Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 3 April 1951 — Page 4

PUBLIC relations is a gruelling game. Many men have stepped up to bat only to strike out. Here there's a woman who has entered the field and emerged successful. Public relations counselor, Mrs. Florence Herz Stone, is one of a kind in Indianapolis, probably in the state. That is itself an accolade. The Indianapolis Alumnae Chapter, Theta Sigma Phi, hational professional - journalism fraternity for women, added to it last night by electing Mrs. Stone its president. ; Mrs. Stone is the first to admit her job means hard work. Requirements? “A rugged physique and strong nerves,” she specifies. “But,” shé adds hastily, “there are compensations.” Harboring no fondness for routine, she & oroughly enjoys the wide array of her acts. Of course being her own boss keeps her

. call” constantly. publes as Office THE DINING ROOM of her apartment at 3015 N. Pennsylvania St. doubles as her office. Until “help” became a World War II casualty, she had downtown headquarters. She types out material for fulltime accounts, outlines special campaigns, covers all kinds of conventions, even edits magazines and official publications, and contacts both newspapers and radio stations. Through the years she’ s thought in terms of

month.

Press Club, Sorority.

By Sorority

yn Chapter Sets =TConvention Dates

+ "Bound Together in Fraternity”! & will be the theme for the 12th ¢ Delta Province convention of ~ Kappa Kappa Gamma Sorority. Apr. 12:14 .at the Indiana Uni-|- « versity chapter house, Blooming-| - ton. i The Delta Chapter will be host-. .. ess to active and alumnae dele- =~ gates from Michigan State Coli lege, the University of Michigan, « Hillsdale College, Purdue, De-

* Pauw, Butler and Indiana Uniu .; versities.

% Elec ct New Officers

An election of province officers] ~ will be held. A reception, tea and + banquet will also highlight the « program. !

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Z Among those attending from strokes. :: here will be Mrs. Royer K. Brown, | ? Carmel. province vice president; | Academy Class of 36 + Mesdames E. M. Schofield, M. H. R «'Reasoner, Robert H. Stone, Dan Arranges eunion .

4 E. Flickinger, H. Norris Cotting- «+ ham and John R. Brayton.

of St. John's

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ONE OF A IND: Florence Herz Stone is Veianapolis! only, woman 7? public relations counselor.

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Woman Public Relations Counselor Says Conventions Are Biggest Thrill

everything from art to flowers to medicine. “Often I run a vacuum cleaner while I'm thinking through an idea.” Conventions are her biggest thrill. moves into the hotel where they are being. held, and in the organization of women works her hardest and never knows what news Workers (Frauen-Arbeitskiels).

is going to break. Once she covered five in a

she comments. Then she

Began in Depression

THOUGH Mrs. had planned to teach, her first job after two years in Wilson College, Chambersburg, Pa., graduation from Indiana University, Seymour Tribune. Her real start in public relations came during the depths of the depression when she combined the rearing of

Stone. a Logansport native, and was on the

organized safety paAfter a three-year job,

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treasurer, and Mrs,

By MARJORIE H. ROULSTON A WIDOW or divorcee may be entitled to be a weeping willow for a time, but ‘there comes a day when feeding on memories is an indulgence. It also is an imp9sition on friends and family. And it helps no one at all— certainly not the person who . has gone out of your life. { This doesn't mean to throw i overboard, all at once, the props { that have been supporting you. But, in your own mind. recognize the fact that it is time to i face the future, not as a dreadi ful fate,’ but as something vou can make useful and interesting. There is a thrill in making "a life of your own, as there is in doing anything eise that is creative. We are not pretending that this life you make for yourself alone will have the deep i underlying happiness of a life | you make for someone you care | about. But eventually, ld. making it alone ar that very fact will be stimulating and you will find that you can make it very interesitng i. indeed.

Time Passes Fast

YOU WILL need friends or relatives. But you'd better realize from the start that the ones who help you won't be the ones you expected. Nothing surprise . you more than

when you are

real trouble—except who isn't | right there.

| The weeks after your loss are

wy Xe Mud in®

going to seem endless to you, but ‘to other people, time is passing with the terrifying

| rapidity of ordinary days.

Besides, to be honest, haven't

| you ever slipped up in this re-

spect? If not, you're among the really remarkable people of this world.

Blackwood on Bridge—

Leader in Social Work in Germany

THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES

Mrs. Fichte To Arrive Thursday

Mrs. Helen Fichte of Coburg,

Bavaria, will arrive in Indianap-) jolis Thursday for a five-day study lof local social agencies and wom-| .en’s organizations. i Her visit is sponsored by Te) , Women's Bureau of the U.-S. De-| partment of Labor in co-operation with the State Department and nine national women's organiza-| tions. The Indianapolis Branch, Amer-| ican Association of University Women, will be the official hostess for Mrs. Fichte while she is here.

Ned Cross Leader

Mrs. Fichte is one of a selected

group of German women leaders participating in an exchange pro-, gram as a part of the democratic) reorientation of the occupied coun-| jries.

The women are brought to this

i, in order that they may have a broad and sympathetic {understanding of American life land that they may learn 2 uD

the programs of nongovernmental lorganizations.

At home Mrs. Fichte is engaged

in social work in Bavaria ‘work-|

ing particularly with the aged,

children and refugees.

She is a

leader of the Bavarian Red Cross|

‘panied by Mrs.

Thursday Mrs. Fichte, atcom-|

W. A. McKinzie, |

will go to Flanner House. Miss] Helen = Hollingsworth of Ayres’|

nd unaided. doctor's. -

will Friday AAUW members who have been! active in the book and toy project.

Full Schedule

tivities at the YWCA with Wilbur

study Welfare program.

be hostess for a for Mrs.

luncheon Fichte and

Attending will be Mesdames

Howard Quackenbush, Carl} two children with writing. ‘Arnold, Howard Peckham and! She also served as the first woman deputy [Robert Juday. sheriff of Marion County, trols in- county schools. 1937-40. with the. Indianapolis Convention Bureau, she first opened her downtown office. A former president of the Indiana Woman's she also belongs to Pi

Mrs. Ben Poer,|

AAUW pre-school education: chairman, will discuss her group's program with the German guest Friday afternoon.

she will observe ac-| Mrs. Miss!

Saturday

Appel as hostess.

meeting Harriet Bury of the Health and in the Indianapolis Press Club are Miss Jean Welfare Council will take Mrs.|

Tabbert, vice president: Mrs. Paul Pavey, secre- Fichte to Columbus Monday to tary; Miss Patti Donnelly,

John E. Kleinhenz, archivist.

the Bartholomew County

STATE DAY CHAIRMEN—The Indianapolis Athletic Club will be Gamma Sorority. Putting tickets in order for the luncheon and dance are three chairmen, dance, and Mrs. Clarence A. Wacker, luncheon (left to right).

The Mature Parent—

Probe of Crime Helps Expose Immorality Effectively to Children |

By MURIEL LAWRENCE WE CAN USE the Kefauver Committee's revela-

tions to show our children

the kinship between moral corruption and catastrophe. You could preach for weeks and fall t0 oon make the case for moral integrity as effectively as it has been made for us by the h aunte 4d, i '% strained faces Ei of the committee’'s witnesses as they have shown themselves in our newspapers, and on newsreel and television screens. Tonight at dinner, why don’t you recreate for your growing youngsters the emotions that must have beset these morally bankrupt men with the big bank accounts?

Mrs. Lawrence

Bros.

Theme Listed Designing Woman You Can Start All Over— ? | A, Don't Feed on Your Memories

Shortly before the last war, Marjorie Hillis wrote a wise and gay best-seller called “Live Alone and Like It.” Then she became Mrs. Roulston, stopped living alone. After 10 years of happy married life, her husband -recently died. Now she finds herself alone again. He.e she writes about her new problems with such wisdom and tact she will help everyone who faces a personal tragedy. .This is the third of 12 articles from her new book, “You Can Start Al Over,” just published. by Harper &

Mrs.

Roulston

your friends , and most won't be as ox xd as your

At this stage, will be full of adv of i

‘Need a Drink’ THE LINE you will hear most-often is: “What you need is a drink.” Well, maybe you do, sometimes, but you probably don't. need two and you certainly don’t ‘need three. The knowledge that you were seen lurching into the dining room not very long after your husband died will make you feel much worse than anybody else. As to the divorcee, one drink too many .- may start people saying, “He had to let her di-

.vorce him—she took to drink-

ing.” ‘A Poor Idea’ IT IS NOT, however, to go strictly by that old saw about

the _evils* of drinking alone, once you are really alone. This may be the time when you do

too Long

need a drink. Those first dinners all by yourself can be pretty grim and one cocktail, or even two, will help and won't start you on the downward path. To be impolitely frank, you are probably a little hard to take just now. There is no use in pretending that you are as much fun, or as interesting, or even as attractive as usual. On some days, even if you're young, you feel at least 90 and are certain that you look it, and no one cares much about you anyway, which doesn't make you a very gay companion. : Just Be Yourself

YOUR FIRST step is to be as normal as possible. Not

. being a figure of sorrow isn’t

enough. Don’t be a martyr or a brave little woman either. Talk about the subjects that everybody else is talking about, not about yourself and, above all, not about your bereavement.

Don't wear mourning too

—tong, just how long Is another

personal matter. There has been a radical change {. the way most people look at this question.

‘Mourning Never Shiny’

THE TRUTH is that mourning is almost universally unbecoming. It's quite another thing from that smart little black number you've always liked, brightened by.your gold jewelry and topped off by a shiny black straw hat. 4 Mourningyts never shiny. You might just as well wear a bright red dress as a _ bright black satin one, in so far as mourning is concerned. Actually, you probably will mourn a long, long time, but it is more civilized not to look it throughout the whole period.

TOMORROW: Be Sorry.

Be Busy or

Mr. Muzzy Provides a Demonstration

the Sink

six clubs,

Chak Mager oye)

GTON STREET

MR. MUZZY HAS learned about the Lightner slam double and But wait a minute.

8.No Mess in De louses it up just as he louses up all bridge gadgets, no matter the second trick coming from? { This double asks partner to make an unusual

how good they are, rather than a “normal”

opening lead against a slam bid.

Where was

Unfortunately, there was no

good answer to that question.| Listening carefully -to—the-bidding,~Mr. Champion had decided Finally Mr. Muzzy led back a

that he was going to lead the nine of spades against a six club con- club, Dummy’s ace won and Miss

-|tract. See what the result of this

would have been.

that

trump leads.

Chanaoes Mind

MR, MUZZY could have ruffed the first heart lead and cashed : the king of spades for the setting

trick.

(his mind. -Now the spade looked too ‘“‘normal.” could Mr. Muzzy be asking for?

The choice lay between hearts

and diamonds. Did Mr. Muzzy

she would

—But—whenr- Mr—Muzzy—dotbted- CdSe Mr. Champion changed lead What lead

South dealer ‘Miss Brash would have played Neither side vulnerable the ace from dummy and it is iyvery probable have then cashed the ace of clubs and tried to reach her hand with the ace of hearts for further

NORTH

Mr. Abel S~AQ"7 H-KQ92 D-AKJ86 C—A WEST EAST Mr. Champion Mr. Muzzy 83 S—K J1042

C—KQJ1075

have a void suit in diamonds? A The bidding: 80, the opponents held 11 cards SOUTH WEST NORTH EAST|

in that suit. Very unlikely: Idea abandoned. Did Mr, Muzzy hold ace-king of diamonds over dummy’'s queen. If {If so, he was likely to win two {diamond tricks no matter what {Mr. Champion led.

Only One

HEARTS lookeds far more the jack of hearts. |

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to her hand

Let the young consider what these weeks have meant in terms of shock at the revelation that the power-money god could not help. Let them give thought to the mounting panic, the waiting, the lost hope and the despair as the big shots with the big bank accounts were thrust into the blaze where truth shriveled them down to size. Then say, “Wise men do not build their houses on the shifting sand of self-importance, dishonesty and deceit. They build them on the rock of personal integrity. Then when the storm

%. comes, they eye it calmly, with-

out fear, without hate, without evasion. Don't quibble. These were disobedient men. It won't hurt Bill or Janet one bit to hear that disobedience to rightful authority brings suffering. Because it is the will to power. Because it is an act of selfsegregation from the rest of us who obey. Because it is selfinterested. Because it is anarchy.

Saturation Point THE SENATE Crime Investigating Committee has done us an invaluable service by expos-

" confusion.

. straightening out,

TUESDAY, APR. 3, 1051

the scene Saturday for the annual state day activities of Delta Mrs. J. M. Reeder, tickets; Mrs. Robert Fatout,

Guild Lists Activity Chairmen

ing an immorality so corrupt that we are revolted. We are rapidly reaching a saturation point in revulsion from ime morality, from treason trials and the whole complex mess that has been made by ethical

ways Foundation Guild president, | nas announced the appointment {of chairmen for the guild's ac tivity program. { They are Mrs. Harry Mallinson, {commissary service; Mrs. Richard |T. James, luncheons; Mrs. Charles 'J. Trees, house, and Mrs. Ralpha Spaan, garden. Mrs. Ross G. T. H. Cox, library and magazines; | Mrs. Douglas B. Hill, sewing; Mrs, Clarence Efroymson, handicraft; Mrs. Harry Reid Jr., entertainment; Mrs. Robert Hamilton Sr, housing, -and Mrs. Cleon H. Foust, Iclerical.

When we reach the saturation point, we are going to demand back our moral and | spiritual certainties. This explosion of Sen. Kefauver's facts into public view is a wholesome experience for us. Our children like money too much. They put too much trust in it. They need straightening out. They need a concrete lesson. That is it. And we parents need a bit of | too, if the truth must be told. We've got ‘to start questioning the wisdom and interest of those who say. “Handle evil in your child tenderly. Don’t tell him he’s told a lie. Call it ‘imagination.’” The greatest advocate-of love that ever lived dealt. sternly with evil. Jesus spoke to it with the authority of love, Let's stop being tender with evil | wherever it shows itself—in me, She said. in you, in our children and in | A series of educational seminars the man in the place of power. 'ts scheduled for guild members.

‘Seminars Planned

According to Mrs. Crumpacker work of the guild will be confined to improving facilities and aclcommodations at the hospital, 11800 E. 10th St., and in a public relations program. While guild members would not be in contact with hospital patients the work they would do will affect beneficially the homelike atmosphere in which patients live |during their stay at the hospital,

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