Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 19 August 1951 — Page 32

r-old daughter recently noted into a 120-year-old house feston, Conn. which will ‘house both -the doctors’ offices andthe family. 3 “You know, there is no sclen-

tific basis for the widely-held belief that all women are natural

crust this summer herself.) “It's time to do a little self-analyzing

housewives,” the psychiatrist said. (She just learned to make pie Mrs. L. J. Blackmore, 70; Mrs. = Miss Catherine

»{ recent play are anseveral local bridge

(Possible Score 144) — Sidney Kasle, E A. Freeman, 100; Mrs Fred Mitch, Mrs. J. J. Lovelle, 85.5; Mrs. Bruce Dolch, Mrs, D, A,

things, | Sweeney, 81.5; Harry Singleton,

Dr, George Goldman, 77.5. The

next play will be a monthly mas- i

ter point game at 7:45 p. m.i Thursday in the Indianapolis Athletic Club, | # ~ LJ |

8t. Joan of Arc Club, Wed. night: N & 8 (Possible 120) —; Charles Stimming, Jack Schafer,! 75; Mr. and Mrs, Fred Finkbiner, 70; Mrs. Ralph Ittenbach, Mrs, ! Harold Casey, 62; E & W (Possible 120)—Mrs. Randall Bass,’

William Peele, Lysaght, 64.5; Mrs. J. T. Cra-|

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. NORMALLY, he would

sonLIOL ith, “He's all I have left,” she said. brother 18 months ago.

running away from something inside of him. It can’t be his home. He's got a bicycle and a television set. I want him to be happy. I loft his sister four years ago. .. .”

and mentioned her dead children eight times.’ On her coat sleeve, she wore a wide mourning band. I looked at her son and I thought, “You're a healthy child. You are quite right to run away from grief that is never over.”

Remembers Another

THEN I WAS shocked at my thought, because I felt so sorry for the mother who was now losing her last, her only child. But suddenly I remembered another. mother I know. I reimembered what she said to me once when I was struggling with sorrow. She said, “My dear, your grief must lose its anger. If you don't stop resenting loss, you will make

She talked for three minutes;

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LAWRENCE > have been a handsome boy.

This day, however, his face was set with sullen anger. He s jaw rigid, while he listened to his mother ask court to send him away to some place ‘that could

joy is the triumph of the mature human being. It is the reward of the people who educate themselves out of misgivings and anger.” Will Help Many . MANY OF US will be grateful for these comments by Dr. Low= rey. : 4 We may not find it easy at first to defend our sense of joy at the end of a hot summer day, with the oven heating the kitchen and an angry child in the middle’ of the room, screaming his rage at us. But if we do close our ears, and put down our mixing spoon for one or two conscious minutes, we twill find we can quickly ree ‘ognize and laugh at this trick langer plays to steal joy from our thome. | The fight Dr. Lowrey speaks of lis a running fight. It is not made ljust in the big crises, but in the [little ones where anger and dis: |couragement sneak up én us. It's the fight we must wage when we're off guard in the hot kitchen, the crowded store, the steamy bathroom where our 86-year-old says, “I hate you. I'll tell daddy

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when husbands show signs of de- craft, Mrs, E. C. Ball, 62. !

Yeloping excessive nervous x = x _ tension. Marott Club, Tues. night: N & S|

The danger signs, she said, in-| (Possible 171)—Walter J. Pray, | “irritability; lack of inter- Dr. Cleon A. Nafe, 100; Miss, 50 much pleasure time spent Janeth Crawford, Mrs. Mary C.| outside the family; sleeplessness Welch, 97.5; 0. K. Fraustein, Mr, and ack of appetite, Stimming, 97; E & W (Possible “ft is particularly unfortunate 192) Mr. and Mrs, George P.| whéii a procrastinating woman Ryan, 113.5; Mrs. Wiliam Ep-| _ mafries a methodical man” the stein, Mrs. William T. Rose, _ redihaired doctor sald, “Maybe 110.5; Mrs. Arthur Pratt, Mrs, she puts off balancing the cheek- Arch Falender, 107. 3 book or forgets to leave the car wu at the garage for the fall anti-! Men's Duplicate Club, Mon. freeze. They seem small things night: N & 8 (Possible 144) -| to her but not to her husband.” |M, L. McManus, Charles H, Rowe, | ~ DF. Bush doesn’t think women g1; Russell M. Guller, Charles E. today are any less conscientious Madinger, ‘81; John 8. Lynn, at their household chores than|charles R., Goth and Harry J. they used to be. It's just that pettrn, John J. O'Keefe, 74.5 (tie); today’s disordered world makes It 3 & W (Possible 144)—Claude | important to keep things running pett, George H. Owings, 90; (Pos-| #mdGthly and securely at home. |gyje 124)—M. L. Thompson, Gor- | She's working on a book now don H. Thompson, 69.5; Rod P. which will be both a humorous Hughes, John F. Gansman and and helpful approach to everyday R O, Hickman, David H. Knight, | problems tentatively titled “Don't g4.5 (tie). : { Do It Now-—-Wait and. Get Ul-| The Men's Duplicate Club will cers.” inot hold a dinner meeting Mon“I don’t know that it will gay, The regular game will be change the nature of a wife who played, however, puts off her duties or a husband x x =» who is too methodical, but I hope! The Illinois State Championit may make them approach their ships of the Chjcago Contract

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a sieve of your life through on you.” I think Dr. Lowrey

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which all the things you love will means these TLE | 30 cents. If you'd like a change RAF the year before. { I have wanted to write a skirt. Sizes 12 to 42, 35 cents. tinguished psychiatrist about it. | Leather can be refinished. Sue Burnett, Indianapolis Times, | To Dr. Lawson G. Lowrey, a'That comfortable chair, that 1 : {important to children?” {colored. ; Don t Gamble | =r Lowrey chooses words pre-| paint can’t do the job for the (cisely. “I would call it ‘vital’ hyious reason that leather must On Fuzzy Gams 'the purpose and you can apply it orated stocking calls attention to self with brush as easil g THEN I ASKED my $64 ques- ool polish. y

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said. “In childhood, joy is apt to be natural and spontaneous. But we lose this baby joy 1s we grow

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