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“Traders Point Hunt

Ball Is Staged In Meridia Hills

Ballet and Children's Museum Dinner Are Highlights of Social Scene

By KATY ATKINS ARD MEMBERS of the Children's Museum had a dual purpose dinner at the museum Wednesday as they celebrated the museum's silver anniversary and entertained Dr. Herman Shibler and the school commissioners board. Mrs. Louis Bruck, the commissioners’ representative on the museum board, was hostess at one of the tables. Appropriately, Mrs, Walter Hiser, in charge of decorations, used material from the museum for the tables. Groupings of Spanish and Portugese figures stood on silver plaques in the center of each one. Greenery on either side served as a forest for charming glass animals blown by a staff member. These included giraffes, ostriches, reindeer and dinosaurs. The buffet table was centered with a much larger pair of Estonian figures made in a DP camp. Henry Peirce, new board chairman, and Betty, of course, were among those on hand, as were Mrs, Russell Ryan, Mrs. Eli Lilly, Mrs. Richard Lieber and Bud and Mary Stewart Adams, It was in the old home of Mary Stewart's grandmother, Mrs. John Carey, that the museum came into existence and | was housed for many years. That afternoon Betty

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of silver sequins down the front of the skirt. The bodice had an off-shoulder line with bows at the shoulders. Mabel Heslar wore white. She and Dorothy Bookwalter were in charge of the “potluck” supper at the hunt house. Friday night when Christmas greens made it look very festive,

* * Holiday Trips | EAVING last Sunday for South America were Mr. and Mrs. R. Hartley Sherwood. They will spend Christmas with their daughter, Mrs. J. W. Klumpp, and her family. They live in Sao Jose where Mr. Klumpp is professor of metallurgy in the new Brazilian Aeronautical Technical Institute. Miss Florence Lynes has returned to her home in St. Louis after a visit with her niece, Mrs. Garvin ‘Brown, and Mr. Brown. The Browns are spending Signs in . Summit, /with their daughter, Nod J and her

family. They /motor on the

22d. Mr. apd Mrs. Albert EOPLE at the Traders Coffin are going that day to

Point Hunt Ball in New York bs with Don.

Meridian Hills last night je were greeted by. effective HE E X0 DU S to

decoration in the front hall. A Bldomington to see

prancing horse figure was ; : bedecked with a wreath and performances of the Sad ler's Wells ballet this past

ribbons in the hunt colors. These were attached to the wegk again pointed up’ our doorway above, from which need for an auditorium. Those hunting horns hung. who made the trip were amThe tables in the dining ply rewarded. room were arranged to give - It was fun in Bloomington the effect of one big one and to see the lighted Christmas were covered with pale blue trees before the auditorium Fach table had a # making a fairyland-like setfrilled colonial bouquet of ting. Mr. and Mrs. Albrecht wine and pink carnations and Kipp and the Fred Shumakers natural boxwood accented went Tuesday night as did with a touch of silver.

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Mrs. Atkins

Keys for the last day of the

for the benefit of the local branch of the Leader Dog League. It was a delightful

One of the most attractive outfits shown was a skirt of white yarn accented with bands of black velvet, worn with a black jersey. Glimpsed in the audience on Wednesday were Mrs. Roy Elder Adams, Janet Brown, Jean Rugg, Betty Quinn, Evy Cadick and Harriet Cain.

Hunt Ball Held

& charming background for the women’s beautiful gowns, traditionally red, white, black or gray. Betty Ruckelghaus wore gray satin with panels

and Sandy Holliday, Estelle and David Chambers, Mrs. Hortense Rauh Burpee, Mrs. Ruth Murphy and Mrs. Willam J. Young.

Dr. and Mrs. G. H. A. Clowes, This Victorian setting was Mrs. Charles Latham, Carol -

So. You re Having. a

Mother-to- Te Should Spurn Nonprofessional Advice

Pregnancy Normal, Not an lliness

By ANNA ROOSEVELT and DR. LEO DOYLE

OUR reaction to pregnancy will depend on many factors. You can

be certain that the response will differ from’ your sister,

. your friend or that of the

girl next door. ’ No two persons react exactly in the same way, and right from the start don’t judge your emotions in terms of others’, ,, even the author’s. Some girls weep when they find themselves pregnant, and others laugh. Each may do so for different reasons. One

"This article e begins a sixpart series to appear in The Sunday Times’ women's pages. It presents thoughtful, practical advice on the physical and emotional aspects of pregnancy—material of value to the prospective father as well as the expectant mother. Condensed from the recent: hook, “Your Pregnancy,” the articles have been written by a famous mother, daughter of the late President, and by a specialist in childbirth. Dr. Doyle is a former professor of obstetrics and gynecology at the University of California.

may cry from Joy or from disappointment. So it is with laughing; it may signify happiness -or anxiety. But either event is a normal reaction to a rather profound change in one's biological status. That is what we wish to emphasize; the reactions we talk about are the ones encountered in the majority of women. To begin with, we have to accept the fact that pregnancy, labor and delivery are normal functions of the human race. They are not illnesses or diseases. Pregnancy is an extremely satisfying experience for most women and many feel happier than at any other time. But just because it is a thrilling experience to the majority doesn't mean that every girl is happy about being pregnant. She may not want to be pregnant at this time. It may also be uncomfortable, annoying or occasionally frightening. All of this may occur in the same individual for reasons that are normal for her. No girl or woman is abnormal because heér pregnancy isn’t like a nine months’ Christmas party, and the doctor or writer who trims up pregnancy like a Christmas tree is not fair to his patient.

Basic Drive PREGNANCY as a personal experience is usually a pleasant episode. The process of reproducing need not be uncomfortable or unpleasant. Pregnancy and delivery are the first of a woman's contri-

‘ butions to her biologic func-

tion. The rearing of the child to“ take its rightful place in society is the second and most important part of her function. Pregnancy can be a most

Clothe-A-Child's Mrs. Santa Claus Bring s

Merry Christmas to Underprivileged Tofs

By JEAN TABBERT “YOU'RE ONE woman in a million...” ; The remark made by a

thousands of Indianapolis

walifs: regard ‘Mrs. Carrie Shaw,

Silyer-haired, jovial Carrie

fs the Mrs. Santa Claus of

Clothe-A-Child; The Indian-

apolis Times’ Christmas fund

which last year clothed 2179 underprivileged children. The switchboard operator at The Times for 19 years, until four

years ago she was the only fulltime staff shopper. Now Mrs. Albert Gough shares the load. This year celebrating her 20th anniversary with the

charity, Mrs. Shaw recalls the days when Clothe-A-Child was just a baby and operated from the editorial room. The infants gathered there before the shopping sprees, Afterwards, soft hearted reporters never had “Coke” or candy money for themselves. Their nickels and dimes somehow found

pitiful children. Many even left their typewriters and went along to shop. / Many Memories MRS. SHAW has a stord

. % tsp. cream of tartar

~~. four or five ports. Make into rolls and ~ mon. Let set in a cool place until solid and slice.

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A newcomer to the family. He presents problems before and after his arriv. al—but none which can. _not be met intelligently.

satisfying and gratifying episode, for by recreation you are able to achieve a most important accomplishment. This feeling of accomplishment is a basic and fundamental drive in all of us, Fear, Anxiety ALL OF pregnancy ig not Joy and happiness, as we have indicated. Every girl who becomes pregnant has some apprehensions. This is justifiable in many instances. Everybody has some fear when faced with the unknown. The woman who becomes pregnant is entering an experience about which she

knows little, especially with her first child.

It is this encounter with the unknown that causes most of the apprehension and anxfety in pregnancy. As we all know, a certain amount of wondering about what is going to happen occurs constantly in ouf everyday life. For instance, a visit to the dentist calls forth a lot of imagining as to whether we will have pain as a result of the visit. And so it is with pregnancy. Heed Doctor MOST OF you have heard a great deal about this business of having a baby. All of your friends and family have told you tales of what one should expect of pregnancy, labor and delivery. Intellectually you may reject some of the stories teld by friends, but the words of your mother and immediate family are a little difficult to ignore. After all, close members of your family have been giving you a great deal of advice for many years, ever since you were born. Then on whom should you count for advice on accepting or rejecting all you are told? This “person” is your doctor. He is the one who has had previous difficulties trying to teach his patients to

be careful about the lay information they receive during their first pregnancy.

Open Mind MOTHER, and even the

prehensions without having any idea they are doing so. It's hard for some to believe but there is a great difference between “experiences” of the layman and actual medical © and psychological knowledge. It is unfortunate that many mothers have had unpleasant pregnancies, labors and unhappy marriages. For them reproduction “is woman's cross to bear.” This attitude is to be deplored in the strongest possible manner. Keep an open mind about all advice—it may be wrong! Don’t let the unhappy experiences of anyone, your mother, your sister or your friends, determine your attitude and reaction to pregnancy, unless

Our Readers Write—

v'girl- friend,” can-create ap--

you have checked them with your doctor,

Right Atmosphere YOUR personality, and that of any individual, is largely formed during infancy and childhood. The adult years add little to the character developed during that period. It is for this reason that your child should be born into the most favorable emotional surroundings. The atmosphere in’ which our early growth takes place decides more than anything

else the type of adult we will be.

Wordsworth said, “The

- child is father to the man,”

and recognizing the full meaning of this statement is the first step toward understanding ourselves.

Child Needs Love

THROUGHOUT a child's early life he has a tremen-

The doctor is the best person from whom to accept dvi, As to others the authors suggest, "Keep an open mind about ‘all advice. It may be wrong.'

dous need for security, stabil.

ity and love. A certain degree of discipline is necessary, for he will live in a“world of law and order which requires discipline; but it must grow out of” intelligent reason rather than emotional outburst, It must contain affection and understanding; and it must never be simply for the convenience of the parents. Only under the influence of A parental attitude of this kind will a child be able to

develop the best that is in’

him. Only in such an atmosphere will he become prepared to take fullest advantage of his later, more formal educational opportunities,

NEXT SUNDAY: The Husband's Role Is Important, Too.

ORW Member Wanis a Chocolate Cake Recipe, German Icing; Any More Yule Cookies, 5 Condy?

WELCOME AGAIN to ORW. New members join ORW every day Jy sending a card or letter to The

Indianapolis Timés. A corner of The Times written

by its readers, the column offers help, information and ideas to homemakers,

This week Mrs. Donna Kessler, Kempton, wants a choeco-

late cake recipe with ining made from f3erman sweet chocolate. Does someone have one to exchange? We hope more Christmas candy and. cookie recipes will be *ybmitted as we have had a number of requests for them, ‘ » » - ” ~ DEAR ORW: How can I hang a medicine chest on a lath where nail holes already have been pierced? - Is thers some mechanism hat an be used to-hang the Shoat? Miss QO. P.

DEAR ORW: mn answer to Mrs. Carl Fischer’ 8 "request for a cinnamon candy recipe, here Is one I iike very much. I enjoy your column immensely. Hope it continues for a ‘long time.

— Mrs, F. F. Dix, Cambridge City.

CINNAMON ROLL Cook very slowly one-half pint coffee cream and two cups . sugar. Do pot stir after the mixture starts to boil. Cook until it forms a soft ball in cold water. Let cool, before beating. Then knead in the cinnamon. You will have to use your own judgment as to amount of cinnamon. Make candy into a roll and slice or make into balls. 3 » = . » r . DEAR ORW: I enjoy Our Readers Write column very much and get some helpful suggestions. I am enclosing a recipe for cinnamon candy for Mrs. Carl Fischer. My family and friends enjoy it very much, Mrs. J. F. K. CINNAMON LOAF CANDY 2 c, granulated sugar 2 thsps. butter 1 c. coffee cream 1 tsp. vanilla 1 tbsp. vinegar = €. pecans (broken up)

vinegar and cream of tartar until water. Add vanilla and let cool until nuts and beat until it hardens. Divide into roll each one in elana.

Boil sugar, cream, butter, it forms a soft ball in cold ‘barely warm. Add nuts

' Other nuts besides pecans may be ged if they are pre | ferred. ] Sud stieFing wall sugar J in diesovea makes a cream-

Suey, making as the Chtisimus bolilays draw near.

Sift together and add last the following ingredients:

51% c. flour 1 tsp. soda

2 tsps. baking pe powder

1 tsp. cloves

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15 tsp. salt

Cream the shortening; add sugar, beaten eggs and cream, fruit and nuts. Beat well. Add the dry ingredients. Shape in balis and press down on greased cookie sheet or spread and cut in squares. Bake in 375 degree oven, 10 to 12 minutes. OATMEAL AND CORN FLAKE COOKIES :

1 c. brown sugar 1 ¢. granulated sugar 1 c. shortening * 2 eggs

2 ec. flour Soften the: shortening and blend in the sugar,

remaining ingredients.

1 tsp. soda - 1 tsp. baking powder 2 c. corn flakes 1 ¢. coconut 1 tsp, vanilla Mix in

Shape in small balls on greased cookie

sheet and press down with fingers or fork. Bake in moderate

oven.

She Wants Some Ching

DEAR ORW: I would like to buy cups and saucers, vegetable dishes, etc., in Booths silicon china, Ceylon

ivory, made in England (A7148).

and ‘elephant mark.

Also has crown mark

It has a blue border, one inch ‘wide, with

floral motif in the center. I bought mine 33 years ago. I have one dozen dinner plates, eight.dessert size plates in Theodore Haviland's Antoinette pattern from Limoges, France. Also two perfect covered bowls in Pope-Grosser china my

grandmother bought 65 years ago. Would like to sell thesy i ‘anyone can use them. Mrs. F. K.

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rr » r ” DEAR ORW: Miss 0. C. might try this formula to remo¥be the mildew from her aluminum ware. It will clean and brighten at the same time. Make a paste of Borax and water, adding a few drops of ammonia. Use fine steel wool to clean the rough spots.

secured one 30 years ago from my mother-in-law ee have never found one I lied better. Like all old-time she just put it in a bowl all at one time and beat it well, ‘I mixed it the new way but hers was just as good. “ Pe * g WHITE CAKE Pr

ribbon cake. An excellent icing u tows, It's 3 hough for between, the top.

Isn't So Busy By CHARLES VENTURA.

EW I YORK, "Pec. 9

The big-cigar boys with restless bank rolls

and roulette habits may give. Palm Beach back to the early =

settlers this season, after:.

learning they'll Fad their gamboling str s without ,the usual gambling

ents will not open ing rooms for the 1950-51

season. Even the plush bookie par-

lors have been closed down.

On a clear day, hungry bookmakers can be seen cruising around in last year's limousines, as their chauffeurs pick up small bets on side streets, The Brazilian Court clique and swners of walled-in es ated are glad. Members of * Everglades Club, who br quiver with indignation when they remember the year the sheriff raided their binge and backgammon games, are hoping out loud that the antigambling crusade will not get out of hand and reach into their exclusive. betting preserves. x Conversation Pieces ON THE cheerful side for the shopkeepers is the news that Babs Hutton may come

down and spread around"

some of the dime-store money she’s been spending in Europe, now that she's shedaing her continental husband and habits, Top conversation piece at swimming-pool-side is the recent huddle of Dwight Paul

and his svelte wife, ‘Bebe. .

Dwight asked Bebe to take him back for the winter months, despite their several months’ estrangement, 50 as not to embarrass their mutual friends when it came to seating arrangements at I ATES Partie family lawyer also caused tongues to wag by meeting George and

‘Brownie Schrafft at the train ’

in Palm Beach when. they arrived from Paris. The gist of the barrister’'s conversation with the candy-and-soda heir ‘was that it will take a lot of ice cream sodas to pay for their Paris jaunt and it might be a good idea for George to settle down and work for awhile,

‘Never Felt Better’

COMMENTATORS who fall

back on ouija boards for inside stories when they can't get behind the {ironed curtains of Mrs. Cornelius Vanderbilt's Fifth Ave. mansion finally have succeeded In irking New York's famous hostess. At a lunchen in honor of the State Department’s Perle Mesta, Mrs. Vanderbilt said she had witnesses to prove that a recent story of her serious illness was piffie. On the night she was reported at death’s -door, Mrs. Vanderbilt was exchanging badinage and persifiage with the James Becks, Mr. and Mrs. Dudley Pierpont Gilbert,

the Pat O’Connells, Virginia:

Carter, Holbrook Smi Count Potoski and an attraes = tive and wealthy widow © named Isa Sidney (who may become a Countess) alo with other dinner guests a 1043 Fifth Ave. Grac® Vanderbilt had entertained for dinner every

party a day since then. : If that isn't “convincing enough, Mrs. Vanderbilt's vagabonding son, Neil, dropped in unexpectedly that same night between stops on his lecture tour and helped mater entertain. Guests told Neil that his Town Hall lecture in New’ York Jan. 25 will be a sellout, with every society nama from Astor to Zuber on the list of reservations. One of

the guests looked slightly...

shocked when Mr. Vi t

said he hoped his former

Fifth Ave. neighbors wouldn't smell Town Hall up so much with Chanel No. 5 that his working friends wouldn't come in to hear him, Another toff seemed

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