Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 16 January 1952 — Page 6

EVER criticize someone in front of others Teach—don’t blame.” This was the advice of a

local business executive who

pinch-hit as guest spedker last night at the annual public relations meeting of the Indlanapolis Medical Society Women's Auxiliary.

We, the Women—

knowledge to fact, it seems to me, is every woman.

For women are avid tors of information. They pore over books and articles on child psychology. They consume magazines dedicated to home maknr They soak up articles on mar-

ollae-

riage. They keep reaching out for more and more information. And they can talk bright1

y on any subject that touches their lives. But all too many of them fail to put the facts they learn and even those they figure out for themselves into everyday practice. It doesn’t matter a bit if Mrs. 8. has an advanced degrees in child psychology and knows just what is wrong.with Junior, if she doesn't apply her knowledge.

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No Lay-A-Ways"

‘ALL SALES FINAL No EXCHANGES!

POST- DINNER CHAT— W. Rowland Allen, Mesdames W. Burleigh Matthew,

Francis Fargher (left to right).

W. Rowland Allen, Ayres’ personnel director, took the platform in the Hotel Lincoln Trav ertine Room when inclement

weather in the East grounded Dr. Mary Fisher Langmuir of Vassar College

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A MEMBER of Vassar’'s child

study department and director of the popular Vassar Summer Institute of Family Living, Dr

Knowledge Must Be Used; Put Theory Into Practice

By RUTH MILLETT T'S not how much you know, but how you put your practical use that.is important. ne that should be impressed on

That

It doesn't matter how many articles on homemaking Mrs. W, reads a month, if she doesn’t put the new ideas into practice. Mrs. C. might as well skip the many sound articles she reads on marriage if she won't exert herself to keep her own marriage a growing, happy relationship. Most women today are wellinformed about the jobs of homemaking and child training. They can quote the experts glibly. But the percentage of those who actually apply their knowledge {8 pitifully small. We wom*a love to learn and we love to discuss what we know, But wa often fall short when it comes/to putting our knowledge to use

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Criticism and Blame Don't Work, Medical Auxiliary Audience Learns

1igmuir was the scheduled

linner speaker

“] am speaking to you as upervigors,” sald Mr. Allen to the roomful of auxiliary members and their guests --parents, educators, business, social wels fare and organization’leaders. He declared analyzation of ‘ork of a supervisor, ap executive or foreman showed 80 per cent of his time is spent in a teaching capacity. To be successful it must be done in terms of affection, without fear,

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“ERASE THE word ‘blame’ from your vocabulary when you are in authority. If things go wrong it is lack of correct teaching. So, start reteaching.” He asserted criticizing in front of others simply doesn't work, isn’t decent. The person being rebuked ‘hears’ only his own embarrassment and confusion, not what is said to him. .- “The will to produce actually comes from intangibles which only a teacher—not a boss-— —can provide.”

u ” o FEAR OF speaking freely, accusation of those who do, Mr. Rowland pointed out, is a

hazard facing the nation and

family. It is not new and the nation has faced it before. “But,” he declared, “our differences built us. We need to stand for what we believe.” Industry, he said, looks for two characteristics in a person —manners and curiosity. “Manners reflect a secure person. Curiosity shows he is not afraid to ask or be wrong. They dre a background for authority.” People hunting for bosses, he

said, are insecure and those seeking authority are even worse off for they, toe, are

seeking security.

o n ” MARK OF AN educated person is his thinking life worthwhile no matter what has happened to him. He approaches each day as being worthwhile. “Otherwise there is a tragic

lack of orientation, And a con- |

stant problem in any social

‘| struggle is giving a person this

feeling if he hasn’ t gotten it as i a youngster.” Mrs. W. Burleigh Matthew, { auxiliary president, presided. at | ‘the dinner event. Mr. Rowland | was introduced by Mrs. John Greist, public relations committee chairman. Among the special guests was Mrs. Francis Fargher, Mich- | 1gan City, president of the Women’s Auxiliary to the Indiana State Medical Association.

In a Personal Vein— Will Fly Back To Germany

Mrs. ladislao Labra, the former Miss Ph%1lis Hollar, will leave "by .plane tomorrow from New York for her home in Frankfurt am Main, Germany.

She has been visiting her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Noble W. Hollar, 5837, College Ave.

for the past two ard one-half’ . months, : Mrs. Labra’s husband is a consul in the Chilean state de-

Germany. Mr. and Mrs. George H. Hosmer, 3656 N. Delaware St.

-day for Hawail. turn’ home around Mar. 1.

' partment and is stationed in’

are | galling from San Francisco to- | They will re- |

. Elizabeth Arden,

By BETTY LOCHER : Times Fashlon Editor

OLD LEAF doors of the palacé of beauty were swung wide to .the press last week, and edito¥s from all over the country who gathered in New York had the rare privilege of meeting the famous beauty expert,

in person. In her fabulously luxurious salon on Fifth Ave. 8he offers

a complete course in beauty and charm from makeup to muscuJar control, and she'll sell you anything from radiance in a jar to fashion in a hat. Although she is a ‘strong advocate of fants astic makeup, Miss Arden herself wears very little. Her mature beauty is delicately underscored with a discreet use of makeup and her blond hair is, I am sure, nature's own. Ed u = HER MANNER is as natural as her appearance and she spoke graciously to each of us while we were guests at her champagne dinner. The relaxed atmosphere, which she seémed to bring with her as she arrived by plane just in time for the

first course, was in direct con- | . trast to her fashion

show in

the fabulous blue and gold salon. Models floated. by to the strains of a zither which gave a mystic, oriental feeling to the show. Their-makeup was opaque and flawless and each hairdo was a work of art. One dark beauty had a new Egyptian hairdo with her locks worn

in enormous sleek puffs. To go with this oriental moed, - Miss Arden introduced a new eve makeup to replace the doeeved look of the dumb blonde, J.orelef. This new eye business

gives you a _ mysterious look, and you just have to see it to believe it The final touch is added with the application of sequin dust sprayed on eyelids and lips to give sparkle. It comes in either silver or gold. " n ”

EACH COSTUME shown was an entity in itself, beautifully co-ordinated with accessories. She showed both: the sheath and full silhouet and also introduced a new skirt, a wraparound with side drapery so wondrously manipulated that it seemed to become part of the wrap itself. Her manta capes were the essence of drama. They fell to elbow length in front and to skirt \length in back. She also introduced a cocoon coat with narrow sloping shoulders. It rounded out at the elbows, then was drawn in again just above the knees. They are won-

derful with slim, sophisticated

black sheath evening gowns.

Alpha Beta Zeta Rush Set Tonight

Mrs. Ralph Mattingly is chairman for tonight's rush party of Delta Gamma Chapter, Alpha Zeta Beta Sorority, in the E. New York St. branch, Indiana National Bank. Assistants for the 8 o'clock party which will feature a circus theme are Mesdames Bernard Mattingly, Paul Koertge and John Mattingly,

Tip on Ironing

Slipcovers should be ironed when “almost dry.” Press pleats and flounces, and then stretch the slipcover into place on furniture where it will dry taut and smooth,

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= Fashion Show Has Oriental Touch

.in Ayres’ Auditorium are Miss Agnes Sherman

SWEATER DRESS—Silver -gray Indian Gauze is used for this cocktail dress pleated. from stem to stern. The strapless bodice is draped with pleats. A wool jersey cardigan jacket to match is polka dotted with iridescent paillettes.

MANTA CAPE—Sheer black weol shantung is used for a slim promenade dress with a fulllength manta cape lined in black silk taffeta. The cape drops just to the elbows in front, and to the hemline in back.

Organizations—

Card Parties and Rummage Sale Highlight Forthcoming Events

Rockford Alumnae .

Rockford College Alumnae Club of Indianapolis members will meet at 8 p. m. tomorrow in the Home of ‘Mrs. Stephen T. Moreland, 5903 Pleasant Run Pkwy. Mrs. James G. Ewing will assist the hostess.

Sky-Hi Club Plans for a rummage sale in late March will be made at the Sky-Hi Club meeting at 7:30 p. m. tomorrow in the American Legion Atkins Post, 1421 Central Ave. Jerry Shook and Willlam Troyer will be initiated. Membership in the organizaf fon is still open to men 6-foot-2 or over. Paul Barclay, 3360 N. Meridian St., is committees chairman. Bill Rodebeck will show color films and pictures of various club activities he has taken this past year. Mrs. Harriet Craft, Miss Maryann Renard, Arthur Leslie and Bob Wilson are in charge of a hard times guest party scheduled for'Jan. 24 at the post home. Prizes will be given for the most original costume.

Benefit card parties, a talk on Needlework Guild and plans for a future rum-. mage sale and hard times party are in the

limelight today. : Proceeds of the MacMurrary College Club of Indianapolis benefit card party Saturday will be used for the club’s scholarship fund. Chairmen of the annual event at 1:30 p. m.

and Miss Jane Moore. Assistants include Mrs. E. A. Phillips, Mrs. William H. Willard and Miss Patricia McMillan.

Sigma Kappa Alumnae

Final plans for a Feb. 2 card party will be discussed by members of the Sigma Kappa Sorority Alumnae Club at its 7:45 p. m. meeting today. The meeting will be in the 38th St. branch, Merchants National Bank. ® Frank Wallace, state entomologist, speak, Hostesses will be Mesdames Keith Nelson, Donald Leonard, Albert Strickland and Austin

will

G. Brown. TSC Next month's party will be in Ayres’ Auditorium. barsy Y Mrs. Noble Reynolds, recently made an hon-

orary member of Loch Lomonds Chapter, ITSC, will be guest speaker for tomorrow's 11:30 a. m, ‘chapter meeting. It will be in the 38th St. branch, Indiana National Bank.

Culture Club A program on “Michigan” will be given by Mrs. T. M. Rybolt before the Culture Club Friday. Entertaining for the 1 p. m. meeting will be "Mrs. Norman L. Schneider, 685 Middle Drive, ‘Woodruff Place.

Cross Town Club Mrs. William Griggs, 2838 Ruckle St., will be hostess at 8 p. m. Friday for the Friday Evening Cross. Town Club.

ZTA Alumnae

Mrs. Hubert Mertz, Indianapolis president and ‘national officer of the Needlework Guild of America, will be guest speaker for the January meeting of the Indianapolis Alumnae Chapter, Zeta Tau Alpha Sorority. The 8 p. m. event tomorrow will be in the Butler University Chapter House. For several years the alumnae’s local charity project has been Needlework Guild. Mrs. John Fields heads the hostess committee for the meeting with Mrs. Coyle Woodward, Mrs. C..L. Smith and Miss Connie Monroe, assisting.

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"Fund Drive

To: Open

ONDAY will mark the opening of the-annual Maintenance Fund Drive of the Indianapolis Symphony

Orchestra.

In making this announcement, Col. Arthur Herrington, presi. dent of the Symphony Board, and Miss Josephine Madden, Women’s Committee chairman, also named Mrs. John Alexander as head of the Women’s Division, with John Jefferson and Morris Goodman as cochairmen of the Men's Division.

Mrs. Alexander will be serv

“ing her third consecutive year

as head of the: women in the campaign for funds for the orchestra, which is now ranked as one of the nation’s 10 best symphony orchestras.

A group of several hundred volunteer workers are being selected to conduct a “grass roots” campaign for funds. The amount of money being sought in this year’s campaign is still

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Set Bridal

Dinner

Mr. and Mrs. Ralph C. Kriplen, 6935 Winthrop Ave., will en~ tertain Friday with a bridal dinner in the Athenaeum “in honor of the approaching marriage Saturday of their daughter, Dorothy, and Joseph T, Pinella. The couple will be married at a 9.30- a. m. ceremony in the Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church. Guests at the dinner will ine clude the Rev. Fr, Edwin Sahm, the Rev. Mr. and Mrs. Frank S. Pinella, parents of the prospective bridegroom. > Mr. and Mrs. Frank J, Pine ella, brother of the bridegrooms= to-be; Mr. and Mrs. James Commons, David Kriplen, Miss Dorothy Marone, Miss Mary Joan Hughey, Willlam Matheny and Robert Kaylor.

‘Minuet Ball’ Is Planned

Woodstock Club will be the scene of the Stansfield Circle's “Minuet Ball” on Feb, 16. :

Ralph Lillard’s orchestra will play for the buffet dinnerdance.

General chairmen named by Mrs. Thomas J. Beasley Jr. president, are Mrs. Willlam F, Welch and Mrs. Robert E, Houk. » = » MRS. JOHN W. CLARK and Mrs. Owen J. Barrows will be in charge of decorations, assisted by Mesdames Leo Gardner, Owen J. Neighbours, Frank M. Moore and Robert A. Claycombe. Reservations will be handled by Mrs. William H. Merrill and Mrs. - James Carter. Mrs. William S. Hanning and Mrs. C, Nevin Harwood will be in charge of invitations. Mrs. Bert C. McCammon and Mrs. Paul ‘A. Buchanan Jr., patron chairmen, will be assisted by Mrs. Elwood B. Daugherty and Mrs. Robert V. Rawley.

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