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Sorority Plans Tea fo Fete

Coeds entering DePauw University this fall will be. entertained by the school’s Delta Zeta Sorority ¢hapter at a rose tea next Sunday. Mrs. Robert E. Allen will be alumnae hostess in her home, 4936 Central Ave. The sorority's flower, the rose, will be used in the decorating theme and corsages for the guests,

Miss Judy Holman, Chicago, is chapter rush chairman. Miss Barbara Beatain has charge of

DePauw Coeds Camp Delight Yule in July

Plans Listed

Group to Send ‘Santa Overseas’

mas in July celebration at Camp Delight will be “Gifts.” Annually on July 25 Christ-

mas is celebrated at the camp

THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES

‘Every Woman Can Be Beautiful—

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Gentle Massage Helps to Erase Face

By JOSEPH C. URKOV, M. D. RELAXATION of facial muscles must begin BEFORE you go to bed: If you squint or frown be-

| cause you refuse to wear need- | ed. glasses, or for some other | reason, the contracted muscles

Theme for this year's Christ-/

remain tense. So do the bulges

of skin you hope will disappear.

Relaxation and hygiene—a good skin cleansing-—must go hand-in-hand. Regardless of the

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face and neck and pat the skin dry. If your skin is too oily, omit step No. 2 but follow the remaining instructions, If thers are wrinkles or dry spots, ap ply cream or oil lightly to these areas to remain overnight, All water soluble impurities (perspiration) and oil soluble deposits are thoroughly re« moved by cleansing with a good soap and water, After each cleansing, it is ad. visable to rinse the face libers ally to wash away any alkae line deposits that may remain,

the ‘be bird cages with macaws. , Guests will be |

entertainment for the party. = = td DePAUW Delta Zetas from Indianapolis assisting will be Misses Joan Lindemeyer, Selma Kamphaus, Phyllis Thornburg, Katie Harris and Shirley Bolton. : Coming from out-of-town will be Miss Jane Garber, Peru, DePauw Chaptér president; Miss Donna Lee, Marion Morrison, Emily Bruce and Frances Swain, Crawfordsville; Miss Beverly Pierce and Miss Jean Houston, Plainfield, and Miss Carolyn Gipe and Miss Leila Smith, Ft. Wayne. Miss Mary Baughnian, Goshen; Miss Jo Wine; South Bend; Miss Doreena Van Voorhies, Seymour, and Misses Marty Schindler, Barbara . Bennett, Nancy Uaase, Florence Ulrich, Jean Benson, Joverne Bulmer, Judy Mayer and Betty Jo 'Scarborough, Chicago:

The Mature Parent—

Mother Who Needed

Bedford; Misses,

ROSES WITH ROSES—Rose corsages will be favors at next [ter Foundation, will be dedicated. Sunday's rush tea sponsored by the DePauw University Delta Zeta |Participating will be Arthur Bax“Sorority chapter. Flower shopping are Miss Selma Kamphaus (left). [ter, Dr. Norman Rinne, Camp

and Miss Barbara Buntain.

Comfort Gave Child

By MURIEL

Wrong Impression

LAWRENCE

THE YEAR THAT Kit was 8 years old, his grandmother was taken to the hospital. His mother went to see her every day. As the hospital’s visiting hours coincided with Kit's return from

school, he would arrive at home just as his mother was leaving. Preoccupied -and impatient, she would say. “How should I know .what you did with your red sweater? You know as well as I do that the apple but-

ter is in the ice box.” After a

month of this, Mrs. Lawrence Kit went upstairs one day and stole 50 cents he found under his mother’s bureau scarf. Then he went downtown and bought himself a banana split, a “Coke” and a package of bub-

ble gum. When his mother discovered

her loss, she was frightened and angry. She spanked Kit. After she had slammed the door, Kit began to punch his pillow. He said to it, “Ugly old meanie. Think you're somebody, don’t you? You're not... you're not . ..” Kit had stolen from his mother because she had given him a strong impression that she was a big, powerful, selfsufficient creature who could well afford to lose 50 cents. Actually, she was nothing of the kind. She was a woman who was afraid thdt someone she loved was going to die. She was a human being in need of love-and comfort. But of course parents never admit such a need. When we are discouraged and unhappy, we don't dream of saying to our Kits, “I need comfort.” No sir. We say, instead, “Go away; don’t bother me.” We express

our need for love and comfort just exactly as Kit, the child, expresses his need for them. We express it by irritation, impatience and bad temper. 2 8 n . WHEN A CHILD steals, we should —-be far less concerned with his returning the material object he has taken from us than with his returning the love he has taken from us. A child steals when he has been made to feel deprived, worthless, able to offer nothing of any value to us. He takes a material thing to relieve this feeling of ‘poverty with a feeling of wealth. How can we make a child feel rich? By helping him to give, instead of taking. What does he have to give? Love. How can we persuade him to give it? By letting him see that we need it. By seeking his comfort - when we are discouraged. By showing our appreciation for it when it has been given. By gratefully noticing the hands that have been washed voluntarily. By giving three kisses for every one we're given. By active day-in day-out awareness that without this love, we should be impoverished people. We can scarcely expect to receive what we don’t appear to need. . If we have any delusion that we should “protect” against discovering that their parents need comfort, encouragement and reassurance, we

had better get rid of it fast, It | is apt to make us behave as | though we really were self-suf- |

ficient. It tempts our Kits to try and show us that they can

hurt a mother who thinks she’s |

“somebody.” It tempts them to steal.

children |

Fiesta, Square

Dance to Head

Highland's Social Program

Two gala events next week-end will be painted on the globes of at Highland Golf and Country the lamp posts at the drive enClub will close the club's July, | Cowboy hats and saddles will decorate the club ballroom for square dance the

social calendar.

“Casa Highland,” a fiesta by

trance.

juniors’

the pool, will be Saturday night's night before.

feature. will have a square dance.

Friday night the juniors/

Highland” party. Assisting them on the terrace.

are Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Hare

and Mr. and Mrs. R. L. Gehrt.

Cocktail hour will be from 7:30 “Country Cousin Chickee.”

to 8:30 p. m.

A charcoal dinner,

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shebet will be served from 8:30'on the committee.

to 10 p. m.

Dancing to Bill Moore's orches-|

tra will begin at 9 p. m.

Hablo Espanol

Sorority Plans

Waiters in Spanish hats and red! New Cha pter

and yellow sashes and waitresses

in South American costume willl

serve, Fresh flowers will

given to the women by a boy also

dressed in Spanish costume.

Dinner tables around the pool edge will be centered with fresh fruit banked with tamboufines A large floral piece will be floating in the swimming pool and the four corners of the pool edge will be banked with palms and flowers. Japanese lanterns will be strung

Dancing will be under the pagoda topped with a thatched roof

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Bank.

Jeanette Wilson and E. Rhoades. .

The “chicken in the basket and ‘Coke’ ” menu will be served at Mr. and Mrs. George Sadlier individual tables covered with red head the committee for the “Casa and white checkered table cloths

4! During the evening the “Circle |B” Ranch Boys will introduce

Heading plans for the 9 p. m.| with a menu of melon ball-Bing to midnight party is George Hil-| cherry fruit cup, grilled steaks,|gemeier. corn on the cob, tossed salad and Campbell and Mike Sullivan are

Valri Philpott, Nancy

Epsilon Lambda Chapter, Ep-! isilon Sigma Alpha Sorority, will (install a sister chapter at a 7 'p. m. buffet supper Tuesday in the 38th St. branch, Indiana National

Charter members participating in. pledge services will include] Mesdames C. M. Nebel, Arthur, Ingles, James Parry and Mary

Shipp, Misses Beverly Cox, Ruth!

Installation and pledge services event. At either end willl will be directed by Miss Edith : w Barr, city council president, and

‘Care of Mint Plants will

Mint plants are aggressive to

shoots showing up beyond the Sahm and Camp Delight commit|assigned area. {

|of the Indianapolis Camp Fire Girls, Red Feather agency of the . (Indianapolis Community Chest. | This year's campers will send |“Santa Overseas.” They will |make red crinoline stockings and| considered one of America's fill them with gifts, hard candy, leading authorities on aesthetic clothes, school supplies and totiet dermatology. : g articles, ; | ~ Here he gives advice on skin | A feature of the yearly cele- cleansing. This is the last in |bration is a live Christmas tree,| a series of six articles especial- | the gift of Mr. and Mrs. Alex| ly written for The Indianap- | Tuschinsky which will be deco- olis Sunday Times. ‘rated and placed in the camp : lodge during the party. Later it {will be put on the grounds. | Yule decorations will be hung {in the cabins, the lodge and din{ing room. | Santa will put. in his appearlance at camp “Christmas Eve” { Wednesday. Before there will be a carol serenade by the coun- | selors. { At 5:30 p. m. the three new {camp cabins, a gift of the«Bax-

The normal slightly acid state of the skin is quickly resumed after each cleansing. o os . THE TINY elastic muscle fibers of the skin are greatly responsible for the firmness of the facial tissues. The neXt step in the bedtime care of your face is the exhilarating and toning of these tiny muscle fibres. This procedure, too, is a simple one requiring only three steps. (1) Put five or six ice cubes in a towel to form an ice bag.

(2) Crush the wrapped ice by pounding the bag against a hard surface, such as the wash , bowl or lavatory. (3) Flatten the top side of the towel and pour on it a little witch hazel or your favorite astringent lotion. (4) Pat the skin gently with the ice bag, moving it’ from place to place over the face and neck. This step requires less than two minutes for its full benefit. There are some ‘“don’ts” too, in the bedtime care of skin. Never apply ice directly to the skin: it is irritating. Never

Dr. Urkov is a plastic surgeon in Chicago who has served as counsellor to. more than 100,000 beauty culturists. He is

type or texture of your skin, the bedtime care begins with a fiberal application of your favorite cleansing cream. Before you start try this experiment: Press one of yout fingers against the palm of your hand. If ‘you touch the palm lightly, vou feel only a slight sensation. Now, press hard. You feel pain, don't you? Remember this when you are caring for your face. Never rub or massage so severely as to cause pain. T

Times ‘Photo by John Bpicklemire.

FACIAL EXERCISE—The muscles around the eyes and mouth are circular. Try a finger movement from the center of the chin, across and up to the ear on either side.

{Delight committee chairman, and {the campers. After the service {and Christmas dinner campers present a pageant, “Why the Chimes Rang.”

” oe ; we nr HOW TAN YOU accomplish relaxation and cleansing prop-

neck and upward—always uperly and thus aid, the natural

ward—from the .chin to the

(2) Put on.a second application if your skin is dry.

: | Special guests at camp for the processes? By three simple (3) Soap .your dampened temples and across the fore- , the point of being weedy. TO ceehration will include Mr. and' steps: washcloth thoroughly or work head. Spend at least one min- apply hot water to He face; i keep them in check, dig out all Mrs, Baxter, Mr. and Mrs. Roy (1) Apply your favorite up a generous soap suds in your ute in this massaging and may cause the tiny blood ves

sels to rupture and blotchy pink spots to appear.

cleansing method,

cream to the face and neck to Now, thoroughly rinse your

remove makeup,

hands and apply it to the oiled skin. Rub gently across the

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