Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 2 January 1952 — Page 4
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60: AND-UP SERIES—This sociat scene at Kirshbaum Center will be repeated Tuesday when the Indianapolis Chapter, National Council of Jewish Women, holds its second program for the 60-and-
up crowd. Mrs. William Hene will be general chairman. A simple handcraft exhibition is being planned by Mrs. Alex Rosenbaum for the 1:30 p. m. event. Among the more than 26 guests who urned out for «the first program were Mesdames A. Drazier, Helen Goldsmith and Harry Cohen (seated, left to right). Serving them is Mrs. Julius Birk, hospitality chairman,
Bridge-Tea Set Saturday
E ARLY reservations have been made for ° shall Harrington Herman Roesch, A Alhert ‘Rose, : one of the first socéial events of the ¢ieorge W. Schmutte Jr. Ralph G. Fox ‘and H. N ¥ ~ ‘ . ~ ‘ Siefert New Year, Goodwill Service Guild's bene- ener : N : Mesdames Cecil McClintock, Earl Haley, Rus-idge-te 1:30 p. m. Saturday in ; Bt bi ge! li 1 I ’ sell Cooper and Clara Irwin will be with Mrs, ock's Auditorium: nya. Planning to attend are Mesdames Herman R. ¥. Kerboy. - . . ('. Krannert, William Trimble, Walter Leckrone, Also - holding reservations are Mesdames George J. Garceau, Kurt Pantzer, Frederick Evarett Brown, Alta Julian, Marie Cortelyou Leete Jr. Edward Gallahue, Fred Kroeger and Robert Shipley, Robert l.ee, James S8ligar and Edwin MeNally - : (laude Otten, Misses (Carol Brown, Eleanor Other hostesses will he Mesdames Harry 3ull and Ann Coy Perrine, William T. Schiliges, Ernest Mill- ge o holland, John A. Crawford, Tester Iron and MESDAMES William C. Tremear, Carl Ellis; Winifred Allison. ; Howard C. Caldwell, William A. McKinzie, Ralph Mesdames Fred A. Genck, James Young, Heslar and Rhoda Little and Miss Dorothy Charles T. Cov, W. Howard Bull, Howard Lytle Gilles. John Maddox and John: Holton. Mesdames James P. (‘ook Jr, Dan Flickinger “hu Glen J. Riser, W. W. Pealle, Rébert 1.. Monroe IN MRS. CECIL BERRY'S party will be and Ralph Monroe and. Miss Mary Jane Mezdames FE. Clark Aikin, W. E. Albrecht, Mar- Duttenhaver. : lackwood on Bridge— FN—any-gathering of play- Routh dealsr pariner opens with ane no ers who go beyond the North-South vulnerable, trump. 4 ’ : NORTH As for his passion for suit glage of conversational Mrs. Keen or preference signals, take today's bridge, there-is a Mr. Rhule. S—K 93 hand. He.made the very. fine He not only learns every new H—A 97472 opening of ihe deuce of giabidding or playing convention D—10 7 3 monds. - His.pariner won with as it comes-out, he temporarily C—8 4 the king and returned a club gon by builds his eh: . WEST EAST which he ruffed for the setting tire “system Mr. Rhule Mr. Dale trick. : around it. S164 # oe Sealy) 2 RIG hit Pod Once he used H—KJ38463 H—Q 10 3 NIC E BIDDING and nice the Blackwood P=AT1062 D—K 9 8 4 play, partner sald Mr. Dale, four no trump C—none C—§ 153 Deamnk bid on. every SOUTH My suit preference lead of D I ¥ De. Mr. Champion the deuce of diamonds did the 8 ane > S—AQJSS trick,” gloated Mr. Rhule. Mr. Sanse ans i " A nom 3 Dale who had not noticed any os So \ D—5 such signal, but had only made tn p ( —_ ‘ the natural return, was silent - ; ; C-AKQJ1062 foe pow ny The bidding: 3 But Mr. Champion was sore Mr. Dale ner had - South West North Fast at “heing~outbid and outplayed. if. 010 Eater hu 2 © 2 H Db Pass What do you think Dale would adopted the four club hid to 3 8 3D 3S iD have leq Daek if he had Lever .ask for. aces and committed. 8 OU 6D Pass Pass pea Bl preference he mayhem on John. Gerbera 68 All Pass aries On the bidding and favorite bid. Th Y Naa - the looks of the dummy, a halfavorite bid. Then he hecame most every time he opened the
a Rusinow addict, always leadIng the second highest of touch
bidding. Today he
is a Stayman ad
wit returned a
would have club.” >
There was a lot of “truth in
ing honors even “when he dict and a suit preference Mr. Champion's words. Many should have led an entirely dif fanatic. He opens one no trump = times. the suit preference sigferent suit on.almost any distribution just nal gets credit for a certain ; A 8 = , to give his partner. a chance to lrad. where the very same lead HE WENT through a stage uo! say two clubs, And the two would have heen selected on fascination with the ‘prepared clubs ‘response is practically he basis of ordinary common
club” apening with one club al:
Wor
The Mature Parent—
automatic with him when his
sense and good judgment.
Emotional Housecleaning May Be Needed
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By MURIEL
SA Y to Mrs. Y.
ant time
LAWRENCE * a , “I hope you had a pleas-
over the holidays’—and she says, "I worked like a slave, if that's what
you mean, It was Paula who had the fun.” fay to her colorful table dollies! and che ravs I'he ket ruined. Paula ha hurned two with Rarets Nav ‘almost. ar hing Mrs. 3 nd she make * what you refer to some past actior which she v can reproach her daughter, > What is Paula 1iké? She
18 vears o She is a chair
smoker in her purse, along With her cigarets, she car rieg a ‘box of -aspirin for het frequent headache aTTaCks Noes Mrs really find it tao hard to forgive her child! “for the day during Christ : - . E Mrs, Lawrence mas vacation when she :
took a lunch up the dishes table mats
guest off to skate without washing 1Joes she reallv so cherish her nat she cannot forget the two cigaret
urns? . n ~ un NO... MRS. Y, didn't really mind washing the di shes or losing two table doilies. The fact is
that she isn’t with her She
contributes $20 a month to the support of an aging mother who never approved of his marriage. 3 : Paula's mother feels that it wotld be best not to express this anger-to Mr. Y. for fear she lose a husband instead of $20 a month, However,’ since anger repressed is not anger killed, but anger merely diverted, Mrs. Y.'s anger at her marital situation becomes anger at her child. _ She welcomes any action by Paula that will , afford her, (AN excuse to discharge some of her
angry child at all
{8 angry because Mr. Y.
feeling. - Her need to complain is so intense that
i lf Paula fails 10 Behave thoughtiessly vr -vadly,
4 ¥
, sound high-minded and good
Tete; Y, ae to. Aesuhest Lfantr Hibesayior to re.
lieve herself of inward emeotianal pressures that *have nothing whatever to do with Paula or that mishehavior, - » uN n PARENTS, like other ‘human beings, often suffer from resentments which they do not dare to admit or express openly. Though we try to stifle these inconvenient and dangerous feelings, we do not All
people who ha
succeed, we do is to detour them away from: the
ve aroused them toward the chil
dren who have nothing to do with them at all We hound them with criticism and complaints that are all out of proportions to their mistake
If-we don’t cach oh to the Way our anger at others is. making us use our children as scape goats; we can-aetually come to expect and want them to do wrong things. to take satisfaction in their wrongdoing, in order to give ourselves the chance to sound off and make our indignation
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LJ ~ ~ CHILDREN'S LOVE for us is pretty depend ent on the quality of justice we give them. dt is foolish of Mrs. Y. to refuse-to recognize how unjustly she is treating (Paul i since thiz refusal may not only cost her Paula's love but can also ffelay-the olution of her marital problem Mrs. Y.'s trouble with Mr, Y. is based'on her conviction that she is a victim of his. injustice, She regards his financial. Rift to his mother as
unfair to his wife. If Mrs. Y. wants justice. from her hushand she will. not persuade him that she deserves it
by treating their child unjustly, On the other hand, it is quite probable that by being ‘most careful to dispense justice herself, Mrs. Y. might wake up one day to find her husband and child taking pleasure in Fetyrhing tome to. her,
oF COURSE. we never know. Mrs, V3 may not really he gnierested in justice at all. She may be merelv | he prizes her good will above-his own sefise of responsibility. In such a ease. Mra, Y. has some very thorough emotional housecleaning .t6 da if ‘she
wishes to. retain the. Tove of any member “of her family, ; Ss el ea
a,
“
rested in'making Mr. Y, prove that |
= Organizations—
— Clubwomen
E Everis
[NSTALLATION of officers, a guest speaker and regular sessions are on the
books of local eclubwomen this month : The Indiana. Society, Danghters of 1812; will Mrx Orville F. Shattuck its president at a noon luncheon Saturday. in
the Hotel Li
netall
ncoln
Mrs
Other . officers include John Rush, Seuth Bend, and Mrs. Garrison. Winders, [first and second vice presidents; Miss
Carrie Hoag, corresponding se retary and treasurer Mrs. l.ee' Van Dervort, re cording ‘secretary and historian: Mrs, Frank Peland, »régis trar; Mrs. Maude Wade Snider chaplain: Mesdames J. B.-Cook Donald Dale Armstrong and Hasking Smith, directors The: @ zation, headquarters are in
Jon, is. camposed of
wWeh ose Washing lineal ‘de have service tn
organi
o scendants of those who rendered ' patr the 1 States hetween
1815
intie
‘niterl 1784
Mu Phi Epsilon Mis, Edward Ls
KE. 21st St; will be hostess. for the 10:30 a, m, meeting next Wed esday, of. the- Patroness
Club of Mu Phi Epsilon Sorority.
1Shelle. ROAR
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Mrs, Loche Bracken as nar rator and Mrs. Andrew Rosg as pianist will give a Rachmani
noff ‘program. Mrs. John Smith and Miss Gertrude Gutelius will assist fhe hostess
Alpha Lambda Laterian
will discuss harmony and: room arrangement “before members of the Alhpa Lambda Laterian Tues-
Charles J. Keeler
day. Mrs. lowell Reed, 333 College Ave., will be hostess, assisted by Mrs. Ralph Starr
St. Agnes Alumnae
Plans. for future g0cial events and election held hy the St. Agnes Academy AVlumnae Association at a reorganization meefing at 3 p. m Jan. 20 in the achool.
Prepare Children For Atomic Age
Towa iz getting its . grade school children ready for the atomic age. Sponsored by the
state's department of public in- |
struction, courses in atomic energy education are given to voungsters from the fifth grade on. A report on the project explains that the purpose is not to make nuclear scientists out of the pupils but to help them understand the release of atomic energy and its use bv. ety. : The children themselves conduct ¢ Tag sTo om experiments with colored blocks and draw pictures of the atoms. The new courses, ~vhave. become the most in school, include the such familiar objects as matchsticks, mouse traps and dom
sQ0t-
which
of officers will be
behavior of
popular use of
inoes to demonstrate the chain-~ reaction of atomic piles.
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THE INPLARAPOIAY TIMES ei
“Cover Up’ Is New Look
aso te rr al
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BLUE AND BEIGE—Balloon sleeved blouse tops brief shorts.
BETTY 1LOCHER
Times Fashion Fditer
\ THERE the sun shines brightest and where skies are bluest vou'll find
fashions like these, ahd gtvies are iresher and more exciting before. They have important on the American fashion scene that they lay elaim to significant trends in their own right. The “next word” in sunshine fashions scheduled to be a byword by summer, is thee “covered-up’ look. The Bikini bathing suit was the last resort in bare fashions and the pendulum was bound to swing in the opposite direction. = n n SHOWN ABOVE are several shining examples of this new trend definitely designed to magnify charms and minimize deflects. By ‘cor
blouses of
Ry
New resort summer
than ever hecome so
trast to the sleeveless the past -Summers ig the charming balloonsleeved hlouse (upper left), Marjorie Montgomery of California makes it of royal blue
few
Teen Tastes Develop
8y ALICIA HART JO you teen-agers think shopping is a snap. All you need is the necessary financial backing, and you are positive you could buy the
most ‘dreamy’ wardrobe imaginable . Actually, buying sprees take careful planning and training, if you want to get the best values for vour money. As ‘a starter, you'd be a
smart girl to accept guidance from your mother and the saleswoman: who waifs on you. They've both had enough. experience: to offer you valuable suggestions. ~ = ~ BEFORE. YOU even leave home, analyze your figure and features, What are your most flattering colors? Decide on the type of clothes that will do the
most for vou, and then stick to them. Since. it's important for you
to cultivate an individual. style, better not shop with a group of friends. ‘Follow the leader” buying will only result in clothes that don't suit you.
= ~ 8 SET ASIDE: several days or afternoons for shopping. Concentrate on school clothes one day, and party duds the next. You'll never get anything you want by running from department to department. Once you've made a list of what -you need, don't "sacrifi¢e conservative, useful clothing for novelties. The outfit that's really “different” rarely outlasts the season. Set ‘your shopping sights high. The taste and technique you develop now will influence your “appearance for the rest of your life. . .
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BELLE OF THE BEACH—Elasticized swimsuit, terry cloth jacket.
linen teamed with brief shorts of sand beige with blue dots. This is a color scheme to watch for—blue with beige for spring and summer. You'll see it in early spring fashions, too. Fresh as -a sea breeze and twice as frivolous, the young ensemble (center) is designed to make yoy the belle of the beach. The one-piece swim suit is elasticized pique that has a very nubby texture. It
is teamed with a beach coat of ~
terry cloth embroidery. design.
with white scroll A Frances Sider
Wife With Martyr Complex No Bargain for Husband
The
Burbanks of have been busy cross-breeding In
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WEDNESDAY, 1953
in Sun Wear
KNEE-HIGH, SHORTS—Mags- - nity charms, minimize defects.
snowman in the chilly Midwest, Emphasis, as always, in these fashions is on the “body- beau- | tiful.” . ; | Hollywood ‘thinks the feminine figure is just fine the way and California fashions
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1 never resort to distortion of the .
figure or discomfort in wearing.,i 5 n u i THEREFORE, if the Golden : State has anything to say about it, waistlines will stay put, be tiny but not pinched, and full skirts are the ‘dearly beloveds” every collection for their free and easy ways. The fresh, wholesome colors (California sportswear pro-
fashion
again. It looks like they cut vide interesting contrast to the the bottom off a pair of pedal more sophisticated . combinapushers and added it to a pair tions seen in Eastern collecof “shorts. The results are tions. Certainly color, too, can wonderfully smart--knee high be a way of life, be it smoothly shorts (upper. right) that are sophisticated or vital and fun--just revealing enough to tease loving. i the imagination. The two- But let's save a few secrets
piece ensemble is a Clare. Potbeige silk
ter design
in heavy
for vou to discover for vourself over the counters. Downtown
tussor. windows and sportswear deCalifornia, testing ground for partments are brimming with sunshine clothes, has outdone play-time clothes from both itself this s=edson with «light- East and West. May the hearted summer fashions pretty “twain” meet in your suitcase enough to melt the heart of a going South. . : ' . Here's A Simple, Light Dessert Top off a rich, heavy. dinner
By v RUTH MILLETT
QOME 1 women have the idea that the harder they work
the better wives they are.
often goes into great detail about how hard she works,-how she does all of the laundry,
takes care of the vard, and all:
that. : And she is likely to talk, too, about how thrifty she is, spend-
ing little on herself, and economizing in every possible way. Just why these women think that a man’s idea of a perfect wife should be one who works hard and denies herself everything is hard to figure out. ~ ~ » BUT THEY do. they discover that the “hard work isn't necessarily appreciated, they find believe. Sure a man likes a well-kept home. And he certainly doesn’t want to be driven to bankruptey by an extravagant wife,
And when |
it hard-to .
But he isn't going to ‘he made
happy by how hard his wife works or. how many things she does without. Nor is he necessarily going to appreciate her for either one of those reasons. He is just as likely to take her everlasting drudgery and self-denial for granted as to think what a wonderful wife she is to work so hard and demand so little.
~ » o SO EVEN THOUGH you may have to work hard and have few of the things you really want, don't expect that, in itself, to hold a husband's love or prompt his appreciation. And as soon as you can, and in.every way that you can, ease up on therdrudgery and always accept your fair share of the things that money will buy
Several Luncheons on Tap
Luncheons highlight two club meetings this week. : Miss Harriet Bury will address the Jesse Wallin Heywood Alliance of All Soiils Unltarian Church at a luncheon tomorrow. Miss Bury is director of the Family and Child Care Division of the Health and
Welfare Council of lndianapoli .and Marion County. Her sun
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Mr. and Mrs. Earl H. Kyle, | -1018. E. Palmer 8t, entertained as ‘guests Mrs. Oak Park, n.;
ject will be “Somé Aspects .of Community Planning.”
~The “Florence “Nightingale Club will hear Dr. Allen K. Harcourt speak on “Varicose Veins” at the Z¥riday noon luncheon of the group. It will be in the Warren Hotel: - Mrs. A. G. Smith will give the club, history 'duyriug the group's observance of Founder's Day.
When Was Johnstown Flood?|
Paul Pagles,’ See in your free 1052 St. Joseph | ‘Mrs, Curwin | Calendar and Weather Chart. Also
Teaming, Hazelwood Farm, has historical dates, weather data,
Romney,’ and = Miss Hallie | | -Racuglen. Pasadena, as holy guess Gai, ahs - a. :
That attitude is reflected in many letters that come my way. The wife who feels Neglected and unappreciated,
Otherwise you'll and woman
get to think feel Tike a-martyr. with a martyr complex
with a simple Hght dessert and you'll feel the better for it. Ons such. tasty treat is a pineapplemarshmallow combination, Cut up one-pound of marsh-
mallows and heat in top of a " double boiler, stirring until melted. Then mix with one and one-half cups crushed pineapple. Chill in dessert glédkses, top with coconut and serve.
And a
is no bargain as a wife.
Just remember
you are
ha rd your husband's
You will find our
store the center of activity for brides—who like to register their pattern choices in China, Silver and
: Crystal, in our
brides register.
planting chart, fish- Jiang ing, other iif EE Eo a ny, He RI -
that a doesn’t love you for how hard you work or for all the things willing to do without, and you won't make tHe mistake of expecting that you can trade work and self-denial for undying and grateful appreciation.
mat Stretches Budget Here's a penny-wise idea which will" stretch the budget and appeal to the family. Serve a bowl of chile con carne (with.
out beans) to ladle over maoa~ roni and cheese.
love
soe smorupermtel
Castleton China
Shown exclusively at
Charles Mayer and Company
A. BELROSE-—A bouquel of roses and daisies In fones of rose, ~ magenta and gray Is framed In“ haroque scrolls in this ro mantic pattern.
ill pe. place-sefting, $15.75
i B. PEONY—Radian! peonies, ex. quisitely shaded from rese-pink fo delicate.” carmine_ bloom ameng “amber-green leaves,
Five pe. place-selting, $14.75
WEDNESD _ Wyomi All Set Elk’ Inve
By United JACKSON HOI
25 ~The first of ai 000 head of elk ar
from the Teton
«their annual free
of the state and men & The elk have n nn promises to ma dn but collect th stav alive until’ n vear, the elk—som at least-will pay ° “as the prey in the Hole hunting seas
Without the | would be no seas Each year Wy and fish commissic with the federal fi service in feeding t of roving elk in th plavground of wes Winters R The winters high Tetons ‘are cons than just bitter, freezing snow-bour less the two servi their free lunch prec per cent of the 17.(
ably die of the co tion. Several vears a;
government, at t sportsmen’s groups rztablished the Jac tional elk refuge a winter haven for animals. The refuj supervision of Alm eran game mana for the federal ser On the refuge, ployed “farmers” r of hay, meant onl Tha hay, 3000 ton
~ standing in fields
graze through dur] In addition, the f ment and the sta casts of buying an of hay to suppleme Come by ] Retween about ( and the last of
led bvek natural ins ly, ny «Aff the n bv th ousands
refuge hordering tt There they make 1! at home, grazing le standing hay fiel of hunters, When heavy eight feet deep in covers the standin and federal worker purchased stores around the refuge. hay diet, the elk cakes of oil feed give them a varied to stretch out the a ton—hay supplie: “We can carry on
snd
vear's hunting se many el as we ite game wa Hanscum, said. red between 10,0 and the other
wr themselves."
Used Car Cei Prices Dip 8 P
WASHINGTON; ‘lost used car ceili atically dropped ‘nt yesterday, bu fhe reduction will ean an actual ch prices. The sole excep! models which dro per cent.
"tion ordered the re flect normal dep: automobiles gener: below ceiling, hov cut in most cases the gap between t and the legal limi Additional two p ill ‘models are sct irst day of each he .vear—April 1, 1 A LEY