Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 3 January 1950 — Page 12

and 1 wish he'd realize it “I know he tries to help and

MANNERS: MY FATHER 13 old-fashioned. wants me to do right but he fist]

Ager Says She Needs Some | in Bringing Up Father:

He's not young any more

doesn't understand. 1 know right from wrong. He won't allow me to do much of anything. He doesn’t want

me to wear -makeup “or najl "polish. All the other girls do over

at school. He ‘doesn’t even want me to pick my own friends. My dad doesn’t even want me to go on 4 date with a hoy I've liked two years. Mother likes, this boy and knows he can be trusted. She will let me do. most anything I want to. This boy is 16. 1 am 14 and a freshman in high school. I know him better, than anyone else. I know he's a nice boy. Don't you think it would be all right if I went on & date some time? V. C., EAST SIDE. You're going at this An wrong if you show your father you think he is ready for the rocker on the front porch. No man, fathers included, likes te be thought old, behind times and dilapidated. Make him feel he's young, handsome and amusing and he may think you've grown up. Apparently your mother ap- . Proves of a date on a weekend occasionally. Suppose you sek her to help “modernize” your father. Together you two might swing it. Liven up your home. Plan some family affairs that will make your father feel frisky and forget work, finances, and growing daughters. (I bet he's at of 40, poor old soul).

Stand by Him

“SMALL TOWN GIRL” should | not givé up her married man whose wife doesn’t want to! dicorce him. If she doesn’t really love him ure

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understand, and give this man eguse I run around with older “close” to their parents, The’

courage to fight for his freedom. He'd had a hard time and doesn’t]

want to make the same mistake {with lots of boys and been, With age. They want a girl to

twice.

He knows the ropes and doesn't!

want to ruin the girl's life. I think she'll help him win his freedom if she really loves him. When he's free then he'll know! if he wants to try and make another home. 1 don't go to school but I've been around. When you're in love!

. Jae EWC ERT IRE Hi Fl

“Small Town Girl,” I'm 15 and

very ‘much in love with a man]

who recently got his divorce. His

wife didn’t want a divqrce but

time and understanding set him {ree,

his troubles with him. I was very understanding. | We're to be married soon and] we re very happy. MICKEY, CITY.

/Bashful Beau )

I'VE TRIED to be thrilled by other guys’ kisses but no one can take the place of the one I Jove I've gone with other guys w had everything to offer but I still love him and his simple life. I'll always love him, I went to a party with ahother fellow last week, The old boy

friend was there by himself. He}

talked to me all he could but the fellows wamted me to dance. 1 never had a chance to really talk to him, -He looked at me as if to say, “You're too popular for me, I have nothing to offer.” tell he has said that so often. Please advise me. Believe me I love him dearly, TI can’t do my school work or anything because he {8 always in my mind. I go to bed every night and cry. My

thealth- is - ruined: because 1 don't

|get three hours of sleep a night. I have a constant headache. I've got to have him back. I never see him except when! I go to the place where he works, He stares at me until I could cfy. I want him so much, though 1 know _fellows with money and

woh By We, PAL

I'm only 17 bjt. feel oldér be-|

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kids, I don’t feel superior but| {young kids bore me, I've gone

| handed lots of lines 'but then I (tell in love with this boy, 19, cuses to come over every night to see my brother, but always| spent the evening with me, It took him a while, but he | Ainally told me he loved me and {wanted to marry me when I | graduated: from high school. His)

# 1 didn't bpéak up a home or [feel 1 did. /f ‘merely talked over

I could]

He ian’t forward. He made ex-|

What stops you two from getting together? i

sounds pretty glib fo me. Anyway, you wouldn't need to say much to be convincing if you're both In love. It's am ugly thought, but do you think he | could be walking out. bn you | gently? Those complexes you think he has don’t seem to prevent him from being popular. (Maybe . you have a complex of kidding yourself.) Just to humor me in my senility, find out Wow he sleeps. . He may be tossing sleeplessly, his broken heart flopping on the feathers. I have a feeling, | though, he doesn’t take to his | trundle early for reasons wearing skirts.

He may be bashful but he ]

Trouble With Pop

I AM pretty sure I can take {care of myself but my dad won't let me go on dates. I can’t think!

of anything I've done to make

him not trust me.

I am 14 But will soon be 15.)

All of the girls I run around with go on 'dates, Some go steady. Lots of times I'm asked to go on double dates, I really feel stupid when I have to say my dad thinks I'm too young. Once my dad just blew up because a boy wilked me home from church. I have told him all the other girls go on dates.

What could I do to make him change his mind? I. can’t think of a thing. TROUBLED That's right, “Miss Troubled,” | you'll soon be 15. (Now I sound | Just lke your father, don't 1?) I know it's rough seeing those other girls with dates but they know you've been asked. Boys really fond of you, and spme a oo oe yet | Thr EEA ERA

VOR IW + ow an Ty. “Yon 1 et

I think boys prefes girls |

kind of sophistication they admire in girls has nothing tp do

know how to avoid misleading conversation and uncomfortable situations. Part of taking care of yourself is keeping boys in line withi out losing them and keeping the | | ead type from manufacturing

tales when you ignore them, | You lose out when you aet |

boy crazy. Show your dad and

you're strong enough to take the friends told mé he never lies and! mother you think of them, your

higws along with your love.

iis serious. He is popular and 1

| laughed to myself when girls; boys. Your dad wants you to | {flirted with him. He never looked, be popular. When he notices The more 1 you are grown up he'll let you |

{At anyone but me. saw him the more I loved him.

Then we broke up. He called

home, girl friends, parties, ete.

had the same trouble a8 had reason to be jealous but I just as much as you think of

I ——

| have dates. Parties dt your house would help. How about

Job He Likes Best

Charles S. Murphy, above, | will succeed Clark Clifford as | President Truman's counsel, ef- | fective Feb. I. Mr. Murphy, 40, is a native of Wallace, N., C., and has been a presidential ods ministrative assistant since 1947, Mr. Clifford is retiring to pri‘vate law practice.

Your Job—

Worker Told to Do

~Retuming. Old Pog)

Six months ago I went to | work in a retail store as ‘a sales person, intending to stay in retail work. Now I find that I do not like my job and think I'll quit. For several years pre- | vious to this I drove a delivery | truck for the store. Would I |be slipping backwards to ask to be put back on the delivery [ truck? | } |

By JAMES GRAYSON If you are sure that you do not, {like. retail selling as an occupa- | tion you shouldn't stay in it if ryou-ean-get something you Tike! to do better, In considering whether or not! you like your present job you {should consider it from more) ‘than one angle. One of these is!

love me and that he wanted me| in his and proudly introducing | {weekly take-home pay compare more than anything else. I knew, him to your guests? {with that in jp del delivery job? then 1 could never love anyone

| and fold me he'd tot al having one, linking your arm What it ‘pays. How does your

= u Fou | havein a personal job problem, write to James Gray‘sof In care of The Times,

Your security is another thing! ito consider. This seems to be| more important now than it used ito be. Irregularity of work p——y prove quite disconcerting, par-

Let Mrs, Manners and readers of The Times share your “Write In care of The | Times, 214 W. Maryland St.

{| Some people like a job indoors. | |Some like one -in which they {move about and are not sitting] at a desk. Some like to deal with| {people. Some like to sell, Some {like exacting and regular work-| ing hours but with no night or jovertime work. Your present job includes all these things. Consider too the work involved in driving .the delivery truck. You go all over the city, never knowing one day what parts of town you'll be In the next day,! what goods you'll be handling.|. nor the condition of the truck nor the kind of weather. Never a dull | moment to some, Very exasper-| ating to others, Consider also what each job |

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{is the future in each? Or is there| no exciting future? Which is apt/ to lead you into greener pastures? Or are they both dead-end Jobs| ito you? Suppose there were no future] {in either, If you knew you would] be doing the same. day-by-day, work for the next five, 10 or 15 years would this influence your) | decision? Don’t jump out of your present ‘job. unless you Know definitely that you really want to and should make the move for your! own good, peace of mind and] happiness. If after weighing all] | sides, you think you should get] back jfnto your old job, go ahead. You won't be slipping, you'll Just | be using your head.

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