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“iE NDIANAPOS MSE Ask Mrs. Manners— ry You Mariage: By Sem ond thr King

‘What Do Wives St Wie Eliaves 3 bby. To Lose by Getting jvorce?

Q—What do wives stand to lose by getting & divorce? DEAR R MRS. ‘MANNERS: °¥

AA great deal First of all, there is the social disapproval that ! HOW CAN I make my husband want me around instead of the still goes with divorce. No one likes a failure, and a divorced person’ other girls?

is certainly one who has made a failure of marriage. To this extent, He is kind and polite to me. He tells me about his day's work, at least. there is loas of caste and prestige, * kisses me goodby“and goodnight, and that ends it. He expects his Worse still, there is the loneliness, Every divorcee experiences, meals on time and our children and house tidy. He asks. nothing else f a ‘from me. He tells me to take the; a tragic emptiness for months f- “G What do husbands lose by| jhe wrote that all women are 100 tor a decree has been handed getting divoreed?

car whenever I want it, but he hasn't bought me clothes since we were married four years ago. He ‘says he can't afford to give me a dollar to go any place but he ‘goes out and spends ‘a little money. He leaves every Saturday ‘noon, dressed -upy-and gets in \ahout 5 a: m. Sunday. Then he |sleeps all day. ! Before we were married we went fo shows and taverns, 1 don’t Hke to drink so I feel that ‘he thinks I don’t fit in with his tavern friends. He just started being this way since meeting the fellows hei works with, He Is afraid he'll help me too much, so he has stopped altogether.” He tells me to leave him alone but other times Temarks that I don't want him sround and that I never kiss him. I'm afraid to as he usually pushes me away. : Many people say I should leave him, and I'm so discouraged I can't be gay and look my best. My husband seems to admire loud and boisterous giris who are entertaining, but when I try to have a sense of humor he is quiet - and looks at another girl. He réfuses to discuss anything, and tells me I worry too much. We're both 26, HOOSIER GIRL WHO HAS TRIED EVERYTHING. Before you were married you | didn’t give up or go around asking advieé when he looked | at another girl, did you? You | got busy making yourself at- | tractive and entertaining. De it now—and stop talking about your husband te people: whe wouldn't. be-areund. much. after. your hard luck story became boring to them. You have more to work with than you did before you marvied. You know more about your husband and you have the | ties of marriage, though I wonldn't remind him of them, | plead for his attention, or dole wut housework to him. It you force yourself to ‘set interested in your husband's | friends, you'll become _Interested and they will think you're good company, without your drinking. Your husband will like that, and probably give you | some attention himself. He might stay home If you invited his friends there, as much as you disapprove of them. i He doesn’t want you boister- | wus. He probably wants you as | you were when you two were married.

‘Sets Up Standards

1 ENJOY your column very | much and usually approve of | your answers, but I would not] {be as lenient with the husbande, as you are. . | I wonder what “North sige} Male” calls Independent, When |

Your. Job— |

Can Office Clerk Too-Well2-;

| Cana young man, working | asa clerk in an office, be too well dressed? 1 like good look- | ing clothes but some of the fellows kid me about being a | dandy. - | By JAMES GRAYSON i Personal appearance is very ant to ‘anyone who. deals with other people. Clothes do a) great deal to show you off. You are seen long before you are,

problem, write James Grayson, in care of The Times. Re |

heard. Frequently others take a liking to. you because there is something about you that they| fike. Oftentimes this is your gen-| eral appearance.

If you ‘have s personal Job i | |

independent he is taking in a lot AoWa. “W. Virtually the same thing

of territory. As I can afford des, cent clothes 1 want a man de Moreover, new adjustments will as their wives, They suffer finan-

cently dressed, and one who can have to be made. Finding a new lclally, too. If the wife gets the carry on a conversation that I circle ‘of friends is not always \divorce, the chances are the hus-

won't be ashamed of before my will hive to pay her ali-| Iriends and relatives.’ I. don't "83¥: Hor is AnQing a new mate. ov And If he remarres, he! think that Js being too inde-| Indeed. a woman's chanpes of re- will have to’ sappnt two’ wives; e chil:

1 deeline with fner with one salary. If he B Te pendent. also think a woman marriage dee easing, with on with his first wits, he will x

Ha foolish to marry a man who age especially where there are; i Cots ake er 3 Ting a ond ren have Tp support he younger ag aie can make for herselr. Looming large on the di- divorce. And should he remarry ‘Il admit I'd like to: meet ,,..00's horizon is her loss ofland have children he may have) someone to go-out with but he'd. onomic security. Where none to support. not only two wives have to be capable of carrying gxigted in the marriage. there 8 put two sels of Sl oe his part in making a home for no problem, but where she wag — ===

me fo consider marriage. - I've, been here several years and have met very few men, and I do get a sick of sitting home alone. But I have my standards and I think a real man would find them easy to meet heels, no, like the one I dated who insisted I draw out my savings and buy him a car. 1 get tired of my “good books.”

sewing and radio, but 1 prefer

them fo most men's ideas of entertainment. I iike parties, movies, pichics, and I'm not a gold digger. I'm’ willing to cook ‘““em’” a steak now and then for I believe in being fifty-Afty-—-but boys seldom play that way. I'm considered good company and a

{fairly good mixer,

NOT FRUSTRATED. When you aren't having eompany or enjoying your own company, you may not bé the “good company” you've told yourself you are, One thing for sure, you ean’t figure out the men you meet when you're too busy observing yourself.

Let Mrs. Manners and read-

| ers of the column-share your

problems. Write in eare of The

i Times, 214 W. Maryland St.

We all have seen people who! ;

were over-dressed, those who! wore freak clothes,’ and those) who were appropriately dressed.) Being well-dressed is an asset to Anyone You have as much right to spend your money for good look-| ing clothes, shirts, and ties as the other fellow has to spend his for gulf, fishing tackle, or gadgets for his car. You should, however, check up| on yourself to see if you are dressing in good taste gy | Maybe your Iriends are only| kidding you.

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supported in comparative comfort! before, she will now have to find job to make ends meet. But suvpose she has never had any previous training in t the bus ness world, or, what i the I the same thing, suppose she has) been married for 10 or 15 years, and haf long since lost her skill as a typist or stenegrapher or for whatever her vocation was, Her problem then is a formidable one. She must actually start all over in a highly competitive market where youth and experience are considered. valuable assets. | The plain truth is that wives should proceed with great caution before taking the fatal legal] step. Certainly, it is not nearly! as glamorous nor as profitable; as many women seem to believe. : 5 Indeed, many of the letters we : TIT Ran ST Te rE get are from thoroughly embit- | A TS tered and dis-illusioned wives who! have learned too late that divorce is nat the solution for their dif-| ficulties that they thought ty would be, t i If wives spent more time get WHY TAKE LESS .e ‘ting at the root of their troubles and making an honest attempt to overcome them, there would be fewer divorces and less heart‘ache afterwards. :

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