Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 11 February 1952 — Page 6
Our Eligible Escort of Tomorrow...
ACKIE SWITZER, 4,"gives a command. performance for a special audience.
Times photo by John R. 8picklemire.
When
he isn't modeling with clay, building with blocks or following his train, he's shoot-
ing cowboys from behind chairs.
Switzer, 1224 N. Jefferson Ave., are his parents.
Additional Workers Aid Fund Campalan
The women's division of the Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra's maintenance fund drive has announced additional cap-
tains and workers to partici-,
pate in the drive through Feb. 18. Mrs, John . Alexander is chairman. Those added to the committee are Misses Georgianne Davis, Dorothy Brown and Elizabeth Ohr, captains, and work-
Dance Set At
The sophomore class of Marian College, Cold Spring Road, will “sponsor an all-student informal dance from 8:30 to 11 p. m. Friday at the. college. Miss Marikay Pain is general chairman.
Valentine decorations .will interpret the “Sweetheart” theme. Committee chairmen are Misses
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ers Mesdames Bruce Cracraft, Glen Irwin, Harry E. White, Robert A. Voight, George Kno-. bel, William Weisell, ‘and Emerson Boyd. Mesdames John Carson, Edward Hughes, George C. House, George Soltan, Weld Cox, William H. Gibbs, Dorothy Adams, Erwin Muhlenbruck, Louis Marks, Alice Trueblood, Lowell S. Fisher and John C. English.
Marian
«Jane Brady, Patricia Maloney Irene Ulrich, Mary Ann Beckerich, Mary-Wechsler and Kathleen Bashe,
The class plans to contribute the dance proceeds to financing a series of lecture-programs to be given hy the foreign students on campuses—Oriental, FEuropean » and Latin American.
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He has a sister, Mickey, 5.
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Mr. and Mrs. George E.
Misses Mimi Kirby, Margaret Kirby, Barbara Jungclaus, Ginny Fotz, Carolyn Madden, Marilyn Wright, Jody Thomas, Ann Hwesmann, Mary Jean Milner, Harriet Margaret Fisher, Grace Green, Esther Thornton, Catherine Bailey, Elma Igelmann and Natalie Connor.
Announce Election
Phyllis Wheatley Branch of the Young Women's Christian Association announces newly elected members of the executive committee. They are Mrs. John E. Harper, branch chairman; Mrs. Albert Spurlock, first vice president; Mrs. Rufus Kuykendall, second vice president and Mrs, William Fountroy, secretary.
The Mature Parent—
“| Your Child Should Not Be Compelled To Share Birthday Glories With Others
By MURIEL LAWRENCE N the shelf" in - Mrs.
Bryan's bedroom closet
| are two boxes, each con-
taining a shiny new pair of jce-skates. Like Rafe and Buddy
for whom they have, been bought the skates are of differsizes. .In
all other ways, they are identical, since Mrs. Bryan wishes to avoid mayhem at the dinner table tomorrow
night. At least { that's: what i»
i she says when
she explains why she dares not give Rafe a pair of birthday skates without providing a similar present for his Younger brother. By her jocular manner, Mrs
Mrs. Lawrence
Bryan avoids the ugly word “jealousy” in relation. to her younger son. She wants to
avoid using this word just as she wants to avoid dealing’'with
{ the thing itself by forcing her
older boy to share his birthday with her younger one, A birthday 1s a most personal possession intimate as a .toothbrush, ours like the color of
| our eyes. or distaste for the 1 poetry of Gertrude Stein.-
fare sts eymin
= . » - A CHILD'S RIGHT to celebrate the day that adds another year to his age is as justly his
Organizations—
WCTU Institute Set For Tomorrow at
Roberts Park Church §
HE Women's Christian Temperance Union Group Institute will meet at 10 a. m. tomorrow in the Roberts Park Methodist Church. Luncheon will be served at noon. Ellis Hargrave, superintendent of the Indiana Tem-
z perance League, will speak on
“Good Goverment.” The Rev. Allen B. Cook will address the meeting on Not for Sale” County directors of the group will present the plan of work during the A morning session. Mrs. Minnie B, Thomas will lead the noon-tide devotional period. Mrs. Lucille Hart and Mrs, Herman Rose will sing. Soroptimist The Soroptimist Club of Indianapolis will meet for dinner at 6:30 pb. m."Wednesday in. the 500 Room of the Hawthorn Restaurant. Mrs. Irma Smith, president, will be in charge of the business meeting to follow the dinner. Mrs. Helen Murray will announce plans for a card party to be given later this month. Mrs. Dorothy Lewis will report on the work.of the Safety Traffic Enforcement Division of the Safety Council,
Delta Sigma Kappa Kappa Chapter of Delta Sigma Kappa Sorority will have a business meeting and inspection it 8 p. m, today in the home of
Blackwood on Bridge—
“The Near East Is
..Chi Omega’
THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES _
Mrs. Emerson Lowes, Wana-
maker.
Indianapolis Alumnae of Chi Omega Sorority will meet at 8 p. m. tomorrow in the home of Mrs. Robert E. Allen, 4936 Central Ave. - +» Mrs, Jeanette Elliott, star of “Through the Kitchen Window” on WFBM-TV will speak on “Women in Time of Peace.” Mrs. R. Douglas Allen is hostess for the meeting. She will be assisted by Mesdames Fred R. Wolf, Floyd Cox and E. R. Pipher. .
Women Republicans The Fourth Ward Women's Republican Club will meet at 8 p. m. Wednesday in the 38th St. Branch, Merchants National Bank, for its Lincoln Day celebration. ’ William 8. Fortune, stale treasurer, will be guest speaker. Hostesses will be Mesdames Charles Brownson, Robert Williams, Mark Dawson, W. M, Stephenson, George V, Coffin and Louis Grabhorn.
Never Stake Everything On «a Single Line of Play
EVER stake everything - on one line of play until you have made certain there isn’t another line you
"can test without jeopardizing
_ king ‘was permitted
_ special,
as his title to his name. He | should not be forced to share |
his birthday glories with anyone any more than he should
be asked to share his name or
his toothbrush. Mrs. justly. with -Rafe "when compela him to divide his birthday glory with Buddy. She does not deal justly with Buddy by
| appeasing his jealousy with a | gift of ice skates.
«alt would be nice if we could | dispose “of jealousy by buying . it- presents, but we can't. We
Bryan does not deal 1 she |
your first plan. Mr. Abel spent all his time in today’s deal worrying about how to play the club suit. Of course, he was under a strain, playing with Mr. Champion who had been yelling at him all
during the rubber, ° In any case, Mr. Abel
he did not give himself every chance for his contract. Mr. Dale opened the four of hearts and Mr. Masters’ to: hold. The jack of hearts was returned and Mr. Abel had to win it.
HE LED A low club toward the dummy and Mr. Dale played the 10. Dummy’s ace won ahd Mr. Abel went into the library. Was that 10 a singleton or had Mr. Dale started with the queen and 10-alone? There was another very real possibility. Mr. Dale may have started with the 10 and a low club. He would play the 10 from that holding, hoping to talk Mr. Abel out of finessing the jack on the second club lead. Mr. Abel finally decided to play Mr. Masters for the queen of clubs. He led back the eight from the board and let it ride. Mr. Dale .won and rattled off enough heart tricks to defeat the contract.
Mr. Champion shook his head angrily. “Abel,” he said,
dispose of it by changing its self-doubtfulness to self-ap-preciation. To deal justly “with her two sons, Mrs. Bryan should prepare to grant -her older son the full spotlight on his natal day while at the sanie time she steps up Buddy's intake of love. # wT A JEALOUS CHILD who needs a stronger love than he's been getting. He is suffering from anemia of self-esteem. To repair this deficiency, we pursue him, not with vitamins and calves’ liver, bit ‘with nourishment for his sense of importance to us. Of course, there's no use deluding ourselves. It's much easier _to buy Buddy a pair of skates than giving him this love-rich. diet. For example, it would take resourcefulness to persuade him that we" really need his assistance on working out plans for Rafe's birthday. It might take quite a good deal of patience to take him shopping with us for Rafe’'s present, decide on the flavor and icing for ice cream and cake, on the friends Rafe might particularly like for dinner on his birthday night.
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BUT THIS *co-operatjon be- ,
tween our younger son and us would offer us some interesting opportunities. For instance, after buying Rafe's skates, we might turn Suddenly fo his little brother and say, “What
is one:
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‘you seem to have Jost track of the basic fact, that there are four suits in the'deck.”. “It was just a guess about the queen of clubs,” replied Mr. Abel defensively. “I am not asking you to drop | lone queens,” Mr. Champion continued. “I am ‘merely asking you to play the hand right. Maybe you would have gone down playing it right, -but-at least you -would have given yourself an extra chance.” Mr. Abel was flustered now and still didn’t see the point. “Here's what I mean,” went on Mr. Champion. “You thought only about the club suit. But what about spades? If the spade | finesse is successful, you can | win four spade tricks—enough | for nirfe tricks in all, | |
“Well why not play the ace: and king of clubs first? If the | queen drops, your problem is solved. If it doesn't, then go | after spades. Two chances in- | stead of one seems like good | sense tO me.” {
about that ball pen you lost vesterday? Would you like a | new one, darling?” In the middle of our discussion on ice cream and cake, we raight make a point of insisting on maplenut as well as strawberry. “Maplenut’s , your flavor,” we could remind BudAy Weould-we.gee that -hig best {riend ‘was invited along with Rafe's - pals? Of course we would. We have undertaken to show Buddy how important his needs and pleasures are to us. If we have done our job well, we need not even give him publle acknowledgment ‘for his helpfulness when Rafe unwraps his skates. The special birthday gift no longer represents special love and Buddy will be able to lean across the table and say, “They're racers. That's what you wanted, isn't id It's very easy to let jealousy in a child scare us into trying to flatter, punish or bribe it put of existence, It can’t be done. The jealous child wants love—and he just won't settle for anything less,
Scarcity of Chairs
Even as late as the middle of the 16th Century, chairs were scarce even in the homes of the “gentility. Usually there waswonly one in a home and this was reserved for the exclusive use. of the head of the house. The rest of the family sat on benches, Stools and chests.
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MONDAY, FEB. 11, 1652
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for the benefit card party to be sponsored by Delta Beta Chapter, Psi lota Xi Sorority, at 7:30 p.m. today in the Food Craft Shop. Proceeds will-go to the sorority’s local charities which include the Julietta Home, Crossroads summer camp and an invalid child and national sorority philanthropies. Mrs. Brown, ways and means chairman, is in charge assisted by Mesdames Lloyd Mare
shall, Mary Kate Roberts, Abe Curtis, E. A. Phil fips, A. M. Rodabaugh and E. L. Brown.
Mrs,
Conway is chapter president and Mrs. Fred Fosler, charity chairman.
We, the Women—
Wives With Careers Face Mental Problem
By RUTH MILLETT it doesn’t." It adds to yours RITES a working but may even subtract from Sp. CNM xr a his. wife: My husband The world still regards the
has never objected to my having a job which actually has, difing the eight ysais of our marriage, Seveiopd into
a career. “But he doesn’t seem at -all
proud. of the success I have made. I honestly can’t under-
husband's career as being important enough for a woman get her ego satisfaction out f being his wife, and helping to further his career. » n n ARE YOU AS creative a homemaker’ as the wives you know who make housekeeping a full-time job? You may be. But chances are that you're not. For you have a ready-made alibi for letting things go. Also, a job that is important enough to be regarded as a
cause I am deeply proud of the success he has achieved and, of course, I let him know it.” Perhaps you can under-
stand fit if youll ask The Stephen Collins Foster yourself a few Chapter of the International questions. Travel Study Club will ‘hold
Does your Ruth Millett
career success add to his prestige in any way? Of course,
« its February luncheon meeting at noon - Friday in ‘the Maple St. Branch of ‘the Indiana Na-
career may not leave vou enough time or energy to be a really creative homemaker, Are you more interested in your work than in your husband’s? Honest, now. is “yes” then you can’t really expect your husband to share your enthusiasm for your work. Instead, he is far more likely to hold" a ‘secret resentment against so absorbing an inter est that does not concern him. Maybe you'll say that a man
has no right to feel this way., .
But it is foolish to talk of what ought to be in such a situation. It's what “is” that you have to face and to live with.
Travel Study Club Luncheon Booked
tional Bank. Miss Amy Keen will be guest speaker. Mrs. P. G.’ Pilkinton,
hostess chairman, will be assisted by Mrs. Walter Roll and Mrs. E. H. Seybert.
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