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KANSAS, Ill, Aug. 4—Miss Jean Robinson and Gene Turner, 4825 Kessler Blvd., Indianapolis, will be married in a 3 d'clock ceremony here tomorrow after noon in the Methodist Church. The Rev. Thomas Hendrix will officiate at the double-ring rite. The bride, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Ben Robinson of this city, will wear a white lace dress with an accordion pleated net skirt. The skirt will be highlighted with a lace half-skirt falling into a short train. A pearl crown will hold her short veil and she will carry a| white orchid bouquet with tropi-| cal flowers. ; iss Jean Swisher, Danville, Ill, wearing a green satin dress with a net overskirt, will be maid of honor. ~ :

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Bridesmaids will be Miss Mary Ann Morris and the bride's two sisters, Misses Barbara and Betty Jo Robinson, all of Kansas. They will wear dresses matching the! maid of honor’s. | George Stark, Indianapolis, will] be best man and ushers will in-| clude Wesley Harms, Gibson City, | Ill, Donald Nish, Elgin, Ill, and! Thomas French, Indianapolis. { . After the reception in the Hotel] @aY Fruit Salads France, Paris, Ill, the couple willl

ENGAGED—Mr. and Mrs. Carroll Cooke of Montezuma announce thesapproaching marriage of their daughter, Pa-

tricia Jo, to Raymond Ane, son

of Mr. and Mrs. Chris Ane, Clinton. The 6 p. m. wedding will take place Saturday in the Sacred Heart Catholic Church. Miss Cooke attended Indiana State Teachers’ College and was graduated from St. Vincent's Hospital School of Nursing. Her fiance attended Purdue University and Rose Polytechnical Institute. He is a member of Theta Xi Fraternity.

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leave on a wedding trip west and gay and colorful as a summer,

north into Canada. They will flower garden. A combination] make their home in Tuscola, Ill. |we particularly like is cottage The bride, a member of the cheese sprinkled with sliverefi or Delta Gamma Sorority, was chopped salted almonds, 'and graduated from the University of circled by lettuce cups filled with| Illinois. Mr. Turner is a student blueberries, honeydew balls, at the University of Illinois and watermelon balls, halved tree-

is affiliated with Phi Gamma ripened apricots and halved sweet Delta Fraternity. red plums. S

The Mature Parent—

When We Bribe Children We Spoil Their Initiative

By MURIEL LAWRENCE chance to earn a promotion in WHEN TQM WAS 9 his school this organization. If you have so complained of his tardiness rec- little confidence in your ability to oro hia, ASL Dn Har PIED a2 yaa have to His father said® “Get to schoorask us to guarantee .qne to you,

on time—and’ Fl buy™you an you're too unsure of yourself to English bicycle * with -special work for us.” brakes.” ;

When Tom was 17, his school The Pay-Offs reported that his marks were so When we promise Betty a

poor he couldn’t expect to gradu- dime for tt r ” ate. His father said, “Graduate— neatly, a 2 ay and I'll give you a roadster of away. But we have impoverished Jour own. Betty instead of enriching her.

Tom. didn't graduate. He was | caught Creating in his final ex-/ We have stolen from her the ams and was expelled from school Piece Of self-esteem that she has In disgrace. When his broken- aTned by her obedience and orhearted father protested, Tom derliness. Instead of ending up said cheerfully, “What's all the With our appreciation and an inrow,about? You're in the price of crease of self-approval, Betty | my roadster, aren't you?” jr With the tenth part of 2 That's How young people are ’ | likely to think ng alk when Parents who make a habit of | they have been bribed to do/PriPing children expose them-| right—when we have paid for ef-/S¢lves as fathers and mothers fort that should be freely given. {who have a poor quality of reiaWhen we promise a lollypop or tionship with their youngsters. | a roadster as a reward for a we should not be discouraged, child’s effort to do what he ought If this is true. If we have been to do, we throw his whole atti- USing bribery to get Jane and tude out of line. |Jim to perform as they should, “ we should frankly admit that we \bribe them because our appreciaWe make his incentive a mate- tion is not a sufficient incentive. rial gain instead of a gain of our| Then we can get about making appreciation. We substitute a ourselves into the kind of parents thing for our encouragenient, re¢c- whoge encouragement and praise. ognition and praise. Our confi- do inspire Jane and Jim to effort. dence in his ability to get to!But if we keep on taking the school on time and pass his short-cut and keep on handing exams is what he needs to build lout the dimes, we must rememhis own confidence in that abil- ber that in bribery of children or ity. Instead, we deprive him, by anyone else, the pay-offs keep our bribe, of the stuff that makes getting bigger all the time. him respect and esteem himself. The world does not subsidize A young man just out of col- effort before effort is made. If lege interviewed a friend of mine the young are taught that it who {is the personnel manager of does, their discovery that we have a big engineering firm. misguided them will make them Said the young man, “Can you bitter and maladjusted people. guarantee me a promotion in six They're likely to become the kind months if I take this position?” |of men and women who think “No, I can’t,” said my friend. that the rest of us owe them a “I won't even guarantee you a living.

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By MARTY DuBOIS HERALD

ON THE SHIP that brought me here, I met an old gentleman who had immigrated to the United States 40 years ago.

“Lucky are those who reach these shores,” he sald as we Passed the Statue of Liberty, “but even luckier those who get born here.” At the time, that remark struck me as rather obvious but, of late, it has taken on a new meaning to me. Childbirth in America has indeed very concrete advantages for both mother and infant. From the moment I announced to my husband's family that I was going to have a baby this fall, they began to gear everything to this blessed event. A doctor was selected who now examines me at regular intervals. A hospital room was reserved six months in advance. A nurse, who had bookIngs up to December, was persuaded to take me on during

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In the current world crisis, Americans sometimes seem to lose sight of what made their country great. Perhaps only those able to compare the U. 8. with other lands from personal experience’ can fully appreciate the blessings of America.

As the wife of an American newsman, French-born Mrs, Herald traveled widely in Europe and the Middle East before coming to this country a year ago. This is the last of a series of six articles.

I KNOW all this may appear “normal” to most Americans but it still isn't in the Old World. Women there rarely consult a physician until shortly before the birth. The other arrangements are left more or less to chance—and the last minute.

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