Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 3 January 1952 — Page 15
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Times Ther by John R. Bpicklemire
PARTY PREVIEW —"Back to School” will be the theme af the paify Dewey Petty (center) will give from 3 to 7
p. m. tomorrow In
his parents’ home, 2275 Wynnedale Rd. Guests will be his Shortridge High School, Park Schoo! and Tudor Hall School friends. He checks some last minute details on the telephone as Al Denny, Mary Ellen Burton, Kathy Daniels and Paul Denny { (left to right) audition some new Christmos records. Daisy, the dog, is an interested spectator.
The Mature - Parenti
Timely Hints on How to Solve Discourtesy in Husbands
By MURTEL LAWRENCE SOME time ago I'wrote a’ column, on discourtesy between parents and its effects Several mothers,
worried over their husbands’ discourteous treatment of them, have written me asking what
upon their children.
they can do about it.
“I know our daughter is losing respect for her
father because of the way he talks to me,” writes one. “Will I also lose her fespect if he doesn’t change?” It would be a pretty awful thing if our children lost respect for us because someone treats us impolitely. Children are not that cruel or stupid. They give high respect to people who take unkind words well. If these mothers deal with their husbands’ behavior intelligently, ‘they will increase, not lose their children’ 8 respect.
selves and our children. . ga THIS IS HOW we attack: We ask a husband for a part of the evening paper and he says, “For gosh sake, give mae some peace. Buy your own paper if yoy want one and leave me alone.” > Do we attack by saving, “Hush, for heaven's sake; can't you talk decently before the children?” = No, we don't. We are fighting discourtesy in.the human being for whom we are responsible. So we are not rude to the husband. We say to him pleasantly, “That's not a bad idea. I'll order my own paper right now.” And we do. If our child is impudent to her father, we don’t indulge in secret satisfaction that he's getting back some of his own medicine, Conscious of our real responsibility, we say to the child, “Ask your father’s pardon.” If she suggests that he should ask. hers, we say, “I am not daddy’s mother; I am yours. as I ask and repeat what you have said to him
. more kindly.” . - Bs
Mrs, Lawrence
If we want to work out the problem of a hus- . ’ .
Hand's rude manner, we should first make up our minds not.to plead for courtesy, to argue for it, or indeed to discuss’ it at all with him. When this decision is made, we are ready for step—a thorough examination of what
the next it is we want. “ oH. .H
IF WE CONCLUDE that we desire courtesy rather than a nferely: courteous husband, The moment, the very intant that we see that what we want removed ~iz discourtesy, nota.the husband, we are ready to battle discourtesy, not the husband. This realization is essential to the solution of
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we are on our way.
our problem.
Once it's come to us, the way begins to really open up. Our frustration is replaced by control. We take immediate steps to attack discourtesy in
The Women —
We, "You Won't
Be Wrong If You...
‘By RUTH MILLETT T'S never a mistake— To tell a man how clever or smart or interesting he is. To tell a woman beautiful. To say “I don’t know” if you really don’t. Ho. ask the advice of an .expert. & To ‘praise a ‘meal a hostess has cooked
To notice that a woman is wearing her hair differently.
To inquire about a woman's grandchildren.
' To turn aside a catty remark with an aware but good-na-tured reply. To discredit the damaging tidbit a gossip offers you in the hope you'll want all the juicy details. To send flowers to a woman. To take the time and trouble to put another person at ease. “® wn #
TO LISTEN: politely to a ehild. To pay an older woman a compliment. To let a man who hasn't gotten around to proposing to know that he has competition. To praise a husband for the qualities you most want him to have. To let the host as well as the hostess xnow you had a fine ‘time. % To praise a woman in front ‘of her husband. To say “I'm _ sorry.”
she looks
even
'_when the other person is in the
wrong.
To guess a woman's age as -
"five years under what it could possibly be. To tell a man you value his “opinion. :
® To tell a parent something yeomplimentary about his child.
‘Baste ‘With Cony
1 A curried “baste” for a‘ roast
stuffed chicken gives a joerg flavor without overwhelmin
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margarine, one-fourth teaspoon
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This is fighting for a point of view, a principle; not for the personal self, personal gratification, It is the only kind that makes sense and demon-
Unless we attack discourtesy injourselves, we : cannot possibly persuade our husband that we don’t ‘want it. Unless we are eager to detect it
to the charge ‘of inconsistency.
away with it gompletely for ourselves,
in response to changes, in us.
Engagement Announced
Mr. and Mrs. James Jeffries, 3626 N. Illinois St, announce the engagement of their daughter, Jacqueline, of San Fran-
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of Mr. and Mrs. Samuel J. Du
Pratt, “Yearington, Nev. in San Francisco.
dianapolis, is a stewardess for United Air Lines. She is visit. ing her parents here this week. Mrs, Stanley Trusty, 7210 Williams Creek Dr. assisted by her mother, Mrs, Ernest Ambuhl, entertained for the bride-to-be at a miscellaneous shower last night.
Mesdames James Jeffries, Pauline Kiefer, Gene Lacy, Fred Hess, Bertha. Lentz, Gene Saltmarsh, Claude-Lehr and George Pyle. : Mesdames Joe Haslet, Edward “Walden, Immer Welch, Walter Goodman and Robert Garriot, Misses June Goodman, Clara Vogel, Corrine Fletcher and Patricia Maxam.
Stuffed Eggplant
If you're an eggplant enthusiast, try stuffing it with tuna. Parbail eggplant, split and scoop out pulp. Combine with a can” of “bite size” tuna and about two tablespoons olive or cooking oil, Season liberally
By MRS. ANNE CABOT HERE is a delightful cover; all apron that will help you losk your loveliest in or out of the kitchen. A perky butterfly pocket and tiny “wingers” darting-about the bodice make this a most appealing*charmer. Pattern 5232 includes tissue pattern for apron in sizes 14, 16-and 18 included, material requirements, sewing and finish: ing directions, hot iron transfer for. designs. Anne Cabot’s New Album of Needlework 1s chock-full of grand designs, plus ‘exciting features-—and "a gift pattern printed in the book.
sweet basil. Pop in the oven to heat thoroughly.
Meeting Cancelled
noon Thomas 8. Martin, 2011 Park Ave., has been cancelled.
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The | wedding will take place Jan. 13 |
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THIS IS FIGHTING discourtesy, not people,
and respect. it.in ourselves, we expose ourselves
If we do crack down upon it in ourselves and | the children. husbands will begin to see that we | do not consider them personally disagreeable and | unlovable, but that we do find all discourtesy so | disagreeable and junlovable that we have done :
Changes in those around us take place only
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with salt, pepper, onion salt and | i
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The New Era Club meeting | scheduled for Monday after- | in the home of Mrs, |
the people for whom we are responsible-xgur- .
Cooking Apples
Have Many Uses
Cooking apples are quite plentiful. - That's one good reason to give apple cakes, pies and other apple treats a prominent place in menus this winter. Good nutrition is another reason, especially when theses baked goods are made with enriched flour to provide protein, essential B-vitamins and food
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| showers To Honor ~
Brides-to:Be
Miss Mary * Lou. Clark, 4020 Central Ave. RL
be hostess Jan. 27 at a miscellaneous shower wfor Migs Suzanne Daly. Miss Daly, daughter of Mr. and: Mrs..John D. ‘Daly, 5245 Broadway, wil be.married to Robert’ H. Renick, Jan, 26, in St. Joan of Are Catholic Church, A kitchen shower will be given tonight: by Judith and Susan Bea, 1107 N. New Jersey St., in ‘honor of their cousin, Miss’ Barbara. Ann Bea. The honor guest, the dRigh. ter of Mr. and Mrs, Melvin F. Bea, 1606 N. Rural St, will be married ,Jan. 12 to Vincent Paul McNulty in St. Philip Neri
Church. The bride-to-be. will he entertained Sunday at a miscellane-
ous shower by Mrs, William A. Myers, 2614 E. 9th St. Next Thursday -Miss Bea's
parents will entertain the bridal
group at a luncheon at home, Guests will include Miss Janet Bordenkecher, Miss Judith Bea, Mrs. Myers, “James McNulty,
Melvin J. Bea and Joseph Baase. ‘The prospective bridegroom is
the son of Mrs. James ‘MecNulty, 825 N. Rural St. Quick, Hot Soups Are Popular " Hot, tempting soups are a favorite “first course” to many dinner menus. They are. espe-
cially appealing when the family returns home from outdoor work or play. Here's a quick noodle soup that takes only a few minutes to make. Add three bouillion cubes to two cups of boiling salted water. Bring to a boil Then add two ounces of fine noodles and cook for about
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Waterproof Baby Panties -
By BETTY LOCHER *~
Times Fashion Editer
V JITH a member: of the own
~.diaper set in our family, we thought we'd heard everything on. the
sybject of modern conveniences
in thigifiepartment, It sms, however, that a firm
hy the name of H. H. Cutler Co., Grand Rapids, Mich, that has nothing else to do, has
set of
\ thought up a brand new snappy answers on how to keep
a baby “socially acceptable” at even the most embarrassing moments.
They're just invented a brand new waterproof -baby panty with. built-in air pockets that have a ‘gentle bellows action set in motion by the natural movements of the child.”
It was hastily explained to us that this means the panty has holes in it that cannot leak. We haven't quite figured this out - yet, but inasmuch as the panty. has many other advantages, we'll just trust that Mr. Cutler knows what he’s talking about... .~ ££ NH AT ANY RATE, he's con--vinced us that we're as old fash-
ioned as. a handlebar mustache because we took it for granted that leak-proof baby panties just naturally get stiff after so many washings. Not Cutler's
soft. They cam be washed in any soap or and stay soft, They in be laundered in the wash OK stay
and stay
Ing. water
detergent
ing machine and stay soft. we're convinced. They soft. All
made
this. rough treatment is
possibla hecause panties. are made of Goodyear Vinylfilm which has been impregnated with lanolin. This acts as a softening agent and keeps the pants smooth and pliable even after beiling. It dlso helps to prevent chafing, irritation, diaper rash and allergy.’ The Goodyear Tire & Rubber Co, itself-vouches for the fact that the lanolin used in the film is of the same mildly antiseptic type frequently used for medical purposes. -It means greater comfort for babies and longer wear from
the
Revolutionize Diaper Set
who conducted the lahorge tory tests on the whole deal.
~ ” n BUT THAT .isn't:adl. They are acidproofy waterproof, fire resistant, stain resistant, cool, non-allergic and odorless, All this we have on the, bona fide word of Mr. H. H. Cutler him-
nnes
self, who is president of the outht, 3 = The panties coms in two , 8tyles-—the bloomer style for 50 cents and the gripper style for 69 cents each Just
for
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po Roar el
good measure you also can get
clever bibs and aprons of the same stuff that will stay soft, They have crumb catchers, too, All of these Cutler items are available in the infants depart« ment of Ayres’ Downstairs Store. Sizes are in accordance with the. weight of the baby-=
.on the panties that is.
Here's Suggestion
For Luncheon Dish
Luncheon is often the hardest meal for which to plan an in‘teresting and” nutritious menu, Here is—a Crunchy Treat suggestion which is both nutritious and satisfying. Into spaghetti with mushroom sauce fold
- cooked - dice bacon and pickle
relish. Serve hot. Jt's a good dish to serve for dinner also with Canadian bacon, ham or bacon. Either fruit accompaniment to the meat or a refreshing fruit
So kindly do !
strates our sincerity and the justice of our cause. |}
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three minutes. Serve piping hot. . Cuvver-ups. waterproof pants, Well, they salad go well with this combifron. This recipe ik for four. They can be sterilized in bofil- ought ‘to know. They're the nation. % : ref
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