Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 4 February 1951 — Page 18
PAGE 18,
Make Mi ine Success
M -t Acco:
Diplomacy and Deaf. Ear Best Treatment for Rumor Mongers
By BEATRICE VINCENT " BUSINESSMEN, ON THE WHOLE, are surprisingly
sentimental,
Dozens of otherwise hard-headed buyers deal with
moth-eaten little dress houses on
Seventh Ave. in New York
gimply because their stores have always dealt with them and it would be unthinkable to pass them by:
The manager of a thriving auto parts
company in a large
city keeps his wife's white lace wedding handkerchief sealed in a
test tube in his desk drawer where
while.” It is not strange, therefore, to find that the boss, bless his little heart, sets his 'rosecolored spectacles firmly on his nose and resolutely regards his company, or nis office, or his department as One Big Happy Family. In most cases this is far from the truth. Back-fence type gosgip, spitefulnéss, tale-bearing, jealousy-—all the miserable little sins that we like to think were committed only by smallminded, small-town women of another generation turn up with shocking regularity in the business world. And don’t for one minute think they are the special and private property of the busi“nesswomen. You probably know. legions of businessmen who should be fed from a saucer under the kitchen table. To do them justice, however, most businessmen have a nice,
he can bean at it once in a What every business girl should know-<«and won't find in her ‘textbooks ~i8 here put into fively and practical advice by Beatriee Vincent. Miss Vincent is fashion coordinator for the May Co. in Cleveland and an. expert personnel eounselor. She conducts courses that have shown many businesswomen how to be successful, happy . . . and remain feminine in a man's world, This is the third of six articles from her book, “Make Mine Sucess,” appearing weekly in The Indiangpolis Sunday Times women's Section.
Miss Vincent
Passion Flower perfume, and the devotion of someone in the front office. There' is no particular reason for discussing her moral delinquency with all and sundry. The way in which she earns her rent is entirely her own business. In fact, you might remind yourself once in a while that gossiping, even when the gossip is true, is likely to tear large holes in your own personality. Even when you refrain from gossiping ahout the Harem Favorite, as you refrain from gossiping about anyone else, it is only prudent to keep always before you the fact that she is dynamite, She has the ear of the boss, and what she pours into it has more weight with him than the considered opinion of the board of directors.
Play Ball
so much but the
I HATE to sound like Mrs, Machiavelli,
“best way to get along with the
Harem Favorite is to play ball with her. In most cases that is not at all difficult. You will find that most Harem Favorites are quite like other women, Their natures do not change with the acquisition of an apartment and an aging admirer, One is intelligent; one is stupid. One 1s kind and generous; one is malicious and stingy. But whatever her personality,
. company personnel
- THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES :
ished Cossipers Are T. quently the Worst W- kers
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‘Bosses can be sentimental.’
in stepping into elevators, push open heavy doors for you. But don't expect them to hold your chair when you seat yourself at the desk, or to leap nimbly to their feet everytime you enter the office. If you are obliged to pop in and out all day, the male members of your would be
woman's weapon, the successful businesswoman does not employ it. The momentary feeling of elation it affords is hardly worth the bitterness it engenders in its victims. You can climb higher and faster in the business world without it.
Cultivate the habit of cheer-
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Musicale
Event Scheduled Wednesday Night
Sigma Alpha Iota Patroness | Club. will hold a. formal guest {musicale at 8 p,.m.. Wednesday. It will be in .the Jordan Music “|College women’s dormitory, N. Delaware St.
Welcoming guests and members
{will be Mrs, Earl R. Briggs, presi- {| dent; igma Alpha Iota Foundation ha- } onal board member; Mrs. Law- || Smith, ' National | Federation of Music Clubs state | president; alumnae chapter president, and! Mrs. Alan Judkins, Zeta Chapter, president.
Mrs. Claire McTurnan, |
Parke
Mrs. Carl B. Moore,
Mrs. David Hughes has ar-
ranged the program, featuring] active members of Zeta Chapter. ! It includes one act of “Madame Butterfly” with Miss Patti Brown and Miss Beth Hilton.
Director
Directing ‘will be Miss Leola | rner, Jordan Music College!
Opera Workshop director.
Incidental selections will be
[played by Miss Peg Carpenter, |
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arpist, and Miss Rozan Baldwin, | Miss Liane Byfield, pla-
utist. ist, will present a varied pro-
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