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THURSDAY, NOV. 22, 1951

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The Mature Parent— Te

Chronic Teasing Can Be Si

By MURIEL LAWRENCE HE two Brown brothers, Fred and

Ernie, live in the same town, but they seldom see each other. When they do meet, it is usually by accident on a spare

week-end or some holiday when they drive out:

to see the old folks,

Even then, Fred can't help showing how he feels about his younger broth- :

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some new car in the drive, he will say, “Who'd you hold up to make the down payment on this *job, Ernie?” Or when Ernie and his famfly have left and old Mrs. Brown tells her older son that Ernie’s firm has given him another raise, Fred will comment, “Well, it won't take that wife of his long to spend any increase he gets . , .” And his mother, just as she used to when her boys were little, says; “Stop teasing your little brother, Freddie.” oo o oe WHEN A child teases a brother or sister because he is jealous of him, he does not stop teasing on order. If we have a teaser in our family, his feelings toward his brother or sister should be weighed for chronic jealousy and resentment. If we find these unpleasant emotions giving heat to what should be normal give-and-take banter and quarreling between two youngsters, we should do something about them. Neglected, these feelings can become a wedge that drives children’s lives apart, so that they turn into the grownup brothers and sisters who

say, “We don’t have much in common between us.”

Mrs. Lawrence

ob WE NEED not worry unduly about Bill's teasing of his little sister if he usually rushes to defend her when he feels we or others are mistreating her.

Blackwood on Bridge— Fancy Bidding

Miss Brash got fancy in the bidding of this hand and, as is

North dealer

East-West vulnerable

If he sometimes joins with her to protest a decision we have made, he is showing us that he can share a point of ‘view with her. But if Bill's pleasure .in his little sister seems to be gained only in tormenting her, we must consider

the probability that he does not love Elly, but °

actually resents and hates her. Because we do not like to admit this probability, Bill continues to be a problem, To avoid the humiliaating idea that we have produced a child who hates our other one, we call Bill's hateful teasing “naughty” or “mischievous.” ; Oo dD

WE APPEASE our anxiety by scolding him, punishing him, saying, “Shame on you—a big boy of your age breaking your little sister's doll dishes.” ‘And so, because our hating child seems to reflect upon our training, we add more hate and more resentment to the heavy burden our little son is already carrying alone, What Bill needs, of course, is a mother who Is not afraid of hate. If we are not afraid or shocked by hate ourselves, we should find little troyble in persuading Bill to discuss his feelings with us freely and openly. Once Bill discovers that his feeling does not alarm us at all, but is quite natural in his circumstances, he will cease to feel the need to take it underground. He will stop snatching Elly's toys when our backs are turned; whispering taunts to her; lying blandly, “But I never touched her old dishes, mother!”

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IF HE FEELS he has cause to be angry with Elly, he will shout for all the world to hear, like the honest and independent little boy we want him to be. I do not know where we have gained the impression that hate should not be freely admitted, though I have heard Christianity blamed for it. This always amazes me, because long before psychiatrists were heard of, Jesus said, “Beware of hypocrisy; for there shall be nothing covered that shall not be revealed.” Hate thrives in darkness and concealment. What Bill needs is help in bringing it up to the light where we can look at it with him, J

Leads to Downfall

tremely - suspicious. True, Miss Brash might have four or five

often the case, succeeded in NORTH clubs headed by the jack—but out-smarting nobody but her- Mr. Abel he didn't think so. - 9 self. SAR 105 . A conventional signal helped After Mr. Abel opened the I 45 3 materially in defeating the conbidding with D 3 tract. Mr. Dale opened the ace one spade, it hg of clubs. The convention is that occurred to "hi PS Mr DT lon when an ace is opened against her that # & 63 a Jos a no trump contract, partner might be good H—7 64 2 hl 10 3 of the leader is requested to strategy to D—6 5 D—9 4 play his highest card in the avoid _men- C-ARKQHNY Cuda? suit led. tioning * her SOUTH a. =» = fine diamond Miss Brash SINCE THE opener would not uit Bidding S—3 4 lead an ace except from a long wo clubs H-8 5 ail} s might avert a _D_AKQJ102 and near-solid suit, Purposes club opening ‘C—8 65 of the convention are to clarify in case her Miss Brash The bidding: the situation for the opener im-

side ended up in three no trump,

. y ® =» MR. ABEL'S two heart bid fit into this plan perfectly and game at no trump was reached. It probably would have been made, too, if Mr. Dale had held, something like A Q 9 in clubs. Surely, he would have been reluctant to lead from that hold-

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But with his actual club holding, plus the fact that it was Miss Brash who had made the two club bid, Mr. Dale was ex-

mediately and to avoid the possibility of blocking the suit. Applying these points to today's deal, suppose Mr. Dale had played the ace and king of clubs at tricks one and two and Mr. Champion had followed suit with the deuce and four. Mr. Dale might well have shifted, believing the guarded jack was in Miss Brash's hand.

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Names Dance Patrons ; Patrons are announced for the dinner dance Saturday

of the Children’s Museum Guild in the Indianapolis Athletic Club. “The Dance of the Toys” is scheduled from 9

p. m. to 1 a. m, with dinner

They are Messrs. and Mesdames Louis Haerle, Ken M. Meosiman, William A. Hanley, Nicholas H. Noyes, Charles J. Lynn, E. Clifford Barrett, James Rogan, Charles Harvey Bradley, D. 8. Medifch, Paul T. Rochford, Joseph J. Daniels and Gerald Redding. Messrs. and Mesdames Hal R. Kealing, Eugene H. Pulliam, Lewis - Bruck, Fred Sanders, Ralph Boozer, Herman W.

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IN SOUTHERN FRANCE—Miss Mary Bishop

from 7'to 9 p. m.

Kothe, George 8. Oliver Sr. Wilson Mothershead, Samuel R. Harrell, Logan C. Scholl, Ernest Barr, Marvin J. Hammel apd William B. Schiltges. Mesdames William H. Wemmer, William A. Zumpfe, William M. Rockwood, Hortense R. Burpee, Edwin M. Craft, and A. H. Steinbrecker, Miss Anna Ruth Reade, Miss Emma Claypool and Kurt Vonnegut. :

(right) and her | friend, Miss Elizabeth Curth, New York City, take time out from their studies at the University of Paris to see the sights of Southern France via bicycle. The girls were photographed near Montpellier in May.

Tolerance and Frugality Learned in Trip Abroad

By BETTY LOCHER is LERANCE, frugality and the ability to adjust to

any situation were three very valuable lessons that

Miss Mary Bishop learned

spent abroad. * The daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Richard E. Bishop, 5132 Carrollton Ave, she went to France her senior year at Smith Colfege on a scholarship to major in French. Traveling with 37 other Smith College students, she arrived at Grenoble, a Jittle town in the French Alps, in September of 19489. There ‘she took a summer course, then transferred to the “University of Paris in November to study French literature, language, the arts and political science, Bubbling with enthusiasm for her adventures abroad, Miss Bishop said that she was far

in. the past two years she

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too busy enjoying the charms |

of Paris and the young people there to be homesick.

When |

asked how life abroad compares |

to life here in the United States, she gave a very wise answer for her years. =

= = “I'VE LONG SINCE stopped comparing,” she said. “It is

just different, and, to be enjoyed, must be accepted in that way. I learned to look for the charm. and beauty of all I saw rather than® to draw .unfavor-

able comparisons with living in |

a land of plenty and, by French standards, luxury.

“While I was teaching I was |

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on $75 a month. Thus it is easy to understand why all Americans seem fabulously wealthy to the French.” Some of Miss Bishops students believed all of America is like New York, that we all live in ‘skyscrapers cities are a network of ways. French students more serious than American students in colelge. There are almost no extra-curricular activities and organized sports as we know them. Social activity may be confined to one dance a vear,

= ~ LJ THE YOUNG people dress { much as we do here, she said, but they get along with fewer | clothes. Nylon hose are a luxe | ury and are repaired many | times before they are discarded. | In fact, the French people | seem to have a knack for | making thing | making-a lot out of a little, ~ Inevitably, of course, the subject of Communism was broached. Miss Bishop told me that the Communist party |.there. is. accepted. as. a receg- | nized party. much as our Demo- {| crats and Republicans are accepted here. Their propaganda | is more widespread than demo- | cratic propaganda and natural-

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x » = IN FACT many of the social activities—sports, art clubs and parties—are sponsored by the Communist Party. Many recreational groups are also sponsored secretly by the party, so | that it is hard to tell on the surface just how powerful they | are. | The older and more mature | political thinkers can ee behind this facade, but many of the young people accept only what they see on the surface. Their propaganda is so clever, having usually a grain of truth in it, that it is very difficult to argue | against.

o = ” { IN REGARD to the Marshal

Plan, Miss Bishop pointed out that Communists say it is just a way for America to dump her excess goods abroad in order to feed the coffers of greedy capitalists, Although she enjoyed every minute of being abroad, she is glagd to be at home again and is now attending business college, She hopes to combine a business | education with her knowledge of languages for a career here in the United States,

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