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FRIDAY, APR. 6, 1951

Organizations—

Two Alumnae

Groups to Sponsor Benefit Events This Week

Alpha Chi Omega Matinee Sunday; St. Mary's Group Plans Card Party

week.

- Two alumnae groups will sponsor benefit events this

A 2 p. m. matinee Sunday in the Carmel Theater will be sponsored for the spring philanthropic project of the Beta Beta chapter, Alpha Chl Omega Sorority. :

Mrs. Maurice W. Hayward,

chairman of ways and means,

will be assisted by Mesdames William B. Kimler, Joseph W, Dorrell Jr. B. T. Maxam, William Mullin, William R. Strauss, PaulT. Smith, John Meédaris, Richard B. Buschmann and Marshall

P. Crabill,

Mrs. Frederick C. Peaper and Miss Helen Egenolf, co-chair-man of the annual St. Mary’s Academy Alumnae card party, announce their committees for the Wednesday event in the Academy auditorium. Proceeds of, the party go to the

organization’s scholarship fund to

Marian College. Committee members include Mesdames Edgar Stizman, L. J. Feltman, Angelo Spadorcia, John Williams, W! . Roth, Edward W. Arszman, Chérles Teipen, Robert Garing, Norbert Booker, Franklin Hauser and Edward L. Yocum. Misses Bernice Waters, Margaret Marley, Magdalen Junker,

Jacqueline Oliger, Winifred Matthews, Norma Redmond, Kathleen O'Gara and Patricia McCormack. !

Luncheon Meeting ~~. | Frank R. Barnett, professor of

day in the Marott Hotel. Mem- |

bers may bring guests. :

The nominating committee, under the direction of Mrs. Frank

Millis, will report in Drepatalos

for the election of officers, May-9. Mrs. James Givens is chairman of the luncheon. i

A 6 p. m. dinner meeting will be

held Tuesday by the Indianapolis

Alumnae Association, Kappa Kap-

pa Gamma Sorority, in the Butler University chapter house. Wedgwood China will be discussed by Mrs. Kenneth Badger. The Iota Club is in charge of the program. Mrs. David Brewer and Mrs. Carson Donley are in charge of reservations. . Hostesses are Mesdames Dan Crichlow, Bert Cluster, Robert Knowles, Irwin Sedberry, Carlton Hamm and Dan Evans.

Trip at End

PLAN PARTY—Mrs. Norbert Booker (left) watches Miss Mar-

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English, Wabash College, will ad-| Mr. and Mrs. Roy Petty, Wynne. 94ret Mellen check the membership files of the St. Mary's Acad-

dress. the Indianapolis branch, dale Road, will return Tuesday | State Assembly Woman's Club, from a trip to New York, Vir-

at its luncheon meeting Wednes-|ginia and Maryland.

You Can Start All Over— - More Men Than Women Think of Remarrying

By MARJORIE H. ROULSTON

I SUGGEST that no men read this chapter. They won't believe it if they do, so it doesn’t really matter. For I start off with the statement that most widows and a good many divorcees don't want to remarry. Far more men are ready to try again and there ‘are those who keep on trying right up to the end. There are, Mrs. Roulston of course, some women who do this too. But quite a number of them do it from economic necessity, which has always been an unfortunate factor in too many m

Women have learned over the years that marriage is a lot of work—a succesful marjage, that is. Many women practically

« make themselves over to fit

their husbands’ picture of a Perfect Wife, and more at least make a try at it. There iS no more compensating job in the world when you do fit for the right man, but there is a limit to the num-

A lot of women take him and wish they'd left him. Even more take him and try to change him, a dim project when he’s young and a hopeless one when he isn’t. Perhaps I should add that a good many take him and are

. very glad they did.

» tJ 2 IN GENERAL, it can be said that the widower who has been happily married usually begins to “look around” fairly soon, while the widow not in crucial need of support thinks a long time first.

Those who were happy are afraid it can't happen twice. Those who weren't are afraid it can.

But mdny who have been widowed for some time will tell you that if you're going to marry again, you'd better do it in the first couple of years or pretty soon after.

We think they're right. In ‘he first difficult period of loneliness, you are more open-minded. The pattern of your life is so completely changed that you're at sea and your instinct is to get back to what it once was. You're used to doing everything as part of a couple. As time goes on, any woman is likely to dwell on, and perhaps to exaggerate, her husband’s best points and the

emy Alymnae for the organization's annual card party Wednesday

in the academy. Cards will be

| the evening.

played both in the afternoon and .

~Times Photo by Lloyd B. Walton

Shortly before the war, Marjorie Hillis wrote a wise and gay - best-seller, “Live Alone and Like It.” Then she became Mrs. Roulston. After 10 years of a happy married life, her husband recently died. Now she finds herself alone again. Here she writes of her new life with such wisdom and tact that she will help everyone who has a personal tragedy to face. This is the sixth of a series of 12 articles from her new book, “You Can Start All Over,” just published by Harper & Bros.

IF, HOWEVER, you have in mind a specific male you would like to pursue with serious intentions, our advice is to go right ahead. But it's a good idea to be a little less obvious than in your angling for a mere addition to your collection. Maneuver to see him as often as you like (or can), but do it with and through friends, with an occasional well-spaced exception. These exceptions are, of course, important and should, if possible, be in your own surroundings. After all, by the time you are a widow or divorcee, it is probable that the gentleman in-

The first list.of parties for the Sunnyside Guild card party next

ing Tuesday in the Old Trails Inn Friday afternoon in the Murat Temple is announced.

on Road 40, two miles west of Mrs. Herbert E. Baumeister's

the intersection of Roads 40 and man Gardner, John Heubi,’ 43. | Derra, Homer Huesing, Herbert Registration will be at 10 a. m.| Reichert, D. V. Bergstrom, H. R.! and luncheon at 12:30 p. m. The, Whitacre and E. R. Culler. Crawfordsville District will be hostess. Lawrence McKinney will be man, Clara Harrell, Herbert Roe-

v C. Ent, James McCoy, Buck-

‘Karl Stipher, Thomas Eickhoff, Paul |

Whitten, L. W. Nehill, Walter

{Malon, Louis Schmidt, Lewis Guests of Mrs. Kurt W. Schmidt Grabhorn, Herbert Hartman,

will be Mesdames W. H. Brink-| Walter Pritchard and Robert ! Williams,

guests will be Mesdames Russel Williams Jr., James R. McNutt, Harr -

{Sauer and J. W. Judy. il Others holding reservations for

all marriages made after mistyeyed youth are merely con-

genial and made for compan- |

ionship only. Companionship is important at any age, but so is romance and the latter is not unattainable up to a pretty good age. Actually, the years should bring increasing wisdom and understanding of what is necessary to make a happy marriage. And happy marriages are made; they don't just happen. The older you are, the more you know the value of a happy marriage and the sorrow when a marriage ends. You are readier to make the sacrifices that have to be made and more appreciative of the rewards. If you do remarry, I don't go , 80 far as to say that you should ban all mention of your former husband and your life with him from your conversation, which would be unnatural and a definite strain. But I do say you should discuss them seldom and casually. And certainly you should never put a comparison into words and should keep it from your mind as far as is humanly possible. Then, I have a deep conviction that if you do go to the

Jordan, S. E. Dinnin, M G. Grif-

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botham, T. A. Tockterman and J. C. Arnold.

Guests of Mrs. R. L. Martin will ||

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