Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 13 October 1949 — Page 12

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Ask Mrs. Manners—

‘Cry Baby’ Wife May Be Unsure of Herself

THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES

your friends. Include her, comfortably, in conversations. Praise her improvements—don't take them for gramted. i I know that you arem’t the | her father was, but she

husband told me he really loved tal words. One fit of anger can me I would be so happy I wouldn't discourage a man for a long need to go to the doctor so much. time. Your husband may, think I love him, but he never says, his brand of lovemaking can’t “Dear, I love you so.” He is a compare with the glib words of

Denari to Head Catering Club

E. Eugene Denari, manager of good man, but a man of few the other mam, so he humbly the U. 8S. Naval Ordnance = b

will be doubtful until you prove Words. A woman wants to be keeps quiet. He may think you teria, has been re-elected presi-

DEAR MRS.

MANNERS: SOMETIMES I DON'T know which is the bigger baby, my wife! resent your forced

or our five-month-old child. When I say

faults she cries. (She can cry any time she wants to and does very pappily often.) She also flies into fits when I do something wrong, or what ¢joning your conquests. Friends,

she thinks is wrong.

Another thing T don't Si is her bringing up my old girl! your wife, and recreations to You ean overcome by giving her

about her leaving the me a friendly hand with the baby ing or mention how she looks| until she gets om to her mew

friends, She asks me why I didn’t] marry “so and so” if I say some-

when I come home. I messed gob,

around with girls but really had) = She'll stop turning on the seriously to do with them. | tears if she discovers she must

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your love and win her trust " through affection and compan- wants to be told of every little

told of love the same as a man

(thing that goes on at home and

still love the old boy friend. dent of the Indianapolis crapter J]

ably would help as would new Elections were held during the or-

marriage. about my wife’s| She won't think so If you act married, around whom you act proud of

| eliminate arguments, will help.

Never Speaks of Love

She is a good mother and! wi, your attention and compli- some encouragement to do her

doesn’t demand expensive things.| no.pniy by other tactics. Com- {work ‘about the house? I agree with the writer who advised the tioned in moments of anger

She keeps a strict budget and is,

her all week to do her froning.| Sometimes I have to wear the same shirt two or three days. i am sure she could do better.

General questions In the future will be answered by per- | sonal letter and mot im the | column.. Please enclose self- | addressed and stamped envelopes for replies. Only ques- | tions that can be answered readily will be accepted. Queries | on motion pictures will not be | answered. ! Answers to general questions | on hand will appear In The Times Sunday. The column will be devoted exclusively to humaa relations dealing with the emotional | problems of courtship, marriage | and family life. Constructive | comments by readers on letters | appearing in the column will be | welcome.

When she meets my friends ane! stutters and !sps and gets terrib-| ly nervous. She thinks nobody | likes her. Could it be that she feels guilty because we had to marry, or could it be because of her drunken father leaving his, children go without food while he | ran around? I think she feels every man would leave his wife | and kids for other women. I am| not that type of man, nor are my| relations. She is 17 gnd I am 19 and we’ ve| been married almost a year. She | is very nice looking, but very self- | conscious. How could I bring my wife out | of all this? T. M. X. You're awfully critical of a girl, 17, new at the job of being a wife, mother and housekeeper.

cause of the circumstances of | your marriage. She's unsure of herself because of her un- | happy childhood. Actually, the only place she | slips is with the ironing, and | that may be stubbornness which |

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She probably thinks that you of where the money goes. He didn’t have to marry me. Everyone told me love came after’ hecause your marriage is stale. never -men- marriage, so I married the man Telling a man you think your vice '1 admired and respected, not the! marriage is a flop gives him an James McNees. Jolly Chel. treasurer ‘man who told me of love and =a begged me to marry him. Do you think I am too dependable? Do you think he would appreciate me more if I neglected him and the house a little, or even| join, him in recreation you've * Prank Johnson, WHY SHOULD it be so hard took a night out or a trip? He! for a man to tell his wife that he never gives me enough money at {loves her? Why can’t he give her one time for a Lip.

men to learn how to keep their or disappointment that you good loiks, when you're alone wives.

with hér and when you're with |’ 1 [ am not well. and believe if my’ you miss his flow of sentimen- |

interests, but don’t tell vour Sanization’s annual meeting at husband you want to go out the Riley Hotel

A trip and nights out prob- of the Catering Executives Club. ;

inferiority complex, and makes 7, Seas facianas iy you appear a failure as a wife. Reel He expects a well-run house, Washington H er. ypool 0 but he also expects companion- Kokomo. Henry Knapp, Courtland Hotel, P q ic 5 ship. Maybe he'd like for you to Christian Jack Flory: Columbia Club; Earl » pr *rimmonstel Ode por Breas: discouraged. Maybe he'd like to 3 "& pippenger, Contine ntal Coffee Ca. | visit friends you've Ignored. represents associate member Make the most of the love he expresses In his own way. i

| OES UNIT TO MEET eX. Yo 5 Members of Irvington Chapter,

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