Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 7 August 1951 — Page 6

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By MURIEL LAWRENCE “WHAT MAKES A GOOD ‘cottage parent?” I asked

three executives of training schools for juvenile law-

breakers.

They were attending the recent international forum

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Teen Problems—

Blind Dating Can Be Fun

Or Trouble

By JOAN WHAT 1S a blind date—and why? Well, actually, there are two kinds. The first is compan-

fonable double-dating with a |

couple you know well and a friend of one of them. It's a good way for a beginning dater to get started.

Friendly blind dating Happens like this. Sue, your best gal

+ pal, has a-date for the Saturday

dance. Her beau has a buddy

JOE HAS YEAH, AND A FRIEND THE FOUR COMING = OF US WILL 70 VISIT GO TO THE HIM .

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How NICE FOR THEM 70 ASK YOU 70 GO ALONG who wants a date. How natural and nice for them to ask you to go along. Sometimes it works the other way. Friend Sue would like to have you double-date with her | and her Joe, but you have no | available partner. So Susie asks Joe to get a boy pal as your escort. » YES, a {friendly blind date is Just. that, — an arrangement | made by friends. - The blind dass dea’t knes, one-~uather. but each knows one ofthe other pair—and knows-them well.

The second type of blind date is quite different. A girl agrees to go out with a stranger on the so of gome gal she barely knowss Opa boy joins up with a guy he's never seen before. Neither the girl nor the boy knows what he's getting into.

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It could he anything from =n petting session to a dope-taking spree! And once the blind dater fs committed it's hard to escape. So watch it Stick to kids Y Friendly blind dati 1 perfectly proper, but a reputation for the free-and-easy kind never did anybody any good 8 1 RIGHT? EVERY time vou buy something new vour child asks “How much did it cost?” WRONG: Tell him, even though you know he will go around telling all the neigh bors what you paid for it he thinks he can Impress them, RIGHT: Trv to teach him

not to ask the price of everything --and if he does happen to know what something cost to keep that matter to him self instead bragging about it:

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on the institutional treatment of delinquents, conducted by the Berkshire Industrial Farm in

Canaan, N. Y., itself a noted cor-| rectional school for boys. I asked my question because the three executives all employ “cottage parents” —and I wanted to know| what they require. of the workers, who are responsible for giving a sense of home and parenthood to children whose own homes and parents have failed them. “For ‘cottage parents,” they told me, “we employ people who, {are interested in children, have {contentment, a set of life values, humility, and a sincere desire for| self-improvement.” They needn't have bothered to list the first four traits. The sin-| cere desire for self- -improvement | includes all of them. | If Mrs. Brown is sincerely in-| {terested in improving her own human quality, $he’'s unable to] avoid being Interested=in her] daughter Jane and Jane's huntan| quality. | When Jane whines over losing] |a new hair-ribbon, her mother | {doesn’t say irritably, “Oh, run along; don't bother me.” Mrs.| |Brown, alert to symptoms of self-| [pity in herself, has found a way | {to deal with them when they appear. | he, says to Jane, “Well, we Jor let a hair-ribbon steal our! \happimess Kitchen~ Tl taka uw eake snd pow! can whip up that chocolate feing| you “like to make.”

Contentment: By-Product

CONTENTMENT is a Dby-| product of the sincere desire Tor) self-improvement, Mrs. Jones can't be very content if she is| {filled with resentments that she] doesn’t acknowledge or wish to correct. Her discontent keeps her! iso busy blaming other people's faults for her state of mind that she has no time to explore her own, She finds it easier, for example, ito nag Mr. Jones for neglecting her than to try and make herself linto the kind of person {it is im-/ {possible to neglect. Though she | doesn’t know it, her neglect of| self-improvement is the cause of Mr. Jones’ neglect. A set of life values is our bile) | print for self-improvement. |check our repairs and Ts, plang by-it. But=a~Jet” SPVRIGC Dust talk if 31 doesn'\ Ep aos {tion. To have a set of life values without = the _sincére degire for self- improvement Wi no sense at all. .

Children Try

HUMILITY, of course, Is the recognition thas we need im provement, - v “Cottage parents” their em

ployers will tell us, have an amazing Influence on the delinquent children who “live with them. Under the training people whose outstanding trait is the de for .self-improvement, hard children become flexible, trust worthy and responsive. Just being aroufid human beings who work consciously at self-im-provement appears to encourage children to have a go at it themselves, They want to learn the secret that makes their leaders interested in others, content, sure of what they believe, why they believe it, and not afraid to admit they have faults We should find the qualifications for “cottage parents’ pretty suggestive. We should find inter est in the proposition that we'd better attend to our own improvement if we want Junior to attend to his

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asking such questions as “Is it washable? Is it guaranteed? Will it stand strong sunlight?” But] © when he has finished with her questions she knows considerable e about what she is buying.

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SHE IS A ‘thrifty shopper. She

She does the bulk of family 5 a tireless reader of newspaper

spending, She usually doce 2 good Jeb © it, too. ~

s0 she is important. | advertising, because she likes to

f take advantage ul bargalus. And, she won't hesitate to walk a

block, to get one item at a store,| WHEN Mrs. America tucks her simply because she

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purse under her arm and starts/can.save a féW éents on that one out to shop she usually gets her|/ particular thing.

money's worth.

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For one thing she is tireless. If an shopper never forgets. If she five stores don't have exactly, makes a bad buy she doesn't what she wants, she is willing to| forget it. She avoids that partic-|

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PUPIL vs. TEACHER—Miss Betty Wilson (left) and Dick Fox (center) local park supervisors,

check a player's shuffleboard technique at Fall Creek Park,

By JOAN SCHOEMAKER z PARR SUPERVISORS: jarke-) or-atl-skills,” or any other ties © you can think of apply easily

| to Miss Betty Wilson and Dick

Fox. They are two of many working in city parks this summer in special capacities. From administering minor first aid and refereeing sports to telling stories and teaching handicrafts, the supervisor has a packed day. Each one en-

forces general safety rules around the park. Volley ball, hand ball and

kick ball are all popular. The supervisor referees when necessary. Other park activities depend on individual facilities.

= ” n MISS WILSON at Ellenber-

ger Park has her day divided into certain activities, More stories were told eariy in the

Blackwood on Bridge— Opening a No

Is Quite Often

Mr. Fusty, .with his old-fash® ioned ways, thing he tries to tell his partner by his opening bid is his “count.” For example, if he has the count for a no trump opening, he opens a no trump-—regardless of his dis tribution. . In today’s deal he had enough high cards and every suit stopped

H—J] 973 H—10 2 but he had far from a no D—10 32 D--9764 trump opening by today's stand C—Q 109 3 CK 8 42 ards SOUTH Nevertheless, - Mr. Fusty was Mr. Fusty quite proud of the results he got gk 2 8 5 He felt-that the no trump smal¥ D—K J 5 slam would not have been C—A reached if he had not opened the ot bidding as he did. The bidding: ; : SOUTH WEST NORTH EAST Plenty of Entries INT Pass 6NT All Pass Mr. HEINSITE pointed out, that seven spades could have

however, that six no trump was not the top spot on the hand and

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season before™park equipment 23 completely distrivuies. A ying Semeniary “Auation

at Butler University, Miss Wil» ~

son accepted her Summer job with some previous elementary instruction and a purpose, too. All the park instructors take special classes at the park department prior to the opening of the park playgrounds each summer, Mr. Fox, who will be a freshman at Butler University in the fall, is from Miami, Fla. A baton twirler irom way back, he has performed in the Orange Bowl with flaming batons.

“Any experience I get this summer meeting people will help me later on,’ he says. “I

want to work in sales and study business administration, both of which require Knowledge of human nature.”

Trump Bid to Show Count a na Proposition

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dealer ° ; Sie vulnerable she ‘NORTH : Mrs. Fusty' SK J4 H—A Q 4 DA QS C—J 763 WEST wo. EAST Mr. Heinsite Mr. Abel S—7 8 S—~109 2

been made, as the cards were, Fusty your hand.

He explained that Mr,

To Meet son ticket chairman for the

Indiana State Symphony

Society Women's Committee, will be hostess at 10 a.m. tomorrow in her home, 48 Meridian Place, for a meeting of area chairmen of ticket campaign. Final plans for the campaign, opening Sept. 16 and extending through Oct. 20, will be made. A mid-morning brunch will be served. Miss Josephine Madden, Women’s Committee president, will preside at the coffee table. Among the area chairmen attending the meeting will be Mesdames Joseph E. Palmer, James E. Mortenbeck, Joseph Williams, Helen Talge Brown, William Herbert Gibbs, John Cavosie, Robert Holmes and Francis X. Adams. Mesdames E. H. Stumpf, R. F. Buckner, Kenneth P., Baldwin, Richard Oberreich, J. E. Marmon, George Paton, James Foulke, Phillip L. S8axe, Thomas Sterling and Ethridge Nichols.

Others to Attend

“ Also attending will be Mrs.

tickets at half price to young

> George Fotheringham who willl supervise the selling of student)

Beauty—

Mrs. Marvin E. Curle, sea-

the symphony season!

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people of high school and college level; Miss Marjorie

man, and Mrs. Howard B. Pelham, | public relations chairman of the) group. Area chairmen will be assisted |by five captains in charge of five ‘workers, They will sell

for the season opening Oct. 27-28. The season tickets they will

by the Indianapolis Orchestra with Fabien Sevitzky| conducting,

A Times photo by Dean Timmerman,

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FE Mr. Fox. céncentratés on , A es FFA Crees ? Park. 1% bi, problems, be iss reports, are mothers and paid baby-sitters who bring as many as eight youngsters to the park and then fail to supervise their activities and behavior when they arrive. =

MISS WILSON'S biggest worry is the creek at Ellenberger. Children love to wade

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UNLESS YOU resort to false ones, -you'll probably find it dif-

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ficult to come" by the sweeping lashes that women consider ideal. Accepting this as a fact, the next step is not discouragement | but rather making the most of the eyelashes and eyebrows with which nature saw fit to endow you. If your brows and lashes are somewhat on the insignificant side, bujld them into new beauty | with grooming and with special

tricks at makeup time. ” ” A USEFUL aid in both these | projects is baby oil. To combat

straggly brows, make a practice of smoothing them into place with an . oil-moistened finger. Not only will this help to hold strays in line, but the resultant gloss will heighten the appeal | of your brows as well.

in it. and twice this year she has found it necessary to call an ambulance when accidents have happened. Sometime each day city policemen make a visit to the parks. Miss Wilson pointed out that at Ellenperger he always arrives on a motorcycle which jg a source of much interest to the children there.

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reverse the dummy. That is, would set up the dummy rather than his own. | He had.plenty of entries on the] board so that he would ruff three| of dummy’s cl lubs in his own hand. | | After that operation dummy would have no losers. | ! Losing Proposition | MOST players would open South hand with one spade. Then, at least they would have a chance to reach the top contract. Per haps the grand slam would not| have been reached anyway. But this I can tell you. Opening a no trump just for the .purpose of showing your count will be a losing proposition more often than not. An opening bid should show something about distribution as well as the high card content of!

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Sorority To Entertain |

| The Indianapolis Alumnae Chapter, Alpha Omicron Pi Sorority, will entertain for girls entering Hanover College this fall at

a Hobo rush party and supper Aug. 18. Mrs, Nancy F. Bland, 5646 Broadway, will be hostess for the 6.30 to 8:30 p. m. event. Assisting he hostess will be

members of the active chapter at] Hanover. They

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Six Local Couples

Back From Vacation

Six Indianapolis couples have returned home after a vacation at Oakton Manor Resort, Pewaukee, Wis. They include Mr. and Mrs. Alex Rernetein, 35168 Balsam Ave: Mr | |and Mrs. Morris Gold, 549 E. 58th St.; Mr, and Mrs. David. Granow-| lsky, 210 E. 824 St.; Mr. and ow | Al Morris, 6343 Riverview Drive; (Mr. and Mrs, Jack Siégel, 3624 | Salem St., and Mr. and Mrs. Mil-/ ton Singer, 4350 N. Hiincis St.

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Second Lt. William L. Care roll, Winnetka, Ill, USMCR,

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Kurt F. Pantzer Jr. and Miss Elizabeth Elliott Kennedy, Wayne, Pa., are married Aug, 25. The ceremony will be read at 8 p.m, in Wayne by the Rev,

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The ushers who will attend Mr, Pantzer will include Thomas A, Hendrickson, John C. Ober, Eu gene C. Miller Jr. and Albert L. Rabb Jr., all of Indianapolis} DMSA Edgar Sloane Kennedy Jr.,

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