Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 20 September 1949 — Page 8

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PAGE Bae ve oe THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES Your Marriage: By Samuel and Esther Kling—

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Q—Are some husbands and wives ovejTy sensitive? "Come ;and See Tour" of local

. : . v Dating Ma rried Man A-—Very much so, as an important study points out. When social agencies tomorrow, 1 A NGME. cs aressrneerirveseset ) i almost 800 husbands and wives were asked to list their chief| The Rev. C, G. Baker, former) Address : | Dear Mrs. Manners: ~~ |grievances against each other, that the wife's feelings were tdo girector of Hawthorne House! I Br ay A GIRL, FROM my home town just moved to Indianapolis, and easily hurt was second on the husbands ’list of 57 complaints ar will condict the tour. . It Will be | PHONE «ooeiesinnsnensesiree] It gee) responsible for her. Our families have been friends for years, ranged according to frequency. That the husband was “touchy” cas : and she's a nice girl. Her parents asked me to look out for her, was 15th on the wives list ‘of 53 is top frank or thoughless, and| we Wp, dp, The boys she had dated were those in her block back home. She grievances. { + does’ someth adinoat. > ar comm 0 e ; [| trusted them, and now she trusts a boy here, | There's no doubt that over. ®*Y* © ng {Church Federation. Its purpose ound | 72) 00 We I see her oft but rd ie so see her more. She thinks of me’ sensitiveness is common in. oo its effect .on they 4, acquaint pastors with the 4 4 ‘only as a friend. I'm afral ne riage, apd there's no 50 other. : N tell her I. feel stronger about her Ah “ig Joo. ough Sor nha to that where it exists it causes a| If you seize on such things 404 (3ina to- help Yeaouress Zain. ; ‘ than that. She might not confide a we tries to break up a STeat deal of unhappiness. /make an issue of them or let'wisn many and varied problems. |

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in me or see me anymore. Be- . | Take, for example, the wife them disturb you, you're causing| rhe ministers will meet at 1:30 sides, she needs a friend like me, SRTIAES THE 00d TOF ANVIL thas gone to the trouble of YOurself and your mate neediess|p ‘mn City Hall arid visit the particularly now, who chases her because she buying a dress she thinks will grief and weakening your rela-| Juvenile "Aid Division of the Po-| One night a friend .of Hine makes the first move. If she please her mate. When she first tionship. = [lice Department, the Juvenile dropped by our table. Later, he didn't pay attention to him he'd wears it, she hopefully turns to The wise husband and wife Court, the Marion County Depart- | called her and they've been dat. ‘T= "0 i ON ite him for his approval. He mut. don't go out of their way to read ment of Public Welfare and the dng. She says she loves Btn 1 oe iodo y i ;1 ters, “It's all right.” Instead of hidden meanings into each other's Council of Social Agencies. Bo loves’ het but she thinks he friend got just whai he mad ‘aking the remark in stride, she behavior. And they overlook the|

DOBUVIOH: Aq they Overionk the reir sp gps . y lets his lack of enthusiasm de-| S!I& does, because she's in love with Soming an 0 ald the ohne! press her and spoil her evening. peopi¢ would let destroy their $150,000 Bonds Sold hi, would be her own -business other women to lose their jobs, Moreover, she shows her resent- Marriage. | - A $150,000 bond issue for re-|

’ t by being cool or caustic to . ea {pair and construction of city | and 1 wouldn't want to interfere, their boy friends and their rooms men SCANDINAVIAN SOCIETY | sew! has be rded BI but this man is married. He and they'd do a little thinking before her husband. And she may never {sewers has been awarded Blyth

American Scandinavian Society & Co., local Investors. The firm, his wife don't live together now, they caused. trouble again. wear the dress again. | ‘ ; but "they're" alVays SepATAing. My husband stepped out 20| Actually. the man may'.mot Ml meet Friday at 7:30 p. m. atisuccesstul among 10 bidders for and always going back together. .... ago. He hasn't since—he's have disliked the dress at all. St. and Washington Blvd. Guests bid of $501 at an interest rate of This girl doesn’t know about aeraiq to, I made plenty of He may have been preoccupled at/ == =. 0, {1% per cent, j his wife, I know. She's too Piet trouble for the woman and he's the figment amd NusRint sates: m—— - ’ 4 to go with a married man. ngly. ' ’ . ; told. her he is married I'd prob- not BE ary ei MILL. |dtamt really find the dress at- TWAS TWASSIWAESS TWAS TWA ZS TWA 1 ably lose two. friendships, but I Th h think ot (tractive, he was being tactful in| don’t want her to have her heart = up you ny int mab not making a harsher comment. broken. What can I do” Joe. biog” I ro ele on and | Or take the husband whose TWA * You couldn't tell the girl his home enough that > made |Wife occasionally takes a differ6 to NEW YORK ....... 3 hrs 35 min

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why the man doesn’t ask her e ¢ | don’t want a divorce but they're . to marry him—but she doesn't apt to have one If Mrs. J. R. about it at home. 0

want anyone (you included) to | go. it lo hor head. Her hus- | Actually, the wife is merely know. that she wonders. She | ,,.4 youn't attracted to the lexpressing an honest opinion i

ling to make excuses for | ,ip.r woman because she had which reflects her own personality him-—because she loves him. | , 5,44 reputation—~but he prob- land point of view. And while it's| She wouldn't éxcuse you. | ably Is proud of his wife's char- always in bad taste to differ con-| She needs your friendship | aoter. When J. R. lowers herself [stantly with your mate in puband as long as she thinks | in his opinion, by causing trou- le, an occasional difference

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any help from you. I am 17 and my mother and I[. is best behavior. The 10 °° ” op go = {argue because I go with several Slaays oa ve ost betavis, The i I una tps b & . It pays to Buy Shoes At A Shoe Store i Ve. DD Advice a Poy. She says I §nOflq date one oo vie ; ioally I: I - Lermriastos digi [C8 AIT x ‘Do b Advice oh Hellow until I-get fire of him, | = Ty 8 your rove won J as Ll my n _ You told J.'R. If ‘the woman then date another. To me, that| SP It is. there'are times in o . ) {her husband stepped out with was is the same as going steady. ! TWA =TWA =IWA |good enough to run around with, pn, you think it's ~ better: to every marriage when a partner emery ed SS Sa — : : — “date several boys, or just’ one, } > S = oT 5 : - aT until I' get tirad 6f him? A Ey =p ; 5% { BOOTS, CITY. 4 Wouldn't a compromise be i 2 # So best? Dating one boy steady . | and then another doesn’t give you much chance to meet sev- » | eral boys. Though you may not ITY 12 | promise to go steady, boys will | think you go steady when you : | date just one boy. On the other - . * hand, dating too many boys . : | doesn’t give you a chance to . a : : | really become acquainted with IS com. é (o) ; You'll like (UIE LL JnpTald You're apt to seem mn | Maybe your mother thinks . { | you have too many dates rather ! 4 ; | than too few dates with one a | boy. Try cutting down on the o | mumbér of dates you have and . ; 5 | see how she reacts, Sr : Let Mrs. Manners and read- : . . yg L-.ers of. the column share your |. L— Ca Ca ~v-prohlems. Write in care of The - TE " Times, 214 W. Maryland St. The Original DRY Beer! | ees 'VFW to Honor : ; * . American Indian .| Veterans of Foreign Wars posts LOOK AT‘THESE | throughout Indiana will pay spe- " ” cial tribute to American Indians *45” FEATURES... {In observance of American Indian Day, Friday, Sept. 23, John G. 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