Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 23 September 1949 — Page 26

PAGE 26 Ask Mrs: Manners—

Wife Grows Jealous of ‘Cut-Up’ Husband

THE INDIAN APOLIS TIMES

DEAR MRS. MANN ERS:

| wouldn’ t pake me or ‘our’ four to have my baby and work for it,

y I'm | children along anymore. I. WOULDN'T TRY to hold my husband just because laren long anymore. re has ec 80 Nappy together, but 3 ay rey

“expecting.” But I don’t know what to do. Would you sit down |

and teil your husband ail this or just let it go on until he wants been a still love him, I don’t seem to

to leave?

change in me. Though I just can't get married.

away from everyone here? We!

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Failure to 'Accept’ Mate May Lead to Tragedy

Q—Should prospective mates be able to accept each other as.

A—Very much so! Where. partners can do this, they're not

I guess I'm the jealous type because my husband cuts up with care any more if he wants to

READER.

disturbed by each other's “faults” and they don't look for them in

one another. But where one mate basically rejects the other—a re-|

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try to cut up like he does Ra] roma doesn't like it, For awhile I was sick and couldn't go with him to visit his folks out of town, but I told him| to go. I heard he saw a girl there. He told me there would

lon account of that. We have another relative by| {marriage my husband likes to) cut up with. She rolls her eyes and grins at him a long time, : I told her she was a flirt and be talk because he saw the daugh- she gave me a shove. 1 shoved

>. of a relative bt he said Be her back, but I don't guess my| rlI’'s mother. was always alon T believed him until I heard dif. husband saw her push me first.

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ferent stories when I went along He got mad and sald he was|

this year. He denied them and going to leave because he Kot mad. I asked the girl, in the couldn't have friends on account| right way, and she denied it. Peo-/of me. The girl told me she didn’t] ple don’t like her for she has a mean anything. He said he

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{him to stay. UNDECIDED WIFE, CITY. Ignore the attention the women give him and give him some of your own. Don’t fuss with the girls who do the flattering that you should be doing the way you're best at doing It. He probably has no intention of leaving. He was angry—and he was lonesome. Four children and another one on the way are bound to make you neglect your husband. You think he should understand your moods but the point Is, he doesn’t, Men like to be comfortable— and coddled and condoned. They like to think they're free, You aren't in the mood to coddle him, but wouldn't forcing yourself just a little be worth being happy again? Because he's ‘so susceptible, the job would be easy. You've argutd and glared enough so skip a talk. You may think trying to hang on to him will hurt your pride. Don’t you

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Because you love the hoy Tm jection that is generally present before the marriage—only trag tragedy |

tempted to tell you to marry can result, him—and grow up fast. But We know a couple whose out-

your problem may be compli- ward trouble began shortly after | cated. Visit your family serv- ‘the marriage. Only a few months

ice agency-—your talk would had elapsed when the husband be confidential, noticed a great change im his A good way to grow up Is 10 (wife. Where before she had face a problem you ask for. {seemed affectionate, she was now . |cold. Yet when he made no overBeau Is Married [tures, she accused him ot ‘being THAT GIRL from your home indifferent. I town who unknowingly dates If he purchased some new your marred frend may need Clothes, she called im extrave more than your friendship, Joe. wasn't very well-dressed, she told You love her—maybe she loves him he.looked like a tramp, you, too. She needs to forget the; When he offered to help with other man. Who knows—maybe I'm the plained that he was in the way. same girl? I came here from a When he made no effort to help, small town and I date a man I she derided him for being lazy think is married. I don’t find out and’ making her work like a for sure because I don’t know!slave,

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home town treats me like a sis- she'd say they were either too ter, as he did back home. think he’s afraid to show his he didn’t bring her anything, she love, but a girl can go just so far. complained he wasn't as thoughtGet busy, Jog. You. are in the ful as he used to be. girl's life. Win her for yourself. . = ow» SMALL TOWN GIRL. | Q-—What was the real trouble You make sense as far as With this woman? Joe is concerned, but-tiot with A—There was no pleasing her your own life, Dating a mar- because fundamentally, she had ried man is a good way to end rejected her husband. And the

now. Joe wants to protect you worse matters grew. Because

| but he won't excuse you when when there was even slifat jus-

he discovers that you know the [tification for her complaints, she man is married, and he and denounced him without too much everyone else eventually will inner conflict. But when he conlearn. nt stantly gave in to her wishes, Talk about Joe “(dF whatever it became more difficult for her his name is) to Joe. Don’t tell [to find reasons for berating him. him you're in love with another |The result was she hecame more man if you think he's really |confused and more frantic all the interested. time, — his c¢ - Let Mrs. Manners and read- | oy Rouple-: hag . ince’. sepa ers of the column share your | problems. Write in care of The | If this woman had really loved Times, 214 W. Maryland St. {and accepted her husband before y od We ie. | MATTIAS, she would never have {found hifn so irritating a person. vi She wouldn't have seen faults in EL » him that didn’t exist, and she

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Hall Owner Cancels |

Robeson Appearance | CHICAGO, Sept. 23 (UP)—The manager of a South Side assembly| hall said today that he had canceled a scheduled appearance of Negro singer Paul Robeson bé-| cause he was afraid there might be some “difficulty.” “I've got a big new glass front | in my place,” he added. J : Edward H. Pate said he had been told there might be some

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