Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 31 July 1951 — Page 6

the polite that I would her again. But there was wrong. American filing systems have good memories. Five weeks ter the agency called and offered me a desirable job. - » - IN THE MEANTIME, however, 1 had found work elsewhere. One day I bought dress in a Fifth Ave, store, and the saleslady noticed that I was French, “From Paris?” she inquired. Rue. de. la 2 How wo you like to help us with French collections?” © No cards had to be filled out; all that was needed was a friendly contact.

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The Mature Parent— Teen-Age Is Good Time to Talk Over Marriage Traits

By MURIEL LAWRENCE

teens, they should be given clear and specific help in

AS OUR SONS and daughters pass through their 1

recognizing traits in people that make poor marriage risks.

persuade Chuck and lois to — choose their mates by psycholog-. i: 2 | fcal tests. We couldn't persuade father might say, “but she's a them, even if we wanted to. But (Bir! with her feet on the ground. we might be able to persuade She's a homemaker. But think] them to heed advice drawn from [twice before you get serious about] our own practical experience with one who goes into a long silence the human weaknesses we know When she’s angry at you. Go for threaten happiness in marriage, [the one whe blows up and gets) Upless they're briefed, Chuck it off her chest, . and Lois aren't going to give| ‘Try not to get caught in the much thought, for instance, to cat-and-mouse game some women

ried to someone who can never don’t go for it. And mark this; admit he's been wrong, {you will love the girl who makes) Some day, when Lois is getting you feel good and kind and strong on to 17, her mother might say: —the girl who demands the best] “Pake your father. He has self you've got to offer. She's the faults, we know. But have youjore you'll work for.” ever noticed how Dad is just as ie i nice to me when we're alone as Need Proper Guidance when we have company? Divorce is a failure in a vhal “Watch out for the young man hyman relationship. The Lnowlwho treats you as though he eqge that we have failed in mar-

other people. When you alwaysigur self-esteem. Our young people seem to say the wrong things 10 need much better guidance than| a man’s friends or family, he may they're getting on the attitudes

think of him. : ‘marriage hazardous for People who argue over little, mney need much better advice on unimportant things are not Very the "instabilities in others that ure o 8 8 a can dest love. “Try not to be too impressed by jean S\TOY ave personal charm; people who have nq Lois have been caught in an it are sometimes Inclined to trust ,,y.nhy and barren love affair

it too much, to warn them that people whol

ing; but men who are jealous of : ’ demand constant attention, who you are apt. to resent you for s

maiing them feel Inferior. So are VA AIEIOKIENE Tor tying don’t encourage jealousy because. oture enough for marriage or

you're really encouraging hate. | parenthood.

Advice For Chuck - Chuck probably knows for him- Here $ How zelf that girls who are always re- ‘Meat loaf can proaching a boy for not telephon- prepared for you. Here's how, ing, or for getting tickets to the Place the contents two cafis wrong show, are girls who may of corned beef hash in your regu become nagging wives. But lar loaf pan or in a ring mold might be quite interested in his then heat in a moderate oven for father's point of view on the girl about 30 minutes, Pollowing heat who always remembers to empty ing, unmold on a large platter the asfhtrays at parties. and garnish with a hot vegetable, iment

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Far be it from me to Suggest we ought to try and |

“She may be the quiet type,” us|

that this

but 4 am : full of people

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ready to without references or questionnaires or inte tests. I found a job in the United States almost as easily as though 1 had been in my native France. - - ” ONE MORNING, I asked to see the “big boss¥ on a personal matter, Back in France that would have been a major operation, as employers there still hide behind wooden curtains, Here, I was immediately led into his inner office and wel-

in and sit down, Marty. What can I do for you?” . 3 I soon found out that the boss’ informal approach was

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versity Chapter House. More than 120 girls, prospective IU coeds, are to attend the party.

wi it might be like to be mar- play with men; honest women hgh Bt wig a ‘We, the Women—

give you a. break—

coming to this country a year ago. ‘This Is the second of a series of six articles in which she tells of her experiences and observations before her arrival,

not used merely to put me at ease. It was the firm’s policy to treat all staff members as persons in their own right and

their welfare. As a result, everything was done to make working conditions -in the place as pleasant

MATCH BOX FAVORS—Misses Jane Queisser, Arlene and Anna Tway (left to right) make match box favors with Pi Beta Phi insignia on them for the formal rush tea the indiana University Chapter of the sorority will give Sunday. The event will be from 2:30 to'5 p. m. in the Butler Uni-

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as possible. The offices were come here. And so few of us

well aired, well lit and well have the opportunity! equipped. yo: : “ w » ~ The firm offered employees IN EUROPE, many bosses

such benefits as free medical feel they don’t get thelr money's care, hospital insurance; rest worth from a worker unless he lounges, roof-gardens and a makes them a dally of non-profit cafeteria. overtime. Others have no con- ; . vn ception of the hours requiréd to 1 LEARNED THAT similar do a certain job and ask for services are .now customary in Impossible speeds. nearly all major U. S. enter- This seldom happens here. prises. In European companies Most American executives they are virtually unheard of. Know their business thoroughly The trouble is that most because they, too, started at the E bottom. They have figured out uropeans still believe AmeriCai mployers a Just aa back. ientifcally the mitimum por ward as most of their own. A Tigh

Frenchman whom I took on a tour through our building exclaimed: “Why don't Americans tell these things? What better an-

Sometimes, that even goes too far for my taste. It seems the U.S. is becoming more and more a country of specialists. Everyone is assigned a certain

—pomed withthe words: -“Come——to- show genuine . interest in__swer could. there be to Com- . tagk and -automaticaliy consid-

munist propaganda?” It seems that the only way Europeans can really léarn ihe facts: about America is to

ered unfit for all other fields of endeavor. One day, one of our assistants was sick, and somebody

Attendants Named for Wedding

Miss Marjorie Lynette Tur-|

ley and Donald Dale Reisifiger| have named attendants for! . - . their Aug. 19 wedding in| Sweeney Chapel, Butler Univer-| sity. | Miss Jean Johnston will come] from Bellaire, O., to be maid of| honor. The bridesmaids will be] Miss Marilyn Crane, Buffalo, N. Y.,, and Miss Judy McKinney. Ginger Still will be flowergirl. The future bride’s brother,| Richard Turley, will be best man| and ushers will. include Berl Un-| derwood, Spencer; Robert Howell, | Salem, Ill.,, and Robert Huber and Robert Kirkman. Parents of the couple are Dr.| and Mrs. Hollis Lee Turley, 4218| Broadway, and the Rev. and Mrs. | Francis O. Reisinger, 4227 Sunset Ave. Miss McKinney, 247 8. Audubon } Road, recently entertained in honor of Miss Turley with a kitchen shower.

Don't Feel Sorry for Yourself After You Earn a ‘Respite’

By RUTH

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If vou are, stop

MILLETT Z

Paul Billhymers Visit Mr. and Mrs. R. E. Billhymer, 55 Crestview Drive, are enter-

| Mrs. John M. Griffin and Mrs. |Edward Farrell will be in charge {of the St. Philip's Altar Society {miscellaneous card party lo’clock tomorrow night in the] ARE YOU WASTING TIME feeling sorry for yourself school hall, 511 Eastern Ave. because nobody seems to need you now, what with the chil-

didn’t know you when you're With riage can make deep inroads on dren pretty much on their own and your husband absorbed chairmen. The public is invited. |children. The public is invited.

yourself. It may prove brief, from taining their son and his wife,|

We should not wait until Chuck (having others dependent on you. | { Tucumcari, N. M,

Looking at it that way, you are

free to enjoy it. For if it is a pe-

“Jealousy, of course, is flatter-|.,,t make up their minds, who riod you have already paid on in

the past by carrying a heavy load of responsibilities and will likely pay on again some time in the future, then it belongs to you.

You can look on it as a kind of

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to arrange your days pretty much

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IT'S RATHER pitiful how many never really enjoy their

periods of ‘“(reedom.” Instead of being grateful for them and using

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{she sets out to do what she wants 'to do, her family will benefit from| her happier attitude toward life.

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Public Invited vg#rvington Unit, American Le-| To Card Party Ton Auxiliary, will sponsor aj

fish fry from 5 to-11 p. m. on] Thursday, Friday and Saturday, at the Post home grounds, 124 8. Downey Ave. | Held in connection with the! , {Legion Post carnival, the event Mrs. Charles Wilson and Mrs. will feature a band concert and orman Carroll will assist the co-|carnival rides for adults and

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else had to write a certajn routine letter to a law firm. © “TI do it,” I volunteered.’ “You can’t,” was the answer. “You've had no legal training.” Back in school, Yankees were always vaunted to us as daring Jacks-of-all-trades:. Is something happening to that tradi-

tion? May elevator boys no longer dream of becoming ambassadors? # - =

I AM STILL amazed how trim and immaculate American office girls keep themselves all day long. Their neatness al‘ways reminds me of the letters they write. * It may surprise you, but each time we received an American business letter in Paris, we would rave about the way it looked. Somehow --its -flawlessperfection became to us a symbol for the high degree of - craftsmanship in this country. The Old World is lagging far

My Day—

Berkshire Festival Is Fitting

TUESDAY, JULY 31, 1951

Tell The Europeans? |

"behind in that respects In the last eight months I worked in a New York literary agency and got a daily batch of mail from France. Almost without exception, these letters were poorly spaced, sloppily typed, full of errors. » ” » THAT MAY SOUND trivial but I am afraid it isn't, It seems to reflect a general lack of effort in France that can cost the country dearly. However, there's always hope that the French will “catch on” before it’s too late. Just take my own case, in all modesty. When I stopped working the other day, my employers offered me a farewell gift with the dedication: “To Marty who ac-~ complished her work with truly American efficiency.” ~— That's a tribute I'm going to cherish for a long time!

TOMORROW: All Those Wonderful Bargains.

*» * Memorial to Koussevitzky > By ELEANOR ROOSEVELT HYDE PARK, N. Y., July 31—On Thursday evening Miss Thompson and I went with Mrs. Auerbach from Hartford to the Berkshire Music festival at Tanglewood.

It was a beautiful conce

a little sad because our thoughts |

turned to Serge Koussevitzky who died June 4, 1951. This festival! was his © inspiration, as was the music - school and all that is done at Tanglewood. The conduector was Charles Munch and he began the concert by playing Mozart's Masonic Funeral Musie, asking us beforehand not to applaud but to rise and stand at the end in memory of Dr. Koussevitzky.

. 2 " " DR. KOUSSEVITZKY'S wife came in just before the concert began, and I could not help thinking what a difficult and emotional night this must have been for her. The music was beautifully rendered by the Boston Philharmonic Orchestra and nothing could have been more fitting than this tribute to the memory of a great conductor. I hope the Berkshire Festival will continue to be upheld by

the public because it is a fitting |

memorial to Dr. Koussevitzky

and one that the public should continue to appreciate and sup-

rt but everyone, I think, felt

AOP; Plans

Rush Picnic

| Future IU Coeds | To Be Feted

The Indianapolis Chapter, Al|pha Omicron Pi Sorority, will |entertain from 5:30 to 7:30 p, m, {Sunday in the hame of Mrs, T. C. Davis, 6101 Burlington Ave., with {a picnic for prospective Indiana {University coeds. : | Miss Charlotte Smith, rush chairman in charge of arrangements, will be assisted by Mrs. John R. Roberts and Mrs, Shock{ley Lockridge. Other alumnae helping with the plans include Miss Barbara Phegley and Mesdames Edward F. Dirks, Henry IL. Pond, W. A. {George, Ned Long, William J. Kennedy Jr.. and John A. MecCleary. | Actives from the IU chapter {who will be present are Misses {Pat Vioni, Janita Barwick, Ruth (Jones, Nancy Howard, Ann {Geoghan, Marajane Parker, Char{lotte Smith, Phyllis Wallace, {Marilyn Arbuckle and Barbara Morgan. Don’t wait antil tomorrow tor today’s sports results . get the {last-minute results of all sports played that day in The Times 'Red Streak Sports Final.

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