Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 4 October 1949 — Page 10

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i Let Laundry Pile Up, Step Out, She Advises

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DEAR MRS. MANNERS:

wives.

I just leave the dishes in the sink. We have have plenty of work to do, but I can leave it. xX My u likes for me to. ' "me and takes me to

keep our and myself andi thers and leaves me mon

our children clean, but he also likes to feel that he can make a at little mess once-in-awhile, without me jumping down his throat, |Where he is. I used to be quite possessive my-|

to our marriage. change real fast. I'm much the . happier. for it. We still have our So ow what to do. disagreements, but none too . serious. > 3 M. H, CITY. My husband. like most men, The lives of three adults and likes a night out with the boys # child are too vital and com-once-in-awhile. And he doesn’t| Plicated to make haphazardmake a fuss about baby sitting| ous suggestions. You meed perwhen I go ouS with my friends sonal consultation. Visit the occasionally. | Family Service Association. SHELBYVILLE READER. h il d The woman who tells her She Fai e husband she overdoes her house-| I CAN SEE why girls fail to work to please him isn't telling get the boys they want. They the truth, is she? -She does it to don’t watch the “little things” please herself and dazzle her that boys wh8 are brought up neighbors. She lets it become! Well expect them to remember. more important than her mar. When they forget, the boys give

riage. up. a rut. i She lets herselt got Into} This is one little instance. My

teenage son dated a very popular When that happens the house s/o i, another city, Suddenly he no longer a home and the hus- stopped. I could tell the girl was band is apt to stray. hurt. I know why he stopped. N She'll never know. S8he forgot her !manners. I had sent her a very ° Guessing {lovely birthday present, She failed MY FRIENDS say to keep 2 to write and thank me. My son husband guessing and he ‘appreci- was trained to remember things ates his wife more. I dress tolike that. She let him down by

Please

me, guessing is all right for husband, as mothers can help couples who are courting, but-I daughters every day. We were don’t agree with it for married/in moderate circumstances and folks. my husband's parents had money. 1 believe I will hold my hus-It wasn't easy to crash their| band. We've been married 12/crowd.I was unsophisticated, shy,| years. He has been faithful to me and short of clothes. My mother) and we are very happy. He is asupervised my grooming and "good man and a kind husband. [trained me socially. I got the HAPPY WIFE

Iman, surprised po A MOTHER. Fm at you. You | Such few gestures of thought-

ow you and your husband fulness are needed to win a

YOUR ADVICE to “Unsure” about “letting the laundfyv pile’ high” and giving her husband attention should be practiced by) more

If my husband comes home from work and wants me to gg out] two baby Sons, 439 I my | hs! a time, He's been gone thpee imonths now and 1 don’t kn }

{ I got iptroduced to a very il

please my husband and try to do being rude to me. 1 > other things I know he likes. To] My mother helped me win my nas She shed EO et inn

[port them incernectly, she'd bet-

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i My wife talks too much about my work and the condition of things at our plant. The wives | of us foremen meet to play cards, but they gossip too much. How can I impress my wife that she is apt te get me in bad by her talking?

| By JAMES GRAYSON i

know something about where you | ywvork and your activities. She is mantitled to-know about your suc(gsses so she can rejoice with|

u. Whe should concern herself {about your problems. She can { help minimize your troubles. The | wellare of your family is affected {by Qyour successes and failures. | She wshould know about them. | Yom are not expected to tell |everyphing that happens at the {plant,{ Company affairs should] |be knwwn only to those entitled| {to knoyv them. Your wife should { know 1%his, too. : If ywu have a personal job probleny. write James Grayson in care nf The Times. : | Inany @reat number of persons [there are $apt to be one or two catty ones. Conversations in such a group shi ild be guarded. Then, too, there @re some whose judgment is not talk very fr&’ly before him. If you point out to your wife

your personal§affairs, you might cause her to "he more cautious. Show her that o\1e or two tattling tongues can do jou a lot of damage. And not wowing just who will . distort happenings and re-

ter be too consermative than too talkative. { Point out to herf\that you have intrusted to you cpmpany information which is } confidential. Show her how this igjformation in the hands of certainy competitors would be destructive go the inter-

are happy, nder you know huey in — ry friend and keep one. Etiquet make him happy. That doesn’t books and experience help proseem very sensible, does it? Do | [106 “Polish,” but people can

be thoughtful without reading a

you think tute Wom using word, or leaving their block. you ares = Let Mrs. Manners and readMay! their n

eeping works for some wives.

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MY HUSBAND is a drunkard. of 65 degrees below zero Fahren‘e’'ve been married 10 years. Hoe het has been developed.

ers of the column share your leaking out through yor wife.

ests of your employer that your job might be §in jeopardy if it were known to r boss at confidential inforniation was

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{Q—What part does “timing” play in domestic happiness? we A—A very important part! Just as good timing can do h Dr. H. C. Dunstone to keep a marriage harmonious and happy, so poor timing causes; T, ddress i {misunderstandings and friction, and may eventually d ° A Luncheon Tell Her So Much | partner’s love. Tha i The question of timing applies to every phase of the relationship. Carter Dunstone will speak at the 2 The wife who breaks bad news

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