Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 9 September 1949 — Page 32

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‘DEAR MRS. MANNERS:

SOME MEN are so stupid and

ght!

My husband and I, through misunderstanding, grew cold to each other. He stepped out. It was my fault as much as his. I had)

We would have smoothed out hadn't tried to break up his home, I can't convince Kim her remarks were the direct cause of our quarrels. He sald she knew she didn't have a chance. (Oh, yeah! What woman stays interested in a man when she thinks she's out of the : ?) Maybe she didn't pry, she worked on him, Another woman swiped her husband Though she tried to do the same »e me, my husband felt sorry for r,

She said, he was lucky to be happily married and have a home. “Gee, what she'd give to _have all that.” (Poor her!) “He ‘Was a real catch for any woman ~~80 good looking, so wonderful. Bhe could have other men but the one she really wanted (sigh) she couldn't have.” pa He lashed out at me that lots of ‘women would be tickled to have him, too stupid to see she He bekame parcastic, believing 1 was An ungrateful wife—his talents ‘Were wasted! I found out—perhaps too soon. Maybe he would have tired of her and eventually quit. That would have been better. There

would have been no doubt the af-

fair was over. We straightened out our differences. He is a changed man

things sooner if the girl he dated

and I have ‘changed. He's de-|

« - - | egotistical they can't see day-|

voted, but I have a fear lurking. , My husband is restless and easily Won't let me be a mother to her.

flattered,

“working him over” again If

you don't stay In line. You're |

out In front now-—you're vie-

| lost him.

Take It Easy

| MY DAUGHTER - IN - LAW

She is breaking my heart.

I know she's tried to get in| I've done ‘everything to make

touch with him,

I'm not sure friends with her,

I gave little

he'd miss seeing her if she made teas for her.so she'd make friends

ithe first move; - He may not want after her marriage. I bake enough to, and I know he doesn't love for both our families, I fix it so conflicting ideas and emotions. | Guidance Clinic of Marion County,

her, but he can't help liking her she never has to cook on Sun-| yo, ver’ he may be oppressed will discuss the functions of the

some since she built him up so. days. She can come to our house. She worked him over and I know Every time I have a luncheon for it's not impossible for her to do

it again.

my club I ask her, I like to buy her little things for herself and

I'm using all my wiles and I her house when we go downtown. don’t give up easily, but what else I drop in and chat often so she

can I do?

‘ KITTY, CITY.

Haven't you forgotten that you sald it was your fault as

much as his? holding no grudge. to do the same. do.

Kitty. meant that,

love him,

Fle has changed,

won't work so hard. Her mother has been dead for! years and years and she was an {only child, so I thought she'd want a mother just like I wanted a

You'll need daughter. I thought we'd B& close. |

Be sure you

You don’t think he Is stupid, You'd think you were | stupid to hang on to him, if you | Actually, think he’s wonderful and you | Let him know about it. He wants all the flattery |

you |

the other girl gave him——from

you,

him

“The girl made

that

The fastest way to send him back to her Is to deflate

“first |

| move,” If she tried to contact |

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But I don’t think she'd call me {more than once every two weeks if my son didn’t get after her. | What ean I do to win her over? ‘DISAPPOINTED : MOTHER-IN-LAW. | Less “taking her over” might | win her over. She’s been without family “roots” for years. She can’t start them overnight. She’s probably been independent and self-sufficient, by neces

Impose on her startle her— maybe irritate her, . Besides, she’s a bride, She wants to have Sunday dinner at home-—she wants some privacy. She wants to choose her clothes and furnish her house, She wants to run her house her way. | Try to figure out what SHE | would enjoy-—and don’t overdo it. Shé needs some of her old life. A sudden transition is hard to make. You aren't making It ~she is. Take it easy,

Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column share your problems. Write in care of The "Times, 214 W, Maryland St.

FELTS

“AN » HARRY LEVINSON

him; — She may get away with. .

torious. You wouldn't be if you |

All: the--suggestions you temperament-and-personatity—if-

go hand in hand with loss of apdenced by what usually happens]

cure in your love, there is release of nervous tenison and a resump-/ tion of normal living hajbits. !

: always overwhelmed by doubts! i about his ability to retain the love ‘of a mate may still suffer physical disturbances. |

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"Your Marriage: By Samuel and Esther Kling—

Honeymoon M

Q—Are honeymoons always bl experience.

| they're not in the best physical or

mental condition to start a new Dr.

relationship, .

ay Disappoint —It Is Beset With Prob

issful? : id

For ane thing, it begins when the couple is usually fatigued and | overexcited from the preparations leading up to the wedding. Hence,

Philip Reed |

Secondly, each partner is some- To Be Speaker

what embarrassed and anxious about the physical side of their

his air of assurance beforehand, is often filled with doubts and

by a sense-of great responsibility. new clinic before members of the Optimists Club at 12:15 p. m. today in the Hotel

{The wife, for her part, ‘has her own fears. So that, actually, the| {physical side of the honeyntoon

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cult period of adjustment.

i Paul Clay Jr., president of the The truth is that the honey- board of the clinic, will review moon represents a rather diffi-'the awakening of local citizens to It's the need for the clinic and will

the time when two people first explain its services.

live together intimacy. lyweds are matched, and no matter how much they are in love, there is bound to be tension and anxiety.

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. = = Q-—Can you really be In love without experiencing loss of appetite and sleeplessness? A-—Yes. You can be deeply in love and yet eat heartily and sleep well.

How you react depends on your

vou feel insecure in your love-— if you have doubts about your ability to win or retain your sweetheart’s affection — you may reflect all this ‘by losing your appetite and your ability to sleep. Since the mind affects the way your body works, mental conflicts will play havoc with the normal body processes. The fact that love itself doesn't

petite and sleeplessness is evi after marriage. Once you're se-

Of course, the neurotic who's

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The new clinic is being erected No matter how well new- on the Norways grounds at 1820 Construction. is expected to be completed by Jan 1, 1950.

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A—No. Asa matter of fact, they seldom are. . Most newlyweds, | although they won't admit it, find the honeymoon a rather trying

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