Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 26 September 1949 — Page 9

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Wife Fears Drinking Husband ; :

DEAR MRS,

nc children. to excess since the war. when he. drinks,

I come home from my job and do my work, ‘but he won't even cut the grass. I'm in bad health, too, though he says I'm just lazy. He says the doctors are making me go crazy by giving me shots.

The first time I sued for a ai-| ™™®

vorce he tried to choke me and knocked me down. Though I got a peace bond, he didn't stay away. His folks have money and a good lawyer—I have none. His people pleaded with me to go back. 1 did. We bought a new home, and I thought he would change but he didn’t. He stays in a tavern and drinks two steins of beer and then has a case of beer and whisky at home.. He goes into fits, but won't stop drinking or go to a doctor. I've left him again. I have no money for a divorce for I've been sick again. He says no one else will have me if he can't. He sald he would kill me

on the street If it took the rest of | his life. Locking him up would |

only make it worse. He has two guns and they are loaded. He" keeps calling my mother, saying he went to a doctor, and wanting me to come back. He says he has stopped drinking. I hate him and yet I like him.

We never have any fun together) and at night, even when he is

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sober, I live in fear that he'll kill me, Please tell me what to do. ' R. X., City People don't need to live in constant fear in America. There for sick men. like your husband. There are ways to cure alcoholics who want to be cured—to help a man who apparently loves his wife enough to buy a house and try to keep her, Work on the reasons your husband causes you to seek « divorce. He's sick <~and you promised to see him through in those vows you exchanged

ERS: " again and that woman was there. MY HUSBAND WANTS ‘me to shave him, pt off his clothes, and bring him his bottle. We've been married eight years.and have heard the true story. While the He never drank before we were married but has drunk He gets sick and passes out In a coma

rinks. He comes to like a mad man killing me with a knife like he killed in Europe, Sud talk of

man's mother was in the hespftal

The three children aren't his and the woman's vorced . her when he found out what she was. Her second hus.

them). . CONSTANT READER.

Overhearing a coupl versations can hardly give you a true picture of the lives of several people you don’t know. Both the wife and mother could be perfectly fine people — if they didn’t live together.

Let ‘Mrs. Manaers and readers of the column share your problems. Write in care of The Times, 214 W. Maryland St

| when you loved each other. Ap- | parently he still loves you, but | when two people ‘are in bad health trouble starts. Your problem is a serious one. The man you have loved— [and could love again — needs | medical care. Consult the Fam- | ily Service Association (LL 6341) or the Veterans Administration for advice on how to get it for him, and make him accept it. Your bad health is no excuse. You'll keep feeling worse as long as you are afraid and unhappy.

Cruel Story Overheard WHAT AN INFLUENCE some good-for-nothing women have over weak men. Many men rock other men’s children when they think they are rocking their own. I was at a beauty shop and

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overheard a woman saying her mother-in-law was a bore and a pest. She said she disapproved of her marriage and ignored her children. Her husband had supported his handicapped ' mother after his father died, but the wife wanted all the money. } She- said she would leave if her husband didn’t put his mother in a home so he finally put her in a furnished room and visited her sothetimes. The daughter-in-law was sarcastic and later, when the son brought his mother to live with them, she complained that

{the children and caused discord.

iother men, |son still supported the children. | Recently

Lung Lesion Sends Vandenberg to Hospital

—8en. Arthur H. Vandenberg (R. Mich.) is planning to enter a hospital shortly for tests to de-| [termine whether he must submit {to a major operation for a lung | lesion. ; His physicians were reported to| have urged him for months to [take the step. He has deferred

Seiter Named . Institute Officer |Day-Dreaming Can Reduce

Citizens Gas & Coke d named a vice I despised her on sight, as I hadipresident of the

stitute of Ameri-_ she persuaded him to marry her.|ca today. first husband dl-\mnstitute since

band fell for her “come hither” ii na) director a complex for men (saps, she calls year ago. He

of con- |unanolis Con: in 1941 and 1942

morning at the Institute's 18th so that she can” appeal to men.|

Wife Believes Missing

Herman Field, wife of an Amer-|

WASHINGTON, Sept. 26 (UP) disappeared in Eastern Europe

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THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES "|Your Marriage: By Samuel-and Esther Kling—

Victor C. Beiter, controller of Utility, was

Your Marriage Chances

Q—Can day-dreaming reduce your chances for marriage? A—Yes, if you make dreams a substitute for reality. It's perfectly natural to day-dream to some extent, particularly in youth. Everone sets goals for himself and dreams of achieving | them, But when such dreaming interferes with your normal’ activities, or when it's used as a solution of actual problems, it hecomes dangerous. - Take the eet girl, for ex. | Who uss the boy Ine admis " amples, who dreams of being love-| ning ovr no ith him, but| ly and popular. In her imagina- : ” ; 7 tion she visualizes herself the d0¢sSn’t even bother to learn the belle of every ball. But in real F.C. Setter |yi¢0" she does nothing to make

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4802 N. Pennsylvania St. in . her imagination, with her] Q--How else does | spinster status unchanged. |'ns affect your marital chances? | Or take the shy boy who fan-| A-—Sometimes a person in-| cles himself a dashing Romeo. In« duiges in such extravagant day-| stead of doing what he can to/dreams that reality seems pale| acquire the ’necessary social and unacceptable by comparison. | graces, and mingling Sm other|The girl who continually sees | young people so that reams herself married to a handsome; | BO Clovelond who|MAY become reality, such a boy wealthy, and dashing man can't {remains shy and aloof and never easily accept a more average per-| becomes popular with the girls. son, and so spoils her prospects Yost out: aid ia ay Many men and ‘women are for marriage. Holding out for U, 8S. Embassy officials said the ®38er to attract a certain member the unattainable and unwilling Polish and Czech governments Of the opposite sex. They know to compromise with reality, she had denied knowledge of the that a special skill would help to retreats into a world of her own. wh bouts of Mr. Field. {make this possible. But instead of, Remember, that to win a mate According to the Polish govern- acquiring that skill; they merely and be happy in marriage you ment, Mr, Field boarded an air. dream about it. must adjust yourself to the world | plane for Prague from Warsaw The poor dancer who knows the of reality, When you make a {girl he’s Interested in loves to|practice of adjusting the world |

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action because of the pressure of|in late August and the Czechs Senate activity. Most key foreign deny he ever arrived there, Emaffairs measures in which - he assy officials said.

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{The son had a real heart and {wouldn't put his mother in a home {so his wife got to going out with The wife left but the

played an important part now have cleared the Senate. | He was expected to enter a hos(pital at Ann Arbor, Mich., probably sometime this week.

West Point Hopeful Has

‘Wisdom, Not in Teeth

| SPOKANE, Wash, (UP) — Roy|.

{Dahl, 18, has the necessary wis|dom but not in his teeth, so his appointment to West Point has been turned down. | | Mr. Dahl passed his intelligence| {test with 101 points; to spare. But| {medical examiners sald he was short two wisdom teeth to qualify.

Mrs. Field is staying with improve “his | dancing. The girliand even disaster. * friends in England. |

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