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CHARITY PROJECT—Kay Moore, Marcy Mc Cleerey, Ginger Albright and Sally Savage (left to right) pack the clothing and gifts they collected for a needy family this Christmas. Proceeds for

the project came from selling everyday cards this fall.

The Bridal Scene—

Events Slated for January Brides

JANUKRY brides are keeping the social calendar filled with open houses,

dinners and showers in the next few weeks. ; Miss Viola Elizabeth Doane, ddughter of Mr. and Mrs. George H. Doane, 4821 College Aye, and prospective bridegroom Robert George Borman will be guests of honor at a bridal dinner to be given in the home of the bride's parents at 7 p. m. Jan. 3. Guests will be Miss Henrietta Doane, Miss Alice Wilson, Howard Dickerson, George H. Doane Jr., James Schick, Mrs. Elizabeth Hess and Richard Hess. The couple will be married

at 2:30 p.m. Jan. 5 in Sweeney

Chapel at. Butler 1 niversity. The bridegroom is the son of Mrs. Rudy Costner, Modesto, Cal. ’

» on » FOUR EVENTS are being plariped in honor of Miss Phyllis Shackelford whose marriage to Nolan Richard Pedigo will take

Miss M'Coy’s

Engagement

"Announced

Times Special .

NEW YORK, CITY, N. Y., Dec. 24—Mrs. James Robert McCoy announces

the engagement of her daughter Miss Marguerite Mary McCoy to Herbert Alfred Seidell, son of Mr. and Mrs. Frederick Martin Seidell, 3959 Guilford Ave., Indianapolis. The wedding will take place at 11 a. m. Jan. 26 in Our Lady of Mercy Catholic Church. Best man will be Dr. Martin O. Seidell, Indianapolis, and matron ofahonor will be Miss Rose U. + New York City.

” ” » USHERS will be Frederick M. Seidell, Springfield, O.;

William J. Lovett, Washington, D. C.; Peter A. Duhamel, Rapid City, S. Dakota; Peter M. Menk, Montclair, N. J.; John D. Reed, Indianapolis; Bernard E. Lynch, New York City; Robert J. O'Connell, N. Rutherford, N. J., and Robert Newcombe, Newark, N. J. Bridesmaids will be Mrs. William-J. Lovett, Washington; Mrs. John Henderson, Mrs. Ellen Jane Dunn and Miss Eleanor Harkins of New York City; Miss Claire Riordan, Hampton, N. J; and Miss Dolly Martin, Elizabeth, N. J.

THE BRIDE . TO - BE, daughter of the late Mr. McCoy, is a graduate of Georgian Court College, Lakewood, N. J. The prospective

bridegroom attended Purdue |

University before serving in the

Naval Air Force during World | He was graduated |

War II. from Fordham University where he was a member of

Phi Gamma Delta Fraternity.

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place at 3:30 p. m. Jan. 6 in Second Friends Church. The bride, who just. resigned as Honor Queen .of Bethel No.

1 of Job's Daughters, will be

entertained at a miscellaneous shower given by that group. The shower will be at 7:30 p.m. December 28, in the home of Mrs. Dorothy Newby, 930 W. 33d St.

Second Friends Church will honor the bride with a miscellaneous shower at 7:30 p.m. in the church basement. Hostesses will be Mesdames Berdella Strawser, Berniece Baer and Gertrude Henning.

An informal open house will be given for the betrothed couple by Mrs. Ray Thorn, 630 Carlyle Pl, from 3 to 5 p.m. Sunday. The hostess will be assisted by her two daughters, Misses Helen and Georgene Smith. Mrs. George Kress, sister of the bridegroom, will honor Miss Shackelford with a miscellaneous shower at 7:30 p. m., Jan.

Use Booklet As Greeting

Christmas greetings from Mr. and Mrs. Oscar A. Ahigren this year may come in the form of a little booklet entitled “Alaska, Happy Memories.”

Mrs. Ahlgren, first vice pres.

ident of the General Federa-

tion of Women’s Clubs, made an official visit for that organi= zation to Alaska during the month of October of this year. After she reported on her visit to officers of the club she was asked to allow her report to be printed in booklet form so that her friends might read it. Since that time, requests for the booklet have been so numerous that she and her husband are mailing them out as Christmas cards with greetings from the family written in the back.

New Sauce Makes Hit With Men

Maybe raisin sauce is traditional to serve with your ham, but this is a marvelous one, too. To whipped cream add mus-tard=with-horseradish to taste. Correct seasoning with salt.

This is a favorite with the men!

What's in a Name? Cantaloupes were named for Cantaloupe, . Italy, where the melons first were .grown in Europe.

Times photo by Paul M. Elmore,

3, in the home of her aunt, Mrs. A. J. Oggier Jr., 1158 N. Mount,

s n 5 MRS. LOWELL Bowen Sr. mother of the bride-to-be, Miss Jane Ann Bowen, will entertain for her daughter with a miscellaneous shower at 2 p. m. Sun- | day in her home, 3114 N. Cap- | ital Ave. | Miss Bowen will be married ! to Charles W. Rinderknecht at 10 a. m.,, Jan. 5, in the Blessed |

Sacrament Chapel of the SS.

Peter and Paul Cathedral.

s = 2 GUESTS WILL include Mrs.” Charles J. Rinderknecht, mother of the bridegroom, and Mesdames Marie Birke, Lucille Broyles, Lewis Compton, Leo Bures, Horace Jenkins; Charles Johnson, E. W. Van Treese, Frank Nicholas and Carolyn Meyers. “ Mesdames Virgil Baldwin, J. L. Falcon, Lowell Bowen Jr, James O'Neil, Joseph Stoops and Lavon Stoops and Misses Mickey Clark, Wanita Bowen | and Sue Stoops.

Reservations For Dance Are Listed

R ESERVATIONS are announced by the Riviera Club for its Christmas night dance. Party reservations have been

made by Charles G. Langwell, John Glassford, Jack Engledow,

Tom Willey, Carolyn Green, Charles Ardery, Kenneth Hack- | er and. Fay Van Meter. R. R. Hoff, Maurice Jones, Shirley Mavis, Virginia Grif- | fice, Ellen Fuller, Lee Cauldwell, Charles Schwimmer, Rob- | ert Morris, Betty Landreth, | Neil Strickland, Ann Snyder, | Janice Challman, Elizabeth Smith, Richard Mote, Robert Daniels and Dean Finley. Carolyn Cravens, Jane Zaiser, | Frances Woods, Marguerite | Hardy, Peter Bridgford, C. W. | Kerchner, Riley McGraw, Rob- | ert Dyer, Jane Hartley, Joe E. Woodfill, Beverly Frick, Dick Cook and Don Woods. R. M. Boynton, David Alvis, | Barton Smith, Howard Leitz, | Tom Slate, John Coyle, Walter | Walker, Ed Elrod and Sgt. David Kauffman.

NOT SERVING Dec. 25th and 26th

"EATON'S

Restaurant, 642 E. 38th St.

By MURIEL LAWRENCE

EPPIE has been on parole for what his case rec-

- ord calls “incorrigibility.”

_ Now he’s back in court, £ shabby, shut-faced boy of 12, charged with stealing relief cRecks from tenement mail boxes. The son" of ablebodied parents who receive relief regularly themselves, he has a pretty good IQ. He's, a smart boy. tHe has put together all the twos of his cynical experience with relief checks until he knows exactly where

and when the postman delivers them.

Mrs. Lawrence

THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES The Mature Parent—

Children’s Self-Respect

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Says the judge to Eddie, “Son, don’t you know that stealing mail is a federal offense?” This is a rhetorical question. The judge doesn’t really expect Eddie to answer it, truthfully, because he knows how few truthful answers Eddie himse]f

has received to any questions.

But as he s#so knows he must try to help him find .some of them as soon as possible, he sends Eddie away from home. » » »

EDDIE'S SOCIETY now

takes over. It begins the painful and expensive process of.

trying to undo the hurt that ha been done to him by parents who have no use for themselves,

The psychiatrists go to work. Maybe one will succeed in nullifying the effects of years of “association with apathy and self-depreciation: Maybe none will. It i§ quite possible that Eddie has been convinced beyond

Must ‘Begin With Their Parents .

help that taking without giving

is a way of life, *

Judge Jacob Panken, of New

“York City's Domestic Relations

Court, has taken the brave initiative in warning us of “un-

warranted” relief’'s destruftive effects upon youngsters.

In a recent article he wrote:

. “=I am deeply worried by what

family relief does to children. No person who has become

unemployable by reason of con-

tinuous anwarranted dependence on the public can inspire dignity or self-reliance in his children. They lose respect-for their parents, for themselves and finally for society itself.” » » »

THERE'S NO USE pretending that our present system of relief does not face us with many unsolved problems,

On one side, we have the

neighbor who, because of physical disability: or some other

sound reason beyond his con-’ trol, should welcome our aid— but who cannot take well and allows taking to injure his seilfrespect. ' On the other side, we have the neighbor like Eddie's father —the man who cannot give well to the world ‘and allows this disability to injure his self-re-spect. » Bo » WHEN THE Bible says, “There is a season to every purpose under heaven, a time to get and a time to lose,” it is telling us that our seasons of giving and taking are of small importance to us. So that if we insist on doing all the giving or all the taking, we are failing in love. What is the answer for us and our two neighbors whose children are entitled to selfesteem? I think I have ‘found one in the words of Dr. Law-

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rence 8. Kuble, Clinical. Professor of Psychiatry at Yale University's School of Medicine: “Self-knowledge . .. Which has been the forgotten factor of our éducational system, must become instead its primary focus.” : : z= & “IF A RELIEF check solved ° Eddie's family’s problems, I'd be for it. Since it hasn’t, I am for relief that will not only feed their bodily hungers, but will nourish their moral and emotional powers.

Our psychiatrists base their life's service on the proposition that we do not live by bread alone, but by food for our selfappreciation and dignity. I subscribe to this point of view, and I'd like to see a program of education tha® would teach Eddie's father some of that selfknowledge Dr. Kubie says is the first step toward selfesteem.

May the radiance of Christmas... the wonder and awe of a little child

...Teturn again to all men this: Christmas 1951...

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Merry Christmas to

bringing the hope, the faith, the glory of a world at peace.

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