Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 17 July 1951 — Page 6
ORE 1 esi _ to speak out against the discipline prin- - ciple that says “Shush, don’t speak. You ~ may give your child a neurosis if you try to con- * trol his impulses.” “About time, too. We were rapidly becoming "as repressed and resentful a | generation of parents as ever | failed to bend twigs the way * they should grow. This discipline theory has harmed our relationships with + our children by making us | elass-conscious, It has tried to persuade us that children be- { long to a specially privileged ; class, It has stirred resent-: : | ment in parents by telling ] them they must absolve youth" . from the controls that fathers | and mothers exercise upon - themselves. Consider Emmy N., aged 5. Shopping with her mother, Emmy is seized with an impulse. to get her hands on an expensive paper- doll ‘set in a store window. As Emmy is a member of the privileged class of childhood, her mother reluctantly buys the set. While her child skips triumphantly along beside her, Mrs. N. thinks: “Children are lucky. 1 could keep my nose pressed to the window of the Bonton Dress Shop for six months-—but
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| By EDYTH T. McLEOD { NO MATTER what the color of your hair, whether it is gray or whether you
have it tinted, you must have a healthy scalp. Dry hair is dull and the egcalp feels tight, the ends are brittle. The hair lacks depth and brilliance. Dry hair needs scalp massage, soap shampooing, deep brushing and an occasional hot oil shampoo. YOU need exercise "and more fresh air. - Oily hair. If, after shampooing, your hair is heavy with oil within three days, if your - hair ends are drab and split, then Nature.is not doing right by you. You must massage the scalp and brush your hair while bending over. Brush from the scalp out-ward. The brushing and- the bendAng aids in stimulating cireulation. » » n DANDRUFF, that flaky white substance which often shows up on your scalp without apparent cause, can be gotten rid of. Shampoo
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By ELEANOR ROOSEVELT
things about those countries— as, for instance, to what degree rearmament goes on, and
various other items our workers, dressed in tatters, I'he answer is ¢ pale and thin from hunger, very simple. As a nation we are standing at the doors of know very lit- luxurious hotels and restau- | tle about the rants begging, and that on Fifth Avenue' they search the
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then brush and apply a lubricating ointment, Apply the ointment NOT on. the hair.
We Shake With Laughter
HYDE PARK, July 17—1I have a letter in my mail asking me to explain how I can say that the Iron Curtain countries cut us off from information and knowledge, when columnists and newspaper stories keep telling us
to Soviet “radio listeners which | will sound odd to all of us. | It stated that the children of
garbage pails for food.
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nobody would put that pretty little $49.95 number in my hands.”
sorts with her family. Whether she knows it or not, Mrs, N. is suffering from the ancient plague of class hostility. She does not relish her role as a member of
By ALICIA HART
IN THE FLURRY of ex- |
citement over a new baby,
many a young mother forgets that the well-wishers who come to view the baby will be seeing her as well Her
| looks are therefore important
If you have a date with the
stork this summer, you'll find
a little advance planning goes a long way toward preparing you to receive your bedside visitors with gqueenly grace and self-assurance. When you pack your bag foi the hospital, rememter to include—in addition to the usua’' items enumerated by your doctor—a few, well-chosen beauty
! alds to help you combat the That evening Mrs. N. is irritable and out of | Droblems which confront any
| woman who's temporarily or
vious of the favors granted to the overprivileged |
class to which her child belongs.
” ” ” ; GIVEN THE fact of Mrs. N.'s normal human nature, it is unrealistic to expect her to
feel close and near to Emmy. Mrs. N. belongs to |
an exploited group; Emmy to the exploiting one. But were Mrs, N. to to levy the controls upon her daughter that she puts upon herself—crash would go class hostility. Emmy and her mother would be equals, With class resentment out of the way, Mrs. N. would say “No” to the expensive paper doll set. But with a rush of understanding, Mrs. N. would add, “Maybe we could manage to buy it next week. Anyway, I have a fashion book at home with a bride in it. And if you're careful with them, I'll lend you my scissors to cut her out.” "But no, Mrs. N. doesn’t do it that way. The tradition of deference to the lordly class of children is too much for her. So Emmy gets her doll set—and is denied the warm and understanding companionableness that grows between two peuple when each pulls his own weight in the at. Equal rights for you with your children is a sound recipe for making them your friends.
Timely Hints on How to Prevent Dry Hair
If the condition does persist, then see your doctor about your diet.
Shampooing. Anyone can do a good shampoo. Be sure to have soap and warm water. A
is handy and comfortable to
use, When you have finished the shampoo be sure to rinse and rinse until your hair squeaks.
Dry with warm towels and friction. Rub your scalp until circulation is stimulated. This makes your hair dry faster. Toss it about and then brush.
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BRUSHING. Choose a“good, practical brush. Pay your money for good bristles not for a fancy back and fancy handle. Brushing has never destroyed a wave, it makes it deeper be-
and stand it up in a bottle or a jar to dry. Massaging. Whether your hair is oily or dry, tinted or gray, vou should massage the scalp. Use firm finger and thumb pressure, round and round with continued pressure in the center-top of the scalp and at the back of the ‘neck
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A FEW DAYS AGO, for instance, Moscow reported a story
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by a staff of 48 servants and | fix lawyers, We shake with laugh-
ter as we read this story.
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parenthood’s underprivileged class. She is en- | Take Care of Hair
DURING THE hot-weathet months, these difficulties often are accentuated — particularly those of hair care.
Perspiration causes matting or stringiness; excess oiliness causes unattractive, sticky strands which seem to attract more than their share of grime, A dry shampoo such as that offered by one well-known firm is often the answer for new mothers who are troubled about the unkempt look of their hair their
| babies.
This hair-cleansing prepar=tion is a fragrant powder which requires, makers claim only 10 minutes to convert limp, oily hair into fresh, sweet-smelling tresses.
Contains Brush THE SHAMPOO KIT contains, in addition to a shaker container of powder, a small brush only slightly larger than
i a toothbrush. This manageable
| tool
makes it easy to clean
| each strand separately.
| waiting for your baby's
cause of the improved circula- | tion. Always wash your brush | in warm water. Shake it well |
Your own hairbrush is used
| for brushing out the powder
when its work is done Although this preparation does not ordinarily cisturb the wave in your hair, according to the manufacturer, you may nonetheless find your curls in need of assistance. Straggling
brush with a tube attachment | °F matting often results from
too much pillow-time Prepare for this possibility by taking along your bobby pins or other curling aids. For the sake of others who may be sharing vour room or ward, as well as for unexpected visitors, “it’s a good idea to have along a length of pastel net veiling from which to fas shion a turban. Wear this to .conceal pincurls or curlers rather than a hair net.
Physical Changes DURING THE time you were birth, you may have noticed physical changes other than figure differences. Sometimes hair and skin are affected. If your complexion is dull or muddy, you'll find you can put your hospital
time to good advantage by turning to measures that will help restore its radiance.
A cleansing program may be
what vou need; or perhaps a facial of some kind is your answer Avoid waiting unti' you get
home and get the baby settled.
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By GAY PAULEY United Press Staff Correspondent
NEW YORK, July 17-— Five rice paper scrolls in hand-brushed Japanese set Mrs. Heatherly Dutton of
Avondale, Pa., apart from every other American woman. Four of the scrolls are degrees from two of the oldest floral decoration schools in Japan. The fifth is a license to teach, which makes her the first American woman ever: licensed to instruct the Japanese in their own 2,000-year-old art. Mrs, Dutton’s interest in oriental floral arrangements began some years before she ever got to Japan. She said, “I'd studied with one of the few teachers here and had
prepared through in-bed beauty routines to present an attractive appearance to visitors.
TWIN BEAUTY STEPS—Clean weil-arranged hair and fresh, glowing skin are the results of a dry shampoo (right) and a facial treatment nt-flef, which will give her a head start on beauty when
SDisHING THE DIRT
By MARGUERITE SMITH Times Garden Editor {
Q—Our raspberries seemed to| come through the winter with-| out damage. They blossomed well and had plenty of berries. Then even though we gave them | extra water, many of the berry | bearing canes turned yellow and! { the fruit dried up. Can you tell me what causes this? Suburban. -It is the all too common disease anthracnose. As soon as vou can do it, cut the diseased’ canes out, at ground level and burn or bury them. Do not
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7 leave them lying near the rasp-| berry planting. As soon as fruit has been gathered cut all! the old fruiting canes out at
ground level and dispose of them the same way. Early next spring you will need to spray your raspberries thoroughly| just as leaves begin to grow, and you may need a second] spray later. For exact direc-| tions and a discussion of the anthracnose problem or berries send to (or call) agent's office for Purdue University’s free leaflet No. 298.
guests of the Indianapolis Alum-| nae Chapter at 8 o'clock tomor-|
Mrs. Walter Klinge, 18 E. 40th St., will be hostess for the “Coke’’-card party.
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{won two or three awards for my jarrangements.”
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“ But even the judges weren't |too sure about oriental methods,” |she said. “I decided to go over and
© |find out for myself.”
Mrs. Dutton said that to Japanese women, flower arrangements are more than just ornaments for the home. They also have their symbolism, reflecting the Nipponese philosophy of life. As a result, every bowl of flow-
gq ers contains three fundamental
lines—a downward one for the arth, an upward one for the theavens, and a horizontal one for man. Every arrangement also con-
4 tains a sprig of evergreen, symbol
of everlasting life. Mrs. Dutton said American women usually stress color in flower arrangements and prefer to cut from their own gardens, Japanese women do neither,
*#% Their arrangements are monochromatic, and form and texture
{are more important than color.
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| “ Japanese women, she said, buy cut flowers from commercial igrowers. Those in their own gars dens are to be appreciated as nature grew them.
Mrs. Dutton said every Japa‘nese family has a garden to go \with the house, no matter how {humble either may be. {| If they can’t find a plot of 'ground, they bring the gardens |effect indoors by growing a bane \zai tree in the living room. She said her trip to the Orient convinced her that “gardeners are {like gourmets. They're interna{tionalists. In Japan, for instance, lall you need to do is let it be | known you're interested in gare dens and you'll be welcomed | where ever you go.”
Visits In Canada
Mrs. Rebecca Howe, 3909 N, Delaware St.,, is a guest at Jasper Park Lodge, Canadian Rockies, Alberta, Canada.
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