Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 5 December 1949 — Page 5

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- Ask Mrs. Manners—

~ Drink Won't Solve ;

“Marriage Problems

DEAR MRS. MANNERS:

MY FRIEND: CAME to my house and asked it 1 loved and

wanted his wife,

I told him I did and went home with him. His wife and baby | returned with me. The baby was born after I fell in love with his]

wife but it was his.

I never had many dates and knew" almost nothing about girls. I

went to this man’s house often.

I stayed with his wife while hel,

went fishing, as he asked me to.| I fell in love with his wife, She said she loved me. There was a divorce. She and I married. Their five children were given to her, They grew up

worked hard.

‘I was drafted and spent two years overseas. I came home to a good job: I heard my wife was untrue. and I started to drink heavy. I always drank but got worse and lost my job, I lost another job. I got my old job back and lost it again, for drinking. My wife

went to GI school.

left but came back. laters I couldn't keep a job so Ij

One, day I her confidence. She eventually

came home and my wife and the! * furniture and car were gone. I

o tried to keep on living.at the] Had he loved you he would have house but got worse and worse

and finally went to-a veterans hospital, I was told there I was, not a. drunkard.

My wife 18 still gone. I cannot

find a job. I stay with relatives. |

I want to know what I should| do. I know whisky isnt the cure

for me. I've made up my mind| to quit drinking to save what I can. I'm in my 30's and my wife| is a few years older. She has a good job. Can you figure this out and|

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* help me? I don’t write many Jet-|

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ters so if you understand this I'll be thankful. —MR, H.

You've figured it out right. You made up your mind to quit drinking but have you quit? You gave drinking a trial. You say you lost your wife and jobs because of it. Give the other

tried drinking. If drinking had been so much fun you'd be happy and contented. It's a poor hobby because it brings only headaches and self-pity. You know you were a good husband and a good worker. There’s no reason you can't be again. Without drinking, you might have another chance with your wife, If you get it, figure you're even. Don’t use her past or any excuse to have a drink. You won't be thirsty if you're busy enough working and doing

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Let's be. practical. Suppose there is a rare boy who really | belleves he’ll love a girl more after she yields. She doubts him ~hut believes him, temporarily, because she wants to believe. He has trouble convincing her.

; | That mea ‘ = good for a poor family, We both| at nA. Actopting. iis. lite

tation Is against her principles. He wins and she startsvatching him because she's uneasy and ynsure. She still disapproves of herself, Every one does who goes against principles they really believe In or in principles long supplied by parents and society in general, He lets down with’ attention, She misses that attention. She's - lost her principles — she loses

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loses her boy friend. This boy didn't suggest marriage. He probably never will

accepted your heliefs and married you. Your morals aré probably the same as he sets up { for the girl he wants to marry.

You haven't lost your chance |

for happiness if you start being |

the real you. Keep on being easy and word will get around that you're easy and unwise. You'd

sense it through unattractive |

offers made you and the un- |

stantly feel.

Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column share your problems. Write in care of The

Your Job—

Home Problems

way a chance for as long as you |

Worry Worker

things you enjoy. Force your- |

self to take part in activities and accept jobs that may not be quite to your liking. They'll keep you busy, gain people's respect, and pave the way for finding friends and work you e.

A Girl's Mistake

IS IT true when an unmarried! Lthat

girl yields to her boy friend she loses his respect? My reason for asking is obvious. You see my boy friend talked about the facts of life until I accepted his invitation. Since I accepted, things haven't been the same. He's contented, only when he gets his way. Is happiness? He has never spoken! of love or marriage. It’s been over two years that he's been my one and only. Please help me. «TIPPY,

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I am ar office g'rl doing

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down town offices. I have some problems at home that bother me and affect my work at the office. The lady in charge of our department has noticed this and has kindly asked if she could help. I have never taken her into my confidence by telling her. Would I gain or lose in the long run if I did?

By JAMES GRAYSON The woman under whom you work seems to be quite understanding. . She senses that somethin~

she wants—to help you. 1

think it quite all right for you|

to talk to her about your home problems. You should think out the whole matter and decide just how much you want to tell her. {Determine in your own mind just what there is for you to worry]

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{them. If they are imaginary they will disappear when you analyze

them. Your first résponsibility is!

problems from the imaginary ones. The lady in charge of your depart{ment can help you do this.

There is another thing that you :]

{must consider. You cannot do fyour best when you are worried.

You do not want your efficiency)

to slip. If it slips too far you) won't be worth much to your employer. Your department’ head has an-| other reason for helping you. She

does not want to see the efficiency

of her department lowered.

I think you should take advan-|

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your heads together you'll find a way to handle these problems which, after all, may not be as| big as they look to you.

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