Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 14 March 1950 — Page 20

mae INDIANAPOLIS 1 TIMES

Ask. FY oro

“Wile and In-laws An ‘Unbeatable Team

DEAR MRS. MANNERS:

. IF YOU LOVE and trust your in-laws for themselves,

Wecanse of your mate, they will

==. 1 have learned my in-laws are human beings like myself.

One day. 1 made a special - opened -our-hearts to-each other: we were. We stopped trying to —an-unbeatabie team; - When my husband. and 1 had

trouble- over his-philandering, my

mother-in-law stuck by me and the children. She said: “Even if he is my own son I cannot toler-

ate his mistreating his family.|

It does not change my love for him but I will not uphold him! in wrong doing.” know she was sticking with me. Ever since we married I've

fought for my husband's love, first from my in-laws and then

from other women. I almost hated my mother-in-law I learned 1 had a swell friend _ in her. No house is big enough for two families; 1 Jearned when we lived! with my in-laws. 1 thought my

mother-in-law. made unfair -de-.-

mands. We were at each other's throats. That made for bad feeling between my husband and his dad. After eight months of this

my husband went back to thé Army. For the life of me 1 couldn't see

why it was hard on a mother to have her son in the Army when she had a husband to cling to. She had someone. 1 didn't, What did she know about the empty lonely nights and maybe an empty future? After my husband’s discharge

She let her son

before!

not love you.

visit to my-mother-in-law. We “We accepted -each-other for what; change each other, _Today we're re

mama's boy is difficult. “Often the girl who condemns her husband’s mother for listening to marital troubles is running home to her ‘own mother with tales. If you don’t want your in-laws to ‘nterfere, don’t ask | them fo listen to trivial differences. The usual mother- in-law will admit it if her son is happy | though she may be amazed at | the tactics her daughter-in-law | uses. She's tempted, 1 imagine, | to forget the mistakes she and | her husband made, or still make, | and to forget that they had to | make some of them to learn their lessons, just as as her son and his wife may have to do. ‘Most in-laws can be “unbeatable teams” If {hey make the effort and concessions and use the diplomacy that making friends with any one requires. When they look for trouble, take out personal unhappiness | on In-laws, or hold grudges, trouble starts.

Gives Men Credit

_ TI'S SAID that back of evéry fallen woman is a man. I ‘want to add that back of every virtuous woman is a man. A healthy girl, infatuated or in| love, is a tempted girl. Sometimes |

Beginner B Over His Errors

from the Army we were pushed boy friend who loves her| back and forth between our tWo|y.ene her in the right path. He| families because of the housing gq, it because he knows it's the

Traffic ‘Men Get Around

got you around .

. the town’ s traffic men. This is the

They new offi Yl family of the Indianapolis Traffic Club. From the left,

| W. P. Hammond, Pernsyivania Railroad, president; W. F. Baker,

| Link Belt Co., vice president, and C. |. Davidson, Ford Motor Co.; |

D. M. Kernaham, Motor Express Co.; | Harvester; P. K. Groninger, B. & 0. E. J. Dockster, Midstate Price, warden, and Edward RenTrucking, and L H. Grossman, RCA, on the board of governors. X

Your Job—

Bloods

Avoid Big Ones, Forget Little Ones

I brood over mistakes | make. I am right out of high school’ and am general clerk in a-small office. Should I keep on apologizing or shoulhl I not mention the errors which I later correct?

sin

By JAMES GRAYSON Some mistakes - aren’t worth

L. P. Brown, International |

Slayer Suspect Shared ‘Hoosier Victim's Room

_ ALEXANDRIA, La. Mar. 14. {Clara Kleinhelter, installing chapof a carnival

{worker for the murder of an In-| stereoptician, |diana companion has produced Snyder, soloist.

{UP)~—The trial

06S to Install -

4 PAPOR. sen : Other officers are ‘Mrs. Lillian

| Schmidt, associate patron; Mrs.

Worthy Matron

Ruth Morgan fo Take ‘Office Mar. 22 Miss Ruth Morgan will be installed as worthy matron of) Lawrence Chapter 384, OES, at

8.p.m. Mar. 22 in the lodge hall!

Everett Miller will become Worthy

matron;

{Heremina Palmer, secretary; Mrs. Margaret Pickard, treasurer; Mrs. Jeanne Sargent, conductress; Mrs. Evelyn Redfern, Adah; Mrs. Jane; Haase, Ruth; Mrs. Ruby McCormick, Esther; Mrs. Mary Catherine Garrison, Martha; Mrs. Myl{rea Shafer, Eleeta; Mrs. Esther { Miedema, chaplain: Mrs. Sybil |Gates, Marshal; Mrs. Dorothy | Nickell, organist; Mrs. Frances

| schler, sentinel. | | Mrs. Beatrice Bower will serve {as prompter; Mrs. Jesse Bierce, installing officer; .-xIrs. Cordella Burkhart, inst&lling marshal; Mrs.

"lain; Merle Hooten, installing or{ganist; Miss Imogene Waddy, and Miss Lois]

Annonces Play Review Contest.

= Co

Play review contest. for Nght be presbted a the Civic The school seniors will be sponsoréd ater starting Friday. : by the Civic Theater for the third Contest judges will be Indianyear. A I apolis Toe erities Bt The entrants, selected by the Butler, ; Corbin

ews. First in the contest will be journalism, will offer written al 1 Season membership in criticism on “An Inspector Calls,” the Civic Theater,

outstanding success. Come see

No appointment needed

“ZS. Apes én CT

Last 4 Days

“Thank You" Offer “photographs in any finish for the price of

FOR EXAMPLE: 2 portraits for $4 Regularly $4 Ea. This is our way of thanking you for making our studio such em

for yourself why ‘so many people

“prefer ‘our exciting PhotoReflex way of being photographed. HAVE YOUR PICTURE TAKEN NOW ‘by the studio that 237,069 satisfying pictures built ® Full selection of proofs

{testimony that they shared a ho-! tel room before the man’s death. ps : | Miss Annie Leckie, hotel regis- Rites for L. A. Cox trar, said Marshall Hart and! Memorial services for Linton |g Joseph Smiley were registered to-. A. Cox, member of the Indian-| ‘gether when Mr. Smiley's body apolis Bar Association, will be! was found at a parking lot here. held at 11 a. m. Friday in Mar-| Hart is accused along with C./ion County Circuit Court. Judge ‘M. Landrum and his wife, Blanche William D. “Bain, Taylor Gronin-| Landrum, of murdering the 56- ger and Judge Louis B. Ewbank | {year-old Portland, Ind., man last will speak during the services ar-| November. ranged by the bar association.

— Give

. Looking for a Gift? your Photo-Reflex Portrait

itor cco dG sad

PhotoReflex Studio 8th Floor

shortage. We finally re alized our goal—a home—but I had to fight for him again. My husband had! changed from his experiences and philandered. We have finally come to an understanding through your help. Thank you, MRS. R., EAST SIDE. A mother wants the son she loves to be happily married. Diplomatically getting her to see that her daughter-in-law wants “mn husband who acts

grown up and not like a Fried Choker

GOOD Mixed "Drinks

ENTE RT AINMENT

THE BAN- DEE

750 Virginia Ave. __FR-9370

“Step Scratching, Start Soothing. |

SKIN IRRITATION

« ."« With Resinol, Starts at once to @ Quiet teh, comfort and relieve raw irritation ecsema, rashes, chapping, chafing and es ternally- hused pimples. Helps speed w healing. Bi try Resinol Ointment today.

|

DORSEY. Funeral Home

{

3925 E. New York IRvington 1173

THE PEOPLE'S | DENTISTS {|

BA Mtoe 5PM

Dally Except Sunday

. Phone LI. 3995 361, W, Washington St.

fF) | WATCH REPAIRING | by EXPERTS “At Miller's Modest Prices!

QUICK SERVICE

Hiller Jewelry Co.

N Doors From Power & Light Co

7

Wonderful for Skin “and Scalp Initations

“visible” ti Promptly Relieves ie Soke Healing

“AP -yuickly soothe Tteking buvting of =f

@czema, psoriasis, and similar surface skin and scalp irritations—apply biguid: | mo-—based on a doctor's 1 backed by 40 years’ success. Zema also aids healing. Stainless. /neisibie. Doesn't ov on the skin, o For stubbira « fun

ry Size 35¢

ZEMO WHEN KIDNEYS WorkToo Often

you embarrassed and bothered by toc!

are Je elimination during the day and night? This symptom Irritations, Backache, Strong Cloudy Urine pressure over the Bladder, swollén ankles or

Theumatic pains, may be due to temporary

ferm irritation and non-organic and non systemic Kidney and Bladder troubles: In such cases the very first dose of CYSTEX usually goes to work right now helping you these three ways: 1. Helps nature remove certdin irritating non -specific germs in acid conditions. 2. Thus helps relieve a frequent cause of many aches and pains. 3. By re Heving and oaiming irritate reduce frequent or smarting passages day and night. Get CYSTEX from your druggist | Give Give 8 a Ad trial under satisfaction or back wuarantee

Now She ph “Cash and Carry’

‘Without Painful ary

As we get older, stress and strain, over. exertion, excessive " smnking or exposure to sometimes. slows -dewn kidney fumes tion. This ‘may lead many folks to com3 Et ALE loss of pep and | : and dizziness. i. Getting | I» nN

tissues, it help:

don't you? Fm afraid to say +

renders want me to SAY én

[Tied them.

| Socialism.”

OFFICE “HOURS |

ormula |

as well as Bladder |

rom minor Data irritations ig cold, a indiscretions

path she prefers. He deserves brooding over. Anyone who is acsome credit. tive makes little ones. Anyone I've known a lot of men in my learning - new procedures and] life, T've found I can believe a processes is apt to make them. man whom I think is worth my Some mistakes should never have time, If he wants to marry me he; {been made, tells me. If he has something else The thing to. strive for. is no {in mind he practically says 80. garjous’ mistakes. That means {I'd be pretty stupid if I didn’t that you must think out in ad-| |understand. vance what you are to do. If you]

{Don’t take too much credit for 4.6 not gure what to do, ask some! your virtue, -girls. You had some ,.. in authority.

help—fr .r EVER IN MEN A lot of little mistakes can ap) "pen if you have never been told]

with Wiegand's flowers. An eloquent way to express your appreciation to hostesses: AS near as your phone

“Say Thank You

* Qur 91st Year

To sell a man (ever “ambi- | tious” romantically) on an idea iwhat and how to do. This can be!

you first have to sell yourself,

|duties.

———

too. much. Many of the women

are stinkers. Often they are— | the same stinkers those women i knew they were when they mar- |.

| problem write to James Gray- | son in care of The Times.

1

When you are in a new “job it | |does not always pay to ask too many questions, particularly if] |you can work out some things for yourself. But if you can’t see {a way to do a task and you fear| you'll do something wrong, ask {your superior for instructions.

Let Mrs. Manners and read- | ers of The Times share your problems. Write in cdre of The Times, 214 W. Maryland 5

PTA to Hear Talk.

On British’ “Socialism how to do a certain .job and 1

The _Parent- Teacher Associa- made a minor mistake which I tion of “School 45, Park Ave. and later corrected, I think I'd let it| 23d St., will sponsor a public meet- go at that. But see that you don’t ing at the school at 7:45 p. m. {pull the same boners again. tomorrow. Stephen Noland will] It's no disgrace to do something | speak on “Life in Britain Under wrong once, It's better than not |doing anything at all. If your Mrs. Virginia Green is program heart is right and you're doing] | chairman. Olive K. Funk is school [the best you can, stop brooding. | principal.

the “rdault “of your superior Who ‘failed to inktruct you in your new

iu you have | a teva job

{If I had never been. instructed

There is nothing to brood about.

FURNITURE MFG. co.

i, 2429 38 SHELBY ST. _&venmes IM. IM.6863

[PLAY THE ACCORDION LEARN TO PLAY BEFORE YOU BUY

Start tomorrow to learn this popular _instrument. The Accordian is yours - to take home and use as your own. Private lessons given by recognized

teachers in our own studios.

JOIN INDIANA'S LARGEST ACCORDION-BAND

4

PAUL PR

H. RINNE,

We Will Rent You an Accordion for Six Weeks and Give You Six Weeks of Private Instructions. Your Total Cost

10

ANYONE CAN LEARN TO PLAY

MUSIC CO.

115 EAST OHIO ST. —— FR.1184 —

(SIIB

Better “Used bar” Values, Too!

The big demand for the "1950 Mercury has given us an unusual number of highquality trade-ins, all makes and models, Priced to sell — they're all fine buys!

® | |

ERE'S your chance to own the kind of car you really want—the big, “better than ever” new 1950 Mercury—and save vourself one hu nd ed dollars! And what a value it is! Better than ever in everything! Betterinsiyling! Better in comfort! Betterin economy! Betterin perfprmance! Better in all-around value, too. So come in and see us today. Hear our new low price—get our special “deal” —and go for a ride in the new 1950 Mercury. You'll be glad you did!

Street

+ asa N.

FRED WILLIAMS JR.,

850 N. Meridian Street

BETTER IN STYLING—with Customized” interiors? BETTER IN ECONOMY—with “‘Econ-0-Miser” carburetion! BETTER IN PERFORMANCE—with “Hi-Power Compression” IR BETTER IN COMFORT —with ‘‘Lounge-Rest” seats! BETTER IN HANDLING EASE —with “Stedi-Line" steenng!

as !

®

GET OUR SPECIAL APPRAISAL ON. YOUR PRESENT CAR TOBAY

INC. 2

ade Gg "Phew deputy breather.

Taxes is J. A. Hes — Paid -If yo Mar. 15 The 1 ternal R to labo squeezin, Norn ing close deputy c today’s ‘e Reve ing tom night wi

Tapa To Mi

By D CHICAG Americans theirincom “night dead duals and § ment by de The law turns be in or postmal night excep payers: hay The gov “was also re line to get + against the ers before tons bars Through fcans by th annual day and hurries “filed. rnin A LIN OW. Y greater th York's sec lected $100 will - take i night, 2 * Hoosic . Atomi OAK RI (UP) —Kat. former Inc who went to pay part tax, picket today becai tax money ments. Mr. Otsu Hoosiers li bers of the ganization fused to p will be used The othe headquarte: in New You a carpenter Mr. Ots where he a

1° + lege, didn't

tax this th & taxable 1 He distri

: ers entitled

The leaflet: tax money