Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 21 August 1951 — Page 6

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LUSH SETTING—Sitting prety in a pretty setting is Miss Eleanor Gray's golf ball on this side

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his ways of punishing himself for having failed a noble, longsuffering mother. She was not noble and he was a deluded child. If the treatment he is receiving succeeds, he will lose his delusion and begin to see the confused, discouraged, fear-

feel love for her. He will recognize his human kinship with her. He will feel the compassion that he was unable to feel for the n who was always good, always unselfish, never wanted to hit back.

Admit You're Wrong

Perhaps a wiser person than I knows how to persuade a child to admit his wrong to someone who believes he is never wrong. How can we ask a young human being to correct his wrong if he doesn’t see older ones struggling to correct theirs? Well, I gave up figuring that one long ago. Any fathers or mothers who have got to first base in their {child’s affection have made a point of admitting they have shortcomings. Not apologizing for them, not being emotional, but saying, “Yes, I think that's true about me.” Take the lies we tell. We have just told a neighbor whom we don’t like that we can’t come to her bridge party because we have a dental appointment. As we hang up the phone, our 13-year-old Mary says, “But you saw the dentist this morning,

of the Hillcrest Country Club golf course water hole. Her partner is Miss Marcia Manley (right).

Blackwood on Bridge—

Mr. Abel's Bidding Is Safe and Sound; His Play of This Hand Is Something Else

IN THE INTERESTS of safety, good players sometimes take a chance on deceiving their partners as to which of two bid suits is the longer. Whatever disadvantage may accrue is more than offset by the

the higher of two touching suits as Mr. Abel did in the bidding of today's deal. He started with a heart and bid two diamonds over Miss Brash's one spade response. Now Miss Brash, If she held ‘a weak hand, Id show a prefer-

possibility of keeping the bidding low until the full potential of the| ‘aco, Or -aggamonds by merely artnership hands can be deter- (P8888, ard a pe rei hearts by bidding two hearts. In ‘today’s hand, for example, Mr. Abel's play was not as forget about Miss Brash’s hand 800d as his bidding. Against the Ag t and just look at/five diamond contract, Mr. Date) fi L an ew wanes A nnened the iohil nf whadalir ‘the bidding with a diamond and|Abel took the finesse and it lost. his partner had responded one/Back came a club and since the wan cdg ad sw. bid his heart enemy — 2335. XoMg control of suit at the two range? No, be- trumps, there was nothing to do “cause his hand 1s pot strongibut take the finesse. When that enough over all, lost, all hope was gone, If partner's hand is weak and she prefers diamonds to hearts, Weep Not she has to go to the three level : a . { to show the preference. Holding| SHED NO tears for Mr, Abel; a near-minimum himself, Mr, | because hoth black kings ere Abel might find that contract im- wrong. As Miss Brash justifiably inquired, what was he trying to do, make six?

possible to make, He “should have played safely

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mother.” All right, we have two alternatives. We can say, “Mind your own affairs -— children don’t understand these things . . ., don’t you dare to be rude to your

Or we can be honest.

South dealer. Neither side vulnerable. NORTH Miss Brash S8—-AQ43 H-—A Q DQ 10 9 7 C-8 7 4 EAST

WEST Mr. Dale Mr. Masters 8-8 65 2&2 S«~KJ109 H—-8 652 H—104.3 D—A 2 D-—8 38 CK 8 58 CJ 10 92 mr en SOUTH Mr. Abel S~7 2 | H-K J#98 7 DK J654 —A Q

The bidding:

SOUTH WEST NORTH EAST 1H Pass 18 Pass 2D Pass 5D All Pass

trumps until the ace was knocked

out. He “Would have lost a spade (which would not have been nec-

‘WITH A minimum opening, for five-odd by going right up|é$sary IF Mr. Dale had held the

then, it is usually better to open'with the ace of spades and firing

We, the Women—-

Men Seem to Do Better Job Of Offsetting Advanced Age

By RUTH MILLETT AN ARTICLE ON HOLLYWOOD claims that in the movie industry the “past-50" man has far more box-office appeal than the woman of the same age. He is far more

apt to have glamour for the theatergoers than a woman {who has had the same number of birthdays. { Well, that's pretty much true lin private life, also. When it comes to age, men seem to get-— or earn—the breaks, Actually they do earn part of them. Men, more often than women, keep a young attitude toward life. A man of 60 is as interested in politics, in sports, in {pusiness and in new inventions as |a.young man,

- - » { HE DOESN'T have a defeatist| {attitude toward age, either. Call] |it conceit, if you like, but whether {it is that or just plain seM-con-fidence, the older man usually [thinks he {is as attractive to women as he ever was, Women weap over the gray hair that comes to them, but a man decides he looks “distinguished.” The youth that is no longer his, he is sure, is more than replaced by his success, his greater wisdom, the place he has earned for himself in his community. i

- J » AND HE ISN'T always talking about his age. A woman may carefully conceal the exact num-] bers of her years, but as soon as she admits to herself that her § . < [youth is behind her she usually iad To Note becomes very age conscious, She RE ol mg rp : VALLE OPSVET BDONL © ja. Mh ONE Ni Anniversary age” or “at my age,” ete. Men Members of Rho Chapter, Delta Brent so liely to keep calling sy. j&ttention to their years. . Sigma Kappa Sorority, will cele-|" "1, 1" Tittle kinder to _brate the chapter's ninth anniver- the older man than to the older ‘sary at a 7:30 p, m. dinner today woman. But women could change

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that attitude a lot by meeting age in the spirit men meet it—

king) but he would not have lost a club. He would have had time to discard two of dummy’s clubs on his two long hearts, then trump the queen of clubs in dummy,

say, “Yes, I told her a lie and it makes me uncomfortable. It was stupid of me, I let myself be! bullied by Mrs. Jones’ insistent! manner. Next time, I'll be on my toes. I will remember that we don't have to offer everyone explanations for what we do.”

Inspire Respect

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"We don’t train children to enhance the personal prestige of human mothers and fathers, but to enhance ‘the prestige of things such as truth. When we are discovered in untruthfulness, in impatience, in nagging and complaining, we should rejoice that our child feels free to rebuke us. We should welcome our child's criticism and show him we mean {what we say about good and bad people by going to work on the {fault he has criticized. But if] |we get up on our high horse, and| {get mixed up with our personal dignity, we're licked before we start. y It's truth that has the dignity.

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Misses Jane Collett, Carol MecKee, Kristin Miller and Lynn

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Miss Nancy Carpenter is enrolled at Middlebury College and Miss Helen Cole will enter Marymount College, Miss Virginia Chittick, - Paris, Ill, will go to

‘Lake Erie College.

Other members of the class will continue their studies in the Midwest and the South. Going to Carleton College is Miss Mary Alice Baxter. Miss Sharon Grube, Butler, will attend the University of Wisconsin.

Picks Northwestern -

Miss Katherine Koons will go to Northwestern University and Miss May Adelaide Hinken, Litchfield, Ill, will enter Southern Methodist University. Miss Marla Ray, Elwood, will study at Christian College.

Entering universities in the state will be Miss Gloria Gustafson and Miss Patricia Lyons who will attend Butler University. Miss Helen Brown, Evansville, and Miss Sharon Houser, Monon, will go to Purdue University. Miss Susan Atkins is planning a year’s postgraduate work at Tudor Hall and Miss Maxine Ambus, Sandusky, O., will continue her study of music in that city.

‘Chairmen

Mrs. Robert Wacker, Indianapolis Day Nursery Junior Auxiliary, today announced committee chairmen for programs at the Indiana State Fair horse show.

Almost half of Tudor Hall School’s June graduates will this fall. Smith and Vassar Colleges| are claiming the largest numbers

i Peterson will enter Smith. Going [ridden human being his mother|, "o ..."cwi he Miss Ann Gil-

really is. Then he may begin to, ... "win manort: Miss Susan

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ZETA TAU ALPHA Sorority’s flower, the white violet, will be used as the theme for a rush tea Sunday sponsored by the Indianapolis Alumnae Club. Girls entering college this

fall will be guests from 2 to 4 p. m. in the home of Miss ‘Ellen Irene Kroger, 5801 Carvel Ave, Among the guests will be prospective coeds going as

clude Mrs. Ralph Iula Jr. name

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WHITE VIOLET TEA—Addressing invitations for the Indianapolis Alumnae of Zeta Tau Alpha Serariive white violet fea Sunday afternoon are Miss Rose Ebert (left) and Miss Ellen Kroger. It will the Kroger home, 5801 Carvel Ave. .

cards; Mrs, Lawrence Sperry, tea table, assisted by Mrs, Eugene Rader and Mrs. Robert

far as the University of Minnesota to school. Invitations are being sent by Miss Julia Bewsey, assisted

by Miss Marge McCurdy and Stephens, and Mrs. Walter Miss Rose Ebert. Guests will be Klinge and Mrs. Arvie Rust, greeted by Mrs. Horace Had- refreshments.

Active chapter members who will assist include Misses Janet Viney, Schubert, Joan Perroth, Jean Wilder, Emma Becker, Beverly Myers and Patricia Comminsky.

ley, Mrs, Richard Lennox, Miss Barbara Schubert and Miss Kroger.

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Carnival Rush Party Set

The Indianapolis alumnae chapter, Chi Omega sorority, will entertain with a carnival rush party tomorrow. It will be from 7:30 to 9:30 p.m. in the home of Mrs. W.'B. Lincoln Jr., 5505 Ralston Road. Guests will be girls who are planning to attend college this fall. The carnival theme will be carried out in decorations, favors and refreshments.

From IU and Purdue

Mrs. Royce Stevens is party chairman. Assisting her are Mesdames Jack B. Catterlin, P. T. Parker and William Sigward and [Miss Marcia Ries. Several active chapter mem{bers from Indiana and Purdue [Universities will attend. From {Purdue “ will be Misses Rita |Lovisa, Martha Bidwell, Barbara (Smith, Patrice Sexton, Mary {Ittenbach and Carol Miller.

IU chapter representatives will

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Sorority Officers Installed

Mrs. James M. Buchanan, 4910|vice president; Mrs. George Kenwood Ave., was hostess to Brake, secretary; Mrs, Harry Delta Chapter, Alpha Omicron Cavender, treasurer; Mrs. 0. E.

Alpha Sorority, this noon for a luncheon. Steinkamp, press reporter, and

Officers for the year were in-|Mrs. E. W. McIlvaine, delegate. stalled by Mrs. L. C. True. The sorority sponsors a nurses’ They include Mrs. Buchanan, scholarship fund and participates president; Mrs. E. F, Spitznagel,|in the Needlework Guild project.

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