Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 29 July 1951 — Page 35

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| Reward Obedience I With Explanation | Of You

khaki shorts for clean ones, He

‘passionately ‘defends his 9-year-

old point of view until his mother says MEARS “No more talk. Get upstairs and do as you

are told.” Bud knows when his mother means business. He obeys, ° The next

morning at breakfast, she

says, "HOW Mrs. Lawrence

would you like

it if I turned up on visitor's Day at your school with a hole in my stocking and my hair in curlers?” Bud lifts a horrified face from his milk, His mother nods at him. “You wouldn't like it at all,” she tells him. “Parents don’t like introducing an untidy child to their friends any more than a child likes to introduce an untidy parent to us. We're not different; we're alike, parents and children. We both want to be proud of each other. You made daddy and me feel comfortable and proud by looking so nice at dinner last night.” Bud's mother has completed her little discipline chore. She has given her child an explanation of the order he obeyed.

A child who obeys surrenders his will. He yields his point of |

view to ours. This is an act of giving that entitles him to an explanation of our reasons for demanding the surrender of his point of view. If we do not fulfill this obligation to the child who obeys, his obedience is blind and our orders are arbitrary. We are dictators, not teachers.

The Real Purpose

BY FAILING to explain our points of view, we lose valuable

chances to make our ideas on |

important matters understood by our child. We become the kind of parents of whom grownup children say, “They did the best they knew how to, I suppose. They got obedience. But I had to have children of my own before I ever understood what made my parents tick.” Explanations of our demands should follow, not precede obedience to orders. The real pur-

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in giving. The child receives his explanation in return for his gift of obedience.

Our smaller sons and daugh- | ters, however, will not be too | interested in our explanations. With them, we have to put up with the dictator role until they develop that interest. But the moment they are able to reason- and think, we should be quick to tell Tommy exactly why we think he musn’t take cookies without asking, why faces must be washed.

Win Respect

WITH ADOLESCENCE, we should be able to substitute suggestions for orders. Tommy should even be encouraged to challenge our suggestions. If we have done a good job of training, he won't challenge us belligerently, but eagerly. Our explanations will have won a respect for us that makes our opinions interesting and important to him.

This is when parenthood enters one of its most satisfying periods. This is when the hours we have spent telling Tommy what we think about honesty, truth, cleanliness and order begin, to pay off in mental companionship and mutual pleasure in it. If we forget to give those explanations, we're the real | losers.

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How to Apply Facial Creams

By EDYTH T. McLEOD “I THINK MY face needs some real work on it but I am afraid to try as I might do it the wrong way. What do you suggest?—Ellen J.” There is, definitely, a right and wrong way to apply creams and lotions. If your skin is sagging and lines are forming, get busy now and put some “real work” on it. Use your lotion first, to cleanse the skin. A thoroughly clean skin is essential oefore you do anything to revitalize the tissues. EJ ” ” THE face chart, when you apply Always use a lifting, upward and outward movement on the face. Pin this chart on your dressing table. When you apply any facial preparation, remember. these movements. First, around the

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MISS NORMA STULTZ, : 340 S. Ritter Ave., Butler University junior, will head a 44-member committee of coed counselors for the coming school year. 2 The group will act as advisers to incoming freshmen women students and will be hostesses at Butler's annual summer tea for new students Aug. 22. Throughout the year the counselors will advise be-

ginning students on campus customs and traditions. Indianapolis coeds on the committee are Misses Constance ‘Boldman, Diana Garceau, Cora Lane, Kathryn McCartney, Ann Moreland, Joan Thompson, ‘Mary Margaret Reis, Barbara Patterson, M. Joan and Jean Colliver, Mary Lou Renick, Er-

Miss Norma Stultz

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Plans Fete

Alpha Omicron Alpha Sorority

{will celebrate Founders’ Day Aug.

1 at a luncheon in the Indian-

| |apolis Athletic Club.

Honor guests at the organiza-

j tion’s 81st celebration will be

charter members, Mrs. J. R.

Sentney, organizer and grand president for 28 years, will be included in the group.

The sorority’s national project Is a scholarship fund for nurses,

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Council of Women

Plans Conference

The May Wright Sewall Council of Women will hold its midsummer conference at the Hotel {Lincoln Aug. 16. | Tuncheon will be served at 12:15 p. m. Mrs. Lowell 8. Fisher will preside, assisted by Mrs. Harry W. Dragoo, corresponding

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