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AAUW Convention May Eliminate

Legislative

Midwest Delegations Against ‘Left-Wing' ATLANTIC CITY, N. J,

eliminate the present legislative program of the American Association of University Women will be voted on today at

the group's biennial convention,

Program

Back Proposal Leadership Apr. 12 (UP)—Proposals to

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The proposals, which would virtually unseat the present leader- | ship of the association, were backed by midwest delegations headed! by Mrs. Arno P. Nonweiler, Oshkosh, Wis., who said the legisla-!

tive program was “of the spendtype.”

more, give-away-more, tax-more|

Mrs. Nonweiler charged that prineipal speakers at the conven-|

tion's program on foreign relation n our foreign problems. We wan

8s gave “a very liberal viewpoint t to hear that side, but we also|

think the other argument should be presented.”

Another Oshkosh delegate, Mrs. Robert Murray, said her group believed there was “an unquestionably left-wing leaning among|

present leaders of the organiza-

tion.” She also expressed disap-

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Vassar Club |

proval of the legislative commit- . tee's lobbying activities in Wash- Elects Officers

ington.

Mrs. Albert Lang is the newly

The committee's chairman, Dr. elected president of the Indiana!

Hallie Farmer, head of the social Vassar Club.

science division of Alabama Col-|

Other new officers are Mrs

lege, Montevallo, Ala. deferded A. H. Northrup, vice president the legislative program and lobbty- Miss Cerene Ohr and Mrs. 8. A

ing for proposals.

| Robinson,

recording and cor-|

“When did anyone teach you responding secretaries; Mrs. Al} lobbving was the red badge of bert Seaton, treasurer, and Mrs.

infamy when you should wear it Frederic Krull, historian.

as a red badge of courage?’ she asked. “What is lobbying but fighting for what you believe is right?” Mrs. Josephine B. Glasgow, Albany, N. Y., former vice president of the North Atlantic Region, said it would be “easy to say we should! not become involvéd- in controversial matters,” but that the or-; ganization would

legislative program were abanjoned.

Sponsors Program The Robison - Ragsdale Unit, American Legion Auxiliary. will sponsor the-Sunday morning program at the Boys School. Plainfield. H. J. Pierson, director of public

slip badly in information service of the Chammembership and influence if the ber of Commerce, will show the,

movie. “American Heritage,” &t the 9:30 a. m. program.

The Mature Parent—

CONVENTION BOUND—Mrs. Robert H. Stone (left) and Mrs. Dan E. Flickinger, delegates from the Indianapolis Alumnae Association, Kappa Kappa Gamma Sorority, left this morning for the Delta Province convention in Bloomington. Highlights of the three-day event will be a banquet, election of officers, re ception and tea honoring province officers.

possibly can. One of the. real advantages

start out to look for-a position

been comfortably settled in the same one for a long time, that | the wisest thing for you to do | is to stay right there and let | a few carefully chosen business- | women or. schoolteachers come | to live with you. 8 | This idea is far from new, ¢ | but a good many of our greati grandmothers’ methods had | points. | A woman whose only training is to run a ‘house and to & | be a good hostess still has a E | business asset. She'll probably { do better by making the most | of it than by trying to branch £ | out in a brand-new field. | #8 ” | MANY WOMEN have turn-d a couple of rooms of their house i | Intg a shop. | We know one woman «in the midwest who has had a charm- | ing baby shop for years, carry- | ing everything from bootees to ¥ | complete layets, all in what was #¢ | once her sun porch. As she has | excellent taste and knows every- | one in town, she has done very | well and had the fun of buying | trips to New York besides. A divorcee runs a lingerie shop in a smart suburb and sup: plies all the young marrieds | | with their underpinnings, negli- ' gees and bathing suits. She has

Butler Ball Program Set

Guests at ROTC Fete Listed

Honor guests and the intermission program are announced

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THE BEST BET for the older woman who has suffered a great tragedy is to make her own job if she

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of this make-your-own job idea

is that you will escape the rebuffs that are probable when you . You'll have other troubles, to be sure, but they won't be quite so deflating as a constant reminder of the untruth that you're too old to be bothered with, It is quite possible, for instance, if you own a house or have

an elegant time while she does it, since her friends make Her shop a meeting place where they sit around and gossip. Hundreds of ‘women all over the country have done similar things with dress shops or gifi shops or antique shops or tearooms, some disastrously, to be sure, but more with surprising success. We have spoken of a lady who took charming kodachromes and prepared some lectures which she gives before church groups and women’s clubs. This is something we think more women could do in cities and towns all’ over the country, particularly if they choose as their own subjects their own town or city, photographing its beauties, its points of historical interest, and perhaps some of its curable flls. : ” ” ” CLUB CHAIRMEN are in perpetual need of new ‘programs, especially at a price lower than that brought by a Name. Almost any program chairman would see merit in educating the members of her club as to their own home town, and most of the women would like it, dona really well.

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Shortly before the war, Marjorie Hillis wrote a Wise and gay best-seller ‘called “Live Alone and Like It.” Then she became Mrs, Roulston, stopped living alone. After 10

married life, her husband recently died. Now she finds herself alone again, Here she writes about her new problems with wisdom, tact sense. This is the 11th of 12 articles from her new book, “You Can Start All Over,” just published by Harper & Brothers.

Mrs. Roulston

and common

Or you might photograph gardens — rock gardens or spring gardens or autumn gardens or rose gardens or all of them — and talk about them. This has the advantage of all-year-round interest, since garden clubs meet through the summer, when other clubs don’t. Also, you might interest the board of some impontant local institution in your own community in a really good illustrated lecture on the work it does, as a fund-raising plan. Such a lecture might be extremely useful in raising money for an old people's home, an orphan asylum, a camp for underprivileged children, a day

Reveal Slate

THURSDAY, APR. 12, 1951

: ! nursery, or whatever, if given before all of the church groups and women's organizations _ within reasonable distance. Many of the good old domestic arts, now practically dying out, hold possibilities for making money at home, occasion= ally, quite a lot of money. . ” - ~ A NUMBER of the largest candy businesses in the country, for -instance, started in the kitchen of some nice lady who made better fudge than her neighbors and needed a little extra income. There are bake shops and other food businesses with the same origin. Now that fewer and fewer people go in for old-fashioned home-cooked meals, there are endless schemes that a woman with a special flair for cooking might“turn to profit. Just look at the advertising pages of most of our magazines and see the number of mail-order businesses selling home-made jams, preserves, pickles, sausages, soups, salad dressings, and a dozen other things. ! In the cities, deliver-at-home * casseroles, private catering enterprises, and food specialties of all sorts and varieties bring in good profits. All this is true of other types of homecrafts — needlepoint, knitting, quilting, making beautiful bedjackets or luncheon mats, rugmaking, dressing or making dolls—the possibilities are endless.

TOMORROW—Your Poise Is Your Asset. :

Of Officers

| Club Schedules Election May 9

The slate of officers for the Ine

Misguided Sympathy Harms Children

By MURIEL LAWRENCE : NOT EVEN in our own minds, should

{dianapolis Branch, State Assemse {bly Woman's Club, was ane nounced at yesterday's meeting {by Mrs. Frank Millis.

by the Butler University Air! {Force ROTC for its second annual | military ball from 9 p. m. to midnight tomorrow in the Indiana

Dist

and complaints. i Too much “poor child” sympathy ‘from par- |

ow

we ever think of our child as a “poor child.” Especially in our own minds.

When 4-year-old Mary falls

knee. her mother isn't helping when she says: stone hurt my

“Poor Mary, did the bad old

baby?” Mary is not a baby and the stone she fell on is not bad. In addition to falsifying the facts, the misguided sympathy of Mary's mother has led to another mistake. She has impressed her child with a picture of herself as small, weak and helpless. Too many such pictures can become very convincing. ' . Mary's mother would have been wiser to kiss, comfort and give cheerful reassurance of her girl's ability to take good

Az Mary grows. she will meet sharper and

bigger stones.” If she has been regard herself as a victim of in

give her plenty of reasons to continue to feel

injured. Juvenile crimes like stealing

often due to children's overwhelming sense of deprivation, induced by their parents’ self-pity

Blackwood on Bridge—

- AS Mrs. Lawrence

and hurts her.

highly that we state of mind

privileged one.

mistake.

So do the authorities.

famous Biblical given. made them so care of herself. began to want brought up to and poor. juries, life will

ents is not likely to develop a youngster’s self- | assurance or appreciation for the good things they do possess.

IF THEY ARE loved, they are rich children. If we love them, we should value that gift so

find it easy to create a wealthy | for our young people. It is the

child who is not loved who is a poor and under-

To believe that our children’s sense of wealth depends upon our financial income is a tragic |

Mothers like Nancy Hanks, instilling |

strength, encouragement and cheer into the boy | struggling to read his books by the guttering candle in his log cabin, proves we are mistaken.

findings of mental hygiene

Svmpathy, you may recall, was what lost a

couple the garden they had been

Sympathy, you may remember, was what

sorry for themselves that they ‘their own svay. Sympathy was

what drove them to regard themselves as naked

If the Bible is not among your books on child guidance, it should be. y

When you have reread the story of what

and lying are bopks.

sympathy did for Adam and Eve, you might give that Bible the place of honor among those newer

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It's Best to Get Rid of Sure Losers First, Especially if You Are Playing No Trumps

WHEN YOU HAVE sure losers in your hand, it is always best to lose those tricks early. This is especially true at no-trump

contracts. In today’s deal Mr. Masters

couldn’t possibly win three heart

tricks. He had one loser in the suit’no matter how he played it.

He decided to let the enemy suit—and that turned out to be the key play on the hand. Mrs. Keen led the queen of clubs and her partner's king held the first trick. The nine of clubs was returned and Mr. Masters ducked this also, Mrs, Keen win-| ning with the 10 and leading a! third round of the suit. This Mr. Masters had to win and Mr. Abel discarded a small heart. _

One Suit Counted THAT WAS ONE suit counted —Mrs. Keen started with five clubs and Mr. Abel with two. There were only eight tricks in sight and the ninth one was possible either in spades or diamonds. At trick four Mr. Masters led a small diamond and put in

win the very first lead of that dummy's 10. Mr. Abel won with the jack and returned the queen of hearts. Here Mr. Masters made his key play. He let Mr. Abel win. Another heart was led and dummy'’s ace won. Now the king of diamonds was cashed and another diamond led to the ace. No luck. Mrs. Keen showed out on the third diamond lead, discarding a club.

Accounts for Another WELL, ANYWAY, THAT was another suit counted. Mrs. Keen had started with two diamonds and Mr. Abel with four. Mr. Masters next laid down his king of hearts and when Mrs.

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| South dealer |. Both sides vulnerable

NORTH Mr. Dale S—AQ 103 H— A l02 D—K 10 3 C—6 53 WEST EAST Mrs. Keen Mr. Abel S—J 965 S—38 2 H—6 5 H—QJ 973 D—8 2 D—QJ9%4 C—QJ1082 C—K 9 SOUTH Mr. Masters S—K 7 4 H—K 84 D—A 7635 C—A 714 The bidding: SOUTH WEST NORTH EAST 1D Pass 18 Pass INT Pass

3 NT All Pass |Keen showed out of this suit, too, dropping another club, the whole hand was crystal clear.

Mrs. Keen was known to have ~

started with five clubs and two cards in each of the red suits. Therefore, she had to liave exactly four spades.

Led Spade Ace i THEREFORE, MR. MASTERS led to the ace of spades and back to the king, in case one of Mr, Abel's two spades was the jack, Then he led a third spade and finessed dummy’s 10;- certain it would win. The queen of spades furnished the ninth trick. Note that if Mr. Masters had won the first heart he could not have developed this accurate count without risk. It was the lead of the third round of hearts which. furnished ‘the final clue to Mrs. Keen's distribution

Annual Dance Set The fifth annual Hadassah Debs’ dance will be held from 9 |p. m. to midnight Saturday in the | Spink-Arms Hotel, George Nico-

[loff’s orchestra will play. Miss | Phyliss Rappaport is chairman of the dance.

Wins ~ Mrs. elected vice

Election Runoff | Alvin C. Barbour was president of the

[Woman's Department Club yester-

day at a special election. for that office resulting from a tie-vote at the March meeting.

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By MARGUERITE SMITH Times Garden Editor Q.—Our garden soil looky like clay but it is very black as if it were rich. Yet every summer if it does not rain every week or so it dries up and big cracks come in the top. If ‘he

‘Roof Ballroom. Bill ‘orchestra will play. | During the intermission honor guests will be introduced, and special awards announced for coed sponsors who have assisted the Butler unit during the school year. Special guests will include Gov. and Mrs. Henry F. Schricker,

soil were really right it would | yrayor and Mrs. Phillip Bayt,

would not do this, would it? We

Maj. Gen. and Mrs. Daniel B.

have used some manure on the girickler, Brig. Gen. and Mrs.

garden but it does not seem to help this. Bridgeport. A.—Your ground sounds as if it were poorly drained and possibly in need of lime. Get a soil test to check on the limeneed. At the same time keep piling on and turning under all the organic .(once-living) matter such as leaves. lawn clippings. etc., you can get hold of. Also try mulching your crops— flowers. too—as soon as ground warms up in spring and the plants are at least a few inches tall. This will keep most of the moisture in the ground and prevent the cracking and consequent fast drying out of the soil. Send »!'l questions on eardening to Marcuerite ” Smith, The Indianapolis’ Times, IndiaMapolis 9, Ind.

Attend Concert In Rochester

Mesdames RB. P. Burke. Natalie

Conner and N. B. Brown have returned from Dayton. O. where they attended roncert of the Rochester, N. Y. Philharmonic Orchestra Friday. They visited Mrs. Burke's daughter, Miss Lauralee Burke,

harpist with the orchestra. She has been touring with the orchestra through Pennsylvania, West Virginia and Ohio the past two webks. She returned to Rochester Sunday where she is a sophomore at the Eestman School of Music. Miss ‘Burke visited Miss Carol Baum, Indianapolis, while in

Philadelphia for the concert there. Miss Baum is a harpist studying at the Curtis Institute of Music.

Thomas L. Hoban, Brig. Gen. and Mrs. Guy O. Kurtz, President M. 0. Ross of Butler and Mrs. Ross, Col. and Mrs. George F. Mitchell, Col. James G. Mackey and Mr. and Mrs. Wilbur Shaw,

Others Listed

Mr. and Mrs. Tony Hulman, Col. and Mrs. John H. Gibson, Col. and Mrs. William S. Pocock. Maj. and Mrs. Galvin Walker, Comdr. and Mrs. Paul D. Hinkle, Messrs. and Mesdames Victor Peterson, Arthur Lindberg and William E. Clarkson, Capt. and Mrs. Miles H. Hubbard, Lt. Comdr. and Mrs. John T. Barnett, Dean and Mrs. L. Gray Burdin, Dean of Women Elizabeth W. Durflinger, Miss MAlartha Coddington and Tommy D. Wadelton. Chaperones will include Lt. Cok. and Mrs. Ben K. Armstrong Jr., Maj. and Mrs. Leroy King, Capt. and Mrs. Robert Price, Capt. and Mrs. Edmond M. Haley, M. Sgt. and Mrs. R. V. Rentschler, T. Sgt. and Mrs. Ronald C. Mondor and S. Sgt. and Mrs. Howard Moeller.

DU Auxiliary Slates Bridge

The Auxiliary to Delta Upsilon Fraternity will meet for bridge at 2 p. m. Saturday in the home of Mrs. Donald G. Zimmerman, 4231 Melbourne St. Following the card party there will be a 6 p. m. dinner in the Hawthorn Room. Mrs, Robert F. Bauman is the new president of the organization. Other officers include Mrs. Beurt R. SerVaas, vice president, and Mrs. Ralph R. Hart, secretary-treasurer.

Club Holds Meeting A luncheon, business meeting and bridge were held today by the ON -EA -OTA Club. Hostesses were Mrs. Estle G. Strong and Mrs. Wayne E. Strong, 1348 N. Kealing Ave.

We, the Women—

Men Divided on Plan To Aid in Housework

By RUTH

MILLETT

THERE really ARE men who help with the house work and don't feel like hen-pecked husbands. They've been writing to me in answer to my recent

statement that IT would believe heard from them

such husbands existed when 1

instead of from their wives,

So on their own, a number of men have

can have -m

like it. One adm

to get dinner

Ruth Millett

written to say: “Sure. I help my wife with the housework.” A few say they help out so that their

wives can get a little rest or so that they

ore time together. But most

claim they help with the marketing, cooking, and other domestic chores

because they

its he Bats a kick out of com-

paring the grocery" ads and shopping around to see how much he can save on food costs. Another says he likes to cook and is glad

when his wife is tired or not in

the mood for cooking.

u a on 5 o un ANOTHER says he regularly baby-sits one night a week so that his wife can go to her bridge club and she does the baby-sitting alone the night he goes bowling.

And go it goes.

Apparently some men not only enjoy

sharing homemaking responsibilities, they are proud of the fact that they do, and don’t feel the least bit hen-pecked.

Their wives ar a number of men who wrote in

housework and never intended to.

job. One even claims he showed

just plain: lucky. Because there were also

to say they never had done any They feel that is the wife's

my original column to 26 differ-

ent men and didn't find one who thought a husband ought to

help around the house.

So. apparently the men themselves ar divided on the ques-

tion. And there's not much a

Either her husband likes to help her or he doesn’t.

to, he will,

wife can do about the matter. If he likes

If he doesn’t he takes the atitude that housework is her job and it’s up to her to get it done, . .:

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{ They are Mrs. Walter F. Kelly, president; Mrs. George Edick, vice president; Mrs. Judson West and Mrs. Cecil McConahay, recording and corresponding secretaries, and Mrs. Alembert Brayton, treasurer. ' The election will be May 9. Prof. Frank R. Barnett of Wabash College was speaker for the guest luncheon in the Marott Hotel.

Council of Women Group Sets Session

The annual meeting of the May Wright Sewall Indiana Council of Women next Thursday in tha Hotel Lincoln will feature a morning business session, luncheon and afternoon program. Reports of its affiliated groups and committees will take place at {the 10 a. m. session. Luncheon {reservations are being accepted

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