Miss Virginia Kennedy, p. m. Feb.

tion Buildi:

Facu

Department at Block's, The Indiana University have an- ginia Clark. Joan Embhardt, Miss Lynd : : “new collection of coats and nounced pledging of women and Eleanor S. Traylor; Delta = °° ynda Wilson, Chi Omega. suits for spring by Ardmoor, de- . . : students following a week of Gamma —Misses Lynn Boat- hse Glenna Funk was ; signed especially for the girl T t ( t S rush. . Indianapglis women man, Nanci Browning, Judy pledge to Alpha Delta Pi { ne to ope A will be — Oo ns a Nn lana Oo IS a er oon pledged are as follows: Coryell and Carolyn Cox. Sorority on the Purdue Uni- o ‘ reraity , , ] s eled informally in the second versity campus vesterday. paar

floor department. Sizes range

from 10 to 20. Al Berg, stylist for the company, will be in Block's in per-

ERSONAIL benefits is the keystone of the American Business Women's Association, a three-year-old organization for

Among the benefits is an gram, employment and housing

sonalysis, resort vacations both here and abroad

education proservice, per-

Mr. Palter Comes to Town

Sgt. and Mrs. Donald R. Hembree and baby daughter Donna Rose are visiting here with Mr. and Mrs. Norman Hembree, 2111 E. Michigan St,

versity h faculty me 4 ppm. We reation ro

: ; ARF : * son with the suits and coats women in business at discount and a magazine, “Women in T Sh N S Sh i They will : morial Hal . ae - return to Amarillo, Which Way be bos Ground work for the first Indiana chapter Business. oO ow ew pring oes Tex., next Monday where Sgt. b Precesm, ple. Prices range iro nos here in Indianapolis {¢ currently being laid by The publication includes information in broken x y x Ta . : ‘ : Hembree is stationed. ers w to $79.95 in gabardine, tweed, two representatives of its national headquarters, doses pertinent to. women’s advancement in ERRY PALTER, stylist for Palter DeLiso shoes, is cm and white rep weaves and soft wools. , Kansas City, Mo. business. currently viditing Ayres’. His entire collection of starting at Special go, hs yet to Within three ‘Weeks Mrs. Callie Lou Smith Among the writers is Dr. H. Robinson Ship- exciting new spring and summer shoes will be shown in day. Jol e the ta ure. Sev- . : : . : ’ : 2 glamorize the tall gure. hi and Mrs. Naney Williams, national field director herd, ABWA's literary consultant. the shoe department tomorrow and Wednesday. of the me eral dou 5 and executive respectively, expect to charter the National headquarters also operates.a refer- Highlights of the collection C. Josey 1 wide revers seem to shorten the chapter in ceremonies in the Hotel Lincoln, The ence service to answer queries on grammer, Ighiig a the tea. A figures. Horizontal trim ye date will be announced later. vocabulary, social and business letter writing, are the use of nylon lace in black, brown or pastel colors. Mesdames on pockets nd sleeves achieve > personality and various other problems con- shoes; combination of . three Shantung and linen shoes will Arden C. the same e ect. : , fronting the BG. s or more colors again be popular for summer Elliott and Sleeves. are cut long enough, PURPOSE OF THE relatively new organiza- Li & & in daytime = ; : waistlines are where they tion is to elevate socidl and business standards y shoes: more some in basic colors, others to - should be, jacket-lengths are of business women by training designed to make ABWA WAS FOUNDED in Kansas City by lady-like plat- be dyed to suit your fancy. Nurse: "properly proportioned and them more efficient, considerate and co-operative a group of business women who recognized a forms and a Platform soles will again be skirts, of course, will reach the toward their work, employers and employer's need for an' organization devoted to increasing group of dressy fashionable, but will be thinner Meet proper length, Particularly customers, the working woman’s efficiency and earning shoes with pe- with a more lady-like taper : 1 stunning in this collection is a Already there are 42 chapters across the ability. “Goal is “better personality for better tite heels. than in the past. Dressy shoes | N nulianiy Suit with Seep Solan Siceves country from Baltimore to Denver, living." Nylon lace with medium heels will be a | Si a cuts waist length) horizonta J “ \ , 3 Nati . is Mi . or ill ste ret- boon to the business gi ; ER , d ag ABWA doesn’t overlap or conflict with other National president is Miss Gertrude Maurer, W PP usiness girl, or any Ei A hip pockets, and a skirt of flut FOR TALL GIRLS—Suit with clubs,” explained the national representatives. Assistant director of the Omaha (Neb.) Builders tily into the woman who doesn’t like to walk . JOmOHOM tering pleats that swing grace- | Li “Its benefits are entirely different. Its appeal ex- Fxchange, Easter Parade. on spike heels. DE fully-in-motion moderately full skirt. 1 t. Pp - LADIES! Student N ls ¥ tends to. .the more professional and serious- During their stay in Indianapolis Mrs. Smith Strong as Especially charming in this General H The wrist-length full coat ; minded woman from beginning stenographers to and Mrs. Williams are making the Lincoln Steel, comfort- Mr. Palter group is a classic black patent WASHINGTON CHEVROLET a musical with big sleeves is a natural for gp sol I+ First top executives.” headquarters, able as elastic leather “dancing pump” with Ss : Mrs. D the tall’ girl who can carry its 3 a and pretty as a picture, this neat, flat grosgrain bow that olves your a > c bulk gracehlly. You'll find one It you buy wool fabric that : : ~ new fabric in combination with reminds one of the kind young parking problems! i i n flattering tweed with deéep isn't pre-shrunk, - it's wise to . either suede or leather gives a girls carried in satin ba - ; s > > 8 s $ gs ta Just drive your car . sleeves pleated to fit tightly at have it steam-pressed to shrink Blackwood on Bridge— dainty, airy effect, dancing school, at the turn of | tewn te Washington Hi Kigey a the wrist and a smart stand- up it before cutting out a gar- . . . g4 7 the century. : ; | let for servicing and by the yl Su ent _ Mr. H fe Mak f B vo — a I. einsite agKes erensive poner WHITE NYLON mesh is’ | rig ve fils you Schricker, ; ; : A z opping we w ave General Hi 8 used in place of white buck Cathedral Mothers completely servi d and aT oF 1 ad 1 R. HEINSITE rates — ‘ied would lay off with my queen for pew ‘spectator sport pumps ysaryicaq an alumnae n reasure possessions from our large and . South dealer . , Lp Pumps © Club to Meet ready for youl It's just varied collection of wedding enserables. For overs sontuev-we right at the top in North-South vulnerable cand win the third club trick. jn combination with brown, : thet easy. Come, try us! St d have furnished fine ‘quality and exceptional val : analyzing a hand—after all NORTH Now. how could he get (0 the . black or navy. The use of the yp tne Cathearal Mothers | ay nishe ine "qua an : - : i + others Quanty exceptional value in diamond 52 cards have been played. New Neen board for the ster clubs. with nylon completely dispels the cub at 1:30 Pm. oioTiow ASHINGTON Is 42 A rings. He was right in his analysis of H—Q 43 out 18tyng me ms Z old -bug-a-boo of getting white ~ in, the school auditorium. He The 42d : the defense of ‘today's hand. D—I 82 “He couldn't,” continued Mr. gsnge polish on dark leather. Will discuss modern art. Plans | CHEVROLET Avance | But he didn’t go quite far C—J 86354 Heinsite, who can easily handle qpe white nylon parts can be Will be made for a card party Your Downtown Chevrolet De ; observed enough. WEST EAST both ends of a conversation all f | and bake sale to be given A cleaned with a damp cloth! A 17 meeting at He opened his Mr. Heinsite Mr. Abel by himself. - Color 39 Deairing rove and = or aap in & fourth best S—I 8752 S—K 93 This irked Mr. Dale who ot } : Charles C spade, the five H—-K 8 H—J 10 572 . , more important in footwear. came to Mr. Abel's defense. " : ' ford Ave spot. The six D—Q 85 D—10973 “If you're going to expect these There will be dainty paste! calf Bovd will was playe a C—Q 92 cCmK T tough defensive plays to be shoes for summer with lacy 3 Mrs. Ch: from dummy SOUTH . made, Heinsite,” he said, “how Sites. For Dow there [le : .. member © and Mr. Abel Mr. Dale about making them: self? bright cobra shoes as well as | 4 ; won with the S—Q 10 4 in g hem your : red, white and blue calf. This ave ime! hibit dhe king and re- H—A 976 You, too, could have beaten |.¢¢ shoe is a charming sling . may be se ? § this contract merely by letting : books of turned the D—A K 4 pump im half red, half navy ee ees sees eessccccssce nine. Ns. Dil Er my ten of clubs hold the first 1.0" entirely piped in white inception. he aw The bidding: club trick, rather than winning ’ Sa is Po gin ie . . 5 A TRY PA with your queen, That's a tough n. n.n S Ve PAS : : | ond trick With nr, peinsite OUIL WEST NORTH FAST play “to make, too. But .no CINZANO is the name of a | Wh ummy 's eh Sula hav INT AN vars. i tougher than the one you ex- new neutral tan being recom- en you and saw tha e. wou have Pr i. Ass pected Abel to make.” mended to wear with navy, | . to be both good and lucky to wo m—————— ‘ . relic make his bid. plaining immediately. “Y ou Lo Di ; . : sh ’ " One thing was sure. He had Rhesiid have_beaten him, Abel, ng 1S an e.. . distr . said. ‘Just play your king to win several tricks in the on the . first” . " en : . : » ret lead of clubs, If os club suit - to have a chance, ¥ er Hopi Dale lets you hold it, return SRL * oping he was lucky: enough vour. last : : st spade and that will i to find Mr. Abel with a double- “Lay niu quit while I still h ton honor, he led a small club _ 4 stopper ga, AYe a nu from the board. Mr... Abel >

§ a.m : “IF MR. DALE PLAYS his | ace and leads another club, I

played the seven and the ten was finessed.

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