Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 24 July 1951 — Page 6

Attendants Reportz ~ Pre-nuptial parties and the announcment of wedding] “+ attendants are features of today’s bridal news. ~~ Mrs. O. 8. Brock, 5420 N. New Jersey St., assisted by her daughter, Mrs. A. C. Kern, will entertain Saturday with 1. luncheon at the Holly Hock — eS : 1 fill in Bonor of Miss Margaret Toon Problems— baer ae 2Do You Want

ort, Brendonwood, will be*mar-. % Aug. 18 to Charles Randolph | © ing ut? By JOAN DEAR JOAN: I had a little disagreement with the boy whose ring I have. Is it proper to call him and ask him why he’s mad and tell him to come get his ring? R. 8. I don't believe a “little disagreement” warrants giving back the boy's ring. Not yet,

nest Edwards, William' H. Linn, Barton Swope and Her 8kill108an, FE Also, Mesdames A. J. LeBien, Lloyd Olcott and Ray Grimes, Miss Martha Wagner and Miss Elizabeth “Armstrong. On Aug. 8, Miss Short will be honor guest at a pantry shower in the Meridian Hills Country Club, Mrs. H. G. Brannen, 5362 Kenwood Ave. and Mrs. Henry F. DeBoest, 65 E. Kessler Blvd, |. will be hostesses. Those attending the shower will be Mesdames Short, E. 8. « Retter, Eldo Wagner, Beesley, l1eBien, R. W. Mossman, Grover Hollings and Walter Nelson.

Mesdames Forrest Teel, Harry

x Ti FIESTA TIME—Bill Sadlier (right) presents flowers to Mrs. R. L. Gehrt (left) and Mrs. George Sadlier (center) at the Highland Country Club. Mrs. Gehrt and Mrs. Sadlier are committee members for the "Casa Highland" pool party Saturday, which will feature dinner, dancing in a fiesta atmosphere at the club pool.

To Aid In Fight

| WASHINGTON, July 24-—An alert to the dangers of the nar{ecotic evil has been isgued to each of the 14,500 member clubs of the General Federation of Women's Mrs. Hiram Cole Houghton, GFWC president, in a letter to each club president, stated: “Concern over the dreadful crime of peddling marihuana and other narcotics to teen-agers is every club's business.”

as a “communicable disease” which puts youth in touch with the underworld and leads to thieving, prostitution ‘and other crimes.

Urges Ordinance Mrs. Houghton requested each club to push the passage of a municipal ordinance requiring ‘a six-month quarantine of nonmedical addicts, thereby stamping out narcotic addiction. The federation is supporting bills 8 1702 and HR 3490-now before Congress establishing stiffer penalties for peddlers of narcotics. Each club has been asked to report when the city ordinance has been adopted in its town so that a GFWC Honor Roll, bearing the namés of the cities which passed the quarantine ordinance and of the clubs that worked for the quarantine, may be presented to the President in October.

‘My Day— Let's Help Gl Families

By ELEANOR ROOSEVELT HYDE PARK, N.Y. July 24— It has been a rather shocking thing to see that we are again subjected, because we do not

mes photo by Dean Timmerman.

Kimbriel, R. M, Rice, F. M. Hadley, Brock, Mallinson, C. (i. Weigand, Robert Kraft, J. 8. Lee, J. E. Marmon and A. L. Young, Miss Beésley and Miss Elaine Brannen.

LJ . o Miss Elizabeth Lee Byers and

Robert D. Hummel have chosen attendants for their Aug. 4 wed-

at least.

ing the ring would be s-0-0-0-0 permanent. If the quarrel was your fault,

“I TELL

Blackwood on Bridge— Player Stumbles Into Defensive Play enance 0 make wt neurn- |] hat Leaves Everybody Puzzled and Mad

YOU Muzzy and I East Dealer | beat this contract three tricks,”! Both sides vulnerable

end Marvin Beigel, Dale Stewart will be ringbearer.

x .Miss Byers is the daughter of

Raymond

invite him over on a certain day and hour. Now, you might get a stiff, unforgiving reply — or none at

Ave, attended Purdue University, more formal note: “In view of before entering the Navy,

Garden Club To Be Feted

Mrs, James R. Tanner, 5433 E.| he wants to make up, 17th 8t., will entertain the newly| know he doesn't. organized Hawthorne Green Buds| him his ring ‘until your efforts Garden Club at 8 p. m. today.| at peace-making have failed. Mrs. W. L. McCoy will be the guest speaker. She is a member of | ment. the Irvington Garden Club. Officers include Mrs. Leonard| him for forgiveness. Troy, president; Mrs. Thomas E.|

{ our recent correspondence ‘(or | since I have had no reply to my | note of last week) will you stop | In on Saturday at 8 so that I

! may return your ring?”

=o n o THE IMPORTANT thing is Don't offer

Don't re-hash the old arguDon’t be stiff and proud.

| And above all, don’t crawl to

§ Mrs. Evelyn C. Byers, 3838 Spann| 51), Ir he asks for his ring, ¥ Ave. send it promptly by registered ; Mr. Hummel, son of Mrs, Thel-| mai], Hore. this. one £ ma McLaughlin, 338 N. Colorado Otherwise, write a second, | 2

{lecture Muzzy on {from

the ace of spades.” “Oh no!” sobbed Mr. Champion, burying his face in his hands. “Wait a minute,” said Mr. Dale.

[“It turned out beautifully. Here's

what happened. On the deal beMuzzy had led fourth best from A Q 4 2 against a suit contract. In spite of the fact that it got us a sensationally good result, Mr. East saw fit to leading away an ace-queen. He said it should never be done.”

| 'Misunderstood'

| to keep your head. Assume that |

until .you | He th

“BUT MUZZY misunderstood. ought Mr. East was merely

feriticizing the lead of the fourth [best from such a holding and {recommending the lead of the ace.

think ahead, to the same difficulties that were experienced in

servicemen who tried to be with their husbands as long as they) were still in this country. I saw so many young women during that period , traveling to

“The effect of all this on Mr. C3mp8 in various parts of the

Eas S 18S LON {country without any knowled.e| East was devastating aturally of ‘Where their: husbands weil)

write him a note of apology. |asserted Mr. Dale. NORTH lenough, he deducted that Muzzy, : { in Win ihe Grace: Methoqst (That's better than telephoning “You can’t do it,” Mr. Cham- Mr. Dale : [thought he was playing against a/find 2 Place for them io live They! : . and risking a brush-off or a |pion blustered. ‘There's nothing S—762 , |suit contract and that he had|Yanted a home, somewhere to be * Miss Dolores Cooney will bel pickering session.) Simply say [to the hand except the heart fi- H—10 8 6 5 2 lopened from an ace doubleton in|t08ether until they were Sepa : maid of honor and Miss Nancy| you're sorry you lost your tem- |nesse. Either it's right and youl D—5 \spades, hoping to get a third tated by an overseas assignment | . Crossley and Miss Marcella Haver| per, make nine tricks or it's wrong] C—A 10 6 3 round ruff.” fron i will be bridesmaids, 8 . 4» and you don't, How can you set| WEST EAST 1 Trick * | NOW ‘WE are seeing the same| y Ted McLaughlin will be his EVEN if you're unwilling to [three no trump with a club open-| Mr. West Mr. East | {Loses ric {thing all over again. But we are| § hrother's best man and ushers take the blame, you can write ing?" ve S—84 3 S—K J 95 gt “HE WON THE second trick not faced with the same gy ¥ will include William Hummel, the] 2nd offer to let by-gones be “Muzzy didn’t open a club,” re-H—A KJ . H—9 7 |with dummy’s king of hearts and|tions as those of World War IL : "prospective bridegroom's uncle, by-gones. And in either case, plied Mr. Dale, patiently. “He led D—8 7 6 4 2 D—A K QJ 9 [led a spade to take what he Our states have had time to pass|

[thought was a marked . finesse.laws preventing the raising of

3 SotenE 7 {He put in the nine and Muzzy won rents above the usual levels mere- { Mr. Muzzy with the 10 and led back the four|ly because there is an influx of| S—A Q 10 of hearts. {young people who don’t want to] foi H—Q 4 3 “At this point,” Mr. Dalé™wgnt leave their husbands. . D—10 3 on, “Mr. East was sure it was It is also possible for the fed- | C—Q J 952 {necessary to keep me out of the eral government to make some |The bidding: lead because he felt sure the ace provision for this situation, which| East South West North ©f clubs was behind his thinly is a natural one. When the gov1D 2 C 2D Pass guarded kidg. He went up with{ernment is not engaged in all-out 2S Pass 3D Pass the ace of hearts and took an-' war, it should be feasible for it to} SNT other spade finesse. {think of improving morale by a

All Pass “Muzzy won, cashed the queen little human consideration.

“Anyway,” Mr. Dale continued, of hearts, led to my ace of clubs, We hope that the men in the “there Muzzy sat with another and I cashed two more heart/c@mps will never actually go to ace-queen combination - and he tricks. Down three! How do you War. but they have to v~ prepared led the ace. Then he asked what like Muzzy's defense?” —and well prepared.-.and they, the contract was. Told it was| Mr. Champion couldn't answer. Will do better work if they are {three no trump, he was quite up-|He appeared dazed. Bot ent off from Heir Jamilies set. After some thought, hel “They don’t push me around,” the EY Meal sia Sx hense onl Switched to the four of hearts. said Mr. Muzzy, proudly. long run the money will be welll

Many to Go

Perry, vice president, and Mrs. WCTU to Meet

(Charles A. Hogue, secretary-treas-urer. The Sarah A. Swain WCTU will

To Musical

Miss Dorothy Ellis the city and championships, guest at a 7:30 o'clock dinner to- chairman at 8 o'clock Wednesday| night at the Meridian Hills Coun- night for an embroidered pillow-|

state will be

winner of ladies golf honor

luncheon will be served at noon.

Card Party Set

The club was organized May 28. Meet at 11 o'clock Thursday] Each Tuesday of the Starlight Most of the members are from Morning in the Calvary Evangeli- Musicals marks opening night the Hawthorne Manor area. cal United Brethren Church with catering to families : ———— the Rev. I. A. Huddleston as Guests 3 1d i) i . ; . guest speaker. A covered-dish *Uesis in paddock boxes for Will Fete Miss Ellis

tonight's opening of the Rodgers and Hammerstein Musical Festi-

{val will include Mr, and Mrs. Don

Mrs. Cletus Brown-wil' serve as:

try Club. Members will meet at case card party in the auditorium] the club at 6:30 o'clock.

of St. Philip Neri Catholic Church. !

Essig and their daughter, Donna June, and the Rev, and Mrs. Ger-

ald Clapsaddle and their -chil(dren, Connie and Joe, Mrs. James Boltis, Mr. and

Mrs. Robert M. Neale and their children, Nancy, Ann and Bill; Mr,.and Mrs. Tom Neal and their daughter, Jean, and Mrs. Renato

Mr. and Mrs, Frank Branigan, Mr. and Mrs. Fred Branigan, Mrs. James Luesse, Miss Thoresa Malloy and Mrs. Marilyn Staton, Lebanon.

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By EDYTH T. McLEOD DO YOU remember when you first read “Gentlemen Prefer Blonds”? You do? Fun, wasn't it? How we

all loved it, because it was an expression of the American scene at that time. been transla

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Anita Loos ;

TUESDAY,

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of editions and had a recent revival as a Broadway play success. The woman who wrote this is still going strong on her career. Anita Loos still wears her hair just as she did when she wrote her amusing book, and, as they say, “On her it looks good!” She is, indeed, having a career after 40, a con-

tinuing career and she has now

written a gay book called “A Mouse Is Born.” %

= ” IT IS HER first novel in 25 years but she has been doing a lot of other exciting things and will, I feel sure, keep on and on and on. Hollywood may squirm a little at her book, “A Mouse Is Born,” but it's fun and Anita Loos knows her Hollywood. Reading a book from the pen

& of Anita Loos will bring back

the memory of whén you read about blondes and bleached your hair to see whether your gentleman preferred you that way and probably found that he didn’t. It’s nostalgic—you’ll remember your spit curls and short skirts and waistlines almost to your knees.

We, the Women—

Asserts ‘Daughter Makes Me Feel Like I'm a Servant’

By RUTH MILLETT IT ISN'T ALWAYS a kindness to a widowed mother for her married child to ‘insist that she give up her own home and her own life and move in with the young couple.

With the best intentions in the world, things often don't

| work out for the happiness of

all concerned. For instance,

revealed in this letter_ from a woman who tells me: “You may pubdish all or part of this letter if you wish. “When my husband died my only Thild insisted that I come to :live with her. husband was anxious to have me, also. He has always been very kind to me and I have reason to believe that my being m his home makes things easier for him. { . “My daughter and son-in-law have two children and I have been baby-sitter many, many nights and always: when they take a trip out of town. I have enjoyed doing this. “But my daughter in many ways makes me feel like a servant. I do all the heavy cleaning, also the dish washing and ironing. She is out on social affairs a great deal of the

Ruth

Millett»

time, many days does nothing .

around the house. “When there is company in

the evening I am expected to go 1

to my room and I go, because if I didn’t there would be something unpleasant said and I do not care to have that happen. » » ="

“I DO NOT have, a college | sent her to |

education, but I college and denied myself many things so she might have music lessons and the other things all girls want so much. I am glad I could do it. But I think she is afraid I may make her ashamed because, no doubt, I

Her .

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do not always do and say tHe proper thing. “My advice to mothers is never to go to live with” a daughter.” In this case, as in so many, mother and daughter would undoubtedly have remained better friends if the mother had been left in her own home, frée to lead her own life, Now “hurts and misunderstanding have piled up and the relationship is no longer the happy one it should be.

NOR IS IT likely that either one is entirely to blame for the situation. The mother says she feels like a servant, yet she must have assumed those duties willingly in the beginning and set a pattern her daughter soon came to take for granted. Also, if the mother through the years sacrificed for her daughter, she should have realized that if she went to live with her daughter she would still be expected to take a back seat and to continue to give without any thought of herself. And that is what most often causes trouble when a parent goes to live with a married child. All the mistakes made in the relationship in earlier years are continued. They are

much more likely to be ended if parent and child live separate lives apart.

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