Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 9 November 1949 — Page 9
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WEDNESDAY, NOV. 9, 1049
Ask<Mrs. Manners—.
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DEAR MRS. MANNERS
MY HUSBAND hasn't a bad habit to his name, but I just don't :
fove him any more.
I loved him when we got married, and I also wanted to get| away from home. My parents were strict but they didn’t object to him. We were niarried shortly after my 18th birthday, We're both} 27 now, and have two nice children.
While he was in service I met a man. We fell in love at first sight. I told myself I was just lonesome and would forget him when my husband came Home. He promised to stay, away and le
- decide. That was four years tne
put I never forgot him, He has come back same feeling is there, My husband would ill me if I asked him to give me a divorce because of another man. I'd rather tell him myself, but I'm afraid he will go into a rage. I know I'm doing wrong, but [ just can't help loving the other man. WORRIED MIND, The other man would eat regularly, wear out his sox and soll endless shirts. You'd be bored and lonesome again | both of you didn’t pretend enthusiasm and add outside Interests. Being taken for granted may bother you—but do | you ask for it? Romance totters temporarily when a wife lets a basket of dirty clothes | seem more Important than her | husband. He disappoints her |
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when & knock in the car motor 4 A. 0f my former employers are on
takes his attention; - 7 You feel “deep affection” (a | definition of love) for your husband. Otherwise you wouldn't
aftection lasts, as Yours, through varying moods. Ask several people—and yourself at different times to define love. I did and received several anawerst “Love is what makes you want to do something good
for someone.” . .. “Love is that | sent a lot of good business to
thing you want when you're old to make you feel you ain't.” . . “It's both Heaven and hell—champagne and arsenlo—but a malady nobody should be without.”
Yoo Much Competition
I NEED that certain something|
which gets the boys. I dress well, | am not bad looking, and make good grades. But what am I to do, with all the competition? I have had several dates with! an awfully nice fellow but am not sure he likes me. You see, he's a. senior, and lots of girls are dying to go with him. I'm only 15, while he's 17. I like him a lot” ‘better, than anyone else. bs ~ What can I do to prake him interested? You've given good advice to lots of others. A.M. T, Small Town Reader Stay In front of the mirror long epbugh to know you look like any boy would want you to look. Then forget about your-
+ self and devote your attention
“to him. . He must be interested—he comes back. He might not if he thought you planned to sndp him out of circulation. (Of course that's your plan but keep it quiet.) Don’t scowl when he looks at another girk Be friendly with her. Be as attractive, charmipg and wellmannered as you know how. Competition goes on forever. It demands a constant fight and continued improvement. If you give up you're sunk, and oa look and act it. Then no boy will want you.
Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column share your problems. Write in care of The Times, 214 W. Maryland St.
Church. Society Sets
Meeting Tomorrow Mrs. Lester Leonard will lead the program for the meeting of | the Woman's Society of Chris-| tian Service tomorrow in the Roberts Park Methodist Church, The meeting will open with a « pusinegs . session at 10:30 a. .m.| followed by quiet: “hour,” luncheon and devotions. ’
Pin-Up: inColors...
® A natural-coler . pin-up _picture of Jean Peters, Ohio farm girl who made “good in Hollywood, will be on the cover of PARADE Maga-
} 1 find him so nearly perfect. Real start during the war, while I
‘| Standard Machine Co.
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i Looking fo Work In Tire Industry
Keep Chin Up, Veteran . Advised
This letter is a question as to how 1 can secure employment In the tire industry, preferably in the sales department. I am 35 years old, white, willing and wanting to work. 1 have worked for several different companies in the city and have either severed my connections for reasons of my own, or they have. Their reason was the | fact that 1 am a drinker just as they were. I am not a drunkard, however. We sepirated with good feeling on my pais, | and as a tire man I have rec- | ommended and sent-a lot of good business their way. Two
the verge of bankruptcy but they ‘still insist on keeping me down. They brag about their
was with Uncle Sam in the South Pacific—1942-45.
By JAMES GRAYSON Apparently you know { thing about tires. tant.
someThis is imporIf you recommended and
{your former employers, you must
{have a following who-have faith}
{in You. This should be very grat, I ifying to you.
(If: you have a — Job {problem, write to James Grayson {in care of the Times)
You are old €nough to determine your own atti.ude toward drink. Even if they have been, and are worse than you, this] | doesn’ {€xcuse you. Both you and they have to plan and live your owh lives. If your present and past conduct deserves criticism, you'll have to take it. But you can change your ways. You must put your own house in order, I fear that you are imagining that your former employers are trying to keep you down. They are too busy with their own
you down. Think this over. Get your chin up. Work back into your old line. There are lots {of tires to be sold. Try applying! {at a retail store. Convince them that you can be an authority in their tire department. You went across the Pacific and -got back. You. can lick your present. situation. Put your tire knowledge and selling ability to work again. Then branch out into a bigger job when you have gotten back some of the old fighting spirit which made you a good tire salesman,
IOOF Lodge to Mark 50th Anniversary
Harris Lodge 644, IOOF, will celebrate the 50th anniversary of its lodge building at 7:30 p. m., Saturday in the lodge, W. Washington and Addison Sts. John Dupree will be awarded a 50-year service pin. The Moose band will provide a musical pro‘gram. Joining in the tribute will ibe Myrtle Rebekah Lodge 328, Harris Encampment and Junior Order of Odd Fellows, Harris {Lodge 3.
Engineer Society To-Meet. Tomorrow.
A. T. Colwell, vice president of Thompson Products, Inc. will address the Indiana Section, Society of Automotive Engineers, at {6:30 p. m. tomorrow in Hotel ‘Antlers. | © will {sponsor a -social program precedling the dinner. Mr. Colwell's sub-
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